About Duncan Expertise Crushes can be confusing. When you have one, it can be hard to decide what to do about it, right? I can help you figure out how to deal with a crush, whether it includes figuring out if he/she likes you, getting to talk to him/her, getting the confidence to ask him/her out, etc. Trust me, I have had so many crushes that it's hard to count all of them. Ask me a question and I'd be glad to help.
Experience Since I am still 16 years old, I experience life through teen eyes everyday. I have first-hand experience in this category, and can relate to most of the issues that people post questions about. People feel comfortable talking to me about these types of issues in everyday life, so I hope you will too.
Education/Credentials I am a high school student that has been studying Psychology for the last year. I have been studying it on my free time as well.
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Question QUESTION: Hey so I talked to natalie on msn today and we talked bout somehing and we got onto the subject of feelings. so she was like i need to kno if u,ve gotten over me abit....see me as a frioend now .. i was like i have tried but no.....anyway so that big talk with all the feelings is being done on tue at lunch now......i was gonna do it after the exams but she was like im not stressed tell me and i was like face to face and she was like well i mean its more brave face to face and im surprised u want it taht way :s lol. anyuway so during this i am gonna be putting it all on the table ....how much she means, wat she makes me feel, y etc. I kno she will probably be like i only see u as a frined cause thats wat it seemed like wen she said that. But i think that this is just the final effort.....the last ditch....this is the closure so if she says no then fine i hav eto move on and if she says yes well u kno wat then ahha. u kno its funny cuz we have studied and tat togethr n i wanted to study for exam togethr but i think we still wil for some reason cuz mayb all those other times she saw me as just frineds u kno.... Frist off any advice??? final words?? i ainthere mon at lunch so thats y tue. u have helped me sooooo much and i really appreactiate your time and effort.....if it doesnt work out i have learned alot of experience and this may be the last time i talk to u for a while after this happens....i wil folow up from this and i will tell u wat happens... its almost the end. anyway plz get back to me as soon as u can b4 tue hopefuly haha. bye
ANSWER: Hi Aaron,
First off, I'm really glad that you told Natalie that you still like her. I know that it would have been easy to say that you got over her, but admitting that you like her was the right thing to do. She'll probably start thinking about you in a whole different way. It might just take her a little bit of time. Anyway, good job and hang in there. Feel free to write back to me whenever you feel like you need to. Good luck, Aaron.
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QUESTION: Hey i kno but tmrw i talk to her and it like i am spilling everyhting and seeing if there could ever be anything more............ if she says no just friends then fine i will move on becuase i cant let it kill me inside....If this happens i will not be looking for anyhting but if she ever wants me and i am available she will do it then...thnx for everything ill write tmrw back to tell u if its good or bad
Answer Aaron, you've got a really good attitude toward this whole thing. I guarantee that you will feel so much better about any outcome if you keep this positive approach toward the situation. Just know that you are going to have a good friend either way and that there are lots of girls that you're going to meet later on. I can't wait to hear about tomorrow. Best of luck!
