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Please help me out!2/6/2008Pete
  Q: I am a 28 yr old unmarried girl.I had sex with my boyfriend about 10-11 times but never ever felt ...
  A: It sounds like you need to use some water based lubrication to help with the dryness of your vagina. ...
Wetness2/6/2008Pete
  Q: during sex I get really dry. Even using a lube I still dry up. I have never experienced an organism ...
  A: It sounds like you would really benefit from some counselling to help you relax more and enjoy ...
women and squirting.2/5/2008Pete
  Q: I have been doing alot of research on the subjectof a woman squirting when she has an orgasm. My ...
  A: The short answer is yes, she can squart if she receives the right stimulation and is aware of what ...
masturbation problem2/5/2008Pete
  Q: i have a small question on my mind about my masturbation methods and problems i have with getting ...
  A: Everyone's libido is different and the sexual urge can be very strong. However, it is important to ...
sex2/2/2008Azure
  Q: "well I've been dating a guy for about 7 months and have had sex with him at least 25 times. the ...
  A: i wouldn't worry too much about it; could be the guy, the technique, the lack of real ...
side effects of mastubation @ cure2/2/2008Pete
  Q: i have heard masturbating for 2-3 years have effects on eyes and i am feeling that it is right... ...
  A: Masturbation cannot affect your eyes or your health in oher negative ways...these are old wives' ...
Penis Not getting hard2/1/2008Pete
  Q: I would like to explain you my problem in very simple language. I am married guy and having a sex ...
  A: It sounds like you would benefit from some counselling to sort out what is going on with your ...
sex with my wife2/1/2008Pete
  Q: i have a fantasies of being with my wife and another couple having sex all together i already spoke ...
  A: A wise person once said that fantasies are ok as long as they remain just fantasies. As soon as you ...
sex once in 2 years together and virtualy no intimacy2/1/2008Pete
  Q: i sometimes try to kiss her on the lips but she has often turned her face slightly away from me. we ...
  A: I found your question in the Question Pool. It sounds to me that this relationship is on some ...
please help1/31/2008Pete
  Q: im 16 been in a sexual relationship for a year and a half and my boyfreind has always cumed quick ...
  A: The following notes are for your to share with your boyfriend. If he follows these suggestions in a ...
My sex life1/30/2008Azure
  Q: I have a question regarding my 2+ year relationship with my boyfriend and our sexual life. Our ...
  A: "STARTING to feel like he doesn't want/need me"??...seems like the intimacy has been lacking here ...
Masturbation1/30/2008Pete
  Q: I'm 17 now and I've been masturbating since i was about 14. This is an every day ordeal, it was only ...
  A: This link hopefully will help you with regard to sex headaches: ...
Erectile dysfunction1/29/2008Pete
  Q: But I m afraid my marriage will fail as I have erection problem. I have been masturbating for many ...
  A: It sounds like your body is comfortable with sexual thoughts/feelings when there is distance between ...
Performance Anxiety1/29/2008Pete
  Q: However I don't have money nor time for a therapist, even though I'd like to. Is there any ...
  A: Many universities have free psychology clinics as part of their psychology training programmes that ...
never orgasm and dry up easily1/29/2008Azure
  Q: I have never had a g-spot orgasm, and I can't stand it. It bothers me a lot as well as makes my ...
  A: never had a g-spot orgasm, or never had ANY orgasm?..have these guys attempted sufficient ...
Sex initmacy porblem1/28/2008Pete
  Q: Me and my husband have been married for about 2 years now and i have noticed at the beginning ...
  A: You need to talk frankly with your husband about how unhappy you are with the situation. ...
Performance Anxiety1/28/2008Pete
  Q: Hey I am curious, what are methods to prevent and stop performance anxiety for sex from happening? I ...
  A: Firstly you can do some work with a qualifed counsellor or hypnotherapist and release the trauma ...
short sex1/28/2008Pete
  Q: I think that when i have sex it doesnt last long enough, I'd like it to go for as long as possible ...
  A: Here is some info that is reccommended for me with premature ejaculation. Use it to extend your ...
Burning in the vigina1/27/2008Pete
  Q: Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for about five months and she just started her birth ...
  A: I am not a medical doctor and it sounds like your girlfriend needs to see her doctor to work out ...
sex without condoms1/27/2008Pete
  Q: Which are the days that i can do sex with my wife without condoms there is no scare of pregnancy?
  A: Any time you have sex with your wife without a condom she can become pregnant. Even when she is ...
small penis and premature ejaculation1/26/2008Azure
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now on and off. We have been having ...
  A: perhaps love, or your insecurities that keep you in it; without good sex, you essentially have a ...
i like masturbating but after i ejaculate i feel guilty1/26/2008Pete
  Q: i like masturbation but after i cum i feel guilty and does masterbation make a person thinner?
  A: There is nothing to be guilty about. Masturbation is safe and will not affect your fertility etc. ...
Can you help me?1/25/2008Pete
  Q: Im 17 in a seriouse relationship when my boyfreind fingers and rubs my clit i LOVE it but when we ...
  A: Many women get a lot of pleasure from the clitoris and indeed some get very little pleasure from the ...
Performance Anxiety1/25/2008Azure
  Q: Hey I am curious, what are methods to prevent and stop performance anxiety for sex from happening? I ...
  A: P.A. is just as it sounds, happening especially with new girls where one is prone to feel pressure ...
boring sex life1/24/2008Azure
  Q: I've been with my partner for around 16 months now. When we first started dating we had heaps of sex ...
  A: next time, start your conversation with him with your last sentence here; hopefully that will lead ...
time wears down love life1/24/2008Pete
  Q: How do I keep the spice in our relationship? We have been together 3 and half years, the past year ...
  A: Communication is so important: without it a relationship can easily run out of life. So many people ...
help please1/24/2008Pete
  Q: i have been with my boy friend sence i was 17yrs old and now iam now 36 we have had alot of good ...
  A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
Orgasms, Fingering, ETC1/24/2008Pete
  Q: Well, I am only 15 years old and am still a virgin. I have a few issues I am having with my current ...
  A: Firstly, everyone's orgasm is different...and indeed each orgasm can be different too... As for the ...
Acceptance1/22/2008Azure
  Q: I'm a 30 year old male who started dating a 23 year old female 10 months ago. She is a hometown ...
  A: the feelings don't seem abnormal--people are like tape recorders--inherently worthy of great ...
Acceptance1/22/2008Azure
  Q: I'm a 30 year old male who started dating a 23 year old female 10 months ago. She is a hometown ...
  A: once boiled down, as you've done, the choice is not that complex..as to the past, how bout "let he ...
Too much drive and husband's very low1/22/2008Azure
  Q: I copied and pasted the question and answer below that looked similar to my situation. I am 50, ...
  A: you didn't say as to the outcome of the dr's visit, but chances are he has a low testosterone level ...
Sex problems military man in the gulf1/22/2008Pete
  Q: i have a huge problem, you have not heard that before have you? i love sex. i have my fiance now ...
  A: It sounds like you are playing with fire. You really do need to let your relationship move on from ...
Too much drive and husband's very low1/22/2008Azure
  Q: I copied and pasted the question and answer below that looked similar to my situation. I am 50, ...
  A: the answer you attached is useless- and poorly written--sounds like an ill-conceived advertisement; ...
plz help............1/22/2008Pete
  Q: i am 24 and recently married.But when i make sex, my wife is not satisfied.After starting ...
  A: it is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
trouble climaxing - handjob/oral1/21/2008Pete
  Q: when my girlfriend gives me a handjob or oral, i cannot reach climax. i enjoy it very much, but i ...
  A: Some guys do find oral sex and handjobs less stimulating then they and their partners expect. This ...
sex1/19/2008Pete
  Q: I used to have a girl, we could go for what seemed like hours. Along with that, before I could get ...
  A: It sounds like you have developed ED (Erectile Dysfunction). There are many factors that can affect ...
New boyfriend / barely any sex1/19/2008Pete
  Q: I'm a 20-year-old woman and I just entered a relationship with a 21-year-old man two months ago. I ...
  A: Firstly you do need to understand that Erectile Dysfunction (ED) the new name for Impotence is ...
He doesn't want sex1/18/2008Pete
  Q: I am a 28 year old very sexual girl. My boyfriend of 2 years is 29 and does not seem to be up to ...
  A: it sounds as if your boyfriend may have some issues with premature ejaculation and therefore wants ...
Can't get/stay hard with my gf?1/18/2008Pete
  Q: I've been going out with my gf for about 4 or 5 months now and we started doing things quite some ...
  A: it sounds like you are dealing with Performance Anxiety which is not a physical issue. I say this ...
Cannot get erections at age 161/16/2008Pete
  Q: I am 16 years old and I have a question. I realize that this is and adult forum but I have a ...
  A: It does sound as if there are some justifications for your concerns: most 16 year olds have lots of ...

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