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SubjectDate AskedExpert
Teenage erection problems1/31/2009Azure
  Q: i am 17 and recently got a girlfriend and we have started having sex. however it has been difficult. ...
  A: a common problem called performance anxiety, and it's all about being anxious, nervous as to how ...
I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual1/31/2009Pete
  Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ...
  A: It is true that you could be asexual - it is still not wholly accepted that it exists as there are ...
Sex Problem1/30/2009Pete
  Q: I am 41 years old male & am married for last 12 years . My wife is working out of station for past ...
  A: It sounds as if you have become addicted to the masturbation fantasy. You need to remind yourself ...
female orgasm too quickly1/30/2009Pete
  Q: I'm a lady in my early 30s and I orgasm too quickly. Sometimes well before a minute. So first ...
  A: Usually I suggest my clients and readers to use Sylk which is usually non irritating. I think that ...
boyfriend having intimacy problems1/29/2009Azure
  Q: My boyfriend is not wanting to have sex more than once a week if that. I tried talking to him about ...
  A: time to INFORM him that the current situation is one-sided and unacceptable, and that his ...
My girlfriend and I have different libido's, what do we do?1/29/2009Azure
  Q: I need to find an answer to a question that has been puzzling me for sometime now. My girlfriend has ...
  A: this won't change unless you make it a bigger priority; that means you would need to INFORM her that ...
I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual1/29/2009Pete
  Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ...
  A: I really do appreciate your honesty and courage in sharing with very personal information with me. ...
How do i make my girlfriend open around me?1/29/2009Pete
  Q: I'm 19 years old and I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and four months. We started having ...
  A: A simple way for her to be more vocal is allow her to be dominate. Tell her she has to be in total ...
not wanted sexually1/29/2009Pete
  Q: i'm 29 and my husband prefers masterbation over sex. i offer to join him or dress the way he likes ...
  A: It does not sound as if your husband is being reasonable. If he does not agree to undertaking some ...
My boyfriend wont have sex with me.1/28/2009Pete
  Q: my boyfriend and i have been 2gther for 2 years. im 21 and he's 26. 6months ago i thought i was ...
  A: A pregnancy scare does take time to process. Notwithstanding, you and your boyfriend really do ...
anal sex1/28/2009Azure
  Q: my boyfriend asked me to have anal sex with him, but i am very scared of it a female friend of mine ...
  A: depends on the girl/her partner--some enjoy with no pain, some don't; the only way to know is to ...
No Question too big or too small huh?1/28/2009Pete
  Q: Well here it goes.I'm a male in his mid twenties. And I'm sure you get this a lot if not at least ...
  A: You are right, a lot of men do make contact with me from all over the world with deep concerns about ...
does size really matter?1/28/2009Pete
  Q: My partner and I are in our 20s. We have been dating for 3 years and recently moved in together. ...
  A: The size of your partner's penis has little to do with your sexual pleasure. Most women need at ...
Tips for orgasms during sex?1/27/2009Azure
  Q: Greetings! I am your average 20 year old female, average weight, somewhat short on the height scale. ...
  A: don't know percentages, but the fact is some women don't come thru intercourse; i assume you've ...
Too fast1/27/2009Pete
  Q: I've always had a problem with cumming too fast. Usually within a few minutes of being inside a ...
  A: It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into sexual activity is definable as Premature ...
Needing some help1/26/2009Pete
  Q: ok. Me and my man have been dating for a while. but before we started dating i would use a vibrator ...
  A: I think that you need to spend some time retraining yourself so that you can articulate with your ...
Penis Erection While Having Sex1/26/2009Pete
  Q: I am newly wed & whenever I try to have sex with my wife, my penis erects initially but then looses ...
  A: It sounds to me that you are dealing with Performance Anxiety - this is very treatable and does not ...
I am not interested in sex or anythign sexual1/26/2009Pete
  Q: I am a healthy 33 year old man. also I am well educated and successful young person who is extremely ...
  A: Can you answer the folowing questions for me so that I can answer yourDo you masturbate now or at ...
Trouble1/26/2009Azure
  Q: I am an 18 year old female and pretty much for as long as I can remember I've had a problem. When I ...
  A: first, find a different phrase besides horny--how bout "sexually aroused"?...have u tried ...
viagra1/26/2009Pete
  Q: Do you know if drugs like Viagra, Levitra, etc. help with an erection if the problem is due to ...
  A: While I am not a doctor, it is my understanding thta medications such as Viagra etc will help you ...
Late ejaculation1/25/2009Pete
  Q: I was wondering, last time I had sex with a girl I wasn't able to ejaculate. I kept penetrating her ...
  A: Delayed Ejaculation can be a problem for men just like the more common Premature Ejaculation. If ...
how do i fix my sex problem1/24/2009Pete
  Q: ok this is going to be weird but im a 19 year old guy, fit strong and athletic i seem to have no ...
  A: Remember that sex does feel different from sex and with practice you will become more sensitive to ...
Can't orgasm1/24/2009Pete
  Q: I am 16 and I have been with this guy for a year and a half, who's 23, we have been sexually active ...
  A: That sensation of wanting to urinate is the beginning of an orgasm. As for the pain you are ...
how do i fix my sex problem1/24/2009Pete
  Q: ok this is going to be weird but im a 19 year old guy, fit strong and athletic i seem to have no ...
  A: Can I ask you a few questions so that I can be more specific in my answer? Can you ever ejaculate ...
male low sex drive1/23/2009Azure
  Q: My husband hardly ever wants it & never cares or tries to get me off. The 4x a year he does it's a ...
  A: you're right, you can't make someone want you, but you CAN conclude that your reasonable ...
problems in general1/23/2009Pete
  Q: this is Alex, I asked you a question earlier about my gf not being able to have an orgasm, and well ...
  A: I think that you should spend at least 30 minutes giving your girlfriend foreplay - women need much ...
sexuality1/22/2009Azure
  Q: I asked my husband of 6 mos. if my vagina was as tight as one of his old girlfriend's. He said, "I ...
  A: what are you crying about?.that was a question you shouldn't have asked, especially knowing you ...
He isn't sexuall attracted to me at all but says he loves me1/22/2009Pete
  Q: I just saw my German boyfriend of almost two years (we live long distance) for a week overseas, ...
  A: Relationship need hard work for them to be productive: long distance relations even more so. It ...
Issue with penetration1/21/2009Pete
  Q: I'm not sure if you can answer this as I'm a female but I have an issue which is affecting my ...
  A: Before seeing a doctor here are some simple things you and your boyfriend can try. 1. Get him to ...
Ugh!1/21/2009Pete
  Q: Lately my partner and I almost never have sex because he is really working himself overtime and ...
  A: it is not reasonable that your partner is neglecting you. Even though his is busy with work duties ...
"Frozen in Vermont"1/20/2009Azure
  Q: I have been married for 5 years to my husband. My love for him is stronger than anything I have ...
  A: this is continuing without recourse because you're allowing it to; why are you settling for a ...
Geting Hard1/20/2009Pete
  Q: I'm 19 and haven't had all that much sexual experience besides fooling around with girls and having ...
  A: If you have issues getting/keeping an erection when you masturbate and similarly with ejaculating ...
Trust issues1/19/2009Azure
  Q: My girlfriend recently brought up how much it bothers her when I forward dirty emails with my ...
  A: since she's not about to understand that it's pretty natural/instinctive, the next best thing is ...
Nutting to fast1/19/2009Pete
  Q: Can u please tell me why I nut do fast some time in a min sometimes two min I want to have sex for ...
  A: I found your question in the Question Pool It is my understanding that ejaculating 0-2 minutes into ...
Tips to seduce my boyfriend1/18/2009Azure
  Q: thanx...that was really helpful...except that its most of what I've already done to him...could you ...
  A: how am i supposed to know you've done all that?...thought u said you've no place to have sex?...sure ...
Tips to seduce my boyfriend1/18/2009Azure
  Q: I'm not actually having problems in my sex life, it so happened that my boyfriend was off for quite ...
  A: at your ages, finding a "place" shouldn't be that big of a problem; guys like nice perfume, ...
what do i do1/17/2009Pete
  Q: So me and my girlfriend are really right for eachother but theres only one problem. her vagina is to ...
  A: I think this issue can be dealt with easily by slowing down your love making and giving her much ...
Discomfort in Cowgirl position1/17/2009Pete
  Q: Okay, well I'm in a good, strong relationship right now with lots of communication; and my ...
  A: Here are a couple of reason why he could have felt some discomfort: 1. There was not enough ...
I worry too much about it1/16/2009Pete
  Q: I am in a homosexual relationship with another man, and we have just begun to be intimate with each ...
  A: As you are only beginning to explore sex, I think that it is reasonable that you are not sure of ...
No too happy with sex life. What should I do?1/16/2009Pete
  Q: Me and my partner are 24 years old, and have been dating for about 4 years. My girlfirend isn't into ...
  A: I do not think it is ethical for me to comment on another expert's reply. It seems to me that you ...

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