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About Lizzie Rodriguez Coronado
Expertise
I can actually answer all the questions. I have a lot of experience in this and i am ready to take any questions. I will promise to give a good advice since i have done that for my last few years to my friends all the time and it worked!

Experience
I have a lot of experience. I already went through the whole breaking up thing and huge crushing on somebody thing. I know how everything works. Also when some of my friends are in trouble they come to me and they know i can help. I am like a match- maker and i make everybody fall in love and i give good tips. i have a lot of experience, trust me .

Organizations
I belong to organizations called "SOS Kinderdorf". It is here in vienna and it helps children with all kinds of things. With life, problems... the last person i helped what pregnant with 16 and she didn't know who could help her in the birth because she broke up with her boyfriend. But because of me they are engaged now :)

Publications
Well in my school's magazine called "the spotlight". There i am also like the person who answers questions of people who need help but mostly i get emails. Also on facebook or twitter a lot of people write to me and ask for help.

Education/Credentials
Well i got a lot of credit. In my school there are awards for the most helpful person that i got that like 3 times in a row. And my education is perfect. I get such good grades in school and i got a million awards. In math i got a A and i am in the highest class.

Awards and Honors
I got all kind of awards. For playing volleyball, helping people, math tests etc. But mostly i am honored to get the helping people one. Because one of my passion is to help people. I love doing that in any subject but the one that i am mostly qualified for is Dealing with Crushes :)

Past/Present Clients
i get clients every day in my school. And all of them happen to get the right guy. Like i said, i can really make a change and help people with anything they are worried or angry or happy about..or anything! i can work with anything they ask me. I also get a lot of letters mailed to me.

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Dealing with Crushes - WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET HER BACK?

Expert: Lizzie Rodriguez Coronado - 11/4/2009

Question
QUESTION: MY NAME IS 'YUVRAJ SINGH' MALE AND 21 YEARS OLD. I AM FROM INDIA.
LAST MONTH I EXPERIENCED BIGGEST TRAGEDY OF MY LIFE.I HAD A GIRL IN MY LIFE , WE HAD OUR RELATIONSHIP SINCE 2 YEARS IN WHICH WE CARED ABOUT EACH OTHER LIKE MANIACS.MY PARENTS WERE AGAINST OF OUR RELATIONSHIP AND HER PARENTS WERE IN FAVOUR. NOW TIS YEAR I SOMEHOW CONVINCED MY PARENTS FOR ENGAGEMENT AND WE GOT ENGAGED ON 14TH AUGUST NOW IN SEPTEMBER I CALLED HER AT MY PLACE BY THE APPROVAL OF MY PARENTS. AS SHE STAYS 1200 KMS AWAY FROM MY PLACE. NOW HERE SOME UNWANTED AND STUPID STUFFS HAPPENED AND MY DAD CALLED OFF OUR ENGAGEMENT.
NOW HERES THE WORST PART THAT GIRL HAVENT TALKED TO ME SINCE 1 MONTH BECAUSE NOW HER PARENTS ARE DEAD AGAINST OF ME BECAUSE IT WAS VERY SHAMEFUL ACT OF MY PARENTS.I TRIED TO TAK TO HER MESSAGED HER ON HER PHONE AND FACEBOOK BUT SHE DINT REPLY I KNOW SHE LOVES ME CAUSE THE KIND OF LOVE RELATION WE HAD WAS BEYOND THE EXPLANATION BUT NOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED SO DRAMATICALLY THAT EVEN I CANT HANDLE THEM.NOW MY LINKS TOLD ME THAT SHE IS STANDING FOR HER PARENTS INSTEAD OF ME AND HER PARENTS WHO USE TO TREAT ME LIKE THERE OWN SON HAVE TURNED THEIR BACKS ON ME.

I JUST WANT MY GIRL BACK TO ME I DINT DO ANYTHIN TO HER THEN Y TIS IS HAPPENING WITH ME NOR I DITCHED OR DUMPED ANY OTHER GIRL IN MY LIFE Y ITS COMING ON ME PLZ HELP ME OUT
I TRIE D EVERY POSSIBLE METHOD TO TALK TO HER FIRST I TRIED IT PATIENTLY THEN WEN THINGS DINT WORK OUT I IN ANGER DID SOME STUPID STUFFS AFTER KNOWING THAT SHE HAS BLOCKED ME ON FACEBOOK.
I MESSEGED HER THREATNING TAT I WILL TELL EVERYTHING TO YOUR PARENTS WAT WE DID TOGETHER(MAKE OUT) AND HER MOM IN REPLY MESSAGED ME AS UR SO BAD. DEN I TOLD HER MOM TAT THAT WEN I NEEDED U THE MOST U PEOPLE LEFT ME ALONE I FOUGHT WITH MY PARENTS FOR U I LEFT MY HOUSE SINCE THEN AND PUTTING UP IN ANOTHER CITY BECAUSE OF U ALL NW UR DOING TIS TO ME DEN I THREATENED THEM FOR REVENGE. SINCE THEN MY GFS CELL IS SWITCHED OFF THEN I HACKED HER EMAIL ID AND FACEBOOK ACCOUNT AND GAVE IT BAK TO HER.I MESSAGED HER POLITELY BY MAKING NEW ACCOUNT ON FACEBOOK BUT WITHOUT REPLYING SHE BLOCKED ME AND TRIED SEVERAL TIMES SHE BLOCKED ALL MY ACCOUNTS FINALLY I THREATENED HER SEE HER FACE 2 FACE IN HER CITY.TILL NOW SHE HASNT TOLD ME 'NO' I FORCED HER TO TELL ME ATLEAST YES OR NO TO STOP MY FRUSTRATION AND DESPERATION. NOW SINCE 23RD SEPT I HAVENT CALLED MESSAGED OR DONE ANYTHING TO HER. BUT NW 2MORROW IS DIWALI FESTIVAL I DONT KNW WT TO DO AND ALSO HER BIRTHDAY IS FALLING IN THIS MONTH ON 30TH OCT I DNT KNW WAT TO DO......THE LAST TIME I TALKED HER WAS ON 12TH SEPTEMBER WEN I ASKED HER TAT DO U STILL LOVE ME OR EVERYTHING WAS FAKE SHE SAID I STILL LUV U AND TOLD ME TO BELIEVE IN DESTINY AS SHE IS 25 AND I M 21 SO AGE OF MARRIAGE IS GOING..ALSO ASKED HER IF I BECOME SOMETHING NEXT YEAR WOULD U MARRY ME SHE SAID YES BUT SINCE THEB SHE DINT CALL ME... I ASKED HER WHY DEN SHE SAID TAT HER CELL IS WITH HER DAD AND HE SAID I WILL DIE IF E SEE U TALKING TO HIM OR I WILL SEND U TO DUBAI FOREVER...........BUT WEN SHE DID NT CALL ME FOR A WEEK FROM OTHER NUMBER OR FROM OUTSIDE I GREW IMPATIENT AND DID ALL STUPID STUFFS MENTIONED ABOVE

CMON WATS MY FAULT I NEVER DID WRNG TO HER Y SHE IS DOING TIS TO ME I LUVED HER LIKE CRAZY EVEN SHE DID AND I DINT CARE FOR ANYTHING ELSE OTHER THAN HER NOT EVEN MY PARENTS BUT NOW SHE IS GETTING INFLUENCED BY HER PARENTS WHY? I TALKED TO HER BROTHER HE SAID MOVE ON LIVE UR LIFE AND LET HER LIVE HERS SHE DOESNTS WANT TO TALK TO YOU

PLZ ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS
1] WHY TILL NOW SHE HAVENT SAID NO TO ME?
4] HOW SHOULD I REACT NOW?
5]HOW TO GET HER BACK?
6]HOW SHOULD I FIX UP THINGS?
PLZ HELP ME OUT PLZZZZ

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ANSWER: Heey,
I really think that she still loves you becuase otherwise she wouldve said no by now. But as your dad canceled the engagment she gets mad at you because he is your dad. Thats what girls always do. If i had a boyfriend and did that i would react the same way. I would be so mad because i was so happy and then the dad just ruins everything. To make things better is talk to your parents and make the engagment happen. You have to tell your dad everything and how he ruined everything. You shouldnt really have told her mom about you guys makin out and stuff because parents dont really want to hear that. They like sweet guys and sweet guys dont really say stuff like that. You have to sit down with everybody and talk stuff out. Make your mom make all the arrangments that your family and her family and of course you both meet and discuss everything. On her birthday you can easily get her back. You should sit on the front door of her or just like be infront of her window and make something so romantic that she has to cry and fall into your arms. Maybe write a poem or a song for her that would make her forget everything. Trust me- that always helps!
It really seems like you are having such bad luck right now!
i hope it gets better!
If you need an ything more please write a follow up and rate me :)
Lizzie

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QUESTION: HEY THINGS R LIKE TIS WAY SHE LIVES IN CITY WHICH IS 1200 KMS AWAY FROM HERE AND NOW AS I DONT HAVE ANY COMMUNICATION WITH HER I DONT KNW HOW TO GET TO HER..AS I AM NOT SURE WHETHER I LL B ABLE TO MEET HER AFTER GETTIN THR...DNT KNW WAT TO DO... I TRIED EVERY WAY TO TALK TO HER BUT SHE KEEP ON BLOCKIN ME ON FACEBOOK..... MY FATHER HE CANNOT B CONVINCED N NOW I AM NOT TALKIN TO HIM ANYMORE ,, MY GIRL HAVE NT CONTACTED ME TILL NOW BY ANY MEANS INSTEAD SHE CHANGED HER CELL NUMBERS, 1 OF MY FRIEND MESSAGED HER TAT Y UR DOING TIS TO HIM HE WAS ALWAZ URS NOW UR JUST MAKIN HIM SICK TALK TO HIM ONCE FOR THE SAKE OF HUMANITY.. AND THEN SHE BLOCKED HER ALSO I GREW INSANE AND ALL MY FRIENDS FORCED ME AND GUIDED ME NOT TO WISH HER ON HER BDAY SO I DID THE SAME...NW DNT SAY IT WAS A MISTAKE BUT ACTUALLY I WANTED HER TO FEEL SAME AGONY AS IN I AM.... SEE I LOVE HER LIKE CRAZY NOW I HAVE NO HINT WHAT TO DO...NOW ONLY 1 THING IS POSSIBLE THAT I BECOME SOMETHING N THEN ASK FOR MARRIAGE NEXT YEAR BUT THEN ALSO M NOT SURE TAT SHELL B READY OR NOT...I HAVE NO CLUE BOUT HER NOW...BUT I CAN STILL FEEL VIBES OF HER THINKING BOUT ME... PLZ TELL ME SMTHIN
N ASK ANYTHING FROM ME IF YOU WANT MORE DATA....PLZ

Answer
Hey,
WOW she really doesn't want to talk to you..
You know i really think that you should drive all the way to her house and stand in front of her house with a rose or actually go inside IF she is here. If she is not here then you can like wait with your car outside and when she comes you show her the rose. You know by facebook or cellphone you will never talk to her again. You have to do it personally that she actually feels that she means so much to you. If you do what i just told you to do then she will think that you don't care what your dad says and you love her so much to drive all the way to her just so you can talk. Trust me- if you do that she will really talk to you.
She will feel safe with you and comfortable. Talking in personal always is the solution. With facebook or texting you will get nowhere.
I hope this helped!
if you need anything else please write a follow up and rate me!
Lizzie

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