AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
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Question my boyfriend is 19, the longest he can last while having sex or oral is about 2
minutes.. he usually cannot stay hard if it is the 2nd time we are doing stuff.
he can still ejaculate but it is limp. i don't understand he says he is
attracted to me but i feel like it is my fault because he says hes never been
like this before.
Answer Hi Kel
Thanks for sharing with me.
There are many possible reasons why your boyfriend cannot last long during oral or penetrative sex.
It is a good idea to check with him how much previous sexual experience he has and how long he can last during masturbation.
If he can last longer through masturbation, it is a good indicator that he needs to relax more during sex...it is not a challenge to see what he can do...rather a special time to spend with the one he loves.
Just know that it is mainly to due with his responses to stimuli.
All you need to do Kel is be supportive; don't be angry or judgement...with yourself or your boyfriend: things will improve with confidence and practice.
There are specific things that he can do to last longer through building up his awareness of the point of no return.
He can contact me directly if he wants to.
Different positions can help: cow girl with no thrusting from him can be really good as well as spooning. Doggy style is probably the worst because the male can get carried away with the thrusting.
I hope this helps. Feel free to send me a follow up question.
