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5 year olds sexual activity10/29/2008Azure
  Q: I was giving my children a bath. Normally I DO NOT allow them to bath together but my 5 year old boy ...
  A: one approach would be to take the lead, tell the mother what happened,and all parties agree to ...
Sex question10/28/2008Azure
  Q: I have been marry for 4 months and I am twenty years old. My husband is the first one I had have ...
  A: for sure--some women don't come thru intercourse, even when with foreplay; you need to INFORM him ...
Sex Positon Trouble10/28/2008Pete
  Q: Me and my girlfriend both really enjoy the "cowgirl" style of sex. However, I keep coming out of ...
  A: I found your question in the Question Pool. A few suggestions for you: Let your girlfriend do all ...
oral sex10/28/2008Johannes
  Q: i have a question i hope u can help. it's about giving my boyfriend oral sex. whenever i watch porn ...
  A: I would like to apologize for my rather late reply. We had a thunderstorm two weeks ago and the ...
premature ejaculation10/27/2008Johannes
  Q: sir iam ejaculating my penis from when i was inmy 8th class.these days i cannto sleep with out doing ...
  A: First I would like to apologize for my rather late reply. We had a thunderstorm few weeks back and ...
It just doesn't fit10/26/2008Johannes
  Q: Alright, I am 18 and have been sexually active for around 2 years now, only ever having 3 partners. ...
  A: First, I would like to apologize for my late reply to your inquiry. I guess we had a problem with ...
Sex is held above my head10/25/2008Azure
  Q: I have been in my relationship for 5 years. We have a 14 month old daughter. Our sex life has come ...
  A: only 2 choices--1. time to INFORM her that the current situation is no longer acceptable, that in ...
Sex as a trigger-what to do (or what not do)10/25/2008Johannes
  Q: My boyfriend and I used to inject cocaine and meth. We have been clean and sober now for almost a ...
  A: First, I would like to apologize for my rather late reply. Something went wrong with our server ...
Too inexpereinced for him.10/24/2008Azure
  Q: I've been with my guy for over a month and we've talked about having sex. The thing is i feel I'm ...
  A: if you keep thinking you're too inexperienced, then you'll NEVER have sex, as you can't get the ...
Troubled10/23/2008Johannes
  Q: First off, let me start by saying I'm pretty experienced sexually. A friend hooked me up with her ...
  A: First I would like to apologize for my very late reply to your question. Our server had problems ...
Inability to cum.10/22/2008Azure
  Q: I'll just get straight to the point. I'm 17 years old and and I can't cum with my girlfriend. I ...
  A: you may have gotten too used to your own hand/techniques--cut way back on the masturbation, no more ...
No foreplay10/21/2008Azure
  Q: After my husband watched me give birth to our first child together he has a problem doing any ...
  A: so he's refused to openly, honestly discuss it, and has refused counseling...such a considerate ...
oral sex10/21/2008Azure
  Q: I'm not sure if you can answer this, but can you tell me how important swallowing is to a guy when a ...
  A: haven't conducted a poll, but in order of preference, 1. oral sex with swallowing, 2 oral sex, no ...
Sexual Differences10/21/2008Azure
  Q: I am dating a 49 year old man, and I am 38. I know that the age difference is an issue that I have ...
  A: only 3 choices; the first is INFORMING him of your unhappiness, that the situation is no longer ...
Problems pleasing10/21/2008Azure
  Q: I have some issues in bed that I don't know what to do about. My girlfriend has said before that ...
  A: your issue is more psychological in nature, probably due to anxiety created from not knowing where ...
Takes extremely long to reach climax during sex10/20/2008Azure
  Q: I'm a 22 year old straight male, and since this year have been struggling to climax during sex ...
  A: sounds like you've gotten too used to our own hand with this porn/masturbation addiction...i'd ...
Takes extremely long to reach climax during sex10/20/2008Johannes
  Q: I'm 22 year old (straight) male, and since this year I've been struggling to reach climax during ...
  A: Your situation is fairly common to males who become quite comfortable with masturbation than sex. ...
genital10/19/2008Johannes
  Q: i am 29 i do have small penis 3" when errect can i satisfy her, as i feel depressed about it always. ...
  A: The normal size of a penis is about 5-6 inches long. It is such because the depth of the vaginal ...
Feeling gross durning sex with husband10/17/2008Azure
  Q: I have known my husband for 14 years and have been intimate with him for 8 years. Recently I started ...
  A: you used the word "cheated", thus i had no way of knowing he's condoned the behavior due to fear of ...
Feeling gross durning sex with husband10/17/2008Azure
  Q: I have known my husband for 14 years and have been intimate with him for 8 years. Recently I started ...
  A: there's a beginning to EVERY problem; there's no quick fix; the only possible remedy would be ...
Loss of interest in sex10/16/2008Azure
  Q: I have had this problem for a few months, with it getting steadily worse to the point where I am now ...
  A: it's not that you've lost interest in sex, (hence the masturbation), it's more that you've lost ...
Sex Issues10/15/2008Azure
  Q: Background: I am 33 and my wife is 36. Been married for 8 years with 1 child and we were recently ...
  A: i'd recommend the counseling, first you alone, then as a couple; most marriage/family counselors ...
caught husband viewing porn pictures10/14/2008Azure
  Q: My husband has never shown great interest in me physically..we've been having sex just for the sake ...
  A: these are all questions you should be asking HIM; it appears he's more interested in his porn ...
Orgasms10/13/2008Azure
  Q: My girlfriend gets an orgasm every so often when we have sex. most girls i know say they never had ...
  A: the mom bein around may have something to do with it, or it could be alot of different psychological ...
Orgasms10/13/2008Azure
  Q: My girlfriend gets an orgasm every so often when we have sex. most girls i know say they never had ...
  A: your mindset needs adjustment; it's not a contest--the reality is every female is capable of ...
my wife has no desire for sex10/8/2008Azure
  Q: We have been married for 26 years and this problem has been off and on for the entirety of our ...
  A: a) after 26 years, she's not changing; b) you're with her as it's comfortable, convenient, makes ...
he wants it, I dont10/8/2008Azure
  Q: My fiance wants sex all the time..I did too until I got pregant. My constant saying no turned into ...
  A: he's out of control, addicted to porn/masturbation, totally disrespectful, and you're allowing it; ...
boyfriend's reluctance10/8/2008Azure
  Q: we're both nearly 48 & going through divorces, only seeing eachother on alternate weeks when my ex ...
  A: you need to revisit the issue, outside of the bedroom, by initiating an open, honest dialog as to ...
do not get hard like before10/8/2008Johannes
  Q: Well; Lately this week; i have problem having it hard infront of a girl; i dont get excited, don't ...
  A: There are many factors why males do not get an erection but the following are the most common: a. ...
not wat i expected10/7/2008Johannes
  Q: im 17 my boyfriend 21..ive known him for one year..and we have been together for 5 months.. i love ...
  A: There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. It is just you are not emotionally and physically ready ...
a few questions10/5/2008Azure
  Q: I can't seem to orgasm. Me and my boyfriend haven't had intercourse yet but he does thrust inside me ...
  A: hence the problem...the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the female body; most women need ...
Sound fetish10/4/2008Johannes
  Q: I have a scooby doo fetish. No not for the dog himself but for the way the words sound. At about ...
  A: Your case is simply known as classical conditioning. It means you have associated the "scooby dooby ...
sex and commitment10/3/2008Johannes
  Q: What do you think about Sex without commitment?
  A: Sex without commitments happens everyday. Normally males prefer it more than females. For most ...
Masturbation phobia/ Painful sex10/2/2008Azure
  Q: If we were to talk over the phone how much would it cost?
  A: i'll leave that up to you...totally unfair rating--1st, you incorrectly assumed i was a female; ...
Emotional/Sex Issues10/2/2008Azure
  Q: I have been with my fiance for 8 years, affection & sex was never a problem at first, however 6 ...
  A: time to face reality--this has been over for awhile; without passion, intimacy, consideration, ...
My girlfriend doesn't like sex10/2/2008Azure
  Q: I've been dating a girl for quite a few years now and we've been sexually active since the ...
  A: she appears addicted to the masturbation, and most likely has some psychological/emotional issues; ...
loss of desire9/30/2008Azure
  Q: What do I do now? My husband hasnt made love to me in 8 months. He takes meds for cholesterol and ...
  A: you INFORM him that the current situation is no longer acceptable, and that his understanding and ...
My size and my confidence9/30/2008Johannes
  Q: I have a problem, my penis size now i'm not just another horny teen looking for a pill. when i'm ...
  A: The way I see it, you have fats in your thighs (upper legs) that sorround your penis thus making ...
sexual gf meets comfortable bf9/28/2008Azure
  Q: me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now and have an amazing relationship, we ...
  A: he's beyond comfortable--"inconsiderate, complacent, uncaring" come to mind; for a guy under 50 to ...
No sex drive!9/28/2008Johannes
  Q: Ok, I can't believe it has come down to this but I'm seriously about to rip my hair out with ...
  A: Orgasm in women involves not only sex itself but the whole being. This includes your emotions, ...

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