| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Cunnilingus | 11/14/2009 |
Q: Hey Pete, so I'm 19yrs old and I'm a virgin. I'm in college and all I always hear is guys talking ...
A: Each woman smells and tastes different just like all men. Personal hygeine is important and a ...
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| Sexually Confused | 11/14/2009 |
Q: Lately i've been having some very confusing thoughts. I am with a girl called Sarah that loves me ...
A: It is possible for a person to get a lot of sexual pleasure through a partner of the same sex, but ...
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| Facinated by Girls Bums | 11/13/2009 |
Q: "Hi, I am a 19 year old guy with a strong facination for girls arses. I get turned on and aroused ...
A: The arousal you are having is normal. I just would suggest that you use this arousal to meet girls ...
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| Penis size question. | 11/4/2009 |
Q: I didn't know where to ask this but I am 14 and my penis is about 9 inches long. Is that small? Will ...
A: You have a penis that is larger than normal, and there is still a chance that it might continue to ...
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| Unenjoyable sex | 11/3/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have recently started having sex. It doesn't work. He's quite big yet in many ...
A: Sorry for the delay getting back to you - I have been dealing with a death in the family. I suggest ...
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| Sexual | 10/31/2009 |
Q: Hey, I'm Brittany and I have a few questions. First, I got a purity ring and now I kinda wish I ...
A: Sortry for the delay: there has been a death in my family. The bottom line is that sex is the most ...
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| Oral sex issue? | 10/29/2009 |
Q: Hey Pete, I am 20 yr old female that cannot orgasm to oral sex. I enjoy very much giving my bf head ...
A: Fromn what you say it sounds as if your boyfriend is doing everything right. What I suggest is that ...
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| erection problem | 10/28/2009 |
Q: I have been married for one year. Me and my wife having regular & successful sex. Since last two ...
A: It sounds as if you have developed performance anxiety. Relax more and slow down your love making. ...
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| keeping hard after i have came | 10/28/2009 |
Q: a few years ago i was able to have sex for a long period of time an hour plus and stay hard after i ...
A: As men age, it is common for the refrationary time (ie time between erections) to increase. There ...
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| Awkwardness after making a move on a friend | 10/27/2009 |
Q: There's this girl I am interested in that I've hung out with for a few weeks. A couple days ago we ...
A: I think that the best thing you can do is have a conversation with this girl and work out what you ...
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| peeing sensation during oral | 10/23/2009 |
Q: During sexual intercourse i sometimes stop and start to give my boyfriend oral, when this happends ...
A: I am not sure how old or sexually experienced your boyfriend is, but I have a strong suspicion that ...
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| performance issues | 10/18/2009 |
Q: I am 30 years old and separated from my girlfriend for about 4 months, I have recently meet some one ...
A: It sounds to me as your sexual confidence has been affected by the separation. You need to remind ...
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| Emotional issues with sex | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, and we have been sexually active for most ...
A: It could be that your girlfriend feels that she is not experienced enough sexually and therefore ...
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| no orgasm | 10/15/2009 |
Q: ive been married to my wife for about a year. before that we dated 3 years. before i keep going with ...
A: A lot of women get the most orgasm from clitoral stimulation rather than penetration. This is why I ...
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| SEXUAL | 10/13/2009 |
Q: ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and the first week of dating we had sex but 17 mouths ...
A: Going to the doctor is a good idea - there are many possible causes for your situation. Once you ...
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| I can't get an erection with my wife | 10/10/2009 |
Q: I hope I found a right place on the net to ask my question and raise my concerns. I am 30yo man and ...
A: From what you have told me, it appears that you have some sexual performance anxiety issues that ...
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| One way sex life | 10/7/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. About 6 months ago we moved in together, and ...
A: It sounds as if there are some issues that need to be cleared up between you as a couple about what ...
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| about sex | 10/7/2009 |
Q: .... I and my partner had oral sex today. His fluid fell on upper part of my body. After that i had ...
A: The chance is slim but vaguely possible. If you are concerned, see a doctor immediately and get ...
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| pain during sex | 10/7/2009 |
Q: As i had asked earlier my husbands dick is very big and i get pain when we have sex as it remains ...
A: There are a few issues that need to be addressed. Firstly, a lot of the discomfort you are ...
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| Sex when in love causes complications | 10/3/2009 |
Q: I have been with my partner for 9 months now sex when we first met wasnt much of a problem but for ...
A: It sounds as if your partner is dealing with some form of psychological erectile dysfunction. There ...
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| we dont have sex any more | 10/2/2009 |
Q: children and have been together for 15 years, both in our early 30's. I need some advice though as ...
A: While it can be a real challenge to get your fiancee to admit that 50% or more of the issue about no ...
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| unawareness | 9/30/2009 |
Q: actually i feel ashame of asking something related to sex with any body else thats why i choose to ...
A: Let me explain it for you again: When you know you will not be disturbed, get naked and lie on your ...
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| sex | 9/29/2009 |
Q: how come i don't always cum when I'm having intercourse with my boyfriend? he always cums and then ...
A: The first thing you have to do is relax and become pleasure focused. The more stressed you become ...
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| unawareness | 9/28/2009 |
Q: actually i feel ashame of asking something related to sex with any body else thats why i choose to ...
A: when I mean stopping and starting, I mean stopping masturbating when you feel close to ejaculating ...
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| we dont have sex any more | 9/28/2009 |
Q: children and have been together for 15 years, both in our early 30's. I need some advice though as ...
A: If your fiancee is not prepared to talk with you about your lack of a sex life, as a couple you need ...
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| Less intense orgasm for my Boyfriend. | 9/28/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have ben together for a while and we both have had previous bf/gf. Our sex ...
A: Stress can do funny things to libido. It is most likely that this is the cause of his issues. I ...
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| Cunnilingus | 9/27/2009 |
Q: okay so I am 19 yrs old and a virgin. (which I am proud of and waiting for the right person to ...
A: The truth is that the vagina does have a smell, just as your penis and scrotum has a smell. This ...
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| unawareness | 9/24/2009 |
Q: actually i feel ashame of asking something related to sex with any body else thats why i choose to ...
A: Firstly, 0-2 minutes is considered to be premature ejaculation. Most men who have this issue have ...
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| The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy | 9/19/2009 |
Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several ...
A: Go to the doctor if you really do have a bad smell and get some tests done. As for the preferences ...
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| The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy | 9/19/2009 |
Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several ...
A: A few things that we need to straighten out: 1. Most women think that their vaginas smell badly. ...
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| Mustarbation | 9/17/2009 |
Q: My age 24 years. I have been doing mustarbation for 8 years. Now my penis bent in the left side ...
A: Penises come in all sorts of shapes, colours and sizes; yet all all work. You have a normal ...
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| How does it feel for a man when a woman orgasms? | 9/15/2009 |
Q: I wanted to ask something, I've been curious about the female orgasm. I wanted to know for me, being ...
A: Your girlfriend is telling you the truth. Orgasms cause vaginal muscles to contract in a way that a ...
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| Erection | 9/15/2009 |
Q: Pete, Im 18 years old and I have been getting softer erections and ejaculating quicker over the ...
A: Thnaks for sharing with me. First thing you need to do is stop smoking the pot it is bad news for ...
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| Erection | 9/10/2009 |
Q: When I get an erection my penis points way up, close to vertically. I am a virgin (19 yrs old), but ...
A: You have nothing to worry about - your penis will be flexible, even erect, for any position you and ...
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| 22 Year Old Virgin and Anxiety | 9/9/2009 |
Q: The majority of times I am involved in a sexual situation with a woman, I feel extreme anxiety. I ...
A: It sounds to me as if you are really dealing with an anxiety issue that needs some professional ...
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| I hate kissing | 9/8/2009 |
Q: I am 30 yo man. I am happy with my life, looks and life general. I like sex and intimacy but hate ...
A: It is common for people to have all sorts of sexual preferences. The bottom line is that you have ...
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| issues, kinks, and quirks | 9/7/2009 |
Q: I will give some background info, and outline my questions at the end: I have been dating someone ...
A: I think that the most important thing you can do is to sit this guy down and have an open ...
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| girlfriend and sex | 9/6/2009 |
Q: Wow, where to begin. My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We met on the internet ...
A: It sounds as if you are in a difficult situation: your girlfriend either has to be more attentive to ...
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| my dick length... | 8/30/2009 |
Q: sexually i had a very complicated life i got raped then i got used to masturbating and some gay ...
A: Your past has nothing to do with penile size. I strongly suggest that you seek professional ...
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| orgasm | 8/27/2009 |
Q: ve tryed and done all what u can think of,but still it dose,nt work so can u plz help me thanks ...
A: Sorry for the delay in writing back. The most important thing that you can do is relax and slowly ...
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| Problems during sex | 8/22/2009 |
Q: I have been with my partner for a bit over 2 1/2 years. Our relationship is pretty rocky lately. ...
A: From what I have read it sounds as if you would really benefit from some short term ...
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| feeling in penis | 8/20/2009 |
Q: Hey Pete, I'm 21 year old male who is in desperate need. I cant get a sensation in my penis, i ...
A: Firstly you need to focus on getting things working for you; it seems that your gf is ok via your ...
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| discomfort during sex | 8/20/2009 |
Q: I'm 18 and I've only had sex a few times with boyfriend since I lost my virginity. I've heard that ...
A: Pain during sex usually means one or more of the following is happening: You are not relaxed enough ...
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| Pennis | 8/12/2009 |
Q: This is Brown , i want to know that my size of pennies is very small as compare to others . It just ...
A: Penis size is not an issue for the fathering of children. Far too many man and women are obsessed ...
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| Squirting | 8/11/2009 |
Q: I am a squirter. I see alot of things written on squirting as it being sn orgasm. But when i squirt ...
A: Basically, everyone is different: all that matters is that you and your partner are happy sexually ...
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| Boyfriend Gay? | 8/10/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend is 22. We are sexually active. Over the past year, he has been getting more and more ...
A: You my be surprised to hear that some very heterosexual males really do get imense pleasure out of ...
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| feeling in penis | 8/8/2009 |
Q: Hey Pete, I'm 21 year old male who is in desperate need. I cant get a sensation in my penis, i ...
A: Here is the creative visualisation and a few extra notes. Fantastic sex is not about length, ...
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| erectile disfunction | 8/8/2009 |
Q: i think i have written you before. i have ed and u told me u think my problem is performance ...
A: Fantastic sex is not about length, acrobatic prowess or stamina: it is about two people sharing ...
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| not intrested in having sex with my husband | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I'm 21 and my husband is 26, we have been married for 2 1/2 years and dated for 3. At the begining ...
A: It sounds to me as if you would really benefit from some breif counselling with a caring therapist ...
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| i cant get in | 8/6/2009 |
Q: well im 16 (virgin)and me and my bouyfriend of 17(virgin) tried to have sexual intercourse for a ...
A: If you are both serious about having sex you need to slow down and make the experience more pleasure ...
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| Erection question | 8/6/2009 |
Q: I am a 48 yr old who and am in very good physical condition. I have just been released from a 20 yr ...
A: I think that you just need to slow done your love amking and allow yourself to become pleasure ...
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| feeling in penis | 8/6/2009 |
Q: Hey Pete, I'm 21 year old male who is in desperate need. I cant get a sensation in my penis, i ...
A: When you say that you have no sensation in your penis we need to clarify a few things. Do you mean ...
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| performance anxiety | 8/5/2009 |
Q: i am 29, i suffer from performance anxiety when it comes to sex,so much so that i now just avoid it ...
A: Most clinical hypnotherapists are eclectic in the things they treat. Just give a couple a call and ...
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| hand practice problem | 8/4/2009 |
Q: i m 20 years old and i hav did for more then 7 to 8 years. Now i m feeling lowered in stamina. my ...
A: It sounds to me as if you are probably dealing with Performance Anxiety and /or lifestyle issues ...
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| performance anxiety | 8/3/2009 |
Q: i am 29, i suffer from performance anxiety when it comes to sex,so much so that i now just avoid it ...
A: I think that hypnotherapy would be very effective in your case. A competent therapist will help you ...
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| I dont enjoy sex | 8/3/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we've been having sex for 4-5 months of this ...
A: You must have a firm talk with your bf - an action on his part that causes you pain is not ...
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| "Backdoor” or “Kitchen” Cleanliness | 7/31/2009 |
Q: So I’ve researched this online and the only answer I seem to get is, “eat a healthy, fiber rich ...
A: The only way that you can be sure to be clean is to use an enema device filled with warmish water ...
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| Is my Husband gay? | 7/30/2009 |
Q: I've been married to my husband for 6 wonderful years(been together for 8yrs). I'm in my late 20's ...
A: It is hard to say what is going on in your husband's mind. Some men regardless of their sexual ...
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| Problem cumming | 7/30/2009 |
Q: I'm 19 years old, and my gf and I have been having sex for a couple weeks now. It's great, only I ...
A: What you are experiencing is very common with guys who are starting to have sex for the first time. ...
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| My gf cant orgasm | 7/30/2009 |
Q: i have a problem, and i need your help dearly. Ive been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. Its a ...
A: The problem is that she is holding on to the build up of feelings. When she feels she is about to ...
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| sexual positions w/ bad back | 7/28/2009 |
Q: What sexual positions would be recommended for my partner and I. I have chronic lower back pain. We ...
A: I would really suggest that you get assistance with your back as the number one priority. I suggest ...
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| I want to make love to my girlfriend | 7/26/2009 |
Q: "Hi, since we met we have been very happy not having sex. I'm 24 and she is 23, she is a virgin ...
A: There is no easy solution to your situation other than to sit her down and explain how you feel and ...
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| Locating problems | 7/26/2009 |
Q: I know this sounds like a stupid question, but i seem to have a problem with locating the vagina ...
A: It is not that uncommon for guys to fumble and become embarrassed about not finding the vagina - ...
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| ejaculating | 7/25/2009 |
Q: i am 27 yr old from India had sex for the first time recently. I manage foreplay for about 25 Min's. ...
A: You have nothing to worry about. Most men take a while to get used to the new sensations associated ...
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| Orgasm | 7/23/2009 |
Q: im James a 18 year old male. Probably about 18 months ago, i noticed that my orgasms had a sudden ...
A: It is possible that there could be a connection. To sort this out, you need to see a doctor and get ...
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| sex problem | 7/22/2009 |
Q: so I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. We regularly have sex, actually more than regularly at the ...
A: The best thing you can do is ask her what she wants you to do with your tongue and fingers. ...
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| Wife looking at porn | 7/21/2009 |
Q: Now, I look at porn too. But it was the type of porn that bothers me. I checked her history and it ...
A: Since it sounds as if this bothers you, you should be honest with your wife and talk about your ...
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| hand practise | 7/19/2009 |
Q: plssss i am very tense bcoz i am in the habbit of hand practise since 5 years ...i am of 17 ...
A: You have nothing to worry about: masturbation is safe and does not harm your chances of being a ...
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| whats changed? | 7/17/2009 |
Q: i have been with my girlfriend for just over 2 years now. when we first got together we used to have ...
A: It is not clear from your question what is causing the changes in your endurance. Things like ...
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| Too much Sex? | 7/12/2009 |
Q: My wife got her sex drive back and we have had sex 3 times a day for 2 weeks straight. Now I have a ...
A: It sounds to me as if you are probably putting too much pressure on yourself to perfore sexually. ...
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| Religious Conflict | 7/8/2009 |
Q: I've been back together with my girlfriend for three years now. I took her virginity in high school ...
A: Since you have not really got anywhere with her from talking, you really need to make a decision ...
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| Girls | 6/29/2009 |
Q: i really need your help. Im 17 years old from Glasgow,Scotland and im male. The other day my ...
A: It sounds to me as if you are dealing with nerves. Allow yourself tobecome more pleasure focused. ...
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| Orgasm | 6/28/2009 |
Q: I've Noticed Theres A lot of Question on This Subject But none Really Seem To Answer Me Fully. I've ...
A: That time when you think you need to urinate is the brink of an orgasm. There are tiny muscles that ...
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| erctile disfunction | 6/27/2009 |
Q: I'm a 16 year old physical active, i don't smoke or drink. I've been having problems with getting ...
A: It sounds as if you are dealing with Performance Anxiety. You need to become pleasure focused. ...
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| I got 'Phimosis' | 6/25/2009 |
Q: I'd been looking for sex advice on the internet for a couple of months because I was wondering if I ...
A: The best thing you can do is see a doctor and get checked out. Every case of phimosis is different ...
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| Crying while hooking up? | 6/23/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for almost a year now, and although we haven't ...
A: It sounds to me that you had an emotional release from the past. This happens from time to time. ...
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| Ejaculation problems | 6/21/2009 |
Q: I have a real problem ejaculating when I'm having sex with my wife. When I make love I regularly ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Ejaculation problems | 6/20/2009 |
Q: I have a real problem ejaculating when I'm having sex with my wife. When I make love I regularly ...
A: Can you give me some more info to work with? Age Amount of sexual experience How long you have had ...
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| My Girlfriend gets ticklish after an orgasam | 6/19/2009 |
Q: My girl friend and i have been having sex now for about a month and i have been doing more and more ...
A: It sounds as if your gf after a while becomes sensitive to direct clitoral stimulation with your ...
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| can't maintain erection when penetrate starts | 6/19/2009 |
Q: I am 25 years old, without many experience in sex. I had sex with one girl before, just for one ...
A: There is no simple answer: everyone is different. You need to remind yourself that sex is more ...
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| orgasm | 6/18/2009 |
Q: ve tryed and done all what u can think of,but still it dose,nt work so can u plz help me thanks
A: A lot of women who say that they have orgasmic problems are stopping themselves from experiencing an ...
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| masturbate | 6/17/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend lift heavy weights everyday I have a problem sometimes it dus not take long for my ...
A: It sounds to me as if he is dealing with delayed ejaculation (inability to ejaculate) he should get ...
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| hand jobs | 6/17/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I are both 19 and have been dating gor about a year and a half. Becuase of my ...
A: I think you are being too hard on yourself. It is an enormous thing to question your religious ...
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| can't maintain erection when penetrate starts | 6/16/2009 |
Q: I am 25 years old, without many experience in sex. I had sex with one girl before, just for one ...
A: It sounds to me as if you are dealing with Performance Anxiety. You need to relax more about sex ...
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| sex disgusts me | 6/8/2009 |
Q: I find sex repulsive and gross. I was raped when I was 20; I am 22 now. I met the guy through a ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. It sounds to me that your digust of sex in general is a ...
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| Micropenis | 6/6/2009 |
Q: I was born with a micropenis, 2.4 inches short when erect(I am intersexed). I currently have a ...
A: It may be possible for some extra length be gained through penile extension surgery - you need to ...
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| girl on top... | 6/3/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and my sex life is amazing, normally. He loves being in control and I love being ...
A: Sorry it has taken me a while to reply - I have been very busy with work. It is important in a ...
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| sex troubles | 6/2/2009 |
Q: im not sure if this is your area of expertise or not but here goes anyway....ive been going out with ...
A: I'm sorry it has taken a while to write back, I have been swamped with work. It sounds to me as you ...
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| I need help with my girlfriend | 5/28/2009 |
Q: Up until recently my girlfriend and I have both been really happy together but when we were apart I ...
A: I think that a lot of our so-called stress and anxiety in the modern world stems from unresolved ...
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| I need help with my girlfriend | 5/27/2009 |
Q: Up until recently my girlfriend and I have both been really happy together but when we were apart I ...
A: I think it is important that you take some time and talk honestly with your girlfriend about your ...
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| Irregular Ejaculation | 5/24/2009 |
Q: I have issues with ejaculation/sexual climax. There are sometimes where i can ejaculate quite ...
A: It does sound to me as if the antidepressants could be part of the issue. You should have a chat ...
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| Not cuming. help? | 5/24/2009 |
Q: When i have sex with my girlfriend i can not seem to cum until a long period of time. We've stopped ...
A: A couple of suggestions. Firstly refrain from masturbation/porn - use the build up of sexual desire ...
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| Worried about being heard during intimacy?!? | 5/22/2009 |
Q: I never thought I'd need an advice like this one. I'm very happy with my soul mate of ten years, we ...
A: I hope the chinese herbs and acupuncture help. If not, consider having some hypnotherapy. I can ...
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| Worried about being heard during intimacy?!? | 5/21/2009 |
Q: I never thought I'd need an advice like this one. I'm very happy with my soul mate of ten years, we ...
A: I am not sure how much of your issues are due to your living arrangements and insensitive neighbours ...
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| I just want to know | 5/21/2009 |
Q: Is natural for a man wants make a woman comes by licking it her pussy ? Or that think shows that ...
A: Oral sex is a normal part of many hetrosexual couples' lovemaking. Just like does in gay sex. Oral ...
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| Going Down | 5/21/2009 |
Q: I am in my second marriage and i love my husband very much. He says he loves me and i believe him. ...
A: It sounds to me that your husbnad is not dealing with his erectile issues and is attempting to blame ...
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| early ejacuation | 5/20/2009 |
Q: i am 17, i am doing masturbation, i had sex and felt like i got early ejaculation. is due to teenage ...
A: It is common for men to ejaculate quickly when they first starting to have sex as it is a new set of ...
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| Great marriage, so why do I fantasize about other people? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I love my husband, we've been married for 6 years, have a great relationship, and are still very ...
A: Fantasies can either help or damamge a relationship. If you feel that that fantasies care getting ...
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| penis problem | 5/19/2009 |
Q: i am 23 years old and i am masturbating since last 4 years. everything was fine but since last month ...
A: While it is scary to suddenly have your penis "not doing its job", it is important to find out what ...
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| orgasm through masterbation vs intercourse | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I am a female in easily 20s. i have been masturbating since i was in middle school. I can have ...
A: I think that what is needed is more communication with your lover about what you want/need him to do ...
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| confused | 5/18/2009 |
Q: hey, i understand ur not the expect in this area but i really need some advice so any thoughts u ...
A: The tiniest drop of precum containing sperm can get you pregnant, so the chance of getting pregnant ...
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| Electronics device that can cure premature ejaculation? | 5/17/2009 |
Q: I got premature ejaculation problem.I have learned how to do "Kegel" exercise to improve my ...
A: I have had a quick look at the www you linked and it does not give any info about how the machine ...
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| Fetishism | 5/16/2009 |
Q: I am writing to you on the subject of fetishism and habitual use of online material, I would be so ...
A: I think that your being aware of the impact of this addiction is very much part of the healing ...
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| Have to focus to cum | 5/16/2009 |
Q: my name is Steve and I'm 19 i have a healthy sex life with my current girlfriend although we do not ...
A: I think that as long as you are enjoying the sensations inside your body all is well. Just stay ...
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| no sex in one year | 5/14/2009 |
Q: my husband gives me excuses that he is tired. he has alot of stress at work could this be it or ...
A: There are heaps of scenarios why he is not interested in having sex with you. The best thing to do ...
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| I want sex but my partner is too tired. | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I am 21 years old and have a 25 year old boyfriend of a 1 year 1/2. We have a very healthy sex life ...
A: A good line of open communciation about sex is vital for a relationship to work in the long run. ...
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| good or bad? | 5/13/2009 |
Q: me and my gf (im a guy, just clearin that up i guess...idk) are sexually active (but still virgins ...
A: It sounds as if your gf was on the brink of a very intense orgasm and possibly gushing. Be ...
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| How to last longer | 5/12/2009 |
Q: I need a surefire way to last longer in bed. I get heated way to quickly and begin to orgasm within ...
A: Please rate my replies. It can be a one off thing, but it is also possible that now that you have ...
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| Bad sex experience leads to erection problems? | 5/11/2009 |
Q: Ok so..i am a 16 years old athletic guy..actually i breakdance so i am in a real good body shape and ...
A: I think that a lot of the issues you are dealing with stem from a lack of knowledge about sex. Sex ...
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| sex | 5/10/2009 |
Q: hey i just got a quick question when i first started having sex with my girlfriend we used to ...
A: It is important that you sit down with your girlfriend and have a serious talk about what is going ...
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| Issues with Over Masturbating | 5/7/2009 |
Q: I've being looking for websites for an eternity to answer my questions, if you could finally help I ...
A: I'm glad that your experiment this morning worked for you. Just know that if you do it for longer ...
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| Issues with Over Masturbating | 5/6/2009 |
Q: I've being looking for websites for an eternity to answer my questions, if you could finally help I ...
A: Firstly, you must remember that sex is the most intimate thing that two humans can do, so it should ...
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| How to last longer | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I need a surefire way to last longer in bed. I get heated way to quickly and begin to orgasm within ...
A: I think porn is not helpful in your situation. Use high quality lube and don't forget to breath ...
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| Sexual erotica - Fantasies. | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I have a question for you. I am a 22 year old male who has in the past occasionally read erotic ...
A: I think that it is probably in your best interest to refrain from reading similar literature in the ...
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| How to last longer | 5/3/2009 |
Q: I need a surefire way to last longer in bed. I get heated way to quickly and begin to orgasm within ...
A: the best thing you can do is train yourself to slow down during masturbation. Make the point of ...
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| Can't use public toilets unless alone. | 5/2/2009 |
Q: Can't use public toilets unless alone. this incidence is 10 years back, when I was in 8th Grade, I ...
A: I suggest you seek a hypnotherapiust in your area and have a few sessions. A competent ...
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| Semen Volume | 4/27/2009 |
Q: I'm 18 and I practice masturbation about 2 times per week. When I ejaculate during masturbating, I ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. Do not worry about the volume of semen you release when ...
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| Stomach pains in males after sex | 4/27/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have recently just had sex for the first time and he is saying he has stomach ...
A: Your boyfriend should see a doctor asap as any sort of suspicious pain needs to be checked out. ...
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| stress causing me to lose erection? | 4/26/2009 |
Q: i know this is a regular question but me and my girlfriend have sex regularly and recently within ...
A: It sounds to me as if it is stress induced erectile dysfunction. Talk with your partner and explain ...
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| More than once | 4/24/2009 |
Q: I recently started having sex with my GF everything seems to be going alright but i have one ...
A: Can you tell me how old you how much sexual activity are you having on average (eg how often you ...
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| Its hurting | 4/18/2009 |
Q: hey there, thanks for taking time to answer, me and this girl have been seeing each other for about ...
A: It sounds tro me as if your partner probably could do with some extra lubrication and or oral sex so ...
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| lack of excitement | 4/14/2009 |
Q: i am 21 yrs old. i hv a boyfriend. we r quite physical as in we've been shirtless often, he fondles ...
A: Relax and enjoy this special time with your boyfriend. Go with the flow, and allow yourself to ...
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| Problems getting hard | 4/8/2009 |
Q: My name is Steve and I have a girlfriend that I've been with for almost 6 months now. We like ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. I think that a major part of your erection issues are ...
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| proformance anxiety | 4/4/2009 |
Q: from what i have read i have performance anxiety and i would like to know if there are any ways to ...
A: OK let's go back to basics. Do you have any issues with erections at other times? Are you dealing ...
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| Erections | 3/30/2009 |
Q: I am 19 and had sex with a gf for the first time when I was 17 almost 18. Whenever I had sex with ...
A: You must see a doctor immediately about the pain you feel in your scrotum. It could be nothing but ...
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| pain in testicles | 3/27/2009 |
Q: i m 33 year old single. since some days i m facing some porblem. when ever i get sexually arouse ...
A: You need to see a doctor immediately as there is chance that there is something seriously wrong. I ...
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| i cant get it to stay hard! | 3/26/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for two yrs, and we pretty much have a healthy relationship however ...
A: Its is a good idea that he has stopped watching porn and masturbating. He now needs to work on ...
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| Condom issues | 3/25/2009 |
Q: I have a question regarding the use of condoms. I previously used regular sized condoms, but ...
A: I have done some surfing on the net and it seems that in the USA, Trojan's Magnum's and XL are ...
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| Condom issues | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I have a question regarding the use of condoms. I previously used regular sized condoms, but ...
A: Even though condoms all do the same job, they can vary greatly in thickness, flexibility and ...
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| Boyfriend can't cum | 3/21/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend can cum watching porn but not with me. He tells me it's not my fault and he has ...
A: It sounds as if it is going to come down to him making a choice you or the porn. Either way you are ...
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| Scared | 3/21/2009 |
Q: I have a bit of a problem with self confidence. I am indian by hertiage. I am light brown skin, 5"10 ...
A: It is very important that you realise that all the hype about penis size has nothing to do with a ...
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| Follwup: Can't get horny or an erection | 3/21/2009 |
Q: Yes once..I think, but I didn't really care because it wasn't a big scene or anything, but seriously ...
A: Hope you are finding the visualisation work helpful. I do appreciate feedback as it helps me know ...
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| Boyfriend can't cum | 3/21/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend can cum watching porn but not with me. He tells me it's not my fault and he has ...
A: Your boyfriend is not being fair. He needs to get rid off the chip on his shoulder. He is the one ...
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| Can't get horny or an erection | 3/20/2009 |
Q: Ok here's the deal...I'm a 17 year old male, I've been masterbating since I was in 3rd grade, I was ...
A: Can you answer the other questions too: 1. Have you even been caught masturbating by a ...
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| just a quick question. | 3/20/2009 |
Q: okay. well my pussy stinks and sometimes it realeases a thick white substance.(i am a virgin) i ...
A: It sounds as if you could be dealing with a yeast infection of some sort. See a doctor for a proper ...
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| Can't get horny or an erection | 3/19/2009 |
Q: Ok here's the deal...I'm a 17 year old male, I've been masterbating since I was in 3rd grade, I was ...
A: A few more questions Would it be fair that your over all confidence in your sexual capacity was ...
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| Can't get horny or an erection | 3/19/2009 |
Q: Ok here's the deal...I'm a 17 year old male, I've been masterbating since I was in 3rd grade, I was ...
A: It does sound odd that a 17 would have issues with libido and erections. Tell me, did this issues ...
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| Loss of interest | 3/19/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a man who has lived in my house for the past 5 years. During the first part of ...
A: Your first priority is the safety and wellbeing of your children. It does not really matter what he ...
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| penis | 3/18/2009 |
Q: i am 18 years old and have been having trouble urinating. my penis is well above size for men and i ...
A: I am sorry to hear that you have been teased and bullied. This is not helpful for a guy coming to ...
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| Foreskin problem | 3/17/2009 |
Q: i am 26 years old vergin and have uncircumsised penis. my question to you is that after full ...
A: It sounds as if you are dealing with Phimosis which is a medical condition. You need to seek ...
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| About penetration | 3/17/2009 |
Q: Couldn't find the right category. Hope you'll oblige. Is there a truth that if you do shallow ...
A: Every man is different is the honest answer to your question. There is no magical formula for every ...
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| help communicate!! | 3/16/2009 |
Q: i am 32 years ,meet this great guy 2 years ago.i m crazy in love with him.my problem is that in bed ...
A: All that your guy wants from you is that you tell him what you want him to do for you and how you ...
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| I cum to fast | 3/11/2009 |
Q: Ok i read this previous post.. Which stated practise holding bak ur cum right b4 ur about to let it ...
A: Once you have that control over when you ejaculate you can do as you please: keep on going or stop ...
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| The 'right words' when talking to your partner | 3/11/2009 |
Q: I very much hope you can provide some useful advice on the best words / ways to communicate with a ...
A: It sounds as if the work stress is affecting his libido and erections. When you two want to have ...
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| How to deal my wife | 3/11/2009 |
Q: I am married for almost 2 years now but never could do anal sex with my spouse once problem is that ...
A: It sounds as if your wife is dealing with dyspareunia (painful intercourse). This link should be ...
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| I cum to fast | 3/9/2009 |
Q: Ok i read this previous post.. Which stated practise holding bak ur cum right b4 ur about to let it ...
A: If you use the stop and start exercises, working with the first goal of lasting 10 minutes, you ...
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| Sex too bland | 3/9/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years and it seems that lately my sexual tastes have ...
A: I think that the secret to any healthy relationship is open communication. So the best thing you ...
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| How to cum faster and stay hard | 3/9/2009 |
Q: Alright my question is How Can I cum faster and stay hard? I was having sex with my girlfriend and ...
A: There is a lot to be said for trying a variety of condoms. Each brand is different. Make sure that ...
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| No sex drive | 3/7/2009 |
Q: I have been married for almost 13 years. I love my husband with all my heart but I have absolutely ...
A: It is very possible that the fibromyalgia could be at fault. In my experience a lot of clients with ...
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| no orgasm | 3/6/2009 |
Q: I'm a young woman who's about to get married. Touble is... I've never been able to have a vaginal ...
A: You must not be so hard on yourself. Many women have more orgasms via clitoral stimulation than via ...
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| no porn no erection | 3/4/2009 |
Q: i am 28 and i have been having difficulty achieving and maintaining erection during sex and while ...
A: Don't worry, it takes a while for your body to get used to being porn free. You have to regain the ...
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| Can't keep my boyfriend hard. | 3/4/2009 |
Q: I seem to have a problem with keeping my boyfriend hard during sex. He is perfectly fine for the ...
A: Your boyfriend's erection issues are not your fault. Either there is something physically wrong ...
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| cant cum in sex | 3/2/2009 |
Q: I have been masturbating for 6 years so far, since I first started to cum. I do it by rubbing my ...
A: there is a lot of debate taking place between researchers about the potential complications ...
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| no porn no erection | 3/2/2009 |
Q: i am 28 and i have been having difficulty achieving and maintaining erection during sex and while ...
A: It sounds to me as if you have over time trained yourself to believe that you need the stimulation ...
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| I can't Orgasm whil ehaving sex | 3/1/2009 |
Q: This seems weird, but I am actually a man and I can't orgasm while having sex with my girlfriend. ...
A: You would be amazed at the number of men who contact me each month saying that they find it hard to ...
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| erection lost quickly | 2/27/2009 |
Q: i am a 26 year old London based professional.. i have had no problems in having sex in the past but ...
A: There are a number of factors that could be affecting the quality of your erections. Since you say ...
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| Too big? | 2/24/2009 |
Q: Hey um is it possible that my boyfriend is just too "big" for my tiny hole? i mean we have tried ...
A: You did not say how big is your partner's penis. Regardless of this, you need to remember that ...
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| my boyfriend doesn't cum but it is still very hard! | 2/24/2009 |
Q: how are you? i wanted to ask a question my boyfriend and i have been making love for 2yrs.. we do it ...
A: Some men are able to ejaculate every time they have sex in a day or evening, whilst others are only ...
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| penis problem | 2/23/2009 |
Q: I'm 35 years,i practiced sex many times, my penis is about 18 cm, it is curved downwards, my glans ...
A: Masturbation does not affect fertility or your health in any way. I think that your erectile issues ...
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| noises while having sex | 2/23/2009 |
Q: this is a little embaressing for me. i'm a 24yr old female and i have been having sex with my ...
A: The cause of the noise is trapped air inside your vagina. This can occur through aggressive ...
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| My marriage | 2/22/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We were long distance to begin with, and with his ...
A: As he is dealing (or not dealing) with OCD he should be under the care of a mental health ...
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| sex with my partner | 2/19/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend never wants sex he is 26 and im 20 he pushes me away and doesnt even touch me when i ...
A: It sounds as if you need to sit down with him and have an open discussion about your concerns. ...
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| mastrubation | 2/19/2009 |
Q: sir, i am asian belongs to pakistan, my age is 24 yrs and i m fresh graduate. i m doing hand ...
A: Masturbation does not affect your health or wellbeing in any way. It is a safe and natural way to ...
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| proformance anxiety | 2/18/2009 |
Q: from what i have read i have performance anxiety and i would like to know if there are any ways to ...
A: I suggest that you do the following. 1. Stop masturbating - this way you can build up your sexual ...
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| cant get hard | 2/18/2009 |
Q: im dating this girl and i want to have sex with her real bad but when we are about to i cant get ...
A: It is very possible from what you have said that you are dealing with a form of performance anxiety. ...
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| Performance | 2/17/2009 |
Q: I have no problem getting an erection, I masturbate, and am sexually active, but most often leading ...
A: You can also use this creative visualisation. All you have to do is sit in a comfortable chair in ...
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| My marriage | 2/17/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We were long distance to begin with, and with his ...
A: It sounds as if you have to schedule a time when you both can sit down and openly discuss your ...
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| Performance | 2/17/2009 |
Q: I have no problem getting an erection, I masturbate, and am sexually active, but most often leading ...
A: It is very possible from what you have said that you are dealing with a form of performance anxiety. ...
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| Can't get in the mood, and can't orgasm | 2/16/2009 |
Q: I am almost 23 years old and my boyfriend is almost 22, and I have been with him for almost 6 years. ...
A: The strain on your relationship is probably affecting your libido. Some conselling for you as a ...
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| Arguing about sex CONSTANTLY! | 2/16/2009 |
Q: I really need some help here. My boyfriend gets mad if I masturbate and then if I'm not in the mood ...
A: I think that if he is honest with you you will discover that he also masturbates (most people still ...
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| Sexual Anxiety/Loss of Erection | 2/15/2009 |
Q: my name is Ryan. I'm seventeen and have been dating my girlfriend for over a year. Everything is ...
A: Unprotected sex is very risky and you could be a father before you know it. Reassure your partner ...
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| lack ejacvation | 2/15/2009 |
Q: i would like to get an answer for this as soon as possible please help me out. i had been married ...
A: It is common for men who are recently new to penetrative sex to have difficulties in ejaculating ...
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| Can't get in the mood, and can't orgasm | 2/14/2009 |
Q: I am almost 23 years old and my boyfriend is almost 22, and I have been with him for almost 6 years. ...
A: I will do my best to answer your complex question. Firstly, since I am not a doctor I cannot ...
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| problem | 2/14/2009 |
Q: for the past 4 times i been having sex with 4 different girls my penis seems to stop getting hard ...
A: How are you feeling when you do the visualisation work? Does it remind you how natural it feels to ...
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| my boyfriend is more experienced than me | 2/12/2009 |
Q: ok, so here it is, i've been dating this guy for 9 months now, but i didn't loose my virginity to ...
A: The only way to resolve this situation is to sit down with your guy and explain to him that you need ...
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| Can't ejaculate | 2/12/2009 |
Q: I am 40 ish and just left a marriage of 18 years. We had sex every 2 to three days for the entire ...
A: There a re a number of reasons why you could be experiencing difficulties. The best thing to do is ...
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| WET | 2/12/2009 |
Q: MY PUSSY USUALLY BE WET BUT THE OTHER NIGHT WHEN ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX HIS DICK DIDN'T STAY ON ...
A: There a number of reasons why he lost his erection and they have nothing to do with your arousal ...
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| problem | 2/11/2009 |
Q: for the past 4 times i been having sex with 4 different girls my penis seems to stop getting hard ...
A: It sounds to me as if you are dealing with Performance Anxiety. You need to relax more about sexual ...
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| Drowsy when aroused | 2/10/2009 |
Q: I have an odd question. I've searched all over the net and can't find anything remotely close to my ...
A: It is possible that your reluctance to have sex is causing you to go to sleep - it could be some ...
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| boyfriend not cuming | 2/10/2009 |
Q: me && my boyfriend have sex like everyweekend && like 3 times a week and for some odd reason he ...
A: There could be all sorts of reasons why he has not been able to ejaculate. It almost certainly ...
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| i cannot cum | 2/9/2009 |
Q: hey i lost my virginity a week ago to my girlfriend and i didnt come we wer having sex and getting ...
A: Because you have had unprotected sex, make sure that she is not pregnant by her taking a proper ...
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| Intimacy problems | 2/6/2009 |
Q: I've been seeing a guy for about 10 months now. We have been having great sex the entire time. The ...
A: There is no real way that you can really sugar coat what you need to say to your partner except the ...
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| problem in insertion | 2/5/2009 |
Q: I'm finding difficult while inserting my penis into my partner vagina, and i also found my penis ...
A: If your partner is very wet, it means that she is ready for intercourse. It means that you ...
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| Intimidated by intimacy and fetish | 2/5/2009 |
Q: I'm 25 years old and have had problems with girls since i can remember. I'm a very picky guy, and ...
A: It sounds as if you could really benefit from some counselling to resolve the issues of fear of ...
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| my husband not asking me for sex | 2/4/2009 |
Q: From the day of our marriage my husband is not asking for sex. Before marriage we did not have sex. ...
A: It is not reasonable that your husband is not open with you about his rationale. As a couple you ...
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| Normal Sexual Behavior in Man | 2/3/2009 |
Q: I am a little embarrased to ask these questions, but I need answers. First of all-Thank you so much ...
A: Firstly I would strongly suggest that you get some counselling to deal with your unresolved trauma. ...
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| Please tell a answer for my life | 2/3/2009 |
Q: I am 18 years old male. When i was 10 my cousin(elder) taught me how to masturbate. Since then i am ...
A: The first thing you have to do is get rid of the guilt and angst: they are not helping you. ...
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| problem in penis insertion | 2/3/2009 |
Q: Even though my husband is very hard and I am profusely wet, he is not able to penetrate me at all ...
A: It is possible that your hymen is too thick and needs surgical removal by a doctor. You should ...
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| Shes a virgin | 2/2/2009 |
Q: im 20 and my girlfriend is 19. We have been together for about 3 years now. We have been trying to ...
A: Pain means she is not ready to continue intercourse because: 1. She is to tense 2. She is not ...
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| Erection problem and I am only 16! | 2/1/2009 |
Q: I am 16 years old and I no longer can get an erection. I am a virgin but me and my girlfriend have ...
A: I am concerned that you are having issues with erections at your age especially with self arousal. ...
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| Sexual Intimacy | 1/31/2009 |
Q: My man has not been very interested in sex with me and yet he has come home looking on the internet ...
A: Obviously this is eating at you otherwise you would not written to me. Sit your partner down and ...
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| Please I'm begging you for some advice!! | 1/31/2009 |
Q: Please Help! I feel our marriage is starting to crumble!! My husband and I were virgins when we got ...
A: You must understand that the Performance Anxiety your husband is dealing with has nothing to do with ...
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| Developing Sexual Problems | 1/31/2009 |
Q: I hope this counts as one question - if not - I'm sorry. I have been married 5 years. My husband ...
A: Ejaculation and orgasm are separate things, but for most men, they do occur together. At his age, ...
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| I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual | 1/31/2009 |
Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ...
A: It is true that you could be asexual - it is still not wholly accepted that it exists as there are ...
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| Sex Problem | 1/30/2009 |
Q: I am 41 years old male & am married for last 12 years . My wife is working out of station for past ...
A: It sounds as if you have become addicted to the masturbation fantasy. You need to remind yourself ...
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| female orgasm too quickly | 1/30/2009 |
Q: I'm a lady in my early 30s and I orgasm too quickly. Sometimes well before a minute. So first ...
A: Usually I suggest my clients and readers to use Sylk which is usually non irritating. I think that ...
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| I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual | 1/29/2009 |
Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ...
A: I really do appreciate your honesty and courage in sharing with very personal information with me. ...
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| How do i make my girlfriend open around me? | 1/29/2009 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and four months. We started having ...
A: A simple way for her to be more vocal is allow her to be dominate. Tell her she has to be in total ...
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| not wanted sexually | 1/29/2009 |
Q: i'm 29 and my husband prefers masterbation over sex. i offer to join him or dress the way he likes ...
A: It does not sound as if your husband is being reasonable. If he does not agree to undertaking some ...
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| My boyfriend wont have sex with me. | 1/28/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been 2gther for 2 years. im 21 and he's 26. 6months ago i thought i was ...
A: A pregnancy scare does take time to process. Notwithstanding, you and your boyfriend really do ...
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| No Question too big or too small huh? | 1/28/2009 |
Q: Well here it goes.I'm a male in his mid twenties. And I'm sure you get this a lot if not at least ...
A: You are right, a lot of men do make contact with me from all over the world with deep concerns about ...
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| does size really matter? | 1/28/2009 |
Q: My partner and I are in our 20s. We have been dating for 3 years and recently moved in together. ...
A: The size of your partner's penis has little to do with your sexual pleasure. Most women need at ...
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| Too fast | 1/27/2009 |
Q: I've always had a problem with cumming too fast. Usually within a few minutes of being inside a ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Needing some help | 1/26/2009 |
Q: ok. Me and my man have been dating for a while. but before we started dating i would use a vibrator ...
A: I think that you need to spend some time retraining yourself so that you can articulate with your ...
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| Penis Erection While Having Sex | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I am newly wed & whenever I try to have sex with my wife, my penis erects initially but then looses ...
A: It sounds to me that you are dealing with Performance Anxiety - this is very treatable and does not ...
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| I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ...
A: Can you answer the folowing questions for me so that I can answer yourDo you masturbate now or at ...
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| viagra | 1/26/2009 |
Q: Do you know if drugs like Viagra, Levitra, etc. help with an erection if the problem is due to ...
A: While I am not a doctor, it is my understanding thta medications such as Viagra etc will help you ...
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| Late ejaculation | 1/25/2009 |
Q: I was wondering, last time I had sex with a girl I wasn't able to ejaculate. I kept penetrating her ...
A: Delayed Ejaculation can be a problem for men just like the more common Premature Ejaculation. If ...
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| how do i fix my sex problem | 1/24/2009 |
Q: ok this is going to be weird but im a 19 year old guy, fit strong and athletic i seem to have no ...
A: Remember that sex does feel different from sex and with practice you will become more sensitive to ...
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| Can't orgasm | 1/24/2009 |
Q: I am 16 and I have been with this guy for a year and a half, who's 23, we have been sexually active ...
A: That sensation of wanting to urinate is the beginning of an orgasm. As for the pain you are ...
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| how do i fix my sex problem | 1/24/2009 |
Q: ok this is going to be weird but im a 19 year old guy, fit strong and athletic i seem to have no ...
A: Can I ask you a few questions so that I can be more specific in my answer? Can you ever ejaculate ...
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| problems in general | 1/23/2009 |
Q: this is Alex, I asked you a question earlier about my gf not being able to have an orgasm, and well ...
A: I think that you should spend at least 30 minutes giving your girlfriend foreplay - women need much ...
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| He isn't sexuall attracted to me at all but says he loves me | 1/22/2009 |
Q: I just saw my German boyfriend of almost two years (we live long distance) for a week overseas, ...
A: Relationship need hard work for them to be productive: long distance relations even more so. It ...
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| Issue with penetration | 1/21/2009 |
Q: I'm not sure if you can answer this as I'm a female but I have an issue which is affecting my ...
A: Before seeing a doctor here are some simple things you and your boyfriend can try. 1. Get him to ...
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| Ugh! | 1/21/2009 |
Q: Lately my partner and I almost never have sex because he is really working himself overtime and ...
A: it is not reasonable that your partner is neglecting you. Even though his is busy with work duties ...
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| Geting Hard | 1/20/2009 |
Q: I'm 19 and haven't had all that much sexual experience besides fooling around with girls and having ...
A: If you have issues getting/keeping an erection when you masturbate and similarly with ejaculating ...
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| Nutting to fast | 1/19/2009 |
Q: Can u please tell me why I nut do fast some time in a min sometimes two min I want to have sex for ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into ...
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| what do i do | 1/17/2009 |
Q: So me and my girlfriend are really right for eachother but theres only one problem. her vagina is to ...
A: I think this issue can be dealt with easily by slowing down your love making and giving her much ...
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| Discomfort in Cowgirl position | 1/17/2009 |
Q: Okay, well I'm in a good, strong relationship right now with lots of communication; and my ...
A: Here are a couple of reason why he could have felt some discomfort: 1. There was not enough ...
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| I worry too much about it | 1/16/2009 |
Q: I am in a homosexual relationship with another man, and we have just begun to be intimate with each ...
A: As you are only beginning to explore sex, I think that it is reasonable that you are not sure of ...
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| No too happy with sex life. What should I do? | 1/16/2009 |
Q: Me and my partner are 24 years old, and have been dating for about 4 years. My girlfirend isn't into ...
A: I do not think it is ethical for me to comment on another expert's reply. It seems to me that you ...
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| n/a | 1/16/2009 |
Q: this is very embarassing for me to ask but I figured i'd give it a shot anyway, so i am 18 and i am ...
A: Pensises come in sorts of shapes, colours and sizes. Some penises are "growers" and it appears ...
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| My problem | 1/15/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 turning 18 in a few months. My girlfriend and I are really serious, the most serious ...
A: I think that the first thing you should do is see a doctor and get yourself checked out - you may ...
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| My boyfriend is just to fast how can i help it? | 1/13/2009 |
Q: I am dating an older guy with a good age difference. He is 30+ and I am 20+. The problem with us is ...
A: I think that it is only fair that you talk with him calmly about the fact that you feel that he ...
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| help | 1/12/2009 |
Q: I am 11 years old and I am being raped daily. What do I do? Ps no one knows about this exept me
A: You need to tell a safe adult immediately - rape is never, ever OK. If you are stuck for a safe ...
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| Loss of erection. | 1/12/2009 |
Q: I can get an erection with no problems outside of the bed, it's when my girlfriend and I go to bed ...
A: If you have problems with erections only when you are in bed, it does suggest that there could be a ...
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| Female Sex Addict | 1/12/2009 |
Q: I'm a 32 year old woman and I think that I might be a female sex addict. Is this possible? I started ...
A: From what you shared, it sounds as if you may be dealing with a sexual addiction, but before we get ...
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| My gf | 1/11/2009 |
Q: my gf is afraid to have anal, i tell her it will be ok but she refeuses i dont no how to convince ...
A: I guess the question that is racing around in your girlfriend's mind is "If he is so keen on me ...
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| Ejaculation inside my wife | 1/11/2009 |
Q: I'm havingtrouble cumming inside my wife. I masterbate fairly often because my wife doesn't enjoy ...
A: I don't understand why you are having problems ejaculating inside your wife? Is it the fact that ...
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| Sex Issue | 1/11/2009 |
Q: I am 28years old guy and last weeks ago i lost my virginity. I am using my hands from like last 12 ...
A: The first thing you need to remember is that sex feels different from masturbation, therefore you ...
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| Dry Smelly penis | 1/9/2009 |
Q: My man has the smelliest penis and it makes me sick to my stomach when he pulls it out. I make him ...
A: It sounds as if your partner should see a doctor asap and get himself checked out. Even if he ...
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| I'm not satified sexually with my fiance | 1/9/2009 |
Q: I need reassurance that my choice to end my relationship with my fiance, is the right one. We have ...
A: I think that there is a lot of communication lacking in this relationship about sexual needs and ...
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| My gf cant have an orgasm | 1/8/2009 |
Q: I've been dating a girl for about 2 years now. whenever i start to foreplay with her, she becomes ...
A: There are three issues that i think need to be addressed. 1. You are not 100% responsible for her ...
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| health | 1/7/2009 |
Q: hey its s,i am male age is 22 hey p[lease tell me is there any medicine by i can do long sex with ...
A: There is no medicine that will make sex last longer without any side effects. What you need to do ...
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| health | 1/6/2009 |
Q: can i saticified a woman..is ther any medicine by taking i can have long time sex with woman
A: I do not know of any other way to make a penis larger than radical surgery which, like all surgery ...
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| Stinky vagina?? | 12/22/2008 |
Q: My man of 7mths told me (in a drunk moment) that he doesn't want to give me oral sex because I ...
A: I am sorry to hear that your partner is being difficult. In truth you are right, every women does ...
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| Going off sex | 12/19/2008 |
Q: My sexual relationship with my wife is in trouble. This is my wife’s second marriage and she was ...
A: It sounds from your email that you both could really benefit from some counselling in general to ...
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| my penis size.. | 12/19/2008 |
Q: . i am 23 years old single.4years b4 in my teen age.. every day when iam wake up i was erected all ...
A: You are normal. Stop worrying. Take things nice and slowly with your girlfriend and everything ...
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| penis size | 12/18/2008 |
Q: i'm 19 and i have a penis size of 8 inches erect is that really impressing at my age and will it ...
A: I think that at 19 you have probably reached your mature size - though it may increase slightly over ...
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| Please help me! | 12/18/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 yrs old now. I'm still virgin now and have never sex with any girl. I've been ...
A: It sounds as if masturbation is a significant part of your daily routine. This link below talks ...
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| Premature Ejaculation? | 12/17/2008 |
Q: How do you know if you have premature ejaculation? I am about to get married and have been with her ...
A: I don't think it is fair to call what you are dealing with as Premature Ejaculation: the definition ...
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| erectile difficulty - don't have e.d. | 12/16/2008 |
Q: I was tested for erectile dysfunction and my doctor said I don't have it, yet i still have trouble ...
A: It sounds to me as if your doctor only did half their job: if the doctor ruled out ED, there is some ...
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| PLEASE HELP ASAP Problems getting it up | 12/13/2008 |
Q: a couple of days ago my girlfriend and i were having sex and it was pretty good as usual and as i ...
A: There are many reasons why guys sometimes suddenly loose their erections. If you can still get an ...
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| Cowper's fluid | 12/9/2008 |
Q: Embarrassing question, but is it normal to find that Cowper's fluid has discharged during the night? ...
A: I need some some more info: how old are you how long has this been happening are you sexually ...
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| Girlfriend doesn't get arroused during sex | 12/9/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I just started getting physical with each other by oral sex, foreplay and recently ...
A: On reflection the most important thing that you can do for your partner, and indeed for yourself as ...
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| sex | 12/9/2008 |
Q: me and my parnter are ready for sex. we have tried twice now but it dosent seems to work. for some ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. I think that you need to slow things down and enjoy ...
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| haveing trouble ejackulating | 12/8/2008 |
Q: I recently been doing like chat lines on the computor and never met anyone but did talk i was mostly ...
A: It sounds to be as if you are dealing with unresolved guilt. Obviously there were some issues with ...
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| Girlfriend doesn't get arroused during sex | 12/8/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I just started getting physical with each other by oral sex, foreplay and recently ...
A: Firstly I think you are doing a great job supporting your girlfriend to have orgasms through ...
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| Loss of sexuality | 12/7/2008 |
Q: Recently my husband loss all sexual desire. So we went to the Dr's and found out he had a prostate ...
A: Doggy style sex if he has even a poor erection could be helpful. This position gives the male ...
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| I don't know what to do | 12/7/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months now and we see each other every day. My ...
A: It sounds as if there is nothing physically wrong with your boyfriend and that he is dealing with ...
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| Guy doesn't cum?? | 12/7/2008 |
Q: If a guy does'nt cum does that mean that he didn't like it? Even if he was hard like the whole ...
A: As the link below explains, there are many reasons why your partner has issues in ejaculating during ...
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| Orgasam | 12/5/2008 |
Q: I am reciently devoriced. My new partner would like to know why I don't make noises and have an ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. You must remember that everyone is different and you ...
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| I cant deal with this fetish feelings | 12/5/2008 |
Q: Im wondering if you could help me. I cant seem to deal with thes odd strange fetish feelings I ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. It sounds to me as if you would benefit from some ...
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| My girlfriend never returns the favor | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over 1 and a half years, when we first started having ...
A: I think this is the sort of conversation that is best done in the privacy of your home. Best place ...
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| My girlfriend never returns the favor | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over 1 and a half years, when we first started having ...
A: It sounds that your requests are reasonable; and that your girlfriend is being very unreasonable. ...
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| Premature Ejaculation | 12/2/2008 |
Q: Dr. Fox, I am a 17 year old boy and I have been masturbating since I was 15. For the past few ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool Here is some basic info that you can use that does work ...
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| penis growth | 12/1/2008 |
Q: First I am not afraid to admit I am NO porn star when it comes to size. I am a little over 6 inches ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. Firstly I congratulate you on realising that 6 inches ...
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| urinating during sexual intercourse | 11/29/2008 |
Q: is it possible for a woman to urinate during sexual intercourse and or at the point of orgasm?
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. Many women fear that they are about to urinate during ...
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| Cumming before she does | 11/28/2008 |
Q: My wife and I started dating at 17 and our sex life was outstanding. I was able to orgasm 2 - 3 ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool I think that what has happened is that in your ...
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| .. | 11/25/2008 |
Q: me and my girlfriend have started having sex for the first time is it normal that we struggle to get ...
A: Here is some basic info that you can use that does work if you follow the suggestions for a month. ...
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| .. | 11/24/2008 |
Q: me and my girlfriend have started having sex for the first time is it normal that we struggle to get ...
A: It might be a surprise for you to know that a lot of couples find it hard to get the penis inside ...
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| Did I marry him because of sex or something? | 11/23/2008 |
Q: I love my husband with all of my heart.But I am starting to wonder if I married him because I wanted ...
A: As I said in my previous reply, getting some professional counselling is a good idea to work out how ...
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| Did I marry him because of sex or something? | 11/23/2008 |
Q: I love my husband with all of my heart.But I am starting to wonder if I married him because I wanted ...
A: Firstly, suicide is never a solution to any problem, it is only a permanent solution to a temporary ...
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| Sex Positon Trouble | 10/28/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend both really enjoy the "cowgirl" style of sex. However, I keep coming out of ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. A few suggestions for you: Let your girlfriend do all ...
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| sex | 9/24/2008 |
Q: i have been hand practicing (masturbating) since 4 years and now i am worried that i may have ...
A: There is no risk from masturbation causing sexual problems with your wife. The more often you ...
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| No feeling during sex | 9/24/2008 |
Q: I'm 25, in good health, and have been married for one year. My husband and I have never had any ...
A: I am not really sure what is going on. Stress definately can do funny thinks to libido. So it ...
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| Genital size | 9/23/2008 |
Q: I m 25 yr old. I m getting married in Nov'08. My fiance is 20 yrs old. As compared she is physically ...
A: The only way that I am aware of that will make a difference is surgery. It is not cheap and like ...
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| 15 year old male, big foot fetish | 9/23/2008 |
Q: I have a foot fetish. Im not ashamed about it but I wouldnt want to make it public. I am only 15 ...
A: I think that at 15 you are still finding out what you like about a lot of things in life, including ...
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| delayed ejaculation | 9/18/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend has delayed ejaculation, in fact he has only cum three times in the last six months of ...
A: I think that there are issues in his sexual past that need to be dealt with if he is uncomfortable ...
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| Does silence mean no | 9/11/2008 |
Q: Question from a friend: I have resumed having flashbacks, and a lot! Sometimes, several times a ...
A: I am sorry to hear that your friend is still affected by this event. It sounds as if there was a ...
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| peeing during sex | 9/11/2008 |
Q: I have a new partner and although with my last boyfriend we always thought that I was having female ...
A: I think that you are ok - most guys get quite a thrill out of a partner that produces a lot of ...
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| about oral sex and not being as intrested in sex with my partner after i moved in | 9/10/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend always want oral sex but i feel that i am not the greatest at it because i can never ...
A: Firstly, it sounds like the two of you really need to sit down and discuss what is happening in your ...
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| My Used Underwears Collection | 9/8/2008 |
Q: I'm a 19 year old girl and I collect guys' used underwears. So, I have a collection of guys' used ...
A: What you describe is a penis fetish. I am unable to say how common it is amongst women, but do know ...
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| Can't cum | 9/7/2008 |
Q: Hey wel i don't realy know how to ask this but im 17 turning 18 and i got a big prob ive been ...
A: Firstly you need to focus less on the big O and more on the feelings you are having with your ...
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| is sex over? | 9/7/2008 |
Q: Married 22yrs, in last 2 years we have had sex app. 4 times. When I try to talk to my husband all ...
A: I think that the depression you speak of has a lot to do with your lack of interest in sex. Talk ...
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| i cant cum | 9/6/2008 |
Q: Please help me! I have a problem. When i masturbate, i don't cum at all but only a little of a ...
A: OK Chris Thanks for the age info. It is probably just a matter of time before you ejaculate a bit ...
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| preejaculate | 9/4/2008 |
Q: Does only ejaculating for the 1st time impregnate a woman or does cumming after the 1st time also ...
A: Even a tiny drop of precum that contains sperm can make produce a pregnancy in a fertile female. ...
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| Possible masturbation issues | 9/3/2008 |
Q: Been wondering recently about possible side effects of the "undescended testicle" condition, also ...
A: If you think that you may have an undescended testicle, you should see a doctor immediately. The ...
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| Deepthroating | 9/1/2008 |
Q: I'm a girl and I'm 13 years old and I have a question about deepthroating. My friend told me that ...
A: I am concerned that at 13 you are already sexually active. You need to be very careful that you do ...
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| Do I have erectile dysfunction? | 8/31/2008 |
Q: I have been masturbating ever since I was a kid (maybe 10 years old or something). While it was a ...
A: I think that you do need to reduce the times that you masturbate - 3-4 times a day is a lot. ...
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| great sex (lack thereof) | 8/29/2008 |
Q: hey ive been with my girl a couple years and as of late for some reason my performance during sex ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| sex | 8/28/2008 |
Q: my pennis size is 15.5" and 1.5" in thickness and is curved too. what should i do? should i consult ...
A: I do not think that there is anything wrong with you. penises come in all sorts of sizes and ...
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| pennis | 8/25/2008 |
Q: my pennis errects but it is bent a little downward from its origine.it is thick at top but thin at ...
A: I founnd your question in the Question Pool. Honestly, any angle of your penis should not be a ...
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| incteased libido? | 8/25/2008 |
Q: Pete I am 50,no health issues. I have a normal interest in sex in that it has decreased as I have ...
A: We mere mortals are complex things. Sometimes out of no where, our hormones do strange things... it ...
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| sex | 8/22/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 penis is about 6inches long. I haven't had sex with my girlfriend yet but i'm a virgin and ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. I will do my best to answer your questions. However, ...
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| cant cum | 8/20/2008 |
Q: i find it hard to cum, the only way i can, is sideways, not with bj or hj, i have never been able to ...
A: I foiund your question in the Question Pool. It sounds to be that there is a fair enough reason to ...
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| i cant cum | 8/18/2008 |
Q: Please help me! I have a problem. When i masturbate, i don't cum at all but only a little of a ...
A: I found you question in the Question Pool. You need to give me some more info so that I can help: ...
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| Female oral sex with wife | 8/16/2008 |
Q: My wife and have been married for 20 years and she gives me oral sex but does not like me to give ...
A: A lot of women are really uncomfortable about receiving oral sex because they fear that their ...
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| sex should be fun? | 8/16/2008 |
Q: i was a virgin until i met my girlfriend. We have had sex, and it hurts her because, as she asys, ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. Here are some things you need to consider: Any kind of ...
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| Ejaculation problem | 8/16/2008 |
Q: i have been married for the last two years. Due to some problems we could not have proper ...
A: It is all got to do with getting used to the different sensations that are involved with sex ...
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| Kegels & Problems | 8/7/2008 |
Q: Ok we all know about kegels exercises and their benefits.But what about their bad effects?I've heard ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. I believe that gentle usage of the Kegel exercises are ...
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| sex with finger | 8/4/2008 |
Q: Respected Sir, I am a 20 years old girl. My boyfriend entered his finger into my vagina. Is there ...
A: Digital penetration is safe as long as the finger is clean and the fingernail is trimmed. It is a ...
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| penis size | 8/1/2008 |
Q: Im in my mid teens and i need some information about penis size. My penis is only about 4 inches ...
A: While I am not sure how old you are, I think that you are doing OK at 4 inches. The average western ...
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| Anxiety | 7/31/2008 |
Q: Hey Pete ! My question is simple: How do i get over performance anxiety? Sometimes i can't relax ...
A: It sounds to me that you are on the right track, giving her lots of foreplay before attempting sex. ...
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| cum | 7/30/2008 |
Q: Is there anything i can do to make my cum sweet? anything i can eat or any vitamins i can take?
A: I understand that strong tasting food items like onion, garlic, leeks and chilli can affect the ...
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| Masturbation | 7/29/2008 |
Q: 1)I do understand that masturbation is a healthy habit and does not have any adverse reaction to the ...
A: Masturbation per se is safe and healthy. This www should be useful for you: www.jackinworld.com ...
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| Sex Issues | 7/28/2008 |
Q: About me: 27y/o male virgin in good health, fit, and keeping up with regular exercise. No drugs, ...
A: I think your analysis is correct. You must remember that having sex is a big deal - it is the most ...
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| Psychological Impotence | 7/26/2008 |
Q: my name is Payam, I am 25 yrs old. My question is twofold; firstly I heard that doing foreplay and ...
A: Masturbation itself does not cause impotence. Sometimes, when guys rush masturbation on a regular ...
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| PLEASE HELP ME!! | 7/26/2008 |
Q: So, I am dating a 31 year old thats still a virgin. I'm 18 and im not a virgin. The problem i am ...
A: It sounds as if you need to sit your partner down and have a very sincere heart to heart with him. ...
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| I dont ejaculate while having sex | 7/25/2008 |
Q: cant seem to ejaculate while having sex. It wouldn't be a problem but my girlfriend gets tired after ...
A: The fact that you can ejaculate is a very good sign: it means that there is nothing physically wrong ...
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| erectile problems | 7/25/2008 |
Q: I haven't tried to have sex with woman in like 6 years, because the last two times I tried with two ...
A: Being gay means that your preference for sexual partners are male. It does not necessarily men that ...
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| No sex | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I'd like to thank you for taking the time to view my question - it means a lot. First off, I'm a 23 ...
A: It is very common for people in relationships to settle down to the lowest common denominator in ...
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| staying erect | 7/23/2008 |
Q: this could be normal, i dunno. My gf and i had sex today, both were virgins, both 17 yrs old. ...
A: A couple of things: Firstly it is very likely that you were dealing with Performance ...
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| erectile problems | 7/22/2008 |
Q: I haven't tried to have sex with woman in like 6 years, because the last two times I tried with two ...
A: Can you give me some more information to work with? You mention that you hvae no issues when you ...
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| me | 7/9/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now, and his always come to quick and i have ...
A: I think that the PE notes I have prepared will help you both. They will teach him to slow down and ...
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| Blowjob Contest | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I'm a 13 year old girl in an open relationship with my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend will be going ...
A: I am very concerned that at 13 you are sexually active. Also, the activities that you are doing are ...
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| Erection Problems | 7/6/2008 |
Q: I am a 29 year old man and I am having erection problems. In my last relationship the first time I ...
A: From what you say, it does not sound as if your issues with erections is physical in nature; most ...
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| My fiance' wont have sex with me | 7/5/2008 |
Q: My fiance' wont have sex with me....It is not a new thing, it has been pretty absent since about 5 ...
A: As I said in my reply of a few minutes ago, you need to set him straight about how you feel and the ...
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| Male sexuality | 7/4/2008 |
Q: I am just bouncing words off the computer screen for a few minutes. My Dr is pretty certain that I ...
A: I am not a doctor, but it would appear to be very prudent to get another doctor's opinion and have ...
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| I come to quick | 7/1/2008 |
Q: Hey, i masturbate, way to much, like about 14 times a week, including sex with my girlfriend. The ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Erection dificulties | 6/28/2008 |
Q: I was with a chap I have known for mamy years for the first time. He has had major surgery on his ...
A: Some guys have ED of a physical nature and others of a psychological nature. The ones that have ED ...
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| erection problems | 6/26/2008 |
Q: Hey im 18 years old. I have this problem getting erections sometimes with no reasons, but I also get ...
A: Both erection issues and premature ejaculation are often anxiety related. If you can achieve and ...
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| Sex Problems | 6/25/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for three and a half years we have a son together and are ...
A: At the end of the day, the choice is hers. However, there is a lot to be said for an exclusive ...
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| what do you make of this? | 6/24/2008 |
Q: hey man, sorry to keep bothering you, youve just been helpin me out a lot haha. so check this out, ...
A: How did things go with the doctor? I think that the nerves are playing with your feelings at the ...
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| Public Sex | 6/18/2008 |
Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and I've never been in a gangbang before. However, I've always fantasized ...
A: Sexual acts like the ones you write about are very dangerous for three major reasons: 1. you are ...
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| sex problem | 6/16/2008 |
Q: hey , im Lina 20 years im still virgin i do it oral and anal ,, the problem is i dont cum i have ...
A: A lot of women feel that they cannot be orgasmic and yet at the say time after a while when they ...
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| errection ploblum | 6/15/2008 |
Q: i had been facing erection problem from last few days 2-3 days i get erection but i loose it very ...
A: There are many possible reasosn for sudden erectile issues: stress, medications, too much alcohol, ...
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| Unable to orgasm with penetration | 6/14/2008 |
Q: I am a 23 year old female. I have been sexually active since I was 13. I have had many partners. But ...
A: A lot of women who have orgasmic issues often are not comfortable with the feeling leading up to an ...
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| sex addiction | 6/13/2008 |
Q: what can be done to stop one from continiung becoming a sex addict for over 5 years my younger ...
A: If your younger brother wants to change - and this is vital - he needs to get professional ...
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| Doggy Style | 6/13/2008 |
Q: Hey, I'm having trouble having sex with my girl and I really need help. The question is not only ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool I would suggest that you place a pillow under her tummy ...
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| it's in my head | 6/11/2008 |
Q: Me and my girl are both 20 and we started having sex about a month ago. It was my first time but not ...
A: Firstly, it is important for you to recognise that having sex with someone is a big deal - the most ...
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| Dealing with wet dreams... | 6/10/2008 |
Q: My age in 16. I masturbate fortnightly but still cant prevent any wet dreams.. please tell me some ...
A: There is no natural way to stop wet dreams. Wet dreams are a normal way the body has of releasing ...
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| Low Libido in Men | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I am 35 and currently in a relationship with a man who is about to turn 40. We have been together ...
A: Sure there are plenty of herbs that can help...any competent health food store can provide male ...
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| how to be great lovers ? | 6/9/2008 |
Q: my name is lewes iam 27 yo iam married sence 3 years and i have one kid 1 1/2 year and my wife 21 ...
A: A dildo or vibrator would be OK...if you both are OK with it. Your partner loves you for who you ...
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| Erection and laster longer. | 6/7/2008 |
Q: My second question is when we have sex I can't keep it up please help me and tell me how to keep it ...
A: I have some notes that I will give you bellow that deals with lasting longer (ie. premature ...
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| Sextual problem | 5/31/2008 |
Q: when I am fucking my wife my sex is stoping from 1-2 minutes, please give me advoice that what ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| I really love this girl,but i just cant get it up | 5/30/2008 |
Q: First off im Seventeen and I am a virgin. The other day me and my girlfriend decided to have sex.We ...
A: Sex - especially the first time - is a big deal. As I have said so many times before on this ...
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| cuming to fast | 5/29/2008 |
Q: what can i do to not cum so fast while having sex?
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Problem faced | 5/28/2008 |
Q: ............. i have some issues and want to know the best advice from you.....i am 28 yo guy. 1. ...
A: I think that you need to remember that quality sex is more important than quantity of sex. Perhaps ...
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| HELP!!! I'm im a Sexless Relationship! | 5/27/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend n i have been together for 2 yrs weve lived together since day one. The sex was great n ...
A: You really need to talk with your boyfriend and let him know how you feel about the lack of sex and ...
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| how to be great lovers ? | 5/25/2008 |
Q: my name is lewes iam 27 yo iam married sence 3 years and i have one kid 1 1/2 year and my wife 21 ...
A: Yes, it is totally OK for her to have strong orgasms and release female ejaculate every time she has ...
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| lasting longer | 5/22/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have good sex but he never made me cum yet but i keep him bussing nuts back to ...
A: These following notes will help your boyfriend. In the meanwhile be patient with him and realise ...
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| biting | 5/21/2008 |
Q: my partner sometimes bites and sucks my nipples hard during intercourse, and i was wondering what ...
A: The most logical reason why he does this is because he gets carried away with the excitement and ...
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| how to be great lovers ? | 5/20/2008 |
Q: my name is lewes iam 27 yo iam married sence 3 years and i have one kid 1 1/2 year and my wife 21 ...
A: To help you last longer during sex don't have as much oral sex. Men don't need hardly any foreplay ...
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| Please help me... | 5/20/2008 |
Q: This is pretty embarrasing but recently ive become increasingly obsessed about cleaning myself ...
A: Let me assure you there is nothing harmful with your owen semen. Even if it should dry on the ...
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| oral sex | 5/19/2008 |
Q: i've done oral on a past boyfriend but it was nothing special. i want so bad to give my present ...
A: The easiest thing you can do is ask your boyfriend what does he like during oral and follow through. ...
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| sex | 5/19/2008 |
Q: i'm not sure if you can help me with this problem, but here goes. in bed with my boyfriend it's ...
A: Everyone is different. The best thing to do is just ask him what does he love you to do to him ...
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| help? advice? | 5/17/2008 |
Q: i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we just started having sex last month..i love ...
A: To get the best idea of how you can please your boydfriend if he cannot explain himself is asking to ...
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| She's a virgin. | 5/13/2008 |
Q: I am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 18. we've been dating for a while now and she is now ready ...
A: Let's take this slowly... Firstly you should only think about having sex with your girlfriend is ...
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| i come too quick | 5/3/2008 |
Q: pls any time i am having sex i dont stay up to 3-4minutes before comming and my girlfriend is ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes ...
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| you prolly anwser this question all the time haha but... | 5/2/2008 |
Q: we used to have good sex but now everytime i see her she say that shes too tired or not in the ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. Communication is the secret to a happy relationship. ...
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| group sex | 5/2/2008 |
Q: is group sex safe.i usually to have group sex with my girl friends.my friend advised me that group ...
A: Group sex can be very unsafe in regards to HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections - not ...
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| Inability to ejaculate | 5/1/2008 |
Q: Pete, Hi, I am a 22 year old male in excellent shape. I play varsity hockey in the NCAA and I take ...
A: You need to retrain yourself to experience the different sensations that come from intercourse/oral ...
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| Penis Size | 4/29/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend had a penis she referred to as "monstrous." (versus mine which is 6 ...
A: Don't worry about her ex's penis. 6 inches is ok; all you need to do is change your focus from her ...
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| Not Erecting when most needed!!! | 4/27/2008 |
Q: I get horny alot and get stiff, however my dick usually doesn't stick directly out it points ...
A: Don't worry about the angle of your erection...as long as you can get erect that's all that counts. ...
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| my dick | 4/27/2008 |
Q: I am 13 is it ok to have a 12.6 intch dick or is that to big and i am afrad the girles at my school ...
A: You have nothing to worry about, you are OK. 6 inch is the norm when erect, so you are fine. Don't ...
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| i cum too quik | 4/26/2008 |
Q: i'm 20 year old guy my problem is i come too quik when i'm having sex i have no idea why that got me ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| my boyfriend can't keep up | 4/26/2008 |
Q: me and my boyfriend have been dating for more than a year. we've never had any problems having sex. ...
A: There can be a number of reasons why your boyfriend is having a challenging time at present: stress, ...
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| Masterbating before sex | 4/21/2008 |
Q: Lately and in the past I have had problems staying hard during sex. I am 18 and I say I masturbate ...
A: I think it has more to do with the fact that you have been out of a sexual relationship - for one ...
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| cum to fast | 4/17/2008 |
Q: iam 22 and have been with my gf for 2.5 yrs. our sex life sux. we are barely having any sex now and ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Can't get horny | 4/16/2008 |
Q: I'm a perfectly normal 17 year old male heterosexual. I used to have urges everyday and masturbate ...
A: It sounds like you need to lose some of the stress that is affecting you. Eat well, see what you ...
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| Size and ejaculation | 4/8/2008 |
Q: Why is it that I tend to cum faster when I am watching porn then when I am not. I last longer when I ...
A: Firstly you have a larger than normally sized penis (normal is 6 inches) and the only way that you ...
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| Erection Problems | 4/6/2008 |
Q: we've been getting intimate lately. My problem is that when the clothes come off i cant keep an ...
A: It is really important for y9ou to remember that sex is the most intimate thin g that you can do ...
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| little leakage | 3/31/2008 |
Q: left at the tip of my penis. i really dont know what it is and kind of scared about it. another ...
A: You did not say if this liquid on the tip of your penis is there all the time...it could be pre-cum ...
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| i don't know what to do | 3/30/2008 |
Q: Hey!! Let me start from the beginning: I'm 20 yrs old, and me and my girl have been together for ...
A: It sounds like it is due to the stress with the new job. Learn to relax and enjoy your special time ...
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| How can I help my boyfriend last longer? | 3/27/2008 |
Q: How can I help my boyfriend last longer in bed? I know he's capable of it--we used to be able to ...
A: it does sound as if he is being insensitive to your needs. Sure, it is a delicate subject but you ...
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| Squirting | 3/26/2008 |
Q: I am in a new relationship now after being with the same guy for 25 years I am squirting but its ...
A: The big thing to remember is that you cannot urinate when you are orgasmic..neither can men. There ...
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| sex issue | 3/25/2008 |
Q: hey i have a huge problem. everytime me and my boyfriend have sex, i cant make him cum. i tried oral ...
A: You do not say how much sexual experience you and your partner have. It is important for you to ...
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| Cant Stay Up ! plz help.. | 3/22/2008 |
Q: Well this is a touchy subject ive been asking myself for quite sometime now approx. 9 Months !.. ...
A: You have provided your own answer: Performance Anxiety and Smoking. For both, I would suggest that ...
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| cant get hard | 3/21/2008 |
Q: hey so i have a problem i was with this girl for four years and we had great sex all the time. I ...
A: The fact that there are times when you can easily get (and stay hard) is a good sign. It is very ...
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| pete i love u..............query about masturbation..plz help me out... | 3/19/2008 |
Q: ....i am om from india 15 yrs. old.first of all i will like to say that i love u for solving the ...
A: None of the issues that you raised are due to masturbation: see a doctor if the acne/pimples are a ...
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| Problem with erection after intense workout. | 3/18/2008 |
Q: i am a 19 year old male who is very active in the weight room and love heavy weight lifting and ...
A: It could be that you are just too tired and a rest is all you need. After all, what really counts ...
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| Problems | 3/17/2008 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 months. We have recently had sex and I'm having some ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Penis Problems | 3/16/2008 |
Q: my name is Edward. I am 20 years old and have a serious girlfriend, the only one I've ever been ...
A: The fact that you can have an erection is a good sign; it means the issues you have with the quality ...
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| Sex Anxiety | 3/15/2008 |
Q: I am 21 years old. I have been in a serious long-term relationship for the past 3 years. My ...
A: Having sex for the first time is a big deal; it is the most intimate thing you can do with another ...
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| Sex related issues marrying a short girl | 3/12/2008 |
Q: just wanted to know the sex related issues I'll face if I'm marrying a short girl. I'm 6.0ft and ...
A: In truth, only time will tell if there is an issue sexually with the height difference. A stand by ...
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| Please help! | 3/11/2008 |
Q: I'm 21 and I have never cum or had an orgasm?? What is wrong with me?? I feel like a freak! Please ...
A: It is more likely that you stop yourself from experiencing an orgasm because you fear that you may ...
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| Girlfriend's orgasm | 3/11/2008 |
Q: my name is Jason and am 22 years old. I recently started dating a girl and she explained to me that ...
A: You are spot on: FE can feel like the urge to urinate and thus many women stop themselves from ...
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| Can't use a condom | 3/4/2008 |
Q: I have been happily dating a guy for about 4 months. We have been taking the intimacy slow and ...
A: You need to sit your guy down and explain to him that you care for him and that you need him to wear ...
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| Erection Problems | 3/4/2008 |
Q: Im a 24 males and Ive always noticed i couldnt get a full erection, or at least for no more than a ...
A: Kegel's exercises will help tone up your PC muscles and that will help you get stronger erections ...
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| climax times | 3/2/2008 |
Q: I'm a 18 yr old male and i have a problem with cumming too fast vs begin able to cum when i want. ...
A: The idea of extended foreplay was to support your lovemaking while you learn to extend your duration ...
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| climax times | 3/2/2008 |
Q: I'm a 18 yr old male and i have a problem with cumming too fast vs begin able to cum when i want. ...
A: I would suggest that you build up your awareness of the point of no return when you masturbate. It ...
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| Cannot ejaculate using condoms | 3/1/2008 |
Q: Good day Pete, I hope your doing ok. I've had this problem with the sensibility of my penis since I ...
A: My two pieces of advice are as follows. Firstly use thinner condoms and practice masturbating with ...
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| fiance wont have sex with me anymore but jacks off to porn when im not home | 3/1/2008 |
Q: we have been together for 1 1/2 years and have been engaged for 4 months our sex life to begin with ...
A: All you can do is sit him down and let him know how you feel about the status quo. Rememebr that ...
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| i cant have sex for a longer time | 3/1/2008 |
Q: i cant have sex with my girlfriend for a longer time. i ejaculate within 10-15 minutes and i must ...
A: 1. 10-15 minutes is considered "normal" duration of sex. To extend this time you need to work ofn ...
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| Premature Ejaculation | 2/28/2008 |
Q: I have always had a problem with this. I am trying to do more research to find out if there is over ...
A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Sex | 2/27/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been going out a year and four months and this is both our first ...
A: The fact that you can get hard indicates that there is nothing physically wrong with you...this is ...
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| using tobacco while masturburating | 2/26/2008 |
Q: sir,i masturburate about 5 times a day.i use tobacco when am masturburating,i think its the tobacco ...
A: Tabacco is never a good idea it is bad for your health. Masturbating 5 times a day is probably a ...
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| Long time no nothing.... | 2/25/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 and a half years now. We are in a cross-racial ...
A: I don't think that there is a special way of doing it. Just choose a time and place where you will ...
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| Getting/Maintaining erection | 2/24/2008 |
Q: Reading some of your replies I'm slightly relieved that it is a more common problem than I thought ...
A: You are quite right, many of the questions I receive every day come from people dealing with ...
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| Long time no nothing.... | 2/23/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 and a half years now. We are in a cross-racial ...
A: If she is ok on the receiving end, but doesn't feel comfortable giving you some sort of physical ...
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| Erection problemms | 2/23/2008 |
Q: well i have had sex twice in one day, but when it was time for round three i couldnt stay ...
A: You need to give me more info to work with: how old are you how common is this issue for you (any ...
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| My ex boyfriend ruined my sex life | 2/23/2008 |
Q: my ex boyfriend was amazing in bed he had a huge penis 14 1/2 inches long and 10 inches thick!! I`m ...
A: it sounds that your ex-boyfriend was rather amazing for you in the way that he could make love with ...
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| girlfriend won't have sex? | 2/23/2008 |
Q: ive been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year, and as an important note, we're both 16 ...
A: It sounds like you have to sit down with your girlfriend and talk things through, calmly and ...
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| Long time no nothing.... | 2/22/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 and a half years now. We are in a cross-racial ...
A: You must respect your girlfriend's wishes. Just make sure that she understands your wishes too. ...
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| Heavy women having sex with skinny men | 2/22/2008 |
Q: my name is lacrymosa, i am 20 years old and i am married to my husband for 2 years now. I am about ...
A: You could try doggy-style this would give your husband extra depth to his penetration. Just make ...
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| Sexual Stamina | 2/21/2008 |
Q: Pete, I am 18 years old and supposed to be entering the sexual prime of my life. But i have one ...
A: It sounds like you need to slow down your stimulation of the penis and learn how to detect how close ...
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| not getting hard | 2/21/2008 |
Q: Ok, I been with my girlfriend now for a while and we havn't had sex. Im still a virgin and so is she ...
A: It sounds like you have had a bout of performance anxiey. All you need to do is take things nice ...
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| hey | 2/20/2008 |
Q: sorry can you please send me response to www.CharityWhite53@aol.com.SORRY!
A: To ensure confidentiality I only communicate with people via this website. I am unable to email ...
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| uanble to cum | 2/13/2008 |
Q: I'm 33 and its taking me longer to cum after having a few drinks. can you tell me if too much ...
A: Yes alcohol can affect sexual performance since it is a depressive. See how you go alcohol free and ...
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| frequent sex | 2/12/2008 |
Q: My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months, we only get to see each other about 3 ...
A: There are a couple of posibilities: one is that that feeling you experience from long periods of ...
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| Im a virgin | 2/11/2008 |
Q: well i am a virgin but my boyfriend is not. he wants to have sex and i feel that i am ready but i am ...
A: Let's take this slowly... Firstly you should only think about having sex with your boyfriend is you ...
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| no pleasure.. | 2/11/2008 |
Q: .does it usually hurt for a guy if he had had his first sex? I had mine,only once..and it hurt quite ...
A: Firstly sex should never hurt...could be because you and your partner didn't use enough lube. ...
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| Condoms!!! | 2/11/2008 |
Q: Ok Sence the other person didnt answer my question.... How do you find out what size ndom you ...
A: Basically, the way to work out what size is best for a guy is to select the correct size. Most ...
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| my girlfriend | 2/8/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend was raped when she was little and i am scared that when we have sex she will get ...
A: You need to be aware that your girlfriend went through a horrific experience and that it was totally ...
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| Condoms!!!! | 2/8/2008 |
Q: Ooooook, this summer im going to go see my boyfriend in MN, we havebeen daten over a year!.. He has ...
A: The hassles people have with condoms usually fall into these scenarios. 1. They have used the wrong ...
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| sex | 2/7/2008 |
Q: I am 18 and i have been having sex with my boyfriend for only a little while, but it seems that ...
A: Your boyfriend could be suffering from Performance Anxiety or something more complicated. If all of ...
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| Cant keep a hardon. | 2/7/2008 |
Q: Hey Pete i am 18 and have only had a few girl friends. i have been in a relationship now for almost ...
A: Firstly it is important to work out if the weak erections only happen when you are having sex or all ...
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| Please help me out! | 2/6/2008 |
Q: I am a 28 yr old unmarried girl.I had sex with my boyfriend about 10-11 times but never ever felt ...
A: It sounds like you need to use some water based lubrication to help with the dryness of your vagina. ...
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| Wetness | 2/6/2008 |
Q: during sex I get really dry. Even using a lube I still dry up. I have never experienced an organism ...
A: It sounds like you would really benefit from some counselling to help you relax more and enjoy ...
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| women and squirting. | 2/5/2008 |
Q: I have been doing alot of research on the subjectof a woman squirting when she has an orgasm. My ...
A: The short answer is yes, she can squart if she receives the right stimulation and is aware of what ...
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| masturbation problem | 2/5/2008 |
Q: i have a small question on my mind about my masturbation methods and problems i have with getting ...
A: Everyone's libido is different and the sexual urge can be very strong. However, it is important to ...
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| side effects of mastubation @ cure | 2/2/2008 |
Q: i have heard masturbating for 2-3 years have effects on eyes and i am feeling that it is right... ...
A: Masturbation cannot affect your eyes or your health in oher negative ways...these are old wives' ...
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| Penis Not getting hard | 2/1/2008 |
Q: I would like to explain you my problem in very simple language. I am married guy and having a sex ...
A: It sounds like you would benefit from some counselling to sort out what is going on with your ...
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| sex with my wife | 2/1/2008 |
Q: i have a fantasies of being with my wife and another couple having sex all together i already spoke ...
A: A wise person once said that fantasies are ok as long as they remain just fantasies. As soon as you ...
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| sex once in 2 years together and virtualy no intimacy | 2/1/2008 |
Q: i sometimes try to kiss her on the lips but she has often turned her face slightly away from me. we ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. It sounds to me that this relationship is on some ...
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| please help | 1/31/2008 |
Q: im 16 been in a sexual relationship for a year and a half and my boyfreind has always cumed quick ...
A: The following notes are for your to share with your boyfriend. If he follows these suggestions in a ...
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| Masturbation | 1/30/2008 |
Q: I'm 17 now and I've been masturbating since i was about 14. This is an every day ordeal, it was only ...
A: This link hopefully will help you with regard to sex headaches: ...
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| Erectile dysfunction | 1/29/2008 |
Q: But I m afraid my marriage will fail as I have erection problem. I have been masturbating for many ...
A: It sounds like your body is comfortable with sexual thoughts/feelings when there is distance between ...
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| Performance Anxiety | 1/29/2008 |
Q: However I don't have money nor time for a therapist, even though I'd like to. Is there any ...
A: Many universities have free psychology clinics as part of their psychology training programmes that ...
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| Sex initmacy porblem | 1/28/2008 |
Q: Me and my husband have been married for about 2 years now and i have noticed at the beginning ...
A: You need to talk frankly with your husband about how unhappy you are with the situation. ...
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| Performance Anxiety | 1/28/2008 |
Q: Hey I am curious, what are methods to prevent and stop performance anxiety for sex from happening? I ...
A: Firstly you can do some work with a qualifed counsellor or hypnotherapist and release the trauma ...
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| short sex | 1/28/2008 |
Q: I think that when i have sex it doesnt last long enough, I'd like it to go for as long as possible ...
A: Here is some info that is reccommended for me with premature ejaculation. Use it to extend your ...
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| Burning in the vigina | 1/27/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for about five months and she just started her birth ...
A: I am not a medical doctor and it sounds like your girlfriend needs to see her doctor to work out ...
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| sex without condoms | 1/27/2008 |
Q: Which are the days that i can do sex with my wife without condoms there is no scare of pregnancy?
A: Any time you have sex with your wife without a condom she can become pregnant. Even when she is ...
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| i like masturbating but after i ejaculate i feel guilty | 1/26/2008 |
Q: i like masturbation but after i cum i feel guilty and does masterbation make a person thinner?
A: There is nothing to be guilty about. Masturbation is safe and will not affect your fertility etc. ...
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| Can you help me? | 1/25/2008 |
Q: Im 17 in a seriouse relationship when my boyfreind fingers and rubs my clit i LOVE it but when we ...
A: Many women get a lot of pleasure from the clitoris and indeed some get very little pleasure from the ...
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| time wears down love life | 1/24/2008 |
Q: How do I keep the spice in our relationship? We have been together 3 and half years, the past year ...
A: Communication is so important: without it a relationship can easily run out of life. So many people ...
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| help please | 1/24/2008 |
Q: i have been with my boy friend sence i was 17yrs old and now iam now 36 we have had alot of good ...
A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Orgasms, Fingering, ETC | 1/24/2008 |
Q: Well, I am only 15 years old and am still a virgin. I have a few issues I am having with my current ...
A: Firstly, everyone's orgasm is different...and indeed each orgasm can be different too... As for the ...
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| Sex problems military man in the gulf | 1/22/2008 |
Q: i have a huge problem, you have not heard that before have you? i love sex. i have my fiance now ...
A: It sounds like you are playing with fire. You really do need to let your relationship move on from ...
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| plz help............ | 1/22/2008 |
Q: i am 24 and recently married.But when i make sex, my wife is not satisfied.After starting ...
A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| trouble climaxing - handjob/oral | 1/21/2008 |
Q: when my girlfriend gives me a handjob or oral, i cannot reach climax. i enjoy it very much, but i ...
A: Some guys do find oral sex and handjobs less stimulating then they and their partners expect. This ...
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| sex | 1/19/2008 |
Q: I used to have a girl, we could go for what seemed like hours. Along with that, before I could get ...
A: It sounds like you have developed ED (Erectile Dysfunction). There are many factors that can affect ...
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| New boyfriend / barely any sex | 1/19/2008 |
Q: I'm a 20-year-old woman and I just entered a relationship with a 21-year-old man two months ago. I ...
A: Firstly you do need to understand that Erectile Dysfunction (ED) the new name for Impotence is ...
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| He doesn't want sex | 1/18/2008 |
Q: I am a 28 year old very sexual girl. My boyfriend of 2 years is 29 and does not seem to be up to ...
A: it sounds as if your boyfriend may have some issues with premature ejaculation and therefore wants ...
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| Can't get/stay hard with my gf? | 1/18/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my gf for about 4 or 5 months now and we started doing things quite some ...
A: it sounds like you are dealing with Performance Anxiety which is not a physical issue. I say this ...
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| Cannot get erections at age 16 | 1/16/2008 |
Q: I am 16 years old and I have a question. I realize that this is and adult forum but I have a ...
A: It does sound as if there are some justifications for your concerns: most 16 year olds have lots of ...
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| not sure what it is | 1/16/2008 |
Q: I'm writing this on behalf of my boyfriend; he happens to be a bit embarrassed. On nights when we ...
A: it sounds like some sort of premature ejaculation. If it really is bothering your boyfriend, he ...
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| Fellatio | 1/15/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life but I don't always want to go down on him-more than ...
A: It sounds reasonable from what you have told me that at times you don't want to perform fellatio on ...
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| Female Sex Problem | 1/15/2008 |
Q: First off, I am fairly sure that my wife has a low libido. My Wife can be aroused to the point where ...
A: All I can suggest is that you continue to give her more foreplay after her first orgasm and try a ...
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| I have sex problem and need help | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I'm 28 Male, I'm married. and I have a problem with sex that I cum in 30 seconds. is there any ...
A: Thanks for sharing with me. it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual ...
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| his first time | 1/13/2008 |
Q: iv been with my boyfriend for a few months now and have decided to have sex. So far we WERE going to ...
A: You need to take your time with your boyfriend. Let him get used to being naked with you. This is ...
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| sex is still hurting | 1/3/2008 |
Q: I've been having sex with my boyfriend for about 4 months now, and sex is still hurting. It was my ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. It sounds like you need a proper medical examination to ...
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| ED | 1/1/2008 |
Q: Question- I'm 33 years old and I'm getting concerned with my body. I've been involved in a chaste ...
A: I don't think you have anything to worry about: erections can be affected by all sorts of things ...
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| how come i cant cum? | 1/1/2008 |
Q: ive been with this girl 5 or 6 times and i cant seem to cum or keep my hard on she always talkes ...
A: It sounds like there are plenty of reasons why you are having issues: unless you sort out what is ...
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| Any medication? | 12/29/2007 |
Q: my husband and i have tried everything...he always climaxes before i can even with foreplay and ...
A: The following is written for your husband: Thanks for sharing with me. it is my understanding that ...
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| crack skin in my foreskin | 12/29/2007 |
Q: cant have sex or masturbate coz my foreskin cracks.pls help
A: You must get medical treatment immediately: the last thing you want is a nasty infection. Depending ...
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| why does it take me so long to cum | 12/28/2007 |
Q: I'm 52, when I was 5 years old, I fell off a swing set and had to get stitches on my sack and my ...
A: It sounds like there could be a psychological link rather than physilogical to your difficulties. I ...
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| Ani-sex drug? | 12/27/2007 |
Q: Well, I'm not too sure if you're the right person to answer my questions, but I've had a hard time ...
A: To my knowledge there is no such thing as a safe "anti-sex pill". Don't even think of searching the ...
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| No intrest in sex... | 12/24/2007 |
Q: .i am Tanu 23yr. my problem is that i don't have much interest in sex....my bf always wants to do ...
A: Having sex for the first time is a big deal; and indeed having sex in general is a big deal: it is ...
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| HELP | 12/23/2007 |
Q: first off i am 19 years old. i just have a really hard time staying up when me and my girlfriend ...
A: There are a number of reasons why you could be having difficulties staying erect: drugs (including ...
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| Sex. | 12/20/2007 |
Q: This is kind of a ridiculous and hard to answer question, but I'd like to have it said to me in any ...
A: Let's take this slowly... Firstly you should only think about having sex with your girlfriend if ...
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| sex problem | 12/18/2007 |
Q: Hi my name is bob I'm 16 and have had sex once almost twice both times before sex I am hard and like ...
A: It sounds like you have had performance anxiety...this is very common when guys have sex for the ...
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| freequency | 12/4/2007 |
Q: i am 40 y.o. married with 2 kids ,, pls.i need 2 know :how much time ,can i ejaculate per week ...
A: There is no set limit on the amount of times that it is safe to ejaculate in a week. each man is ...
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| Sex/pregnancy | 12/3/2007 |
Q: I'm 16 and recently had sex with my girlfriend who is 15 for the first time. it was both of our ...
A: Your girlfriend needs to see a doctor just to make sure asap... Never have sex without a condom and ...
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| boyfriend | 12/3/2007 |
Q: i just wanted to thank you for reading and your time, and I appreciate any information that you ...
A: All you can do is remind your boyfriend that you are there for him if he needs to talk things ...
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| erectil dysfunction? | 12/2/2007 |
Q: Whenever me and my gf start to kiss i have a hard on and ready to go. WHen i take off my pants and ...
A: It sounds like Performance Anxiety. Take your time giving plenty of foreplay to your gf, this will ...
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| Alternatives please | 12/1/2007 |
Q: The foreskin of my genital is too tight and so I am unable to perform penetration properly. The skin ...
A: Yes there are other ways to deal with your issue. I hope this link helps: ...
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| Too big | 12/1/2007 |
Q: My boyfriends penis is gigantic. Hes 6"4 so hes kind of a big guy in general. Sometimes when we have ...
A: It sounds like you need to spend some time talking with your boyfriend about your needs. Perhaps ...
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| cumming | 11/30/2007 |
Q: How do you know if you are cumming
A: The answer is that everyone (males and females) all have different experiences... The basic ...
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| Kegels and Delay Gel/Spray for men? | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I was wondering if you could help me in answering these questions? 1- Do kegels really work? 2- If ...
A: Yes, Kegel's will help you gain extra control. They may take 1-3 months to be most effective and ...
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| semen | 11/28/2007 |
Q: Is there a way to get my partner to release more cum when he ejaculates
A: There are a few ways that you can help your partner release more semen. Firstly make sure he drinks ...
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| He cums to quick! | 11/27/2007 |
Q: Im 18 and my boyfriends 22. We have a good relationship, I live with him and everything. We have sex ...
A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| alone | 11/26/2007 |
Q: My husband has no interest in sex anymore.I was always the one to initiate but lately its worse than ...
A: You need to be forthright with your husband and explain to him that you are not happy with the lack ...
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| erection | 11/25/2007 |
Q: Im 30, I cannot get hard even after forplaying with my gf, i wanted to put my dick in her but cant ...
A: Firstly as a 30 year old you should not have any problems with erections. You need to sort out if ...
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| I get hard but can't finish | 11/23/2007 |
Q: Ok, I'm a 40 year old man that loves sex but as I have gotten older reaching an orgasm has become ...
A: It sounds like you could benefit from a consultation with a sympathetic doctor to run a few tests. ...
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| Penis Size: Not sure | 11/22/2007 |
Q: I am 13 years old, almost 14. My penis is 7 inches when erect. Is this normal? Is it done growing?
A: The so-called "normal" size for an erect penis is around 6" so you are doing fine: there is a chance ...
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| Cannot ejaculate during Sex :( | 11/21/2007 |
Q: I have been pretty sexually frustrated as a youth and had my first sexual relationship with another ...
A: It does sound like you have conditioned yourself to only ejaculate with a firm hand grip. You need ...
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| Orgasm question | 11/19/2007 |
Q: Ok, so I am 19 and have never had an orgasm, either alone or with a partner. Whenever my bf goes ...
A: Those feelings of wanting to pee are indicators of a strong orgasm... A lot of women confuse the ...
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| Low erection angle | 11/18/2007 |
Q: I used to have an erection angle of 90deg when i was of 17. Now i am 21 and my erection angle is ...
A: I do not believe that the angle of your erect penis will affect your ability to have a normal sexual ...
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| bigger penis | 11/17/2007 |
Q: Actually I have a big penis but my girlfriend wants to know if I can make it larger. I am about 8" ...
A: The first thing I would suggest is that you use a variety of positions in your love making. Cow ...
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| male orgasm | 11/15/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for over a year now, and I still seem to have trouble ...
A: You did not say if orgasm was hard for you to achieve when you masturbate. It is possible that you ...
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| Sex time | 11/15/2007 |
Q: I want to intercourse with my partner for 5-10 minute.But more than 1-1.5 minute, is not ...
A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| problems male orgasm | 11/14/2007 |
Q: I'm a Lyra old male, and getting a problem having an orgasm during sex. Now I always have my girl ...
A: There are many reasons why you could be having difficulty an orgasm during sex. You did not mention ...
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| emergency help[ | 11/7/2007 |
Q: and I hope you are able to help me. This morning, my sister told me that she has noticed that her ...
A: The bottom line is if you and your sister are at all fearful of your brother in law you need to ...
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| Erection problem | 11/7/2007 |
Q: I am 23 years old. I have had 3 sexual partners. I have tried 3 times to have intercourse with my ...
A: It sounds like it could be performance anxiety. Talk with your girlfriend about it and take things ...
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| Can't Cum during Sex | 11/7/2007 |
Q: I am a 26 year old guy that as been engaged for 2 years. I have real difficulty cuming during sex, ...
A: Firstly too much porn is never healthy for anyone's sexlife. it is possible that in the past a ...
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| cant keep it hard | 11/5/2007 |
Q: i am 19 and have had sex quite a few times and am very comfortable with having sex. but the last ...
A: It sounds to me that there may be value in you seeing a doctor for a check up. Just remember, too ...
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| Foreplay | 11/3/2007 |
Q: I am 19 years old and I don't like any foreplay with my boyfriend. He tries and wants to touch me ...
A: Firstly let me assure you that you were not responsible for the inappropriate sexual advances of ...
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| My guy cums but I can't | 10/1/2007 |
Q: Lately, me and my boyfriend have been having sex. He is absolutely enormous and I'm not used to it ...
A: A visit to the doctor would not be a bad idea if you are still hurting. If he does have a large ...
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| How to keep my Husband awake after having sex? | 9/29/2007 |
Q: My husband is a great man there is just a few issues I can't get past. We have sex and he finishes ...
A: It sounds like you need to let your husband know of your concerns and start discussing what can be ...
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| i cum 2 quick | 9/29/2007 |
Q: every time my dick gets rubbed or i start putting it into my wifes cunt it feels like its goin 2 cum ...
A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
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| Im Really Worried | 9/27/2007 |
Q: im 15 and i just read up on premature ejaculation. When i masturbate i usually come within 1 minute, ...
A: I'm glad that jackinworld was helpful. Take your time with it: there is heaps of good ideas there ...
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| Im Really Worried | 9/27/2007 |
Q: im 15 and i just read up on premature ejaculation. When i masturbate i usually come within 1 minute, ...
A: it sounds like you need to slow down your masturbation, and learn to become aware of the building ...
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| can't orgasm | 9/26/2007 |
Q: I recently just told my boyfriend of a few months that I've never orgasmed. I've never really ...
A: It is important that you really are open and honest with your boyfriend and reassure him that it is ...
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| premature ejaculation | 9/26/2007 |
Q: I am a male of 26 years, having 74 pounds weight and have a height of 5.7 inches. I got married 5 ...
A: I am sorry that you were not impressed with my reply. The information I provided you has helped ...
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| Erectile dysfunction | 9/25/2007 |
Q: Sir, I am 42 and married for the past 14 years now. I have two kids. I have led a normal sex life ...
A: It sounds like you should seek out a sympathetic doctor and get a proper diagnosis. Treatment can ...
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| his sex drive | 9/25/2007 |
Q: we have sex 6 times a day 3 in the morning and 3 at night, the first three we have sex my way ich is ...
A: To be honest, I have never heard of a guy like your boyfriend! 13 3/4" long and 81/2" thick is very ...
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| my boyfriend | 9/23/2007 |
Q: I have a concern, I`ve been dating this sweet, cute and realy hot guy. I am a virgin and I think ...
A: It sounds that everything is working out well for you and your boyfriend. Good to hear that you are ...
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| my boyfriend | 9/22/2007 |
Q: I have a concern, I`ve been dating this sweet, cute and realy hot guy. I am a virgin and I think ...
A: Having sex for the first time is a big deal. Talk openly with your boyfriend about your concerns. ...
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| sex problems | 9/22/2007 |
Q: my husband is 28years old and he doesnt wanto to have sex. does it means that his has a problem and ...
A: In a word, the answer is "possibly". You need to talk openly and honestly with your husband about ...
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| about sex | 9/22/2007 |
Q: i have a problem while having sex is that while i insert my penis into my girlfriend vagina my sperm ...
A: Firstly, it is my understanding that 0-2 minutes is definable as Premature Ejaculation (PE). This ...
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| Immidiate ejaculation | 9/19/2007 |
Q: Sir, I am 42 year old man from India married for 15 years. Initially I was very efficient during ...
A: Firstly, it is my understanding that 0-2 minutes is definable as Premature Ejaculation (PE). This ...
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| sex issues | 9/17/2007 |
Q: ..I'm almost 19 and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years now. We've been having sex for about ...
A: Sorry for the delay, I have been flat out with work. I am not really sure what would be the best ...
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| penis cut | 9/7/2007 |
Q: We are sorry, but Maggie wasn't able to answer yourI am a virgin that started masturbating, I did it ...
A: I found your question in the question pool. My advice is see a sympathetic doctor and get yourself ...
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| I dont ejaculate while having sex | 8/29/2007 |
Q: I cant seem to ejaculate while having sex. Unlike others, I dont get limp so I can continue for ...
A: It sounds like you could benefit from some work with a sympathetic sex therapist since it appears ...
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| ED | 8/21/2007 |
Q: I am 21 year old college student and have been unable to have sucessful sex for the past 7 months. I ...
A: It sounds like you should seriously consider seeing a sympathetic sex therapist and work through ...
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| No ejaculation during sex | 8/14/2007 |
Q: I am 25 and have had a series of problems with my first experiences with sex. Firstly I have had ...
A: It is important to remember that sex feels very different from the way that most guys are used to ...
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| sex problems | 8/14/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a year and together for three. We are both in our early ...
A: I do not have a medical background so I cannot comment ethically on the medications that you ...
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| help | 8/13/2007 |
Q: when ever i go to sleep some times my penies ejects some sperms which result in my weakness how can ...
A: You are describing nocturnal emissions, more commonly known as wet dreams. They are the involuntary ...
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| virgin | 8/13/2007 |
Q: is it true that after 6 month of no sex a women becomes a virgin again?
A: In a nut shell a virgin is one who has not had sex. The traditional meaning of sex is penis in ...
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| he would rather masterbate than have sex | 8/12/2007 |
Q: i am getting married in 4 weeks and i'm worried, the probelm is my husband to be just dose not want ...
A: I think that this is worthy of your full attention as it could equal not having a wedding right at ...
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| ses problem | 8/10/2007 |
Q: hi i am Avishake 24 years old guy i am having sex problem some time ago i was good performer in ...
A: Ho Avishake Thanks for sharing with me. It sounds like you need to speak with a sympathetic doctor ...
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| Getting over divorce and starting new relationship. | 8/9/2007 |
Q: I am in the process of divorce because my wife, whom I really loved, and probably still do, said she ...
A: It is possible that you have not fully dealt with the emotional baggage from your ex-wife's ...
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| male sexuality of my husband | 8/9/2007 |
Q: i am married 6 month before,till today my husband not shows any interest in me. he had not even ...
A: The bottom liner is this: are you prepared to wait another year from him to possibly discuss the ...
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| previous ? on Masturbating | 8/9/2007 |
Q: i masturbate 2-3 times a day.....I guess what i want to know is if's nt harmful? i mean after all ...
A: masturbation is not harmful if you have a health attitude to sexuality. If your husband does not ...
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| Masturbating | 8/8/2007 |
Q: Is it normal for me to masturbate 2-3 times a day even after i have had sex with my husband?...is it ...
A: It is important to remember that everyone is different, so there are no hard and fast rules about ...
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| cumin to quickly. | 8/7/2007 |
Q: I WOULD JUST LIKE TO ASK YOU ONE QUESTION THAT EVERY TIME I M LICKING A GIRLS PUSSY, WEN I REALLY GO ...
A: For general advice about PE I will give you some notes and if you give them ago you should have ...
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| It's my first time:( | 8/7/2007 |
Q: This is my first time on a site like this ever and I was actucally seacrching for an answer to my ...
A: I guess the best thing to do is to start off with lots of normal foreplay, aim to have at least one ...
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| Male Ejaculation... | 8/6/2007 |
Q: so, I've never asked a question like this on a forum before, but luckily, it's not about me. :) So, ...
A: it sounds as if Prozac is a likely suspect...your boyfriend should talk with his doctor about his ...
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| ejaculation problems | 8/5/2007 |
Q: I used to have no problem with ejaculation during sex but i went 5 months without and then started ...
A: being out of a relationship (especially if not by choice) can affect your confidence in your sexual ...
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| First time worries | 8/5/2007 |
Q: I'm almost 17 and I've been with my boyfriend nearly a year now, and we've talked seriously about ...
A: Having sex for the first time is a big deal. Talk openly with your boyfriend about your concerns ...
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| ejaculation problems | 8/4/2007 |
Q: I used to have no problem with ejaculation during sex but i went 5 months without and then started ...
A: Is there any any particular reason why you had a 5 month period without sex? Did it have to do with ...
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| Erection Problem | 8/4/2007 |
Q: .I'm 18 yrs old guy, never had sex before. Me and my girlfreind had plaaned to have sex few days ...
A: I guess the most important thing is to be honest with yourself about how you are feeling. Having ...
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| help | 8/4/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have had oral and done mutual masterbation but he can never cum when I am doing ...
A: From what you have said it sounds as if your boyfriend has some issues to do with nerves which is ...
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| sex | 8/4/2007 |
Q: please how can i get to make my girl to have sex with me often.
A: The secret to any healthy relationship is open communication. The bottom line is that you cannot ...
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| girlfriend | 8/3/2007 |
Q: my girlfriend and i have been together for about 8 months, but my girlfriend refuses to do anything ...
A: Be proud of yourself. Some guys wouldn't have been as sensitive and just bullied themselves onto ...
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| Sexual tension | 8/3/2007 |
Q: Ok, I have a question that... is rather embarrassing. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a ...
A: You should aim to have at least 1 orgasm via foreplay before having sex...not your partner....it's ...
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| Sexual tension | 8/1/2007 |
Q: Ok, I have a question that... is rather embarrassing. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a ...
A: Antidepressants (all of them) can seriously affect sex drive and performance. Period. So he ...
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| premature ejaculation | 8/1/2007 |
Q: i am an 19 year old man and have been having sex for three years now with a variety of women. it ...
A: Many men find it harder to last inside the vagina because they have less ability to control the ...
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| fantasies that are not normal | 7/31/2007 |
Q: I have been happily married for almost 7 years. In the last 2 years or so I have begun to fantasize ...
A: As a rule, fantasies should remain as fantasies. I cannot speculate why you have created these ...
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| girlfriend | 7/31/2007 |
Q: my girlfriend and i have been together for about 8 months, but my girlfriend refuses to do anything ...
A: Deciding to have sex for the first time (or any time with a new partner) is a big deal. Sharing ...
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| erection problem | 7/31/2007 |
Q: im 30 and having premature ejaculation without even getting hard . I had sex few time in the past ...
A: The PC muscle is located in men between the scrotum and the anus. This very sensitive area is ...
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| no sex in 1 year | 7/31/2007 |
Q: Pete.We haven't had sex with my husband for a year now,since our child was born( she is 16 months ...
A: It sounds like the arrival of your little girl has made radical changes to your life in general; not ...
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| No sex in 2 years | 7/31/2007 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend now for 6 years. Our sex life was fairly normal in the beginning, but ...
A: it sounds as if you have to be firm with yourself and your girlfriend and get some sex therapy ...
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| precoz ejaculation | 7/30/2007 |
Q: my husband has problems controlling his ejaculation, What can be done, is there medicine he can ...
A: This is my standard response to inquiries regarding Premature Ejaculation (PE) and it is written as ...
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| scared | 7/29/2007 |
Q: Hi i have a problem in need a answer to so me and my boy friend want to have sex (were both virgins) ...
A: You owe it yourself and your boyfriend to be honest about your past. You are the survivor of a ...
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| Nervousness | 7/29/2007 |
Q: I am 44 yr. old male coming out of a 21 yr. marriage. I can obtain an erection during make out ...
A: Obviously it has been a major ordeal for you the break up of the marriage. Everyone copes in ...
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| erection | 7/29/2007 |
Q: i am an 18 year guy, i have been havin sex with my girlfriend who'm is the hottest girl ever, i have ...
A: We need to remember that the primary function of sexual activity is for the continuation of the ...
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| No Cum | 7/28/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been having sex for 2 months now and he has only cum 3 times we have sex ...
A: It is possible that your boyfriend can ejaculate only 3 out 7 times a week when you have sex, ...
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| Premature Ejaculation | 7/27/2007 |
Q: Could Lignocaine Hcl jelly ressolve the problem of premature ejaculation?
A: Itis my understanding that 0-2 minutes is definable as Premature Ejaculation (PE). This means ...
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| sex | 7/27/2007 |
Q: sir, i have prematured ejaculation problem. how to compensate that in sex? what is pelvic exercise? ...
A: Firstly, it is my understanding that 0-2 minutes is definable as Premature Ejaculation (PE). This ...
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| Male cum issue | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I have a question, i'm unsure if it's normal or a problem. When my girlfriend and I have sex and I ...
A: I am not a doctor, so I will recommend that you follow up your question with one of the urologists ...
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| curve pennis | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I've been masterbating since 1 was nearly 13.2 years ago i used to masterbate daily.Now iam 20 and i ...
A: I found your question in the Question Pool. If you are not having any problems with your penis, ...
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| My first time, and I had trouble getting hard/erect.. | 7/26/2007 |
Q: Alright, so before I get into anything, I am a 15 year old male, I am in very good shape, I am over ...
A: Firstly let me assure you that your penis size is absolutely fine: 7.5 inches is larger than the ...
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| i cum too quick | 7/26/2007 |
Q: i will get straight to the point. when ever i have sex with my G/friend i cum within 5-10mins and i ...
A: Firstly, it is my understanding that 0-2 minutes is definable as Premature Ejaculation (PE). ...
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| kegels exercise | 7/25/2007 |
Q: I could not find the right category. Hopefully you can answer my question. I have read in men ...
A: The best way to make sure that you are using the right muscle is to follow the tips re stopping and ...
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| boyfriend | 7/24/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend is 19, the longest he can last while having sex or oral is about 2 minutes.. he ...
A: There are many possible reasons why your boyfriend cannot last long during oral or penetrative sex. ...
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| Is sperm nocive for eyes?? | 7/24/2007 |
Q: my name is Bob Doyle-St-Joseph and I'm 14 years old. Last night, as my 19 year old sister was ...
A: Firstly I have to confess that I have some concerns about you allowing your 19 year old sister to ...
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| kegels exercise | 7/24/2007 |
Q: I could not find the right category. Hopefully you can answer my question. I have read in men ...
A: Firstly, thanks for the positive feedback. To be honest, everyone is different, so I would suggest ...
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| Please help | 7/23/2007 |
Q: I am a 30 yr old female- and I have had problems in the past with penetration. I have read alot on ...
A: I think that it is very reasonable that you should get yourself an appointment with a doctor - ...
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| Is masterbation harmful | 7/23/2007 |
Q: 1]what r the effect,ill-effect of masterbation? 2]does daily masterbation affect my sperm counting? ...
A: It sounds like your body prefers it when you don't masturbate as much. Perhaps if you listen to ...
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| kegels exercise | 7/23/2007 |
Q: I could not find the right category. Hopefully you can answer my question. I have read in men ...
A: While Dr Kegel created these exercises for female patients with incontinence; they are very helpful ...
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| Is masterbation harmful | 7/22/2007 |
Q: 1]what r the effect,ill-effect of masterbation? 2]does daily masterbation affect my sperm counting? ...
A: Semen is definitely not made of blood! That is an old wives' tale. See this link for more ...
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| Male Libido | 7/22/2007 |
Q: I am a 31-year old professional working 55 hours per week. I am good-looking, take great care of ...
A: I understand from your e-mail that there is a lot going on at the moment in your life that you are ...
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| prob with sexual | 7/22/2007 |
Q: Can depression or stress affect your horomones
A: The short answer to your question is absolutely! When people feel depressed or stressed for any ...
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| My Girlfriend can't tell if she orgasms | 7/21/2007 |
Q: Well, you see, me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now and we've been having ...
A: Some people are not sure if the good feelings they have during sex actually equal an orgasm. The ...
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| Ejaculation to fast!!! | 7/21/2007 |
Q: I was searching the web and came upon this site. Recently I started having sex with my fiance. ...
A: I found this question in the "Question Pool". Firstly, it is my understanding that 0-2 minutes is ...
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| sex | 7/19/2007 |
Q: We have been together for 6 years. Never had a problem with our sexual realationship until now. ...
A: You don't say in your e-mail how old is your fiance. There are many reasons why men can suddenly ...
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| sex problem | 7/18/2007 |
Q: i wrote a bit earlier regarding a problem im having however i was not specific, i said i wasnt ...
A: Firstly let me assure you that you are not alone. It sounds as if you are dealing with MOD (Male ...
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| how can i make my girl squirt ?? | 7/15/2007 |
Q: im a 19yr old male from Orlando, FL and i have been dating my girl for about 6 months now, every ...
A: Not all women are able to have such intense emotional responses...lots of reason for this, mainly ...
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