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Dear josh
l have been married for two years and l love my husband but l have big problem my husband have sex with me only once per two weeks even he like only one positin which l never get any orgasem he hardely do it for 3-5 second l don't know what to do l talk to him so many times he never chang even l ask him to down for he is not ready tell me what to do
Sara
There could be several things wrong with your husband. Once a couple starts living together, sex sometimes goes down, and he may have a severe case of this. This is often caused by sharing a living space together and just sleeping in the same bed with each other every night. Or he might be extreamly stressed out at work or somthing is bugging him about your marriage.He could also be very depressed. When guys are really depressed they often do not even care about sex. Do you guys do many things together, such as go out to clubs, or bars, or just out do eat. You guys may need to spend more time doing more things together, and then just him being around you will help up his sex drive, and when you guys are around each other, dont mention sex when your hanging out, he is probably tired of talking about it. Another things is do you suspect he is cheating on you? This maybe somthing to seriously to consider. I would investigate a little bit to check it out. Another thing is their are pills out their to help up a guys sex drive. Go to somewhere like Walgreens or Rite Aid and in the male supplement section their are many different pills which boost it up. I have tried them just for fun and they work well. If you can get him to take those i am sure it will help. These are my suggestions and let me know how it goes. Thanks
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Josh
Expertise
I can answer any question in regards to sex, relationships, problems with sex, and pretty much any thing else involving relationships. I would have a hard time answering questions in regards to marriage because I have not yet been married and would find it hard to relate.
Experience
I have had many different relationships myself, and have had dealt with all kinds of problems as well as my friends problems. I have taught two psychology courses at a college level, and the course was specifically focused on sex, drug, alcohol and daily living. Here I taught students about sexual situations and broaden their horizon about sex, such as consequences as a result of unprotected sex, and how to deal with partners who wish to remain a virgin until marriage. The course really covered all types of sexual situations within committed relationships and basically random hook ups.
Organizations
Undergrad Psychology 106 program, Anthropology Club and Psychology club, assisting professors in experimental psychology lab.
Education/Credentials
I am almost a senior at Washington State University, and am a Psychology major, and also Anthropology major. I have taken many psychology courses that have dealt with relationships, and as stated before taught two college level psychology courses. I have also taken a clinical psychology course and how to deal with people and how to answer questions appropriately. I plan on going to graduate school and either obtaining a Psy. D. or a Ph.D. in psychology.
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