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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| your wake up call | 10/20/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I used to be able to give good BJs to my boyfriend of one and a half years, but lately I've had ... A: no, it's ALL about his selfishness; unless this is a slave/master arrangement (outlawed some years ... | ||
| relationship problems | 10/20/2007 | Azure |
| Q: 10 months of it was long distance..way long distance between the U.S. and Europe. He has been back ... A: differences in sexual appetites have led to the dissolution of many relationships; nothing is ... | ||
| Men and sex | 10/20/2007 | Azure |
| Q: ok. here's the deal. I grew up thinking that "men are sex machines" and "the purpose of a man is to ... A: unless you're willing to INFORM him that the situation is unacceptable, prepare for a lonely life of ... | ||
| I need help | 10/14/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I have a problem. My bf and I have been having sex for over a month now and no matter how much he ... A: "doesn't like giving oral.."??...he's supposed to be focusing on pleasing YOU..alot of girls aren't ... | ||
| No orgasm | 10/11/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I am 23 years old, have been with many guys and I have never been able to orgasm. In fact I have ... A: too soon to say something is wrong with you; some women don't orgasm til later, for various reasons; ... | ||
| stopping orgasms | 10/10/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I don't think I have any thoughts... it''s more like a reflex A: not sure what else to tell you..i doubt it's just a physical reflex, without any ... | ||
| Finishing | 10/10/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I've never finished, or at least have never been able to tell when i have finished. Me and my ... A: hard to say from here, but usually a female KNOWS, so chances are you haven't had one yet; some ... | ||
| No orgasm | 10/9/2007 | Azure |
| Q: Okay I have only been able to have an orgasm from intercourse from only one partner. I've tried ... A: female orgasm, especially thru intercourse, can be an elusive thing; some women never come that way; ... | ||
| My guy cums but I can't | 10/1/2007 | Pete |
| Q: Lately, me and my boyfriend have been having sex. He is absolutely enormous and I'm not used to it ... A: A visit to the doctor would not be a bad idea if you are still hurting. If he does have a large ... | ||
| How to keep my Husband awake after having sex? | 9/29/2007 | Pete |
| Q: My husband is a great man there is just a few issues I can't get past. We have sex and he finishes ... A: It sounds like you need to let your husband know of your concerns and start discussing what can be ... | ||
| i cum 2 quick | 9/29/2007 | Pete |
| Q: every time my dick gets rubbed or i start putting it into my wifes cunt it feels like its goin 2 cum ... A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ... | ||
| Im Really Worried | 9/27/2007 | Pete |
| Q: im 15 and i just read up on premature ejaculation. When i masturbate i usually come within 1 minute, ... A: I'm glad that jackinworld was helpful. Take your time with it: there is heaps of good ideas there ... | ||
| Im Really Worried | 9/27/2007 | Pete |
| Q: im 15 and i just read up on premature ejaculation. When i masturbate i usually come within 1 minute, ... A: it sounds like you need to slow down your masturbation, and learn to become aware of the building ... | ||
| can't orgasm | 9/26/2007 | Pete |
| Q: I recently just told my boyfriend of a few months that I've never orgasmed. I've never really ... A: It is important that you really are open and honest with your boyfriend and reassure him that it is ... | ||
| premature ejaculation | 9/26/2007 | Pete |
| Q: I am a male of 26 years, having 74 pounds weight and have a height of 5.7 inches. I got married 5 ... A: I am sorry that you were not impressed with my reply. The information I provided you has helped ... | ||
| Erectile dysfunction | 9/25/2007 | Pete |
| Q: Sir, I am 42 and married for the past 14 years now. I have two kids. I have led a normal sex life ... A: It sounds like you should seek out a sympathetic doctor and get a proper diagnosis. Treatment can ... | ||
| his sex drive | 9/25/2007 | Pete |
| Q: we have sex 6 times a day 3 in the morning and 3 at night, the first three we have sex my way ich is ... A: To be honest, I have never heard of a guy like your boyfriend! 13 3/4" long and 81/2" thick is very ... | ||
| my boyfriend | 9/23/2007 | Pete |
| Q: I have a concern, I`ve been dating this sweet, cute and realy hot guy. I am a virgin and I think ... A: It sounds that everything is working out well for you and your boyfriend. Good to hear that you are ... | ||
| my boyfriend | 9/22/2007 | Pete |
| Q: I have a concern, I`ve been dating this sweet, cute and realy hot guy. I am a virgin and I think ... A: Having sex for the first time is a big deal. Talk openly with your boyfriend about your concerns. ... | ||
| sex problems | 9/22/2007 | Pete |
| Q: my husband is 28years old and he doesnt wanto to have sex. does it means that his has a problem and ... A: In a word, the answer is "possibly". You need to talk openly and honestly with your husband about ... | ||
| about sex | 9/22/2007 | Pete |
| Q: i have a problem while having sex is that while i insert my penis into my girlfriend vagina my sperm ... A: Firstly, it is my understanding that 0-2 minutes is definable as Premature Ejaculation (PE). This ... | ||
| sex problems | 9/21/2007 | Dale |
| Q: i have been married for several months now and my life sex sucks!!!my husband doesnt want have to ... A: I've been there and you're right, it does suck. So I can totally feel what you're going through. ... | ||
| orgasms... | 9/19/2007 | Dale |
| Q: Ok, please if this is not your area of expertise pass it on. Now...my problem is that i am not sure ... A: ! Thanks for taking the time to write. This question is pretty much smack in the middle of my ... | ||
| Immidiate ejaculation | 9/19/2007 | Pete |
| Q: Sir, I am 42 year old man from India married for 15 years. Initially I was very efficient during ... A: Firstly, it is my understanding that 0-2 minutes is definable as Premature Ejaculation (PE). This ... | ||
| Aesthetics and the First Time... | 9/17/2007 | Azure |
| Q: im a lad, 17 years old and im seeing a girl at the moment and have been for the past few months. I ... A: a) most guys are circumsized b)no need to cut hair..c)stop worryin--that only makes things worse; ... | ||
| sex issues | 9/17/2007 | Pete |
| Q: ..I'm almost 19 and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years now. We've been having sex for about ... A: Sorry for the delay, I have been flat out with work. I am not really sure what would be the best ... | ||
| weight gain | 9/16/2007 | Azure |
| Q: my fiance gained some weight and does not want to talk about..it is very sensitive issue for him, ... A: i've been, with a girl--my feeling was, still is, that we accept the "unchangeable" only; to me ... | ||
| my girlfriend doesnt like sex | 9/12/2007 | Dale |
| Q: My girlfriend recently told me she doesn't like sex at all. We have been together for almost two ... A: This is coming to you a little late because I found it in the question pool while I'm on my ... | ||
| Brownish semen | 9/7/2007 | John Thai, MD |
| Q: Sometimes I have pain in the right testis , sometimes in the left one, when I masturbate the ... A: Your question was referred to me. Testicular pain and production of brown semen may be a sign of an ... | ||
| penis cut | 9/7/2007 | Pete |
| Q: We are sorry, but Maggie wasn't able to answer yourI am a virgin that started masturbating, I did it ... A: I found your question in the question pool. My advice is see a sympathetic doctor and get yourself ... | ||
| Erection issues | 9/4/2007 | Azure |
| Q: My boyfriend and I just started sleeping together. I am madly in love with him, and that is a first ... A: it's not you--sounds like a form of impotence called "performance anxiety", which is has it sounds, ... | ||
| Lacking intimacy and sensuality in our marriage | 9/4/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I am 32 and my husband is 34. We have been married for 3 years. I knew before we got married that ... A: this is essentially what you signed up for; it's difficult to negotiate passion/intimacy, plus, if ... | ||
| Sex with wife is a 1 out of 10 | 8/30/2007 | Azure |
| Q: My wife and I love each other very much. We go out and do things and stay in and do things. The only ... A: your only chance is to make it a critical priority; that means INFORMING her that the current ... | ||
| Frequency Discrepancies: How can my partner and I find a middle ground without the guilt trips? | 8/30/2007 | Azure |
| Q: For several months now I have been dating and sharing a living space with a man whom I love very ... A: well let's take a look; there could be some correlation as to the seasons, but not sure it would be ... | ||
| I dont ejaculate while having sex | 8/29/2007 | Pete |
| Q: I cant seem to ejaculate while having sex. Unlike others, I dont get limp so I can continue for ... A: It sounds like you could benefit from some work with a sympathetic sex therapist since it appears ... | ||
| help? | 8/28/2007 | Alex |
| Q: Can I use hair gel, or body cream for anal fingering??? A: i would not recommend using hair gel especially, and it depends on the kind of body cream. if i had ... | ||
| ED | 8/21/2007 | Pete |
| Q: I am 21 year old college student and have been unable to have sucessful sex for the past 7 months. I ... A: It sounds like you should seriously consider seeing a sympathetic sex therapist and work through ... | ||
| no erection | 8/16/2007 | Azure |
| Q: My best friend and I have started "seeing" each other. We have been friends for years and have been ... A: sounds like performance anxiety, which is as it sounds--he SAYS it's just with you, but i don't buy ... | ||
| Can't seem to orgasm nor feel like before.. | 8/15/2007 | Azure |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months. The sex used to be amazing, even though I didn't ... A: many women don't come thru intercourse, instead needing direct clitoral stimulation; no harm in ... | ||
| No ejaculation during sex | 8/14/2007 | Pete |
| Q: I am 25 and have had a series of problems with my first experiences with sex. Firstly I have had ... A: It is important to remember that sex feels very different from the way that most guys are used to ... | ||
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