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SubjectDate AskedExpert
No interest in sex, boyfriend obsessed12/1/2007Azure
  Q: I am a 52 year old women. I had recently (well, over the past 6 years) have gone through divorce, ...
  A: ideally, he should see a copy of this and be asked to respond, but i'm assuming you've pretty much ...
Alternatives please12/1/2007Pete
  Q: The foreskin of my genital is too tight and so I am unable to perform penetration properly. The skin ...
  A: Yes there are other ways to deal with your issue. I hope this link helps: ...
Too big12/1/2007Pete
  Q: My boyfriends penis is gigantic. Hes 6"4 so hes kind of a big guy in general. Sometimes when we have ...
  A: It sounds like you need to spend some time talking with your boyfriend about your needs. Perhaps ...
cumming11/30/2007Pete
  Q: How do you know if you are cumming
  A: The answer is that everyone (males and females) all have different experiences... The basic ...
I need help11/30/2007Azure
  Q: To start off with I am a 44 year old male and she is a 39 year old woman we have both been married ...
  A: all ramifications of the topic that you've detailed need to be discussed openly and honestly with ...
Kegels and Delay Gel/Spray for men?11/28/2007Pete
  Q: I was wondering if you could help me in answering these questions? 1- Do kegels really work? 2- If ...
  A: Yes, Kegel's will help you gain extra control. They may take 1-3 months to be most effective and ...
semen11/28/2007Pete
  Q: Is there a way to get my partner to release more cum when he ejaculates
  A: There are a few ways that you can help your partner release more semen. Firstly make sure he drinks ...
He cums to quick!11/27/2007Pete
  Q: Im 18 and my boyfriends 22. We have a good relationship, I live with him and everything. We have sex ...
  A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
alone11/26/2007Pete
  Q: My husband has no interest in sex anymore.I was always the one to initiate but lately its worse than ...
  A: You need to be forthright with your husband and explain to him that you are not happy with the lack ...
erection11/25/2007Pete
  Q: Im 30, I cannot get hard even after forplaying with my gf, i wanted to put my dick in her but cant ...
  A: Firstly as a 30 year old you should not have any problems with erections. You need to sort out if ...
I get hard but can't finish11/23/2007Pete
  Q: Ok, I'm a 40 year old man that loves sex but as I have gotten older reaching an orgasm has become ...
  A: It sounds like you could benefit from a consultation with a sympathetic doctor to run a few tests. ...
Penis Size: Not sure11/22/2007Pete
  Q: I am 13 years old, almost 14. My penis is 7 inches when erect. Is this normal? Is it done growing?
  A: The so-called "normal" size for an erect penis is around 6" so you are doing fine: there is a chance ...
i have seen this many times but i need to ask!11/22/2007Azure
  Q: i am 20 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for about a year,i really like him he makes me ...
  A: 1. tell him not to try ths hard--it only creates undue pressure to "perform" on both your parts; no ...
Cannot ejaculate during Sex :(11/21/2007Pete
  Q: I have been pretty sexually frustrated as a youth and had my first sexual relationship with another ...
  A: It does sound like you have conditioned yourself to only ejaculate with a firm hand grip. You need ...
Orgasm question11/19/2007Pete
  Q: Ok, so I am 19 and have never had an orgasm, either alone or with a partner. Whenever my bf goes ...
  A: Those feelings of wanting to pee are indicators of a strong orgasm... A lot of women confuse the ...
Low erection angle11/18/2007Pete
  Q: I used to have an erection angle of 90deg when i was of 17. Now i am 21 and my erection angle is ...
  A: I do not believe that the angle of your erect penis will affect your ability to have a normal sexual ...
bigger penis11/17/2007Pete
  Q: Actually I have a big penis but my girlfriend wants to know if I can make it larger. I am about 8" ...
  A: The first thing I would suggest is that you use a variety of positions in your love making. Cow ...
male orgasm11/15/2007Pete
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for over a year now, and I still seem to have trouble ...
  A: You did not say if orgasm was hard for you to achieve when you masturbate. It is possible that you ...
Sex time11/15/2007Pete
  Q: I want to intercourse with my partner for 5-10 minute.But more than 1-1.5 minute, is not ...
  A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
problems male orgasm11/14/2007Pete
  Q: I'm a Lyra old male, and getting a problem having an orgasm during sex. Now I always have my girl ...
  A: There are many reasons why you could be having difficulty an orgasm during sex. You did not mention ...
No sex = bad thing11/13/2007Azure
  Q: I am a 20 year old female, and I am currently dating a 21 year old man. We have had a past sexual ...
  A: unless you were referring to his insensitivity, inconsideration, and general uncaring; your not ...
libido11/12/2007Azure
  Q: My girldfriend and i are together for 2 years now. I have to say that we have a good sexual life. We ...
  A: with sex, what USED to happen doesn't necessarily stay that way forever; sexual appetites vary from ...
help11/11/2007Azure
  Q: "hi, with the same partner for 2 years but the problem is that nearly everytime we have sex i get ...
  A: it may not necessarily be YOUR issue; you're spoiling him with the blow jobs, which he may find ...
emergency help[11/7/2007Pete
  Q: and I hope you are able to help me. This morning, my sister told me that she has noticed that her ...
  A: The bottom line is if you and your sister are at all fearful of your brother in law you need to ...
Erection problem11/7/2007Pete
  Q: I am 23 years old. I have had 3 sexual partners. I have tried 3 times to have intercourse with my ...
  A: It sounds like it could be performance anxiety. Talk with your girlfriend about it and take things ...
Help sex life is slow11/7/2007Azure
  Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over three years and we have been active since the first year. My ...
  A: some women just don't come thru intercourse, but considering the various means that couples can ...
Can't Cum during Sex11/7/2007Pete
  Q: I am a 26 year old guy that as been engaged for 2 years. I have real difficulty cuming during sex, ...
  A: Firstly too much porn is never healthy for anyone's sexlife. it is possible that in the past a ...
I have no idea what to do11/5/2007Azure
  Q: My situation caused the worlds most awkward position. I am a virgin, and my girlfriend is a virgin. ...
  A: there's no magic answer--it could be, she's just not ready, emotionally, to have sex, and her body ...
3 1/2 years and the never ending desert11/5/2007Azure
  Q: im hoping you can help me as this is probably an issue you have heard a million times before. i have ...
  A: have you discussed your unhappiness with him?..the issues go beyond sexual--you have here a loss of ...
Sex Problem: I can't get it in11/5/2007Azure
  Q: I am a 17 year old boy, and i have a sweet girlfriend. It is that time in the relationship where we ...
  A: well if she's a virgin she probably has a hymen, which is a thin covering, like plastic wrap, over ...
cant keep it hard11/5/2007Pete
  Q: i am 19 and have had sex quite a few times and am very comfortable with having sex. but the last ...
  A: It sounds to me that there may be value in you seeing a doctor for a check up. Just remember, too ...
sister pregnant11/3/2007Azure
  Q: can you tell me what i should do.my sister and my self.have ben having sex for the last 2 years now ...
  A: what on earth were you thinking?...she needs to get an abortion, you need counseling...call the dept ...
Foreplay11/3/2007Pete
  Q: I am 19 years old and I don't like any foreplay with my boyfriend. He tries and wants to touch me ...
  A: Firstly let me assure you that you were not responsible for the inappropriate sexual advances of ...
My husband hardly wants sex with me10/31/2007Azure
  Q: I'm writing to ask your advise I have been married for 2 years and we have been together for 4 ...
  A: you're not getting his attention; time to INFORM him, outside of the bedroom, that the situation is ...
Relationship Balance10/31/2007Azure
  Q: my name is Sara. I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend is 19. We plan to be moving in together late ...
  A: no experience with other males (i'm a guy)..i think PLAYFULNESS is really important, as well as ...
Husband into voyeurism and I'm not10/26/2007Azure
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 6 and a half years and we have 4 children. Last year before I ...
  A: you have some decisions to make; his drinking, temper, sexual addictions, inconsiderations, are ...
help please10/25/2007Azure
  Q: I don't know if it is just me. I can make myself orgasm in the shower a couple of times a week. Me & ...
  A: these are issues that need to be discussed with HIM; you need to INFORM him of your ...
sex10/23/2007Azure
  Q: My husband wants me to give him oral once a week but i find it boring and asked him to leave it to ...
  A: have you considered birth control pills?..his dislike of condoms is understandable, but that doesn't ...
easy...10/21/2007Azure
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. It seems the longer we are toghther, the more ...
  A: that's not an acceptable response--if that's the inconsiderate "best" he can do, it's time to INFORM ...
Only on weekends10/20/2007Azure
  Q: Is it unusual for a newly wed husband to inform his new wife that they will only be having sex on ...
  A: after all this time, i doubt much is changing; he obviously has other sexual outlets and has no ...

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