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SubjectDate AskedExpert
not sure what it is1/16/2008Pete
  Q: I'm writing this on behalf of my boyfriend; he happens to be a bit embarrassed. On nights when we ...
  A: it sounds like some sort of premature ejaculation. If it really is bothering your boyfriend, he ...
not sure what it is1/16/2008Azure
  Q: I'm writing this on behalf of my boyfriend; he happens to be a bit embarrassed. On nights when we ...
  A: "ejaculates...no orgasm"?..aren't they the same?..could you have been a bigger jerk about it?..first ...
Fellatio1/15/2008Pete
  Q: My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life but I don't always want to go down on him-more than ...
  A: It sounds reasonable from what you have told me that at times you don't want to perform fellatio on ...
Female Sex Problem1/15/2008Pete
  Q: First off, I am fairly sure that my wife has a low libido. My Wife can be aroused to the point where ...
  A: All I can suggest is that you continue to give her more foreplay after her first orgasm and try a ...
I have sex problem and need help1/15/2008Pete
  Q: I'm 28 Male, I'm married. and I have a problem with sex that I cum in 30 seconds. is there any ...
  A: Thanks for sharing with me. it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual ...
his first time1/13/2008Pete
  Q: iv been with my boyfriend for a few months now and have decided to have sex. So far we WERE going to ...
  A: You need to take your time with your boyfriend. Let him get used to being naked with you. This is ...
finding a counselor1/7/2008Azure
  Q: I'm sure I would benefit from counseling; I'm a 45-y.o. woman who has basically lost her libido ...
  A: i'd start by ruling out physical causes--consult an endocrinologist to check hormone levls, effects ...
sex is still hurting1/3/2008Pete
  Q: I've been having sex with my boyfriend for about 4 months now, and sex is still hurting. It was my ...
  A: I found your question in the Question Pool. It sounds like you need a proper medical examination to ...
ED1/1/2008Pete
  Q: Question- I'm 33 years old and I'm getting concerned with my body. I've been involved in a chaste ...
  A: I don't think you have anything to worry about: erections can be affected by all sorts of things ...
how come i cant cum?1/1/2008Pete
  Q: ive been with this girl 5 or 6 times and i cant seem to cum or keep my hard on she always talkes ...
  A: It sounds like there are plenty of reasons why you are having issues: unless you sort out what is ...
Sex Problem12/31/2007Azure
  Q: I need help. I have been married for 2 years. Before we got married we had sex just about every ...
  A: your inquiry leads us to the grim reality--he's more interested in masturbating to porn than having ...
Everything is WRONG!!!12/30/2007Azure
  Q: I'm a 27 yrs old female who has been in a relationship on and off for 2 yrs. The problem is my male ...
  A: the choices: INFORM him that the situation is no longer acceptable and that his interest, ...
Any medication?12/29/2007Pete
  Q: my husband and i have tried everything...he always climaxes before i can even with foreplay and ...
  A: The following is written for your husband: Thanks for sharing with me. it is my understanding that ...
crack skin in my foreskin12/29/2007Pete
  Q: cant have sex or masturbate coz my foreskin cracks.pls help
  A: You must get medical treatment immediately: the last thing you want is a nasty infection. Depending ...
abou sex12/29/2007Fox
  Q: i have slept with quiet a few people in my life so far and pretty much all of them aren't satisfied ...
  A: GIVING A MAN PLEASURE (1) Be yourself, (2) don't hold back, and (3) ask him what he likes. If ...
why does it take me so long to cum12/28/2007Pete
  Q: I'm 52, when I was 5 years old, I fell off a swing set and had to get stitches on my sack and my ...
  A: It sounds like there could be a psychological link rather than physilogical to your difficulties. I ...
Ani-sex drug?12/27/2007Pete
  Q: Well, I'm not too sure if you're the right person to answer my questions, but I've had a hard time ...
  A: To my knowledge there is no such thing as a safe "anti-sex pill". Don't even think of searching the ...
LACKING SEX IN MARRIAGE12/27/2007Azure
  Q: I HAVE LIVED WITH MY HUSBAND FOR OVER SIX YEARS, HOWEVER WE HAVE ONLY BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 MONTHS. WE ...
  A: unless he cooperates, there are no solutions; since you've already expressed your dismay, and all ...
No intrest in sex...12/24/2007Pete
  Q: .i am Tanu 23yr. my problem is that i don't have much interest in sex....my bf always wants to do ...
  A: Having sex for the first time is a big deal; and indeed having sex in general is a big deal: it is ...
HELP12/23/2007Pete
  Q: first off i am 19 years old. i just have a really hard time staying up when me and my girlfriend ...
  A: There are a number of reasons why you could be having difficulties staying erect: drugs (including ...
elusive orgasm12/21/2007Azure
  Q: I never have a problem achieving orgasm when I masturbate (it rarely takes over 10 minutes) but I ...
  A: some women don't come thru orgasm; but if you want to give yourself a real chance, plus take deceit ...
Sex.12/20/2007Pete
  Q: This is kind of a ridiculous and hard to answer question, but I'd like to have it said to me in any ...
  A: Let's take this slowly... Firstly you should only think about having sex with your girlfriend if ...
hi12/20/2007Fox
  Q: when im with my girl it takes me a long time to get hard and sometimes dont cum she thinks its ...
  A: GETTING HARD FOR SEX It happened because you were nervous, plain and simple... sorry to tell you ...
sex problem12/18/2007Pete
  Q: Hi my name is bob I'm 16 and have had sex once almost twice both times before sex I am hard and like ...
  A: It sounds like you have had performance anxiety...this is very common when guys have sex for the ...
lost virginity to 50 year old12/16/2007Fox
  Q: Am 26 and had sex with 50 yr old lady.But had fast ejaculation .And ,after some time ,it erected ...
  A: breat This has nothing to do with the gym, nothing to do with her attractiveness or age, and ...
Why does my boyfriend not want to have sex?12/15/2007Azure
  Q: Please help! In a nut shell... I have come to a point in a two year relationship where I need to ...
  A: you need intimacy and a healthy sexual relationship--he needs counseling; he could be he nicest guy ...
cum taste12/15/2007Fox
  Q: I like the pleasure I give my husband with a blowjob, but the taste grosses me out. Is there any way ...
  A: Cindy I'm not really too sure about this one. If you'd like help with how to give a better blowjob ...
My Girlfriend's question12/15/2007Fox
  Q: She bleed afterwards but she say i didn't Break anything, my question is two thing. what was i meant ...
  A: Robert, If vaginal bleeding is involved, she must go to a doctor, and make sure that she is okay. ...
problem!12/10/2007Fox
  Q: i have a really big problem having an orgasm. every time i have sex with my boyfriend, he gets upset ...
  A: Darling Kim It's NOT because you're bisexual, silly! That has nothing to do with ANYTHING. If ...
Sex12/7/2007Fox
  Q: I Have a question the other night when i was trying to have sex i could not find her whole and get ...
  A: Justin It's right there, between her legs. It's buried between the labia (pussy lips) an inch or ...
sex12/6/2007Fox
  Q: am 19 years old old and i need help. for the past few years i have been unable to have sex and enjoy ...
  A: PAIN DURING SEX If it hurts it's because you're DRY, not because you're tight or anything's wrong ...
Big penis12/5/2007Fox
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now but she says my penis is big and that's why ...
  A: Well first of all, your penis is very large, and significantly bigger than average, so she is ...
freequency12/4/2007Pete
  Q: i am 40 y.o. married with 2 kids ,, pls.i need 2 know :how much time ,can i ejaculate per week ...
  A: There is no set limit on the amount of times that it is safe to ejaculate in a week. each man is ...
penis size question12/4/2007Fox
  Q: my gym class will be taking showers on friday and I`m scared that my penis and balls are small or ...
  A: Matt Yes, indeed, your penis is far too small and be sure that no girl ever sees you naked, or she ...
very confused12/3/2007Azure
  Q: i am a 32 year old women and I've been married to my husband for a year and i do not receive any ...
  A: not experiencing sexual pleasure isn't exactly "normal"; the causes can be physical (see an ...
She won't come!!12/3/2007Fox
  Q: Hey Fox, My friend told me you are great so here I am. I'm from Port St. Lucie, FL ME and my ...
  A: How is everything going? How is it down in Port St. Lucie right now? I am very jealous, I love ...
Sex/pregnancy12/3/2007Pete
  Q: I'm 16 and recently had sex with my girlfriend who is 15 for the first time. it was both of our ...
  A: Your girlfriend needs to see a doctor just to make sure asap... Never have sex without a condom and ...
boyfriend12/3/2007Pete
  Q: i just wanted to thank you for reading and your time, and I appreciate any information that you ...
  A: All you can do is remind your boyfriend that you are there for him if he needs to talk things ...
girlfriends does not want sex anymore12/2/2007Azure
  Q: I have been dating my girl for 3 years, however about a year ago I moved in to her house, and as ...
  A: no need to apologize for a natural sexual interest, unless you were asking for it almost daily, ...
erectil dysfunction?12/2/2007Pete
  Q: Whenever me and my gf start to kiss i have a hard on and ready to go. WHen i take off my pants and ...
  A: It sounds like Performance Anxiety. Take your time giving plenty of foreplay to your gf, this will ...

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