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About Lizzie Rodriguez Coronado
Expertise
I can actually answer all the questions. I have a lot of experience in this and i am ready to take any questions. I will promise to give a good advice since i have done that for my last few years to my friends all the time and it worked!

Experience
I have a lot of experience. I already went through the whole breaking up thing and huge crushing on somebody thing. I know how everything works. Also when some of my friends are in trouble they come to me and they know i can help. I am like a match- maker and i make everybody fall in love and i give good tips. i have a lot of experience, trust me .

Organizations
I belong to organizations called "SOS Kinderdorf". It is here in vienna and it helps children with all kinds of things. With life, problems... the last person i helped what pregnant with 16 and she didn't know who could help her in the birth because she broke up with her boyfriend. But because of me they are engaged now :)

Publications
Well in my school's magazine called "the spotlight". There i am also like the person who answers questions of people who need help but mostly i get emails. Also on facebook or twitter a lot of people write to me and ask for help.

Education/Credentials
Well i got a lot of credit. In my school there are awards for the most helpful person that i got that like 3 times in a row. And my education is perfect. I get such good grades in school and i got a million awards. In math i got a A and i am in the highest class.

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I got all kind of awards. For playing volleyball, helping people, math tests etc. But mostly i am honored to get the helping people one. Because one of my passion is to help people. I love doing that in any subject but the one that i am mostly qualified for is Dealing with Crushes :)

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i get clients every day in my school. And all of them happen to get the right guy. Like i said, i can really make a change and help people with anything they are worried or angry or happy about..or anything! i can work with anything they ask me. I also get a lot of letters mailed to me.

 
   

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Dealing with Crushes - I'm not sure if my crush likes me or her?


Expert: Lizzie Rodriguez Coronado - 11/4/2009

Question
Hello Lizzie, I would like your help with this situation that i'm in. Okay so there's this guy who I have night school with and we also go to the same highschool. We have the same class in nightschool which I started in September and ever since then, we've been getting close since then. We would sit beside eachother for every class, talk, play around, he would let me keep his work for him, he would sometimes ask me to follow him places and he even drew a picture of me in class even though there was another girl at our table. My sister and my friend would tease me about him liking me but I didn't think he liked me. So just recently, I started catching feelings for him but this other girl moved to our table and I noticed that now their getting close just like how him and I did.(they play around constantly, he takes away her phone,etc.) I get so jealous when I have to sit there and watch them. But he still attempts to talk to me. So just 2 days ago in nightschool, he came to sit beside me and he was telling me about what he was for halloween and he was trying to show me pics of him on his hotmail but it wouldn't open because it was on facebook(school blocked the website) so then he said:" ahh, it's not opening, add me on facebook and then you'll see the pictures" so then she came in and she sat down in his seat(because that's where she was sitting last class) then he told her to get up but then she said no because it was her seat then he told her to go sit in his seat and she still refused to. I was angry because I think she likes him(she admitted to us that he was cute) but she realized how close me and him are so she's trying to get in between. Then whenever he would talk to me, she would interrupt us...ugghh I'm so angry, which I know I shouldn;t be but it's obvious that she wants all of his attention and she sure is winning! i actually have two questions: do you think he atleast has an interest in me? or in her? and how do I get closer with him again? I'm sorry about writing you a Harry Potter novel, I've just been down in the dumps lately and everyone seems to busy for me to let out how I feel.

Answer
Hey Tamara,
If you really like him then you should fight for him. Not like fight fight but you shouldnt let her do all these things. If she sits between you guys, move to the other seat next to him. Make her jealous but dont like challange her. You should SMS with him and always chat to him. If you really want him first then i would really suggest you to ask him out before she does. And i am really sure that he will say yes since i KNOW he likes you. How he acts towards you really shows that he has interest in you. Like why would he ask the other girl to move? Of course to be with you. SHe just doesnt want to move because she doesnt want you to talk to each other but you have to stop that. So you should ask him for hang out and maybe talk to him about the situation. Tell him how you really feel but dont tell him that you like him more then a friend. Just say that you have the feeling that the girl is trying to break the friendship. You can either do that or ask him out so then you would defenetly win. And once you guys are going out she wouldnt dare go between you guys. And i doubt that the guy would let her do that. But if this step is too much for you then you should consider first talking to him about it and find a solution for it. Maybe like go on a different table that is full that she cant sit or something. I am sure you guys will come up with something. But i would really do one of these options.
I hope this helped
If you need anything more please write a follow up and rate me :)
xxx
Lizzie

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