AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
Past/Present Clients I do not discuss past or present clients
Question QUESTION: i am married 6 month before,till today my husband not
shows any interest in me. he had not even touch me, no
kiss no hug and no sex, When i demand for the same he
reply i dont like such things. He is good to me in
all manner accept this. what is the reason and what
should i do? please help me
ANSWER: Hi K
Thanks for sharing with me.
it sounds that you do have to work out in your own head if this non-sexual arrangement is acceptable to you or not.
If not, you need to work with your husband to make him understand how you feel.
You owe it to your future happiness to sort this out before too much time passes.
A sympathetic counsellor could be helpful for both of you to work out your issues.
Feel free to contact me again.
I wish you well.
Pete.
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QUESTION: Respected Sir,
Thank you very much for reply of my question. Further in this case I would like to say that I tried to convey my husband for my demand and requested to participaent in sex and physical relation but he is refuse to do so and not even ready to enter in discussing the matter. He said I dont like all this and said wait for more one year and then may be he will enter in such relation. My mind is very upset with this situation and worried that might my husband is impotent? Please help me to find out the cause of not taking interest. He is not ready to discuss and not ready to consult any doctor so please help what I can do myself?
regard K
Answer Hi K
The bottom liner is this: are you prepared to wait another year from him to possibly discuss the matter?
What happens if he decides not to do anything about the lack of intimacy in your marriage?
You need to be very focused in your own mind about what your basic needs are from this man.
It can be challenging for a man to discuss sexual matters - however he is an adult and has a responsibility not only to himself but also to you his wife to get appropriate help from a counsellor.
If he refuses, you do need to consider your options. I cannot tell you what you must do...only you can decide your future...
