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SubjectDate AskedExpert
Can't compete with what doesn't exist3/30/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: For the last several years, I have had a problem with the media in our society. I hate seeing strip ...
  A: Well, you exposed a real situation but also you are overreacting to it. I think you will need to ...
No intimacy or affection3/30/2009Azure
  Q: This is sort of a complicated and multi-faceted question but I'm desperate for some advice. I'm ...
  A: consider this your wake up call---your insecurities, dependence, low self esteem, are allowing him ...
Erections3/30/2009Pete
  Q: I am 19 and had sex with a gf for the first time when I was 17 almost 18. Whenever I had sex with ...
  A: You must see a doctor immediately about the pain you feel in your scrotum. It could be nothing but ...
Female orgasim/cumming3/28/2009Azure
  Q: first off, i hope you can help me. I'm 21 and I'm very confused about orgasms and female cumming. My ...
  A: usually with an orgasm there's some climactic sensation, a feeling of satisfaction, then u want ...
pain in testicles3/27/2009Pete
  Q: i m 33 year old single. since some days i m facing some porblem. when ever i get sexually arouse ...
  A: You need to see a doctor immediately as there is chance that there is something seriously wrong. I ...
i cant get it to stay hard!3/26/2009Pete
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for two yrs, and we pretty much have a healthy relationship however ...
  A: Its is a good idea that he has stopped watching porn and masturbating. He now needs to work on ...
cold effects?3/26/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: Does lower temperature lower male sex drive?
  A: This is a myth, sex drive differs from person to person and really it doesn't have to be related to ...
Condom issues3/25/2009Pete
  Q: I have a question regarding the use of condoms. I previously used regular sized condoms, but ...
  A: I have done some surfing on the net and it seems that in the USA, Trojan's Magnum's and XL are ...
period problem3/25/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I am 20 years old . Doctor , my periods are not regular . It has been late for more than 2 months ...
  A: I think you need to be mature and see a doctor in his/her office and have a physical exam.There are ...
Lost Attraction!!3/24/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: Okay my thing is that I've been with my girl for a little of a year now. We just had a little boy ...
  A: It is natural( after few months together) to see that the passion starts going out of a ...
orgasms3/24/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: i have been sexualy active for about six years know and i have always had problems orgasming i can ...
  A: When this situation occurs, (as you mentioned, always having problems to reach orgasms), we call it ...
turned on way to easily/ premature3/23/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: i get a boner way too easily and eventually prematurely ejaculate, but if i have a couple of drinks ...
  A: Alcohol is an inhibitor so it appears that you have hidden issues that make you feel anxious and ...
Condom issues3/23/2009Pete
  Q: I have a question regarding the use of condoms. I previously used regular sized condoms, but ...
  A: Even though condoms all do the same job, they can vary greatly in thickness, flexibility and ...
not staying hard3/23/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: ok my question is maybe wierd, not sure. but anyways i can get hard just fine when were in the ...
  A: It seems to be related to your physical health but also could be connected with fears and emotional ...
Boyfriend can't cum3/21/2009Pete
  Q: My boyfriend can cum watching porn but not with me. He tells me it's not my fault and he has ...
  A: It sounds as if it is going to come down to him making a choice you or the porn. Either way you are ...
Marraige3/21/2009Azure
  Q: We have been married for 12 years. Sex was always an issue from day one. I have high sex drive she ...
  A: usually, preferable sexual arrangements stem from generally healthy relationships, where there is ...
Marriage3/21/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: We have been married for 12 years. Sex was always an issue from day one. I have high sex drive she ...
  A: I see your wife has many problems enjoying sex.These problems seem to be there from many years ago, ...
cant get hard before having sex with my girlfriend3/21/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: hey! so i am 20 years old, and have sex only once, but i wouldnt call it much of having sex. Last ...
  A: Do not worry too much because it will make things worse. You are very nervous and the erection can ...
Scared3/21/2009Pete
  Q: I have a bit of a problem with self confidence. I am indian by hertiage. I am light brown skin, 5"10 ...
  A: It is very important that you realise that all the hype about penis size has nothing to do with a ...
Follwup: Can't get horny or an erection3/21/2009Pete
  Q: Yes once..I think, but I didn't really care because it wasn't a big scene or anything, but seriously ...
  A: Hope you are finding the visualisation work helpful. I do appreciate feedback as it helps me know ...
Boyfriend can't cum3/21/2009Pete
  Q: My boyfriend can cum watching porn but not with me. He tells me it's not my fault and he has ...
  A: Your boyfriend is not being fair. He needs to get rid off the chip on his shoulder. He is the one ...
Boyfriend can't cum3/21/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: My boyfriend can cum watching porn but not with me. He tells me it's not my fault and he has ...
  A: This is a problem that will require his attention, not just yours. He seems to be fixated to sexual ...
sexual anxiety3/20/2009Azure
  Q: I am a 52 year old male and have been married for 29 years. I have a happy life in general but have ...
  A: regardless of past counseling re molestation, the anxiety reaction is not a healthy one and should ...
Can't get horny or an erection3/20/2009Pete
  Q: Ok here's the deal...I'm a 17 year old male, I've been masterbating since I was in 3rd grade, I was ...
  A: Can you answer the other questions too: 1. Have you even been caught masturbating by a ...
just a quick question.3/20/2009Pete
  Q: okay. well my pussy stinks and sometimes it realeases a thick white substance.(i am a virgin) i ...
  A: It sounds as if you could be dealing with a yeast infection of some sort. See a doctor for a proper ...
sexual anxiety3/19/2009Azure
  Q: I am a 52 year old male and have been married for 29 years. I have a happy life in general but have ...
  A: some different issues at hand here, both which would indicate the need for counseling; regardless of ...
Cannot penetrate wife3/19/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I've looked around a bit and can't find a solid answer to this problem my wife and I have been ...
  A: The cause of this problem seems to be "vaginism".The woman is expecting pain during vaginal ...
Can't get horny or an erection3/19/2009Pete
  Q: Ok here's the deal...I'm a 17 year old male, I've been masterbating since I was in 3rd grade, I was ...
  A: A few more questions Would it be fair that your over all confidence in your sexual capacity was ...
sex problems3/19/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: i m male 24.i masturbated for last 6 years almost daily... but now i m left it with low ...
  A: Do not worry at all about the masturbation, it is a practice that (if not converted into an ...
Can't get horny or an erection3/19/2009Pete
  Q: Ok here's the deal...I'm a 17 year old male, I've been masterbating since I was in 3rd grade, I was ...
  A: It does sound odd that a 17 would have issues with libido and erections. Tell me, did this issues ...
Loss of interest3/19/2009Pete
  Q: I have been dating a man who has lived in my house for the past 5 years. During the first part of ...
  A: Your first priority is the safety and wellbeing of your children. It does not really matter what he ...
penis3/18/2009Pete
  Q: i am 18 years old and have been having trouble urinating. my penis is well above size for men and i ...
  A: I am sorry to hear that you have been teased and bullied. This is not helpful for a guy coming to ...
Foreskin problem3/17/2009Pete
  Q: i am 26 years old vergin and have uncircumsised penis. my question to you is that after full ...
  A: It sounds as if you are dealing with Phimosis which is a medical condition. You need to seek ...
About penetration3/17/2009Pete
  Q: Couldn't find the right category. Hope you'll oblige. Is there a truth that if you do shallow ...
  A: Every man is different is the honest answer to your question. There is no magical formula for every ...
About penetration3/17/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: Couldn't find the right category. Hope you'll oblige. Is there a truth that if you do shallow ...
  A: I believe that both are myths. Do not get so worry about length and deep penetration, if you do not ...
Semen Composition3/17/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I have a question that I hope you can answer. It is as follows: What is semen composed of other than ...
  A: Semen is a fluid, organic one, and it is composed by spermatozoids and seminal fluid.It is secreted ...
help communicate!!3/16/2009Pete
  Q: i am 32 years ,meet this great guy 2 years ago.i m crazy in love with him.my problem is that in bed ...
  A: All that your guy wants from you is that you tell him what you want him to do for you and how you ...
New girlfriend, not feeling anything3/14/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: I hope you can help me. I've recently started a sexual relationship with my new girlfriend. Both of ...
  A: The letter sounds as a puzzle that needs to be solved. First you must be happy that she is ...
sex3/14/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: and i am unable to satisfy her too,and i am masturbating a lot.plz advice me to stop masturbating ...
  A: The problem appears to be premature ejaculation and you will need to learn different techniques to ...
Nocturnal Sensations3/13/2009Antoinette Proffer
  Q: Perhaps you can answer my question. It is not uncommon for men/boys to have nocturnal erections ...
  A: Men have nocturnal erections approximately every 90 minutes in period of REM during sleep.There is a ...

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