AboutEstelle Expertise I am open to all sorts of questions about crushes - how to deal with them, how to find out whether he/she likes you, how to best handle the situation at hand. I will also try my best to help you analyze your case and see how likely he/she will answer your prayers!
WILL REJECT ALL QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX OR SEXUAL EXPERIENCES!
STATE AGE & GENDER IN YOUR QUESTION PLEASE.
Experience I have gone through quite a few crushes myself. Now that I am well and off in college, I feel like I can give some advice to peers or those younger than me. My friends often comes to me for advice on this subject matter as well. I have been able to guide both myself and my friends into great relationships. I am also a psychology major with a lot of interest in this topic. I am very eager to help those who have any questions.
Education/Credentials College major in Psychology.
Expert: Estelle Date: 7/18/2008 Subject: My best guy friend
Question Ok I'm 12 yrs. old and I've fallen for my best guy friend. We have pretty much everything in common. We talk all the time about anything. Everyone thinks we are going out or like each other. I asked him out 2 yrs. ago but he said he likes me a a friend and thought that I was his best friend. But we've grown alot closer. He makes me laugh all the time. He's cute, smart, can sing, can act, is insanly sweet, and is EXTREMLY shy. He doesn't even like answering the phone. We will talk all day if we can. Sometimes we talk freely but other times he acts nervous around me. Twisting his hair and staring the ground. I want to ask him out really badly but I don't want to ruin our friendship. My bff has picked out our song " I got you babe" and has planned our wedding. One time in computer lab we had to share a computer. My had was on the mouse and I turned around, turned back and his hand was on top of mine and he didn't take it off. Also one time I called his house, I can't remember why, but his dad answered and I said, "Hello, is Corby there?" and his dad goes, " Corby!! Its your girlfriend!!!." so apparently he talkes about me at home. I really need to now because other wise I might expole. Is there any hope for us?
Answer Hi Brooke,
It seems like all signs are heading for the right direction! The easiest way to find out is by asking him. I think you would like the answer very much, although I must say 12 is rather young for you to consider a serious relationship and not to mention marriage!
I don't want to burden you with the thoughts that if it doesn't work out in the end your friendship might be ruined, but this possibility does exist. However, don't hold back if you think you will regret it in the future.
Good luck! Let me know how it goes & feel free to ask for followups.
