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SubjectDate AskedExpert
involuntary celebacy3/12/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I was divorced over 10 years ago after only a 2 year marraige. since then for the most part i've ...
  A: I am sorry about the loss and depression that is following to it. No one with just an answer could ...
Quick/early ejection3/12/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: My name is saurabh. My problem is early ejection. Whenever I involve undergo sex i always face the ...
  A: I understand you suffer from premature ejaculation.This is a condition where, due to different ...
I cum to fast3/11/2009Pete
  Q: Ok i read this previous post.. Which stated practise holding bak ur cum right b4 ur about to let it ...
  A: Once you have that control over when you ejaculate you can do as you please: keep on going or stop ...
Masturbation3/11/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I'm 26 and was wondering if masturbating daily (2 or more times a day) would decrease your sex ...
  A: The sex drive is not going to change because of masturbation.It is like when you feel hungry and you ...
The 'right words' when talking to your partner3/11/2009Pete
  Q: I very much hope you can provide some useful advice on the best words / ways to communicate with a ...
  A: It sounds as if the work stress is affecting his libido and erections. When you two want to have ...
How to deal my wife3/11/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I am married for almost 2 years now but never could do anal sex with my spouse once problem is that ...
  A: I am very sorry about this situation. I suggest a Sex Therapist for both and I believe the sessions ...
How to deal my wife3/11/2009Pete
  Q: I am married for almost 2 years now but never could do anal sex with my spouse once problem is that ...
  A: It sounds as if your wife is dealing with dyspareunia (painful intercourse). This link should be ...
Erection difficulties3/10/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I'm 21 years old and am a diabetic with relatively good blood sugar. I have issues ejaculating ...
  A: I think you will need to go again to a physician, since you are diabetic; there are neurological and ...
I cum to fast3/9/2009Pete
  Q: Ok i read this previous post.. Which stated practise holding bak ur cum right b4 ur about to let it ...
  A: If you use the stop and start exercises, working with the first goal of lasting 10 minutes, you ...
sex3/9/2009Azure
  Q: Im 17 and basically, i've been with this guy for 4 months (dealing/talking for 7 months before ...
  A: 1...usually sex enhances the arrangement, as a strong bond leads to the desire to want to show ...
Sex too bland3/9/2009Pete
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years and it seems that lately my sexual tastes have ...
  A: I think that the secret to any healthy relationship is open communication. So the best thing you ...
How to cum faster and stay hard3/9/2009Pete
  Q: Alright my question is How Can I cum faster and stay hard? I was having sex with my girlfriend and ...
  A: There is a lot to be said for trying a variety of condoms. Each brand is different. Make sure that ...
No sex drive3/7/2009Pete
  Q: I have been married for almost 13 years. I love my husband with all my heart but I have absolutely ...
  A: It is very possible that the fibromyalgia could be at fault. In my experience a lot of clients with ...
No sex drive3/7/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I have been married for almost 13 years. I love my husband with all my heart but I have absolutely ...
  A: Having an immune system disease makes you feel tired and sore.It reduces the sex drive, so we need ...
no orgasm3/6/2009Pete
  Q: I'm a young woman who's about to get married. Touble is... I've never been able to have a vaginal ...
  A: You must not be so hard on yourself. Many women have more orgasms via clitoral stimulation than via ...
Masterbation3/6/2009Azure
  Q: A few days ago I left my fiancee alone in my house while I was at work. during this time she went on ...
  A: if you've already told her the truth, that's all you need to do; actually, YOU'RE the one who should ...
Fiancé's low sex drive3/6/2009Azure
  Q: My fiancé and I have been together for a year. We live together and everything about the ...
  A: "compromise"?...lack of mutual passion, intimacy, sexual desire, is a major issue that threatens the ...
kegels exercise3/5/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I could not find the right category. Hope you can answer. Does exercising kegels or pc muscles ...
  A: Eddie: Kegel's exercises will help you to have strong muscles in the pubococcigeus area and it will ...
no porn no erection3/4/2009Pete
  Q: i am 28 and i have been having difficulty achieving and maintaining erection during sex and while ...
  A: Don't worry, it takes a while for your body to get used to being porn free. You have to regain the ...
Can't keep my boyfriend hard.3/4/2009Pete
  Q: I seem to have a problem with keeping my boyfriend hard during sex. He is perfectly fine for the ...
  A: Your boyfriend's erection issues are not your fault. Either there is something physically wrong ...
cant cum in sex3/2/2009Pete
  Q: I have been masturbating for 6 years so far, since I first started to cum. I do it by rubbing my ...
  A: there is a lot of debate taking place between researchers about the potential complications ...
masturbation3/2/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I like to know if a married person is habitual of masturbation since wife is in other country and ...
  A: Masturbation is not a bad practice.Always the frequency and effects of it need to be taken in ...
no porn no erection3/2/2009Pete
  Q: i am 28 and i have been having difficulty achieving and maintaining erection during sex and while ...
  A: It sounds to me as if you have over time trained yourself to believe that you need the stimulation ...
I can't Orgasm whil ehaving sex3/1/2009Pete
  Q: This seems weird, but I am actually a man and I can't orgasm while having sex with my girlfriend. ...
  A: You would be amazed at the number of men who contact me each month saying that they find it hard to ...
Just want your opinion/input...2/28/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I'm genuinely seeking help/input about this problem, and trying as many sources as possible for ...
  A: For some reason those words early in your childhood, yes children have sexuality!,( just in a ...
erection lost quickly2/27/2009Pete
  Q: i am a 26 year old London based professional.. i have had no problems in having sex in the past but ...
  A: There are a number of factors that could be affecting the quality of your erections. Since you say ...
Too big?2/24/2009Pete
  Q: Hey um is it possible that my boyfriend is just too "big" for my tiny hole? i mean we have tried ...
  A: You did not say how big is your partner's penis. Regardless of this, you need to remember that ...
my boyfriend doesn't cum but it is still very hard!2/24/2009Pete
  Q: how are you? i wanted to ask a question my boyfriend and i have been making love for 2yrs.. we do it ...
  A: Some men are able to ejaculate every time they have sex in a day or evening, whilst others are only ...
penis problem2/23/2009Pete
  Q: I'm 35 years,i practiced sex many times, my penis is about 18 cm, it is curved downwards, my glans ...
  A: Masturbation does not affect fertility or your health in any way. I think that your erectile issues ...
noises while having sex2/23/2009Pete
  Q: this is a little embaressing for me. i'm a 24yr old female and i have been having sex with my ...
  A: The cause of the noise is trapped air inside your vagina. This can occur through aggressive ...
My marriage2/22/2009Pete
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We were long distance to begin with, and with his ...
  A: As he is dealing (or not dealing) with OCD he should be under the care of a mental health ...
sex with my partner2/19/2009Pete
  Q: my boyfriend never wants sex he is 26 and im 20 he pushes me away and doesnt even touch me when i ...
  A: It sounds as if you need to sit down with him and have an open discussion about your concerns. ...
mastrubation2/19/2009Pete
  Q: sir, i am asian belongs to pakistan, my age is 24 yrs and i m fresh graduate. i m doing hand ...
  A: Masturbation does not affect your health or wellbeing in any way. It is a safe and natural way to ...
proformance anxiety2/18/2009Pete
  Q: from what i have read i have performance anxiety and i would like to know if there are any ways to ...
  A: I suggest that you do the following. 1. Stop masturbating - this way you can build up your sexual ...
cant get hard2/18/2009Pete
  Q: im dating this girl and i want to have sex with her real bad but when we are about to i cant get ...
  A: It is very possible from what you have said that you are dealing with a form of performance anxiety. ...
Performance2/17/2009Pete
  Q: I have no problem getting an erection, I masturbate, and am sexually active, but most often leading ...
  A: You can also use this creative visualisation. All you have to do is sit in a comfortable chair in ...
My marriage2/17/2009Pete
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We were long distance to begin with, and with his ...
  A: It sounds as if you have to schedule a time when you both can sit down and openly discuss your ...
Performance2/17/2009Pete
  Q: I have no problem getting an erection, I masturbate, and am sexually active, but most often leading ...
  A: It is very possible from what you have said that you are dealing with a form of performance anxiety. ...
sexual frustration2/17/2009Azure
  Q: i came to this site looking to ask a question a little deeper than just a dating or relationship ...
  A: many women don't come thru intercourse, but with manual/oral stimulation, he should be able to make ...
Gaining confidence, oral sex and vagina2/16/2009Azure
  Q: Hey there, I have two questions...i hope you don't mind. I'll get the less major one out of the way. ...
  A: 1) period shouldn't make much difference--try some k-y warming oil (drug store)..2. no more ...

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