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Expert: Shari - 11/4/2009
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QUESTION: hi im 19 years old there is this girl i have a crush on in my class. im always thinking bout her. i have talked to her like twice only though. let me explain what happened before i ask my question. im sitting alone waiting for class when she walks up and sits down and she had a speech that day so i started a conversation about that then she talked about how nervous she was and i said"you look beautiful so i don't think people will notice". then she kind of looked to her left down and said thanks. my question is was that a big was that a big fail or what? how do i approach her? what would be your reaction if you were in her position? i just want to know if i creeped her out or something good?
ANSWER: Ok Ricky what you did earned you brownie points as people would say. I think she was blushing in fact. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you and it doesn't mean that she does. It just means that right now your in her circle. If you want to continue this then next time you see her ask her how it went. That's what I would do next actually because first off it's the best way to start the next conversation without problems and second she won't think secondly but answer the question. I think it was something nice and I sure would have thought the same thing if I were in her situation.
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QUESTION: my next question is this. is it a good idea to give my number to her friend and have her friend give my number to her? i wanted to do this because there is no time before or after class to really talk to her. Also what does it mean if she looks you up and down? this is what happened. after class all the students including me had to turn in in class work, i had just given my speech and i was dressed professionally, while i was walking she was walking towards me, we had eye contact and i saw her look me up and down. my reaction was calm. i want to know two things. 1 what does it mean if she is smiling and 2 what if she kept a straight face. i really cant stop thinking about her. the song "my girl" came on one time when i was thinking about her.lol please help
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No Problem, that's what I'm here for to help you Ricky. The best way is to give your number directly to her. This causes a more dramatic effect which you want because then you'll be able to see her reaction to you giving her your number. Don't give it to her friends because you don't know if she doesn't want them in on her business which some people are very private. So that wouldn't be a good idea to jeopardize her friendship with them. Second if a female looks you up and down it means that she's checking you out. She may never have seen you dress professionally before and thought that it suited you well. And what's a better way to see someone's outfit than to look at the whole thing. People tend to do this when they're close to you and that's when they'll look up and down because they hadn't noticed it before but they want a better look.
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