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Question QUESTION: Hey so its aaron(17) and i phoned natalie, just saying hi and hope u havea a safe trip down. she said hah well i have been on a bus for 14 hourss b4 so i think ill be fine haha. then i just talked and she said to pick p the stuff for mon too since she isnt coming. i then said well i am gonna miss u then she said haha.. then something else. i said hope ull miss me too and she said "hahah (quick laughing) hmm let me think about that" what did this last sentence mean??? will she miss me??? wat is going on haha?/?. then i said ok well i better ifnish my eng and she said ya better finsih the math and then she said thanks for phoning and i said ok ill ttyl bye. and she said bye. was this a good move??? did anything else improve, stay the same or get worse??? thnx
ANSWER: Hey Aaron,
I'm glad that you made that move. I think that she was just kidding around when she said "hahah (quick laughing) hmm let me think about that". I've said things like that myself, just kidding around with the other person. I think that it was a good move, and it made her realize that you care about her more than she thought. It probably made her day either way.
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QUESTION: Hey so she probably will miss me she just didnt want to out right say it?? and joke around with that. I really do hope that she is starting to see that i care more than she thought i did and wen she comes back on tue (wen i see her in school) is ther anything i can say or do to emphasize this or show her that i missed her or anything else??? if so wat?? honestly i have had crushes b4 but she is different to me and i rally hope it works out becuase i am playing it cool but this relationship (friendship right now) has taken like 8 months to get to this point. i am falling hard for her hahha. anyway hope to hear from u soon. thnx again.
ANSWER: She is definitely going to miss you. Who wouldn't miss somebody that they feel really comfortable with and that is really nice to them? You have been playing this relationship cool and it's going to go places. Just keep it up.
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QUESTION: last thing for the night hope u can answer this... wen she does get back i feel like i should say something or do someting but im not sure wat.. can u elp me out?? to maybe heklp u out i am getting any handouts we get on friand mon in law so maybe i can play on that. also our test is probably ocming soon and i will defiently ask her to study for that. also i will keep updating u but wen do u think i should sit down face to face and talk to her??? like a few wks b4 exams, or the day of our law exam(since will see each other) after we write it? but i kno b4 the summer starts. thnx ttyl
Answer It's fine. I think that you should ask if she wants to hang out, kind of a celebration of her coming back from a trip. That law thing also sounds like a good idea, along with the studying. I think that it's totally ok for you to ask her to hang out with you sometime. You guys sound like you're really close now, so you should be able to hang out outside of school. She really appreciates you, and I think that she's ready to hang out with you more. I'm glad that you're keeping me updated. Good luck, Aaron.
