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Crushes can be confusing. When you have one, it can be hard to decide what to do about it, right? I can help you figure out how to deal with a crush, whether it includes figuring out if he/she likes you, getting to talk to him/her, getting the confidence to ask him/her out, etc. Trust me, I have had so many crushes that it's hard to count all of them. Ask me a question and I'd be glad to help.
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Expert: Duncan
Date: 5/16/2008
Subject: quick q
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QUESTION: hey srry i kno i said no more but i cant msg u tmrw or sat so i may as well ask now 4 i forget. wen u said to hang out with her, wat things should we do??? i need some help with that becuase i dont wanna screw it up haha.
ANSWER: Don't worry about it. Think of what normal friends would do. See if it's something that both of you guys could enjoy. If you really can't think of any interests that you guys share, take her to a new movie or something. It wouldn't really be awkward considering how close you guys have become. Since she's coming back to town, I think it would be the right thing to do.
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QUESTION: Hey im back haha um so natalie came back and we started talking again.. basically i photocopied the work stuf and that and she was grateful. The test is on wed (next) so i askd if we r studying togther? she said probably (she has alot of soccer)... then today i asked if we do study should we have some knoledge or start fresh togethr, she said start fresh.... this was good casue i kno if she cant study wit me (which i dont see how atleast once b4 test) then i kno she wanted to but she is actually busy :). anyway so i just talked to her for like an hour about some school stuff she needed help wit and i joked about stuff like with work cited etc and we laguehd and stuff and she said thnx appreaciate the help. g2 eat but tty on msn after ahah. anyway b4 this tho in school we talking alot and for this movie revieww due fri both doing same moive and both needed help she took my sheet to ask haha, anyway so i said id go during linch and ask then find her (she said she is tired after second haha thnx alot.. also wit her soccer she actually is tired like shit) so i didnt go :( had to do something else and she msg me on msn and said wat we have to do?? i said . omg im sooooooooooo srry i didnt find u i had to do somehting for a teacher.....plz dont hate me haha and she said "i wont lol". is that a good sign haha? anyway thought id update u as i havent for a few days and school is coming to an end and im not goona have that one on one talk yet but wen do u think i should?????? (b4 exams or after our law exam???------ i kno 100% b4 the sumer tho). also is this a constant movement still??? did i go back a bit wit the relatonship or is it better or the same?????? thnx hope u can answer it and ill let u kno if we do study togther ;) thnx again
ANSWER: Hey Aaron,
I think it's good that she was fine with you not being able to show up, and showed it by what she said. You've done a good job of constantly making progress in your relationship, and I think that she has become so much more comfortable with you than before. I really think that you have a good feeling about your relationship with her, so make sure you ask her out when you feel that it's the right time. I'm glad you're keeping me updated.
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QUESTION: Hey so she is going to a cottage this weekend :O and our test is wed haah im gonna start studinyg and not bring up if we r studying... my theory is if she wants to she will ask me like she did for the first test...Is that true??? anyyway so today in class i was joking around today and shit and one thing i found interesting!! we did test review quick and i asked for a pen and she gave me one :) anyway thats not the best part yet ahah, so she also offered me gum but she didnt have a date on her sheet so i reached over with th pen in my hand (sits next to me) and i was gonna write it then shee kinda hit the arm (like a light slap-- between the elbow joint and the hand).. she did that like 3 times and i didnt move haah then she gently like moved my arm off it and was like wats the date and she was like ohhh thats wat u were doing and i said yes then wrote it for her haha..... DOes this mean anyhting???? godd/bad --- increase in comfort level??? also today we voted for some thing and i gave her the paper and she was turned around so i gently like tapped the side of her stomach and she thought it was the guy going aorund and she was like y he do that or something then i was like no i did that haha and she was like oh hahaa. good/bad??? improvement throughout???? on the right track??? so do u think it was a good day haha??? p.s. on facebook right now im sneding her a wall msg asking wen she is oging to the cottage; sat-sun or sat-mon? but not bringing up the test thing... even tho i really hope this works out with the test i kno that if not probably for the exam study she wil want to atleast once haaha. good idea??? anyway ill ask more after but hope u can answer these.. i appreaciate it :) thnx a lot U RULE!!!!
Answer
Hey Aaron,
I bet she knew that you wanted to fill in the date for her, but she wanted to joke around with you. Definitely good. Also a good thing about the stomach tap. You're actually starting to get her to make moves, which is exactly what we want. I think that it's a good idea not to bring up the test thing, and see if she asks you first. This will be your time to experiment. Good luck.
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