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About David
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I've really dealt with everything that has to do with crushes and I can help in most situations. I'm in high school so I understand what goes on.

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My experience is mainly through trial and error. I have also taken a mediation class, at school, and we learned how to talk to people and guide them through tough situations.

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I am really involved in the AIDS program at my school, we go around to other schools and teach the kids about how to prevent themselves from contracting HIV/AIDS. It is a really rewarding program.

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I write for my school newspaper, edited the middle school one for a year and the yearbook too.

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I'm in High School and have gone through a few different leadership and mediation type classes.

 
   

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Topic: Dealing with Crushes



Expert: David
Date: 7/16/2008
Subject: I just found out that the girl I like is interested in someone else...

Question
And it looks like they're going to be dating soon.

I'm Francis, and I'm 15 years old. I can see why she wouldn't be interested in me; I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, and maybe I'm not incredibly interesting. It doesn't matter why, though, all that matters now is getting over her.

How can I get over her? I constantly think about her, and I have to see her at least twice a week. I've tried thinking about her flaws, but it doesn't seem to work. What can I try?

Answer
There is no magical way to get over her, it will just take time.  I'm sorry I can't really tell you anything else because nothing I will say will make it just go away.  I was in a situation that is similar to this with one of my friends, we were actually dating, and I have to see her Monday to Friday for four hours a day and any other time outside of that.

I'm not really sure if she is a good friend of yours so I'm not really sure how to answer this.  You should not give up in pursing her but you shouldn't go behind her boyfriends back, all you can do is be a nice person and hope that after her current relationship she comes to you.

If you're trying to get over her you kind of hit the nail on the head by saying you talk about her all the time and that is not good, you need to think about her less.  Populate your time with other things, anything.  Spend more time with friends, your family or doing your favorite hobby.

I will be here if you need anymore help.

-David

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