AboutEstelle Expertise I am open to all sorts of questions about crushes - how to deal with them, how to find out whether he/she likes you, how to best handle the situation at hand. I will also try my best to help you analyze your case and see how likely he/she will answer your prayers!
WILL REJECT ALL QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX OR SEXUAL EXPERIENCES!
STATE AGE & GENDER IN YOUR QUESTION PLEASE.
Experience I have gone through quite a few crushes myself. Now that I am well and off in college, I feel like I can give some advice to peers or those younger than me. My friends often comes to me for advice on this subject matter as well. I have been able to guide both myself and my friends into great relationships. I am also a psychology major with a lot of interest in this topic. I am very eager to help those who have any questions.
Education/Credentials College major in Psychology.
Expert: Estelle Date: 7/16/2008 Subject: I just found out that the girl I like is interested in someone else...
Question And it looks like they're going to be dating soon.
I'm Francis, and I'm 15 years old. I can see why she wouldn't be interested in me; I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, and maybe I'm not incredibly interesting. It doesn't matter why, though, all that matters now is getting over her.
How can I get over her? I constantly think about her, and I have to see her at least twice a week. I've tried thinking about her flaws, but it doesn't seem to work. What can I try?
Answer Hi Francis,
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but keep an open mind, there are plenty of other girls who are surely to notice how great you are soon!
Getting over someone usually takes time and there's no easy way out of it. You can try to occupy yourself with activities so you wouldn't have time or energy to think about her. Perhaps you would just have to distant yourself from her. If she asks to hang out, maybe you would have to reject it. If the case comes to it, you might have to tell her that you just need some space right now.
I hope that my advice is somewhat helpful. Good luck!
