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About Amarie
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I can help with deciphering your feelings for a crush into easy to understand terms. I can also help in telling which step is the best to take next with your crush. I understand, probably better than most, just how confusing crushes can be. I have a real desire to help people, especially when it comes to their love lives. My major is Psychology with a passion for marital and relationship counseling.

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Topic: Dealing with Crushes



Expert: Amarie
Date: 7/21/2008
Subject: Crushes

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QUESTION: Im in this musical and theres this boy i really fancy. He was watching him dancing one time and when we were looking at each other at the same time he smiled at me. we were both waiting to be picked up once and we talked a bit and he talks to me in the rehearsals, more than he does to some of the other girls in it. He sat behind me and spoke to me alone also, not about anmything important.hes my age too. I really fancy him, but i dont know how he feels a bout me. Ive only known him a few weeks. theres loads of girls who are much prettier than me and i dont know what to do lol. help!  thanks

ANSWER: It sounds like he likes you, or at least wants the chance to develop a friendship with you. Take things in stride and keep up the conversations. Maybe suggest exchanging phone numbers.
Good Luck!
Sincerely,
Amarie

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QUESTION: Ok, talked to him a bit more, and he showed me some pictures on his phone. I caught him looking at me in our break and he looked away quickly. IF we caught each others eye, and i smiled at him, he would give a kind of embarrassed twitch with the corners of his mouth. HE also was calling me short quite a lot.   Then at a rehearsal after that, he kept dropping his water bottle near me when i gave it to him the second time, he said "right, I'm going to keep it safe now." and put it in an awkward place. Then he realised where it was and laughed and took it away. HE talked to me more. I don't know if this is good or bad, coz he called me short a lot. thanks for your advice last time too.

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Sounds like things are progressing well. And him calling you short, is his way of flirting (I'm short too and that used to bother me so much until I figured out guys were flirting lol).

You guys should try to hang out and see each other outside of rehearsals.

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