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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Teenage erection problems | 1/31/2009 | Azure |
| Q: i am 17 and recently got a girlfriend and we have started having sex. however it has been difficult. ... A: a common problem called performance anxiety, and it's all about being anxious, nervous as to how ... | ||
| I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual | 1/31/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ... A: It is true that you could be asexual - it is still not wholly accepted that it exists as there are ... | ||
| Sex Problem | 1/30/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I am 41 years old male & am married for last 12 years . My wife is working out of station for past ... A: It sounds as if you have become addicted to the masturbation fantasy. You need to remind yourself ... | ||
| female orgasm too quickly | 1/30/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I'm a lady in my early 30s and I orgasm too quickly. Sometimes well before a minute. So first ... A: Usually I suggest my clients and readers to use Sylk which is usually non irritating. I think that ... | ||
| boyfriend having intimacy problems | 1/29/2009 | Azure |
| Q: My boyfriend is not wanting to have sex more than once a week if that. I tried talking to him about ... A: time to INFORM him that the current situation is one-sided and unacceptable, and that his ... | ||
| My girlfriend and I have different libido's, what do we do? | 1/29/2009 | Azure |
| Q: I need to find an answer to a question that has been puzzling me for sometime now. My girlfriend has ... A: this won't change unless you make it a bigger priority; that means you would need to INFORM her that ... | ||
| I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual | 1/29/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ... A: I really do appreciate your honesty and courage in sharing with very personal information with me. ... | ||
| How do i make my girlfriend open around me? | 1/29/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I'm 19 years old and I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and four months. We started having ... A: A simple way for her to be more vocal is allow her to be dominate. Tell her she has to be in total ... | ||
| not wanted sexually | 1/29/2009 | Pete |
| Q: i'm 29 and my husband prefers masterbation over sex. i offer to join him or dress the way he likes ... A: It does not sound as if your husband is being reasonable. If he does not agree to undertaking some ... | ||
| My boyfriend wont have sex with me. | 1/28/2009 | Pete |
| Q: my boyfriend and i have been 2gther for 2 years. im 21 and he's 26. 6months ago i thought i was ... A: A pregnancy scare does take time to process. Notwithstanding, you and your boyfriend really do ... | ||
| anal sex | 1/28/2009 | Azure |
| Q: my boyfriend asked me to have anal sex with him, but i am very scared of it a female friend of mine ... A: depends on the girl/her partner--some enjoy with no pain, some don't; the only way to know is to ... | ||
| No Question too big or too small huh? | 1/28/2009 | Pete |
| Q: Well here it goes.I'm a male in his mid twenties. And I'm sure you get this a lot if not at least ... A: You are right, a lot of men do make contact with me from all over the world with deep concerns about ... | ||
| does size really matter? | 1/28/2009 | Pete |
| Q: My partner and I are in our 20s. We have been dating for 3 years and recently moved in together. ... A: The size of your partner's penis has little to do with your sexual pleasure. Most women need at ... | ||
| Tips for orgasms during sex? | 1/27/2009 | Azure |
| Q: Greetings! I am your average 20 year old female, average weight, somewhat short on the height scale. ... A: don't know percentages, but the fact is some women don't come thru intercourse; i assume you've ... | ||
| Too fast | 1/27/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I've always had a problem with cumming too fast. Usually within a few minutes of being inside a ... A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ... | ||
| Needing some help | 1/26/2009 | Pete |
| Q: ok. Me and my man have been dating for a while. but before we started dating i would use a vibrator ... A: I think that you need to spend some time retraining yourself so that you can articulate with your ... | ||
| Penis Erection While Having Sex | 1/26/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I am newly wed & whenever I try to have sex with my wife, my penis erects initially but then looses ... A: It sounds to me that you are dealing with Performance Anxiety - this is very treatable and does not ... | ||
| I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual | 1/26/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ... A: Can you answer the folowing questions for me so that I can answer yourDo you masturbate now or at ... | ||
| Trouble | 1/26/2009 | Azure |
| Q: I am an 18 year old female and pretty much for as long as I can remember I've had a problem. When I ... A: first, find a different phrase besides horny--how bout "sexually aroused"?...have u tried ... | ||
| viagra | 1/26/2009 | Pete |
| Q: Do you know if drugs like Viagra, Levitra, etc. help with an erection if the problem is due to ... A: While I am not a doctor, it is my understanding thta medications such as Viagra etc will help you ... | ||
| Late ejaculation | 1/25/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I was wondering, last time I had sex with a girl I wasn't able to ejaculate. I kept penetrating her ... A: Delayed Ejaculation can be a problem for men just like the more common Premature Ejaculation. If ... | ||
| how do i fix my sex problem | 1/24/2009 | Pete |
| Q: ok this is going to be weird but im a 19 year old guy, fit strong and athletic i seem to have no ... A: Remember that sex does feel different from sex and with practice you will become more sensitive to ... | ||
| Can't orgasm | 1/24/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I am 16 and I have been with this guy for a year and a half, who's 23, we have been sexually active ... A: That sensation of wanting to urinate is the beginning of an orgasm. As for the pain you are ... | ||
| how do i fix my sex problem | 1/24/2009 | Pete |
| Q: ok this is going to be weird but im a 19 year old guy, fit strong and athletic i seem to have no ... A: Can I ask you a few questions so that I can be more specific in my answer? Can you ever ejaculate ... | ||
| male low sex drive | 1/23/2009 | Azure |
| Q: My husband hardly ever wants it & never cares or tries to get me off. The 4x a year he does it's a ... A: you're right, you can't make someone want you, but you CAN conclude that your reasonable ... | ||
| problems in general | 1/23/2009 | Pete |
| Q: this is Alex, I asked you a question earlier about my gf not being able to have an orgasm, and well ... A: I think that you should spend at least 30 minutes giving your girlfriend foreplay - women need much ... | ||
| sexuality | 1/22/2009 | Azure |
| Q: I asked my husband of 6 mos. if my vagina was as tight as one of his old girlfriend's. He said, "I ... A: what are you crying about?.that was a question you shouldn't have asked, especially knowing you ... | ||
| He isn't sexuall attracted to me at all but says he loves me | 1/22/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I just saw my German boyfriend of almost two years (we live long distance) for a week overseas, ... A: Relationship need hard work for them to be productive: long distance relations even more so. It ... | ||
| Issue with penetration | 1/21/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I'm not sure if you can answer this as I'm a female but I have an issue which is affecting my ... A: Before seeing a doctor here are some simple things you and your boyfriend can try. 1. Get him to ... | ||
| Ugh! | 1/21/2009 | Pete |
| Q: Lately my partner and I almost never have sex because he is really working himself overtime and ... A: it is not reasonable that your partner is neglecting you. Even though his is busy with work duties ... | ||
| "Frozen in Vermont" | 1/20/2009 | Azure |
| Q: I have been married for 5 years to my husband. My love for him is stronger than anything I have ... A: this is continuing without recourse because you're allowing it to; why are you settling for a ... | ||
| Geting Hard | 1/20/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I'm 19 and haven't had all that much sexual experience besides fooling around with girls and having ... A: If you have issues getting/keeping an erection when you masturbate and similarly with ejaculating ... | ||
| Trust issues | 1/19/2009 | Azure |
| Q: My girlfriend recently brought up how much it bothers her when I forward dirty emails with my ... A: since she's not about to understand that it's pretty natural/instinctive, the next best thing is ... | ||
| Nutting to fast | 1/19/2009 | Pete |
| Q: Can u please tell me why I nut do fast some time in a min sometimes two min I want to have sex for ... A: I found your question in the Question Pool It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into ... | ||
| Tips to seduce my boyfriend | 1/18/2009 | Azure |
| Q: thanx...that was really helpful...except that its most of what I've already done to him...could you ... A: how am i supposed to know you've done all that?...thought u said you've no place to have sex?...sure ... | ||
| Tips to seduce my boyfriend | 1/18/2009 | Azure |
| Q: I'm not actually having problems in my sex life, it so happened that my boyfriend was off for quite ... A: at your ages, finding a "place" shouldn't be that big of a problem; guys like nice perfume, ... | ||
| what do i do | 1/17/2009 | Pete |
| Q: So me and my girlfriend are really right for eachother but theres only one problem. her vagina is to ... A: I think this issue can be dealt with easily by slowing down your love making and giving her much ... | ||
| Discomfort in Cowgirl position | 1/17/2009 | Pete |
| Q: Okay, well I'm in a good, strong relationship right now with lots of communication; and my ... A: Here are a couple of reason why he could have felt some discomfort: 1. There was not enough ... | ||
| I worry too much about it | 1/16/2009 | Pete |
| Q: I am in a homosexual relationship with another man, and we have just begun to be intimate with each ... A: As you are only beginning to explore sex, I think that it is reasonable that you are not sure of ... | ||
| No too happy with sex life. What should I do? | 1/16/2009 | Pete |
| Q: Me and my partner are 24 years old, and have been dating for about 4 years. My girlfirend isn't into ... A: I do not think it is ethical for me to comment on another expert's reply. It seems to me that you ... | ||
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