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I've liked this guy for almost 3 years and I don't really know why. We have been acquaintances for ages and our families are friends, but he only talks to me outside of school, and that's only a few times a year. I've tried everything to get over him but I can't! He knows i like him but he doesn't seem interested. And whilst I want to get over him, there's something telling me not to. Please help!!

Dear Stella,

First I thank you for posting your question.

I advice to you go to him and speak up your feelings.  I know it is going to be hard but you have no choice left. Are you ready to stay like this forever? I don't think so. And if he says that he is not interested in you, then move on. Tell yourself that if he rejected your feelings, it means that he doesn't deserve your heart. If you think that face to face is going to be uncomfortable then try talking to him on Facebook (if you have his) or on MSN. But, it is better face to face since it avoids misunderstandings in communication. Trust me, once you let out your feelings to the person you want to tell, whether it may turn positive or negative, you will able to move on a lot easier since nothing in your heart is holding you back. :)

Hope it helps you

And good luck!

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