About Dale Expertise I can answer questions about marriage, sex, relationships, divorce, and a multitude of sub-catagories related to each of these. I will / can sugar coat answers if you want but often times a hard truth is the best truth of all. I am not a doctor nor do I have a degree but my life experiences as a helper / counselor can be of assitance here. Please provide as much information about your situation as possible to make answering your questions easier. The more information that you provide, the easier it is to understand all aspects of the issue. Remember that all the Experts here are more than happy to take the time and answer your questions. It would be greatly appreciated if you would take the time to read the answers and rate the Expert as you see fit.
Experience My experiences here are broad. Be them personal or as a counselor for the military overseas. I have either seen, done, or been a part of countless issues that I see posted on these forums.
Organizations I work in Europe so I can answer questions during off hours. Meaning that I will check my box at around 7:30am Central European Time (that would be 1:30am EST, 10:30pm PST) and answer questions as they come in. If you're writing a question at night and want an answer when you wake up, I am likely the one for you. I also check my box early in the morning and a couple times in the evenings.
Education/Credentials None, everything that I have to offer is experience based.
Question I am in a very shabby situation. I have been dating a girl for around two and a half years and i have a very strong sexual and intimate attraction to her sister. The hardest part of all of this is that her sister is bisexual leaning more towards women. What would your advice be to get with her? I have a very strong sexual attraction and i really want to sleep with her at least once. what should i do?
Answer Hi Jonathan,
I'm going to have to give it to you straight on this one, bud. Are you really willing to throw away a 2 and a half year relationship to bang your girlfriend's sister? Are you really that selfish and uncaring that you would blow your girlfriend off to have sex with one of her family members? Come on, dude. These things happen in life. The true sign of maturity and being an adult is the ability to say "yeah, she's hot. But I love my woman and I won't cheat on her". How hard is that? You say you have a strong sexual and intimate attraction to her? So what? We have sexual attractions to people every day.
My advice: Don't pursue this.
Dale
**Follow-up**
You asked "What should I do?", right? So I told you. You don't like my answer? Too bad. I made it quite clear that I will not sugar coat my answers. And for this reason, I am always in the #1 or #2 spot in any category that I volunteer in. You, Jonathan, are just too immature to handle the truth and the rating and comments you gave show this.
