About Amarie Expertise I can help with deciphering your feelings for a crush into easy to understand terms. I can
also help in telling which step is the best to take next with your crush. I understand,
probably better than most, just how confusing crushes can be. I have a real desire to help
people, especially when it comes to their love lives. My major is Psychology with a passion for marital and relationship counseling.
Experience Psychology major, founder of a peer counseling group
Education/Credentials Psychology major at UVA
Past/Present Clients clients through peer counseling are almost always anonymous.
Expert: Amarie Date: 6/29/2008 Subject: sorta a problem, not sure how to deal with my crush
Question Hi my name is ray, ok, this is a tuffy for me, im 17, my crush is my one friends ex, or my friend also, she is 15, when im 18 she will be 16, ill be joining the USMC, and I told her I liked her, and she said well you should have told me sooner, because we went to a church for a homeschooling thing, and i really regret not telling her, but anyway, she was like somtime this summer you should come out to my house and go swimming, and i was like ok, maybe..like it seemed like she was intrested in me, but now when i msg her or tlk to her, it seems like she's not, its an off and on situation, i told her i wasnt planning on dating until i get out of my MOS classes, which is after you graduate boot camp to learn your job. I dont know what my next step should be, this girl has been through alot, and i told her yea, well you gotta learn from your mistakes and you will eventually find the right person and she said somthing about she wanted to see if i could have been the right one, i basically said all the wrong things, i want to be with her..i just dont know how to un-do all this mess and get things in the good direction to where we could date! im crazy about this girl, i dont know much about her because we barely talked but we do somtimes, idk i guess it was a kinda love at first site type thing, idk. i just wanna be able to get closer to her and know her alot more. please help me!
Answer By starting a relationship now, you could cause her a lot of heartache. You say that she's been through a lot... and I can only imagine. Girls are amazing creatures. We can act as tough as nails but when it comes down to it, most of us just really want someone to love us and cherish us.
If this girl is worth the possible heartbreak, then I think you should tell her how you feel. Tell her that you're crazy about her and that you know it sounds crazy because you don't know that much about her. Ask her for the opportunity to get to know everything about her and see if your feelings for her are more than just a crush.
let me know if i can help with anything else... I have a soft spot for military guys! :)
