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SubjectDate AskedExpert
Troubles in my marriage2/16/2009Azure
  Q: : My husband and I rarely have sex, like once every couple of months. I don't know why, well ...
  A: your problems go beyond the bedroom--this guy is rude, disrespectful, inconsiderate, uncaring, and ...
Can't get in the mood, and can't orgasm2/16/2009Pete
  Q: I am almost 23 years old and my boyfriend is almost 22, and I have been with him for almost 6 years. ...
  A: The strain on your relationship is probably affecting your libido. Some conselling for you as a ...
Arguing about sex CONSTANTLY!2/16/2009Pete
  Q: I really need some help here. My boyfriend gets mad if I masturbate and then if I'm not in the mood ...
  A: I think that if he is honest with you you will discover that he also masturbates (most people still ...
relationship issues--far greater than masturbation2/15/2009Azure
  Q: i am a 21 year old mother of 2 kids the youngest is one year old .i used to love having sex but now ...
  A: the main issue is within the relationship; there's no honesty, intimacy, communication; you're ...
having problem with masturbation2/15/2009Azure
  Q: i am a 21 year old mother of 2 kids the youngest is one year old .i used to love having sex but now ...
  A: how often do you masturbate?..vibrator?..how often do you have sex with your husband?..what's "too ...
Sexual Anxiety/Loss of Erection2/15/2009Pete
  Q: my name is Ryan. I'm seventeen and have been dating my girlfriend for over a year. Everything is ...
  A: Unprotected sex is very risky and you could be a father before you know it. Reassure your partner ...
lack ejacvation2/15/2009Pete
  Q: i would like to get an answer for this as soon as possible please help me out. i had been married ...
  A: It is common for men who are recently new to penetrative sex to have difficulties in ejaculating ...
Can't get in the mood, and can't orgasm2/14/2009Pete
  Q: I am almost 23 years old and my boyfriend is almost 22, and I have been with him for almost 6 years. ...
  A: I will do my best to answer your complex question. Firstly, since I am not a doctor I cannot ...
problem2/14/2009Pete
  Q: for the past 4 times i been having sex with 4 different girls my penis seems to stop getting hard ...
  A: How are you feeling when you do the visualisation work? Does it remind you how natural it feels to ...
how to deal with sex problems2/13/2009Azure
  Q: I am a 40 yr old male. I work in construction where the work has basically stopped due to the ...
  A: nothing will change until you INFORM her that the situation is no longer acceptable and needs to ...
Sex life dwindling away....2/13/2009Azure
  Q: I am a husband of 36 y.o and have been married to my wife 34 y.o for over 10 years. We have a 2 and ...
  A: okay, so you don't want to bring it up again and leaving is out of the question--seems you're pretty ...
Possible sexual incompatibility with girlfriend2/12/2009Azure
  Q: Azure, I have been in a committed relationship with a wonderful young woman for the past 4 months. ...
  A: her reasons for "not" are pretty reasonable, probably more than yours; unless you're prepared to ...
my boyfriend is more experienced than me2/12/2009Pete
  Q: ok, so here it is, i've been dating this guy for 9 months now, but i didn't loose my virginity to ...
  A: The only way to resolve this situation is to sit down with your guy and explain to him that you need ...
Can't ejaculate2/12/2009Pete
  Q: I am 40 ish and just left a marriage of 18 years. We had sex every 2 to three days for the entire ...
  A: There a re a number of reasons why you could be experiencing difficulties. The best thing to do is ...
WET2/12/2009Pete
  Q: MY PUSSY USUALLY BE WET BUT THE OTHER NIGHT WHEN ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX HIS DICK DIDN'T STAY ON ...
  A: There a number of reasons why he lost his erection and they have nothing to do with your arousal ...
problem2/11/2009Pete
  Q: for the past 4 times i been having sex with 4 different girls my penis seems to stop getting hard ...
  A: It sounds to me as if you are dealing with Performance Anxiety. You need to relax more about sexual ...
My sexuality is causing a problem in my reletionship2/10/2009Azure
  Q: I'm BI, I've been very open with the guy I am with about this. He WAS ok with it. Now lately I've ...
  A: so you're wasting time arguing about sexual frequency when you're miles apart??..2/3 times a day way ...
My sexuality is causing a problem in my reletionship2/10/2009Azure
  Q: I'm BI, I've been very open with the guy I am with about this. He WAS ok with it. Now lately I've ...
  A: pretty confusing stuff--you say u argue "constantly" about sex, but can't specifically tell me what ...
Drowsy when aroused2/10/2009Pete
  Q: I have an odd question. I've searched all over the net and can't find anything remotely close to my ...
  A: It is possible that your reluctance to have sex is causing you to go to sleep - it could be some ...
boyfriend not cuming2/10/2009Pete
  Q: me && my boyfriend have sex like everyweekend && like 3 times a week and for some odd reason he ...
  A: There could be all sorts of reasons why he has not been able to ejaculate. It almost certainly ...
i cannot cum2/9/2009Pete
  Q: hey i lost my virginity a week ago to my girlfriend and i didnt come we wer having sex and getting ...
  A: Because you have had unprotected sex, make sure that she is not pregnant by her taking a proper ...
Sex2/8/2009Azure
  Q: I was 17 when i loss my virginity to my girlfriend who was 19. now i'm 18 and she's not 20 yet. She ...
  A: always choices--i doubt she'll be the only person you have sex with; the great majority of teen ...
Ejaculation problems2/8/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, and we've been having sex problems for ...
  A: I see your boyfriend has a problem related with the time.It is an issue that requires a sex therapy ...
Intimacy problems2/6/2009Pete
  Q: I've been seeing a guy for about 10 months now. We have been having great sex the entire time. The ...
  A: There is no real way that you can really sugar coat what you need to say to your partner except the ...
Intimacy Issues with my boyfriend, I'm pregnant but he's having the issues with sex not me?2/5/2009Azure
  Q: My boyfriend and I are expecting our first child together. I am now 5 months pregnant, prior to my ...
  A: sometimes you don't REALLY learn about someone until stuff like this happens--what you have posing ...
Question2/5/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I emailed you to discuss my problem of sexuality. I am a big victim of premature ejaculation. I ...
  A: I will treat you at my place in LivePerson.com, check my webpage there ...
problem in insertion2/5/2009Pete
  Q: I'm finding difficult while inserting my penis into my partner vagina, and i also found my penis ...
  A: If your partner is very wet, it means that she is ready for intercourse. It means that you ...
Intimacy Issues with my boyfriend, I'm pregnant but he's having the issues with sex not me?2/5/2009Azure
  Q: My boyfriend and I are expecting our first child together. I am now 5 months pregnant, prior to my ...
  A: you have a MAJOR issue that needs attention; that means you need to INFORM him that the situation is ...
Intimidated by intimacy and fetish2/5/2009Pete
  Q: I'm 25 years old and have had problems with girls since i can remember. I'm a very picky guy, and ...
  A: It sounds as if you could really benefit from some counselling to resolve the issues of fear of ...
my husband not asking me for sex2/4/2009Pete
  Q: From the day of our marriage my husband is not asking for sex. Before marriage we did not have sex. ...
  A: It is not reasonable that your husband is not open with you about his rationale. As a couple you ...
Normal Sexual Behavior in Man2/3/2009Pete
  Q: I am a little embarrased to ask these questions, but I need answers. First of all-Thank you so much ...
  A: Firstly I would strongly suggest that you get some counselling to deal with your unresolved trauma. ...
Please tell a answer for my life2/3/2009Pete
  Q: I am 18 years old male. When i was 10 my cousin(elder) taught me how to masturbate. Since then i am ...
  A: The first thing you have to do is get rid of the guilt and angst: they are not helping you. ...
problem in penis insertion2/3/2009Pete
  Q: Even though my husband is very hard and I am profusely wet, he is not able to penetrate me at all ...
  A: It is possible that your hymen is too thick and needs surgical removal by a doctor. You should ...
Shes a virgin2/2/2009Pete
  Q: im 20 and my girlfriend is 19. We have been together for about 3 years now. We have been trying to ...
  A: Pain means she is not ready to continue intercourse because: 1. She is to tense 2. She is not ...
molestation2/1/2009Azure
  Q: When I was ten or eleven, about five years ago, my older brother (13 at the time) asked me to do ...
  A: you have some choices--you could DEMAND your parents attention and your strong request that they ...
Erection problem and I am only 16!2/1/2009Pete
  Q: I am 16 years old and I no longer can get an erection. I am a virgin but me and my girlfriend have ...
  A: I am concerned that you are having issues with erections at your age especially with self arousal. ...
Sexual Intimacy1/31/2009Pete
  Q: My man has not been very interested in sex with me and yet he has come home looking on the internet ...
  A: Obviously this is eating at you otherwise you would not written to me. Sit your partner down and ...
frustration during sex1/31/2009Azure
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two months now. He was my first. For the first ...
  A: stuff you need to discuss wih HIM--takes 2 to have good sex; could be relationship stuff--he may not ...
Please I'm begging you for some advice!!1/31/2009Pete
  Q: Please Help! I feel our marriage is starting to crumble!! My husband and I were virgins when we got ...
  A: You must understand that the Performance Anxiety your husband is dealing with has nothing to do with ...
Developing Sexual Problems1/31/2009Pete
  Q: I hope this counts as one question - if not - I'm sorry. I have been married 5 years. My husband ...
  A: Ejaculation and orgasm are separate things, but for most men, they do occur together. At his age, ...

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