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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| No desire for sex | 4/10/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I'm a little nervous asking, but here goes. I am 24 and my wife is 20. We have 2 wonderful boys ... A: Have you tried sitting down with your wife and discussing your concerns? I know that you mentioned ... | ||
| Sex problems | 4/7/2007 | Dale |
| Q: My girlfriend recently broke up with me. The truth is I am bad in bed. I got no confidence because I ... A: Work with what you have. It's not how much you have, it's how you use it. Not only does size ... | ||
| Can't Orgasm | 4/6/2007 | Azure |
| Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for over two years weve been having sex for about a year and i have never ... A: sure, but it's not uncommon..stop masturbating for awhile, see if that helps; female orgasm is more ... | ||
| No sex with my girlfriend | 4/6/2007 | Dale |
| Q: We had a great beginning with sex and stuff and things just felt right. But after the 6 month of ... A: I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Sadly, I would not recommend getting back together with ... | ||
| Ejaculating | 4/4/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I am 17 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 and 1/2 years, and we ... A: ! There is no such thing as a girl that can't have an orgasm. And orgasms and ejaculation are ... | ||
| Erection's... | 4/3/2007 | Azure |
| Q: There's been two occasions where I was making out with guys and they couldn't get hard. One guy ... A: no--it's essentially being with guys who aren't ready for sex suffering from "performance anxiety" ... | ||
| Girlfriend doesnt want to have sex like we use to. | 4/2/2007 | Azure |
| Q: My girlfriend and I use to have sex every other day and it was great. I went through a spell where I ... A: you need to INFORM her that the current situation is no longer acceptable, and needs her attention ... | ||
| Not able to get hard | 4/2/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I have tried to have sex with my girlfriend the past two times but have been unable to get hard. I ... A: you've gotten too used to fingers, yours AND hers--stop both--give her more foreplay, clitoral ... | ||
| Trouble with Orgasm and more... | 3/31/2007 | Azure |
| Q: Well, I don't really know where to start. I'm a woman and used to have a very big sexual desire. I ... A: how often do you now have sex?..do you get him off in some way each time?..do you come every ... | ||
| orgaziams | 3/30/2007 | Azure |
| Q: ..me and my boyfriend have been together about a year and although i can get him to "cum" while ... A: masturbating with a vibrator should be anything but boring, plus it will provide experience in ... | ||
| attraction problem | 3/29/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I am a 23 year old male, I have been very sexually active for the past 6 years, but never had a ... A: it's not hard to understand--the girls that put out are less particular, you're a young male, thus ... | ||
| Newlywed | 3/25/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I hope you can help me. I am a 24 y/o married woman who has two children. My husband is 29. I ... A: you haven't gotten his full attention: time to INFORM him that the current situation is ... | ||
| No Sex in Marriage | 3/23/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I have a problem which am sure is one of the rarest you would have come across till now. I have been ... A: Don't think that I am being insensitive when I say this because that is not my intention. You are ... | ||
| She can't cum... | 3/21/2007 | Azure |
| Q: my girlfriend and i are together for the last 8 months , but i can't make her cum. she had never cum ... A: it's not that uncommon; unlike a guy, female orgasm is more an EMOTIONAL event than just a physical ... | ||
| Problem With Ejaculation | 3/19/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I'm 22, and lost my virginity at a late age(21) and i have 2 minor problems. 1. girls can't ... A: This is the reason why you can seldom ejaculate from oral sex or intercourse. You are used to the ... | ||
| Can u Help me?! | 3/19/2007 | Dale |
| Q: Well, overall, my sex life is good, and my girlfriend even says that im the best she's ever had. ... A: No bud, you're not having or developing a problem. Not every guy can perform perfectly all the ... | ||
| please help me | 3/17/2007 | Dale |
| Q: my girlfriend just doesnt want to have sex so i get mad which makes her mad we havent had sex in ... A: Deal with it. You getting mad isn't helping her to want to have sex with you. There is a reason ... | ||
| Sexless Marriage | 3/16/2007 | Azure |
| Q: OK that was pretty harsh and stings. But how do I know I am not the problem? I ask her often for ... A: you know for sure when you tell her she either cooperates in finding a solution, or your finished, ... | ||
| Lack of intamcy | 3/15/2007 | Azure |
| Q: Help!!! My fiancee loves to watch me with other men. He loves watching me have intercourse and ... A: unfortunately his fetish, fueled by your support, as lead to an unhealthy addiction with negative ... | ||
| Sexless Marriage | 3/15/2007 | Azure |
| Q: OK that was pretty harsh and stings. But how do I know I am not the problem? I ask her often for ... A: i'm not here as a best friend--sometimes reality is "harsh"; i gave my objective opinion, based upon ... | ||
| Sexless Marriage | 3/14/2007 | Azure |
| Q: What do I do about my marriage. We have sex maybe once/mo. at best and usually less often than ... A: if you've ALREADY tried endlessly to get her to cooperate in finding solutions, and every time she's ... | ||
| Joy of sex | 3/13/2007 | Dale |
| Q: Before my wife and I married I brought her into the swinging lifestyle. She came around to enjoy it ... A: The best thing you can do for your wife and your marriage is to respect her decision and don't try ... | ||
| worries | 3/12/2007 | Dale |
| Q: i have recently had anal sex with my boyfriend 3 days after i got off of my period he happened to ... A: No dear, you have very little to worry. The risk of getting pregnant 3 days after your period are ... | ||
| dont want to ejaculate | 3/12/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I'm a 20 year old female. I've only had sex a handful of times and that was a couple of years ago ... A: ! I know that you are feeling embarrassed by your ability to ejaculate (squirt), but you really ... | ||
| scared to orgasm | 3/10/2007 | Maggie |
| Q: ok, I am 31 years old and have never had an orgasm. Until recently, I had never even gotten close. ... A: You've got a tricky question here. Have you had any bad experiences with sex in your life in the ... | ||
| the pee feeling | 3/7/2007 | Maggie |
| Q: during sex felt a huge pee feeling i could not control it what should i do? A: A lot of women experience the same pee feeling you described which isn't an real one. For some women ... | ||
| how to handle my first time | 3/7/2007 | Maggie |
| Q: Hey,im crishna and me and my gf are virgins and we`re 15 we decided to av sex on her birthday.my ... A: First, no, your penis seems well around average and even though it would have been smaller than ... | ||
| cant stay up | 3/7/2007 | Dale |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend are having trouble. He is not staying up and he cant get all the way up. He ... A: Don't worry, dear. You're not doing anything wrong. Your boyfriend is just suffering from some ... | ||
| what is it | 3/5/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I have a girl that has 2 kids. She claims she has allready did her life due to this.. that she ... A: You may have asked the wrong person what they think. But since you asked, I'll tell you. I think ... | ||
| the sizzle passion and spark are dying | 3/1/2007 | Azure |
| Q: My husband has lost interest in our sex life we will be married 3 years this September before we ... A: only 2 choices; 1. you inform him that the current situation is no longer acceptable, and that in ... | ||
| Cant explode | 3/1/2007 | Dale |
| Q: i`m haveing probs coming whilst having sex with my girl,see is starting to think thats it her , she ... A: There is an easy fix for this: If you want to have sex with your girlfriend and enjoy it, stop ... | ||
| sex with multiple people | 2/25/2007 | Dale |
| Q: in 3 months ive had sex with the same person around about everyday, and the vagina has been tight ... A: You're being paranoid, dude. Relax. Just because she is a little loose one day doesn't mean ... | ||
| No pre ejaculate or pre cum | 2/22/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I know you are not a urologist but I have a question for you anyway since you answer questions on a ... A: I'm afraid I can't really help very much on this subject. I can tell you that the "norm" is to ... | ||
| penetration promlems | 2/19/2007 | Dale |
| Q: i have really long relationship with my girlfriend. 5 months ago when going to bed we find us very ... A: It appears you are suffering from performance anxiety. The more you worry about this, the more it ... | ||
| first time | 2/15/2007 | Dale |
| Q: it was my first time with my girlfriend and I couldn't get my penis in her. What do I need to do to ... A: Well, if your girlfriend was a virgin, she could have been very tight which could make it difficult ... | ||
| how can i sqirt | 2/14/2007 | Dale |
| Q: ive been tryna sqirt for a while now but i cant seem to get itas much as i try A: I could go into detail on how to achieve this but it would take me about an hour of writing. The ... | ||
| sex with wife very boring | 2/13/2007 | Dale |
| Q: After marriage & kids my wife isnt intrested at all i sex and if she is ,she wants it over in 5 ... A: The first thing that you have to do (if you haven't done so already) is to sit down with her and ... | ||
| penetration | 2/12/2007 | Dale |
| Q: I am 19 yrs old and I have problems getting an erection everytime me and my girlfriend are going to ... A: I'm sure that everything is fine. It may not seem so to you at the time, but I highly doubt that ... | ||
| Girlfriend Stinging/Burning After Sex | 2/8/2007 | Gemma |
| Q: My girlfriend has a fairly bad burning sensation in her vagina after we have sex when I've ... A: Tell your Girlfriend to go to the doctor with the symptoms because it could just be a water ... | ||
| no sex | 2/8/2007 | Dale |
| Q: i will cut a long story short. hubby and i had sex 1 september 2004 we made our baby girl.we didnt ... A: Your problem is much more common than you may think. But in most cases one person has interest and ... | ||
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