Expert: John Thai, MD - 6/15/2007

Question
iv just started seeing a new girlfriend,i admit im not that experienced
at sex but seem to always please my lass and she never complains but
having sex i carnt cum,whatever i do or she does i just last for ages and
ages (which hey that can be gud for some) but im worried that shes
going to get paranoid because i jst carnt cum and she can and it worries me  

Answer
Hi Michael,

Ejaculation could be stopped due to psychological effects. Your frustrations during sex may potentially cause you to not cum. Do not worry about her. There's no way I can tell you what is actually causing you to not cum without a thorough history and physical examination. Just relax and enjoy your bedtime with safe sex.

Please contact your physician if you continue to have this problem during sex. If you are not ejaculating even when you are not having sex, such as masturbation, then I would recommend scheduling an appointment to discuss your situation with your physician to determine the cause.

Regards,

John T, MD