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About Johannes
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I have the ability to give mature and appropriate responses to questions regarding adolescent and early adulthood sexuality. Inquiries regarding gay and lesbian activities will be answered without moralizing on my part and will be purely gender sensitive.

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I am a clinical psychologist as well as a college educator who specialize in sexuality and had been doing lectures, seminars and actual classroom teaching regarding the topic for the last 12 years. I also have a weekly radio program that listens to sexual, emotional, social and personal problems of adolescents and young adults that they themselves cannot discuss openly with peers or members of the family

   

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In Category  How to Deal with Sex Problems

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premature ejaculation7/23/2008
  Q: when im having sex with my girlfriend i ejaculate to quickly, she say its fine but i feel bad ...
  A: Quick ejaculation is common among males who do not have lots of sexual experience but as you gain ...
Blowjob Contest7/8/2008
  Q: I'm a 13 year old girl in an open relationship with my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend will be going ...
  A: There are more than one or two consequences in what you are about to do. First, you are underaged ...
masterbation7/5/2008
  Q: i am 17 year old.i masturbate around 2-3 times a day on an average.i've been masturbating since last ...
  A: No study would show that masturbation is hazardous to health but it tends to reduce the number of ...
Virginty7/3/2008
  Q: i m 32 female and still virgin. i m preserving my virginty for my husband . but sometimes i feel so ...
  A: It is good to know that you try to preserve your virginity for your husband. Maybe it is the 21st ...
In the mood7/2/2008
  Q: what kind of things would put a guy in the mood to make love? same goes for a girl?
  A: Males are normally visual when it comes to sex. A woman in scanty underwear most of the time works. ...
My singleness vs My Finances6/22/2008
  Q: Although I know this is a stranger question, it has occurred to me that My being single has kept my ...
  A: What you have in mind is quite daring. And engaging in the love mercenary business should be treated ...
Never achieved orgasm6/20/2008
  Q: I am 20 years old and I have never been even close to achieving orgasm, even through masturbation ...
  A: You see, orgasm for a woman is not just having a penis between their legs or tongue on their ...
Having Difficulties cumming6/19/2008
  Q: I am a 20 year old male, my girlfriend and I enjoy having sex - as most do. the problem is that I ...
  A: There are several reasons for a delayed ejaculation in males. First, if they are wearing condom ...
Public Sex6/18/2008
  Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and I've never been in a gangbang before. However, I've always fantasized ...
  A: Being involved in a group sexual activity usually does not involve any legal issue provided that ...
Low Sex Drive6/16/2008
  Q: I am having a problem in bed. I'm 19 years old and gay and I am trying to start a relationship with ...
  A: Normally, male's sexual drive go down when he is encountering stressful situations such as problems ...
intercourse problem6/13/2008
  Q: I am a 18 year old girl. my partner is 5 year older than me. we tried to have intercourse atleast ...
  A: If you had been successful in sex with previous partner before, the problem does not lie in you. ...
the problm i facd in 1st sex6/10/2008
  Q: im 20 yrs old. wat my prob is.. i hav done evrything but while inserting the skin at the tip of my ...
  A: I think what you mean is the foreskin of your penis got abrasions during sex, am I right? Your case ...
Question about masturbation6/8/2008
  Q: I have a question about masturbation. Does masturbation lead me to premature ejaculation??? ...
  A: The latency of ejaculation is proportional to the level of excitement. The more sexually excited ...
I want my penis bigger6/4/2008
  Q: I'm 18 years old. My is about 5.5" long and 3.7" in girth. I think it's too small, especially in ...
  A: The normal size of a penis is between 5 to 6 inches with the diameter of about 1.5 inches (the size ...
irritation/pain when climaxing5/27/2008
  Q: For the past few months i have been having some issues with my clitoral area.....when i masturbate ...
  A: Is it on the opposite side of your dominant hand? I have encountered a case like that not many ...
masterbation5/26/2008
  Q: i am a 18 year old boy..well,ihave been masturbating since i was 10..iwant to know after what time ...
  A: A man can easily ejaculate in seconds during actual sex. That is why there are techniques used to ...
masterbation5/23/2008
  Q: i am a 18 year old boy..well,ihave been masturbating since i was 10..iwant to know after what time ...
  A: Normally, ejacualation starts at the age of 12 or thirteen, depending on the onset of puberty. The ...
How can I get my boyfriend to cum withough giving a blow job?5/18/2008
  Q: I'm 17 and me and my boy friend had sex 3 times but I cant make him have an orgasm....is that ...
  A: I do not really understand what you mean. Did your boyfriend fail to have orgasm during sex? Do you ...
orgasm during intercourse5/17/2008
  Q: i never have one! i love having sex with my boyfriend it feels good. but i never have an orgasm! i ...
  A: There are lots of women who fail to have orgasm during intercourse. If you can have orgasm during ...
attraction?5/15/2008
  Q: ok i have 2 questions. 1) I feel like i am more attracted to my girlfriend in the daytime as opposed ...
  A: The answer to your question in No. 1 is yes. Normally, males have higher levels of testosterones in ...
position problems and more5/14/2008
  Q: My boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other. So, I suspect we are a little clueless about ...
  A: Sex requires practice. The height, angle and position has little to do with it. And for young ...
my sister wants me5/7/2008
  Q: my name is jordan and i am 19 years old and my sister is 18. we are full blooded brother and sister ...
  A: It only shows that you are really concerned with your situation. In most countries as well as in ...
sex underage4/29/2008
  Q: i want to be taken advantage of. i want to find someone who will do a one night stand or just be a ...
  A: What you intend to do is quite daring. I suggest that you think about it many times before you do ...
me and my fiance4/26/2008
  Q: my fiance and i were sleeping together the other night, and when we woke up, we began getting ...
  A: Let me answer your questions one by one. a. If he inserted his penis inside of you but did not ...
sex problem4/24/2008
  Q: My girlfriend has told me that the day after we have sex she gets stomach cramps what could this be ...
  A: There are significant number of women who experience the same. In some cases, it is caused by rough ...
vaginismus problem4/22/2008
  Q: respected, my wife is totally unable to do sex, penertation is impossible at all. her vaginal ...
  A: Vaginismus is known as the painful sensations felt by female during penetration. This has certain ...
Trouble Keeping it Up4/17/2008
  Q: I come to you tonight a very sad and horny young woman. Let me explain. I am in love with my ...
  A: Regarding your problem on painful coitus: Normally, a female whose hymen had been perforated for the ...
too much1/21/2007
  Q: I have a very high sex drive and i could say i ejaculate about 2 times a day for weeks at a time ...
  A: In my years of experience, I have not encountered anything that made me believe that having an ...
PERSONAL1/20/2007
  Q: i dont know that from my penis liquid like fluid flow with out any urinating problem or any other ...
  A: Have you had sex with a hooker/prostitute? I you did and now there is a whitish secretion from your ...
sex1/18/2007
  Q: my wife has problem with sex as anytime she don't like to do sex she lost interest in sex atall and ...
  A: There are numerous reasons why females lost interest in sex. The most common reason is the lack of ...
neither of us want sex1/10/2007
  Q: my girlfriend and i both have made it clear to each other that we are not going to have sex before ...
  A: Have you tried dry sex? This is done by gently rubbing your penis on her genitals while she is still ...
Cant get it in1/9/2007
  Q: Ive just started seeing this guy but everytime we try to make love theres always problems. I dont ...
  A: There is a dysfunction known as dyspareunia in which a female experiences pain during intercourse. ...
I Cant get off (Cum)1/8/2007
  Q: My girlfriend has given me over 3 handjobs and 1 blowjob and i just cant cum, i want to, i feel like ...
  A: I am very sorry for my late reply. Sometimes men experience difficulty achieving orgasm with a ...
messiness1/7/2007
  Q: I'm a 21 year old female who has been having sex with my boyfriend for over a year now. Our love ...
  A: First I would like to apologize for my very late reply. The server in my place said they have ...
have i ruined myself with porn?1/5/2007
  Q: But when it comes to sex I can maker her orgasm 2 or 3 times before I do, I mean it feels great and ...
  A: First I would like to apologize for my very late reply. The server in my place had to upgrade and ...
Pussy.12/19/2006
  Q: MY question may be a sex problem to me. Me and my partner been having sex for about 2 years now. i ...
  A: There is now a procedure called restoration surgery available in some hospitals. Maybe you can ...
sex12/18/2006
  Q: my boyfriend ejectulated inside of me yesterday. he said that he did but i didnt not feel anything ...
  A: Not all women feel it when their partners ejaculate inside them during sex. If your partner says he ...
Problem with ejaculation12/17/2006
  Q: Hope you are doing fine. I am writing this mail about a possible issue which I faced few months ...
  A: You seem to be having a situational orgasmic difficulty. This is a situation in which a male would ...
Deleting previous posts12/16/2006
  Q: The link is as follows with my full name on it, which I would like to edit it as "T". Thanks!Hi! I ...
  A: I have been trying to erase your responses and comments but I can't seem to erase them. Maybe it ...
Deleting previous posts12/10/2006
  Q: I have previously asked you a question regarding my sexuality. However, I would like it the answer ...
  A: I can not recall the specific topic that you would want to be erased but you can do whatever you ...
is this Possible?12/9/2006
  Q: The Main Issue is the Loosening, but I was not sure if she was Cheating Or What?I've been Noticing ...
  A: Your concern is quite serious. Infidelity has always been a serious issue for all of us. But can ...
Issues12/8/2006
  Q: My wife said last night that my cum burns her. How does this happen? What can I do to fix this ...
  A: I remeber in the 1980's there was a column in my Playboy magazine about a female who is so allergic ...
is this Possible?12/4/2006
  Q: I've been Noticing My GirlFriend's Vaginal Area getting a little Larger Lately, to the Point where I ...
  A: The case of your girlfriend is a little rare even for me but I have heard of women who engage in ...
girth12/1/2006
  Q: Hey, my girlfriends vagina seems really tight, she said... she hasn't had this problem with any of ...
  A: Your girlfriend might be experiencing vaginismus or dyspareunia. This is the contraction of muscles ...
Am I a PERVERT?11/30/2006
  Q: I am married 5 yrs me I am 25 my husband 51--we don't have agood sex life because I just am not in ...
  A: The answer is no. All of us have the tendencies to have sexual fantasies. You are married but your ...
doubt,need truth11/23/2006
  Q: i am a women @ age 24, my boyfriend/father of my daughter is a 28 year old straight male???? when i ...
  A: You see there are several types of same sex sexual practices. Your boyfriend may not be a true gay ...
Being concious while doing sex.11/14/2006
  Q: my name is Mitesh and I am 30 yrs old and my wife is 23 years old. Our history: She had ovarian cyst ...
  A: There are several factors that affect the pregnancy: a. Stress- if both of you are experienceing ...
desire/husband/my brain11/13/2006
  Q: it's all a bit involved. I will try to keep it short: Been together 3 1/2 years, married for 2- ...
  A: Your case is a bit complicated but manageable on your level. Let me start with your history: a. ...
help please11/6/2006
  Q: I have been sexualy active for 4 eyars now, i have never orgasmed besides during masterbating. When ...
  A: Your situation is not really that desperate. Many women are inorgasmic for several reasons. One of ...
problem orgasming, female10/31/2006
  Q: I'm 21, and am having some problems reaching orgasm. I've never had one, and until recently was ...
  A: I have seen cases similar to yours and most of them have underlying psychocultural reasons. There ...
squirt problems10/15/2006
  Q: i would like some help on: - which gives a bigger sexual sensation: clitty or g-spot???? -i tried ...
  A: The sexual excitement of females vary from one person to another. Some females really enjoy ...
Enlargement pills10/14/2006
  Q: Could pleas explain for me about enlargement pills. I really need to know if they work ok and they ...
  A: Are you talking about viagra? Most of the time, viagra works but it does not enlarge the penis. It ...
Unpleasure during sex10/12/2006
  Q: Greetings. I have a problem where I do not feel any pleasure what so ever while penetration, ...
  A: I am not sure if you had been masturbating a lot before but I have encountered cases where males who ...
Getting orgasm soon10/12/2006
  Q: I a 24 years old man, who has married recently. Unfortunately I have some problems in sex. That is, ...
  A: As far as I am concerned, your situation is not really a problem. You see most males achieve orgasms ...
Female Fertility10/9/2006
  Q: My girlfriend and i have decided to have sex. We are not sure when or of any other details but there ...
  A: If you decide to have unprotected sex and just rely on nature, you may use the natural family ...
is woman visual?10/5/2006
  Q: i have a simple question but i really dont know it and i dont find any answer for it aare women ...
  A: The answer is no. In general, women are not like men who get aroused by merely looking at naked ...
Sex while on the pill10/5/2006
  Q: me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex for the first time today. She is on the pill and has been ...
  A: If your partner is taking contraceptive pills regularly and will not miss it for the whole 28 day ...
sex and my marriage10/4/2006
  Q: I jumped into a marriage from another bad marrigae. My husband claimed to be something he wasnt and ...
  A: It seems to me that you have more than one concern. Let me enumerate them: a. Sexless marriage ...
Wife's New Habit10/2/2006
  Q: We have a hot tub on our deck in a very private setting & last night I went outside & found my wife ...
  A: Normally the frequency of sex between couples who are in their 40's tend to go down a bit because of ...
Unable to orgasm -- male9/30/2006
  Q: Here goes: I'm a thirty something gay man living in Japan. I'm happy in my life, love my job, get ...
  A: First I am very happy that you have found a partner that is considerate of your needs. Not many ...
gay9/30/2006
  Q: -respected sir, i want this society to accept my marraige.i'm having an idea to marry a lesbian.so ...
  A: Being gay means that you are being yourself. But your sexual preference is not that traditional as ...
Unable to orgasm during intercourse!!9/28/2006
  Q: I'm 16 years old and female. I have been with my boyfriend for four months, and though that seems a ...
  A: Failure to achieve orgasm in women may have some underlying psychological reasons. Most common is ...
gay9/28/2006
  Q: Respected sir, i'm here to ask u a question that i'm a gay.so there is no erection when i was with a ...
  A: Normally gays do not want to have sex with women since their preferences are with the same sex. But ...
performance anxiety probably9/27/2006
  Q: I'm having some problems that never hit me so bad. It happend in the past too, but I got over it. ...
  A: First I would like to apologize for my late relpy. I missed your question and that is my fault. ...
I want to have sex again !!!9/7/2006
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We are both 22 years old. Our sex life was ...
  A: You might have been experiencing a problem known as dyspareunia in which sex becomes painful. Your ...
Having sex in a pool9/4/2006
  Q: Is having sex in a swimming pool or hot tub dangerous for a women's vaginal system/area? Does ...
  A: It really depends on the condition of the water. If the water in the pool is not properly ...
sexual problem9/3/2006
  Q: my name is dana.i find out lately sexual needs from my boyfriend that he is crazy about my feet ...
  A: It seems that you want to form a bondage between you and your boyfriend. Bondage is a slave-master ...
Do women like sex ?8/30/2006
  Q: I'm a 19 year old guy. Don't get me wrong cuz I'm not joking, but I really don't know anything about ...
  A: The answer is yes. Although there is a difference in the mode of sexual attraction and ...
Ejectulation Problems8/29/2006
  Q: I'm a young male. Under the age of sixteen(16). I was wondering about problems with Ejeculation. ...
  A: Normally, individuals become sexually mature when they reach puberty (about 12 to 13 yrs.). During ...
Possibility of preventing ejaculation8/28/2006
  Q: For a perfectly normal male who would insert his erect penis into his partner's vagina, is it ...
  A: The duration of ejaculation is fairly affected by the level of excitement and lenght of sexual ...
erection problems8/25/2006
  Q: well im a 16 year old male and i have been dating my girlfrind for about 4 months now and we ...
  A: Having sex with negative attititude results in losing of erection. I have handled a similar case ...
impotence8/24/2006
  Q: I'm 20 and suffer from impotence - I'm pretty sure the cause is physical as I no longer get morning ...
  A: First of all I would like to apologize for my late reply. My computer crashed. It had a problem ...
virginity8/22/2006
  Q: I have a question that i dont know if its polite or not actually i am a little ashamed of my ...
  A: Some men look forward to the bleeding when they have sex with a virgin but not all virgins bleed ...
low sex drive8/22/2006
  Q: Im a 24 year old woman. Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we are having problems ...
  A: There is a thing called female sexual arousal disorder in wich females lose their excitement during ...
HAVING SEX WITH MY MAN8/19/2006
  Q: Whats's up Johannes??? I am 18 and soon to be 19. I have tried to have sex with my man several times ...
  A: There are two types of sexual dysfunctions that have your signs. They are vaginismus and/or ...
Sexual Experimentation8/17/2006
  Q: My boyfriends daughter (who is 10)was trying to force her little brother (who is 6) to have sex with ...
  A: Normally at that age kids begin to be curious about sex. I know that I had been when I was ten. ...
Help8/12/2006
  Q: Me and my girlfrined were having sex and I didnt have a condom on, and I pulled it out before I ...
  A: What you did was known as coitus interuptus or also known as withdrawal method. The efficacy of ...
Organsim8/12/2006
  Q: Two problems 1- Lose sensitive to have an organsim with condom on. 2-I most of the time have an ...
  A: The issue of men feeling less sensations when using a condom has been here since BF Goodrich ...
i hope u can answer this8/5/2006
  Q: yah sorry but im still not understanding like the other women was right and smart but im kinda ...
  A: You have mentioned that you are ready for sex so that seems to be your smallest problem right now ...
increament in cock8/4/2006
  Q: my age is 22/M and i have very less size of cock. my cock size is 4-1/2". please suggest me, how ...
  A: Amir, There are several penis enlargement pumps sold in the market. You can find their ads in some ...
hi8/4/2006
  Q: what is the correct procedure in different positions for performin ana sex on a female? what if ...
  A: The first procedure is to make your partner agree to anal sex. Some women do not find it acceptable ...
Help7/17/2006
  Q: Ok...this guy and I are "Friends with Benefits" and neither one of us are virgins. He still has sex ...
  A: Well receiving protection from your man has always been a good feeling. It does make you feel ...
Help7/14/2006
  Q: Ok...this guy and I are "Friends with Benefits" and neither one of us are virgins. He still has sex ...
  A: The way I see it, you and your friend do engage in casual sex, am I right? Your friend would really ...
i want more attention7/10/2006
  Q: why do most boys and men only pay attention to a girls pussy when they finally get her to put out ...
  A: Sexual fulfillment of a woman is not limited to sex alone. It involves other aspects of her life ...

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