AboutEstelle Expertise I am open to all sorts of questions about crushes - how to deal with them, how to find out whether he/she likes you, how to best handle the situation at hand. I will also try my best to help you analyze your case and see how likely he/she will answer your prayers!
WILL REJECT ALL QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX OR SEXUAL EXPERIENCES!
STATE AGE & GENDER IN YOUR QUESTION PLEASE.
Experience I have gone through quite a few crushes myself. Now that I am well and off in college, I feel like I can give some advice to peers or those younger than me. My friends often comes to me for advice on this subject matter as well. I have been able to guide both myself and my friends into great relationships. I am also a psychology major with a lot of interest in this topic. I am very eager to help those who have any questions.
Education/Credentials College major in Psychology.
Expert: Estelle Date: 7/1/2008 Subject: weird crushes, kind of a love triangle
Question I like these 2 guys, and they are like best friends. I think they like me, although both of them are attractive, I don't know why they'd like a not so pretty girl like me. I have already gone out with one of them, and he dumped me. I think he likes me still, even though now we talk a lot more and are friends. I am friends with both of them, I'm afraid if I tell either one of them, and they don't like me, it will ruin our friendship. What should I do?
Answer Hi Paige,
As tempting as it may sound, you need to figure out who you like more. You can't have both you know! And it might send mixed signals to them as to who you are interested in.
Since you have already gone out with one of them, it is ill advised to go out with the other one, especially since they are best buds. What you can do now is just to continue to be their friends and decide which one you like more. After that see if that person reciprocate your feelings.
