Dealing with Crushes/Confused


Okay so on last Thursday I told my friend to tell the guy I like that I liked him, well they never got a clear answer because he is Colombian and doesn't know that good of English but he knows enough to have a relationship, well she brought him to me. Me and him talked about me liking him. We talked all lunch but through the whole hour of lunch he never told me if he likes me but he asked if why I liked him so I told him but I am just confused and don't know if he likes me or not

Dear Emily,

       It might not be a good idea to involve a 3rd person in such things. It is usually simpler and much easier if you talk directly to the person involved.

  From what you said, the guy seems to be unclear about you or is trying not to reveal his feelings for you in case he has any. In any case, I don't think it is a good option for you to ponder about it too much. It might sound a bit harsh for you but your better off putting your energy on something else like career, hobby etc.

        You have told the guy that you like me. So you have done your bit. If he is interested, let me come back to you. There's no use in you worrying about what he thinks of you when he hasn't revealed his feelings. Hope this helps.


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I can answer questions related to crushes. I believe I can help teenagers about the problems and difficulties that they have when they get attracted to members of opposite sex. I don't think I will be handle questions on physical relationships and sex.


I am 29 now and I have faced such situations during my teenage and even after that. Based on this, I consider myself adept to be dealing with such situations.

I am an engineering graduate in Computer Science. I have done n M.B.A in Communication Management.

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