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SubjectDate AskedExpert
sexual intercourse5/28/2007Maggie
  Q: I am 24yrs old and my husband is 30yrs. We're finding sex v.difficult, My vagina is not opening for ...
  A: Are you ready for sex and do you really want to do it ? Also, do you both do lots of foreplay before ...
sex in my relationship5/27/2007Azure
  Q: Me and my boyfriend are both in our late twenties. We've been together for almost a year. Sex is the ...
  A: if that's the case, he must have ALOT about you that bothers him; i assume you have ALREADY tried ...
sex in my relationship5/25/2007Azure
  Q: Me and my boyfriend are both in our late twenties. We've been together for almost a year. Sex is the ...
  A: after almost a year, it's amazing you've put up with this; only HE may possibly know the reasons, or ...
I'm worried about my boyfriend! Help!5/25/2007Maggie
  Q: My boyfriend Is 20 years old and lately he can't get hard. He says he's been trying and trying, ...
  A: That is something a lot of guy experience. So it's not new at all. Is that something your boyfriend ...
Painful sex5/24/2007Dale
  Q: Ok, I have had this problem for three years and I dont know what to do about it. I guess that I just ...
  A: We currently do not have a OB/GYN here at AllExperts. However, there is a female physician in the ...
Shy5/22/2007Dale
  Q: I am 17 and i am going out with a 18 year old guy. sometimes i feel the need to have sexual ...
  A: There is no easy way to put this dear. Just get over it. Once you do it the first time, you will ...
My byfriend wont have sex with me5/21/2007Azure
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. We have NEVER had a. "active" sex life. ...
  A: time to be more assertive; he's obviously too sure of you, too complacent, and see's no need to ...
Killing me :(5/20/2007Maggie
  Q: I have this problem that i come so fast(some times in 3min) I want to have a longer sex,please help ...
  A: There are a lot of reasons why you might come quickly and you know, this does not necessarily ...
orgasm and masterbation5/19/2007Maggie
  Q: I have no idea when i'm having and orgasm or if i have ever had one. I tried to masterbate to make ...
  A: If you ever had orgasms, you'd really know it. You get a special feeling (like heads in the cloud) ...
worries5/19/2007Dale
  Q: throughout the past week or so after i got off of my period, my boyfriend inserted his penis into ...
  A: Sweetie, there is always a "chance". You really don't want to play Russian roulette with pregnancy. ...
premature ejaculation5/18/2007Dale
  Q: Im at uni and my boyfriend moved down with me last summer. even since last summer we've been having ...
  A: No dear, there is nothing wrong with you. Nothing at all. He has issues and there is really ...
MY boyfriend wont have sex with me5/13/2007Azure
  Q: Me and my boyfriend are dating for about a year. We are both in our early twenties. Since the ...
  A: only one way to find out; INFORM him that the current situation is no longer acceptable, and that ...
Question about my erection.5/9/2007Azure
  Q: To the point. Sex is great with my girlfriend, but I'm having a slight problem. During sex we start ...
  A: after climaxing, most guys are done for at least an hour, some til the next day--you can't expect ...
boss @ work5/3/2007Dale
  Q: well I'm a 32 year old white female living in california,I have been married for 7 years and very ...
  A: I'm afraid that there really isn't an easy answer to your situation. You only have two choices as ...
female watching gay porn5/2/2007Maggie
  Q: I am a 37yo married woman who has recently found myself being really turned by gay porn i am not ...
  A: People really enjoy different things. What you enjoy is totally normal, nothing to worry about. I ...
Girlfriend seems to have lost interest in sex.5/2/2007Azure
  Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for almost four and a half years now. The majority of our ...
  A: "seemingly simple.."??..not sure many would agree with that characterization, including me; without ...
Girlfriend has seemingly lost interest in sex.5/1/2007Dale
  Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for almost four and a half years now. The majority of our ...
  A: I found your question in the "question pool" where unanswered and unwanted questions go. I don't ...
Power and attention5/1/2007Dale
  Q: Kia Ora Dale, My current partner and I have been living together for a little over six months and ...
  A: I know a bit about ADD but I am by no means an expert on the subject. While I would like nothing ...
No orgasm during sex4/28/2007Dale
  Q: How come I never had vaginal orgasms.. only clitoral and it takes my boyfriend long minutes before I ...
  A: I know it sucks, but you are in the majority here. Most women are unable to have vaginal orgasms. ...
Concerning orgams and a lack thereof4/26/2007Azure
  Q: I've pretty much decided that I can't have an orgasm, ever. I don't masturbate because I seriously ...
  A: try it..you need to learn about your own body, what works, what doesn't..once you realize you CAN ...
do you think virgin have to be tight4/24/2007Maggie
  Q: at first time it hard to put in but when i can put it all inside it become loose i have to take my ...
  A: there is no way to tell whether or not a girl is a virgin unless you ask her. And no, all virgin are ...
ED?4/24/2007Dale
  Q: I'm a 20 year old male and I'm not sure if this constitutes as ED or if it is rather normal. But ...
  A: Don't worry, Andy. There is no problem here. What you are experiencing is completely normal. If ...
I Never Had An Orgasm :(4/20/2007Azure
  Q: Azure, I need to ask you something that's been on my mind for a very long time.. me & my boyfriend ...
  A: possible you've gotten too used to the vibrator--hard for a guy to compete with that; you might want ...
Can no longer cum during sex4/20/2007Dale
  Q: I'm a 19 year old female, and have been with my boyfriend (aged 21) for about 6 months and we have ...
  A: ! Well dear, the most common cause for women not to orgasm is stress. If your mind wanders just a ...
Guys View Of Intimacy4/19/2007Dale
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He's 35 and quite esperienced in the fetish world (he ...
  A: No, guys (in general) do not lose "normal" attraction and the need for intimacy with age and ...
Asking4/18/2007John Thai, MD
  Q: Im a bi-sex and then i have a boyfriend when we having sex he wants to sex with me in my anus...does ...
  A: I believe your question is if there is problem after having anal sex. The answer is no. Anal sex ...
cant cum with me anymore4/17/2007John Thai, MD
  Q: Me and my husband has been married for 17 years we hit a dry spot in our for about 3 years now for ...
  A: Ejaculation in men is based on sexual drive. The problem is him... not you. He may feel a lack of ...
I can't cum4/17/2007Azure
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 8 1/2 months and I haven't cum since we've been married. I ...
  A: why would you ever marry under such conditions?; seems that talking to him about it doesn't help; ...
over sexed4/17/2007Azure
  Q: My wife's sex drive seems to be out of control, I can't seem to satisfy her,I do satisfy her giving ...
  A: partially a matter of perception--what other guys DREAM about, you call a problem..i guess you're ...
My husband is unable to penetrate me4/17/2007John Thai, MD
  Q: I have been with my husband for 10 years (dated 10 yrs, recently got married), he's 35, about 5'10" ...
  A: Being on the plus size does cause problems for men, especially in terms of an erection. His plus ...
Extremely worried and need help4/17/2007Azure
  Q: I'm 26 years old and I'm having problems keeping an erection during sex. I'm recently divorced and ...
  A: it's pretty common; the obvious first step, cut way back on the masturbation; i doubt there's ...
not really hard and long time to cum4/16/2007Dale
  Q: i have a very serious problem. Every time when i want to have sex with my girlfriend. Every time ...
  A: First I want to make it perfectly clear that I am not a doctor, Jimmy. *Disclaimer* (I have to say ...
HVP and in LOVE !4/15/2007Azure
  Q: i've been talking (phone only) to a past ...
  A: some of your question as to what's allowable are medical in nature and should be directed to a ...
First Time Sex4/15/2007Azure
  Q: Im 26 and got married 1 month back. I am still a virgin as we are having problems having ...
  A: the erection could be part of it (performance anxiety), but that's a whole other, and complex, ...
He wont stay hard......why?4/14/2007Azure
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and everyonce and a while more than I want it to ...
  A: either he's seeing other women, is masturbating too much, or has erectile dysfunction; i can only ...
masterbation4/13/2007Azure
  Q: Okay, My boyfrined and I are newly engaged. We have a pretty good sex life. I have like an over ...
  A: your feelings are understandable; to me, it seems excessive, plus, guys get too used to their own ...
Not so easy to get off4/13/2007Dale
  Q: I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we have been sexually active for 3 of those months. ...
  A: It seems to me that you are either really nervous or scared when having sex. Or maybe very self ...
Girlfriend will no longer let me perform oral on her4/12/2007Azure
  Q: My girlfriend has recently stopped allowing me to perform oral on her. We used to perform at least ...
  A: for some reason, she's not being honest, but the badgering won't help; could be anything, from some ...
Male Orgasm4/11/2007Dale
  Q: My boyfriend keeps coming almost instantly after insertion, he does try not to because it's really ...
  A: How to make my boyfriend last longer? If so, have him buy some condoms that have a thicker membrane ...
sex problem4/10/2007Dale
  Q: I'm 19 years old and I want to know how can I have control when I' having sex without masturbating ...
  A: The start and stop technique is not a miracle cure for premature ejaculation. It takes time, ...

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