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Ok, so i like this guy and we i have known him for about a year now. We go to school together and are in the band together. We started becoming friends towards christmas of last year and then around march i discovered i liked him. We continued to be friends throughout the summer and i invited him to this lake party i am having. We talk online a lot but the funny thing is i never im him first he always ims me. He is always interested in what i like and we have very similar interests. Today was registration and i saw him there and i stayed with my girl friends most of the time but i would look down the line and i saw him looking at me but as soon as i looked at him he turned away. When i got home from registration, he imed me to ask what my schedule was and then asked me where my locker was. When he found out my locker was 2 over from his he was like YOU'RE RIGHT NEXT TO ME!!! and then we started talking about stuff. When we had free time in band at the end of last year i noticed he would always come over and talk to me and my friends instead of hanging out with his buddies. He also looks directly in my eyes when he talks to me. oh and about the lake thing i invited about 5 guys but he is the only one coming..i told him this and he was like that's fine. i was surprised by his answer and he seems like he is looking forward to it.....what does all of this mean...does he like me back or is he just a friend? i need some serious help thanx a ton i'm out

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Hello Emily.

He likes you... He is trying very hard to get to know you. Im sure he is glad that he is the only Guy, that way he has you to himself. Just be sure to spend some time with him. If you keep ignoring him he will move on to another Girl. You can enjoy your friends but you have to show him that you want him around also.

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