AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
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Question hi, im a 19yr old male from Orlando, FL and i have been dating my girl for about 6 months now, every time we have sex its actually a really good experience since both of us cum at the same time, most of the time she has at least 2-3 orgasms before im ready which i think is very good, but i wanna give her something more special, i was reading an article that says that only a small percentage of woman can actually achive a squirt orgasm, and the ones who can, said it feels like heaven, but when i ask my girl how she feels when she has an orgasm, she says she feels in heaven too !!!
so idk what to do, is that really true that only a few percentage can actually squirt ???
does it feel better for the ones who can squirt ???
is it possible to make any girl squirt or is the article right on what its saying ???
please help me out...
thank you
Answer Hi Phil
Thanks for sharing with me.
Not all women are able to have such intense emotional responses...lots of reason for this, mainly associated with their attitudes towards sexuality.
From what you have shared it would appear that your girlfriend is very likely to be able to have strong orgasms and ejaculate.
You need to be considerate with her and reassure her that you care for her and will respect her wishes at all times.
Have at least 3-4 thick towels ready underneath her as she could expel a lot of liquid. It is my understanding that it is not possible to urinate at the same time of an orgasm, so what many people think is urine is actually ejaculate.
Make sure the room is suitably warm and that your fingernails are trimmed and clean.
Pre-warm good quality lube before applying it to her body.
Make sure that she goes the the bathroom first.
When a women feels she is about to ejaculate, the feelings can be very similar to the urge to urinate when you have a very full bladder.
Women are able to hold back the sensations of pleasure because they will think that they will urinate on their partner/bed etc.
Use 2 fingers, hold 1 leg bent against her body, and then with your 2 fingers facing upward (palm up towards her belly button), push them in and out against that bump you feel which is her G spot. The bent leg may need to be bent if cramp sets in.
Start really slowly, just making sure that you are caressing the G spot, then speed up slowly until finally its fast and you are moving your arm more than your fingers. Change the pace, don't keep the same rhythm and watch her body language and you should make her a happy woman.
Afterwards her vagina will be very sensitive - can last a few days so be sensitive to her needs...make sure you help her out in any way that she asks you.
Having a large glass of water for her would be a caring thing you can do for her; as she could be very exhausted from the intensity of the orgasm. Make sure that she is warm.
If you need more info, feel free to contact me. I would be interested to hear how you go.
