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About Estelle
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Expertise
I am open to all sorts of questions about crushes - how to deal with them, how to find out whether he/she likes you, how to best handle the situation at hand. I will also try my best to help you analyze your case and see how likely he/she will answer your prayers! WILL REJECT ALL QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX OR SEXUAL EXPERIENCES! STATE AGE & GENDER IN YOUR QUESTION PLEASE.

Experience
I have gone through quite a few crushes myself. Now that I am well and off in college, I feel like I can give some advice to peers or those younger than me. My friends often comes to me for advice on this subject matter as well. I have been able to guide both myself and my friends into great relationships. I am also a psychology major with a lot of interest in this topic. I am very eager to help those who have any questions.

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College major in Psychology.

   

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In Category  Dealing with Crushes

SubjectDate Asked

Crush10/8/2008
  Q: I have a crush on a Girl who is intoxicating how do i get her to notice me? Shes in my gym class but ...
  A: Perhaps you can walk over to her in gym and talk to her casually. Get to know her as friend and then ...
I just need a second opinion.10/6/2008
  Q: I am a 28 year old female. I am friends with this guy who lives down in the east coast ( i live in ...
  A: First I must apologize for not responding sooner. I have been away and did not expect my return to ...
i dont know what to do10/6/2008
  Q: alright well i have been talking to this girl ever since the 4th week of school and i told her that ...
  A: First I must apologize for not responding sooner. I have been away and did not expect my return to ...
does he like me?10/5/2008
  Q: ive liked this guy for 9 months now. i know pathetic. but i really really like him but i dont know ...
  A: First I must apologize for not responding sooner. I have been away and did not expect my return to ...
He's giving off mixed signals10/5/2008
  Q: So there's this guy l0l and apparently we're "jus friends". I'm only a junior in higschool. A few ...
  A: First I must apologize for not responding sooner. I have been away and did not expect my return to ...
mr right?9/20/2008
  Q: I'm female, 14 years old. Last year, I met this guy that was in my class, but we never got to talk ...
  A: Don't wait for him to have a class with you! If you see him around the hallways or such, go talk to ...
Does he like me, by any chance?9/20/2008
  Q: What is it? I mean, is it love or what? Hey I am 16. I go to Standard 11th... Science. I am in ...
  A: Whether you like him or not is only a question you can answer yourself. Consider whether you would ...
I need your opinion9/20/2008
  Q: Hey Estelle I'm Paul, I'm 16, and I'm a junior in High School. Alright, well when school started ...
  A: I'm sorry but this might hurt-- I don't think she is interested. You need to hang out with her a lot ...
Ex boyfriend9/19/2008
  Q: me an this guy dated 4 a year and then broke up on our year anniversary. We didnt tlk 4 about a year ...
  A: I think he is trying to tell you it is time for you to move on as well. It's not like your pain will ...
old friends..9/18/2008
  Q: Hey. I have a problem. Me and my best guy friend started going out during the school year, and it ...
  A: I'm sorry but I can't take your advice. It really depends on the person and sometimes it does work ...
Crush and Knows...9/18/2008
  Q: Well i have had the biggest crush on a guy friend and my friends persuaded me to tell him and now i ...
  A: It sucks that he is not responding. Perhaps you should ask him again to reconfirm his feelings. ...
Crush and Knows...9/17/2008
  Q: Well i have had the biggest crush on a guy friend and my friends persuaded me to tell him and now i ...
  A: Maybe you should ask him whether he likes you or not. I mean you told him already so it isn't a big ...
hmmm9/17/2008
  Q: I was wonder about something. I kinda have a crush on this girl. Well I kinda don’t. Let me ...
  A: The answer could be she just might have seen you the first time. Did you make eye contact? Perhaps ...
anything you can tell me is great please9/17/2008
  Q: im amanda and im 17 years old i worked at a camp this summer and i became friends with one of the ...
  A: Don't text him every day unless if he texts you back. Don't call him for every petty little thing ...
How do I ask her out? When?9/15/2008
  Q: I want to thank you so much for your help. I really need a girl's opinion on what to do. Here is my ...
  A: I think you might be pushing this too hard, but she also seems to be giving mixed signals a lot. She ...
Boy9/13/2008
  Q: well theres this boy in my gym class and well he always says hi to me and i say hi back one time i ...
  A: It could be a sign like your friend said, but it's hard for me to predict because I don't really ...
Boy9/13/2008
  Q: well theres this boy in my gym class and well he always says hi to me and i say hi back one time i ...
  A: Your dream of the two of you hugging just shows your feelings towards him, but it doesn't represent ...
Boy9/12/2008
  Q: well theres this boy in my gym class and well he always says hi to me and i say hi back one time i ...
  A: As much as I would love to give you answers, I can't predict what he will say or ask you. It sounds ...
Co-worker situation9/11/2008
  Q: How should I ask my ex-co worker out?, I only got to say hi once! (keep reading...)? I only worked ...
  A: I think you should just drop by his office when you go to return your keys. Ask him if you can speak ...
Does He Like Me?9/8/2008
  Q: I'm Eliese and I am 13 years old and Christian. And there is this guy I like and his name is Andrew ...
  A: The question you ask is one that I can give no answer. I cannot possibly tell you whether it is ...
Nervous Guy.9/6/2008
  Q: This situation is quite simple and straight-forward stuff. It’s clear that a shy, nervous guy in my ...
  A: I'm sure you aren't that scary that he will have a nervous break down on the spot! Go talk to him, ...
bff crush?9/6/2008
  Q: okay so I just turned eighteen and have never gone out with anyone in my entire life. So this may ...
  A: It is hard to decide when you come to crossroads such as this. It's true, your friendship is on the ...
i really really really like this kid and i want him to like me too. but i don't know if he does.9/6/2008
  Q: hey. thanks for helping. theres this kid at my school and i want to know if he likes me back. hes ...
  A: It is quite unfortunate that he can't date currently. I must point out though, that he knows who he ...
what should i do about my crush8/30/2008
  Q: ok so, i started college in January of this year, and there was this guy there. At first glance i ...
  A: That sounds like a really tough situation. Perhaps he was injured in his past relationship and just ...
new school8/30/2008
  Q: Hey,so i just moved to a new town and started a new school. I saw this guy in my english class who i ...
  A: Ask him about his interests and try to start a conversation from there. Don't try too hard to ...
The Boy from work8/29/2008
  Q: I'm in a awkward position, and id appreciate any help you could give.Sorry if its long :(. I ...
  A: Ask yourself, do you like him? Do you still want to be with your current boyfriend? If you like him, ...
2 Part Question8/26/2008
  Q: I'm 18 and I have basically a 2 part question. I have 2 different crushes on 2 completely different ...
  A: As much as any man would like to have more than one girl, it is, 'unfortunately', unacceptable and ...
i like my sisters best friend8/25/2008
  Q: i think my sisters best friend is so hot and im quite shy to talk to her and shes the same around ...
  A: I personally think it would be better if you confessed while your sister is not there, but it is ...
Brandon8/25/2008
  Q: There's a boy who sits right across from me in school.I have an extreme crush on him!During class i ...
  A: It's very hard to tell whether he likes you or not from the limited amount of information that you ...
This girl is so confusing I don't know what to do8/24/2008
  Q: Okay she's a friend of my ex-girlfriend from a year ago and I've liked her before I went out with my ...
  A: Have you ever thought about how she must feel? It seems like she likes you but is reluctant to show ...
i like my sisters best friend8/23/2008
  Q: i think my sisters best friend is so hot and im quite shy to talk to her and shes the same around ...
  A: I hope you get my reply although I am not emailing you directly, but through AllExperts. I'm afraid ...
Celebrity Crush8/23/2008
  Q: ok Im sure I sound stuoid but I am in love with Alyson Michalka, and well I want to do something ...
  A: I doubt you truly are in love with her. Without knowing a person, it's really impossible to fall in ...
8th day of highschool. like a girl8/21/2008
  Q: hey whats up i am austin and im a freshman. i am on my 8th day of schoool. i made some pretty cool ...
  A: I'm sorry but I don't know how anybody can practice to come up with things to say. If you find ...
crush8/21/2008
  Q: i am actually one year senior to the girl in question.i have talked with her once .before that we ...
  A: There is absolutely no way for me to know what she is thinking, but you can find out by asking her. ...
8th day of highschool. like a girl8/20/2008
  Q: hey whats up i am austin and im a freshman. i am on my 8th day of schoool. i made some pretty cool ...
  A: Congratulations making it to Freshman year! It is normal for you to lose some confidence when you ...
crush that likes someone else8/20/2008
  Q: im an 18 year old guy. i started liking her awhile ago, before i even met her. i had seen her around ...
  A: It really isn't up to me to decide what you should do because this is still your problem. You need ...
crush that likes someone else8/16/2008
  Q: im an 18 year old guy. i started liking her awhile ago, before i even met her. i had seen her around ...
  A: It is normal for someone to fall into the same situation as you are in right now. You just need to ...
truth8/15/2008
  Q: should i tell everyone who i like.i know who i like likes me back? what should you do in a middle ...
  A: It is entirely up to you to decide whether you want people to know who you like. I don't highly ...
Does He Like Me Based on These Signs?8/13/2008
  Q: Hey! There’s a little problem that I have that I probably have put off for too long. I am female and ...
  A: I'm sorry but I don't think he likes you just as of yet. He definitely values you as a good friend, ...
Why were the 2 girls looking at me ?8/12/2008
  Q: I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a ...
  A: The question is why were you looking at her? Likely it would be the same reason she is looking at ...
i like him, he likes me8/11/2008
  Q: ok, well i like this guy and were pretty much best friends, and i veryy sure that he likes me and i ...
  A: Personally I would suggest asking him out when you two are alone. That way it is more private and ...
Pastors daughter8/11/2008
  Q: I am 13 almost 14 I have fallen in love with my pastor's 14 year old daughter I have known her for ...
  A: Talk to her, find out her likes and dislikes, ask her to hang out with you, etc. But don't obsess ...
grrrrrr!!8/9/2008
  Q: I like this guy and hes like 15 and im 12 almost 13. But the BIG problem is that hes friends with ...
  A: That sounds a bit extreme, but it isn't because he hates you, he would just be really awkward for ...
i like him!!!!8/9/2008
  Q: ok this boy he went to summer school with me and i really have a huge crush on him and i dont really ...
  A: There is no way for you to know if he likes you if you don't talk to you. In this case, it sounds ...
grrrrrr!!8/8/2008
  Q: I like this guy and hes like 15 and im 12 almost 13. But the BIG problem is that hes friends with ...
  A: I'm sure he wouldn't hate you if you liked him. He might feel awkward if he found out, but he ...
grrrrrr!!8/7/2008
  Q: I like this guy and hes like 15 and im 12 almost 13. But the BIG problem is that hes friends with ...
  A: What did you mean by he's friends with your sister? Did you mean he seems to like her? To be ...
How can i speak to girls if i have low self steem ?8/5/2008
  Q: I'm 18 male teen and i am have sooo low self esteem that it's killing my chances of meeting girls. ...
  A: Have you ever tried questioning yourself as to why you have such low self esteem? What do you feel ...
I met this girl8/3/2008
  Q: My name is Ben, I am 15 years old. Last monday I helped out at this VBS (Vacation Bible School) at a ...
  A: If you have her number, give her a call and ask her to the Fair as a friend. If you don't have a ...
Triangle8/2/2008
  Q: hey, so theirs 3 girls named Natale,Bianca and Stephanie. they all are best friends, it all started ...
  A: Boy have you gotten yourself into some complicated day time drama! First of all, it is wrong to ...
I have no idea what happend.8/2/2008
  Q: Well it all started when my parents moved me to this new school,i was in 8th grade and i had no ...
  A: First of all, I want you to know physical appearance is not the deciding factor in any long lasting ...
Crush?8/1/2008
  Q: In school there's this kid that does not stop staring at me,. It all started in the beginnig of the ...
  A: Smiling at you is definitely a good sign, but it can also just be a friendly gesture. If you can't ...
my crush7/26/2008
  Q: I have this MAJOR CRUSH on this one guy i know that goes to my school and is my age. He knows I like ...
  A: I don't really recommend for people to go into relationships at too early an age. If your parents do ...
Crushes7/26/2008
  Q: I think I really like this guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. My mom thinks that I'm too ...
  A: 13 is a rather young age, and I don't really recommend any serious relationships at this point in ...
confused7/24/2008
  Q: I am 17 and a female, Well my issue is this, there is this guy at my work that i like. He is really ...
  A: First of all, hanging out with your ex too much may make any boy think that you are still not over ...
is it just me?7/24/2008
  Q: I saw my crush on July 9th and got his number the same day i found out he had a girlfriend. that ...
  A: I'm sorry the person this question was originally for was unable to answer it, but I will try my ...
i like this girl but i just can't...7/21/2008
  Q: (18, male) First off i called this girl about a power outage in my city. she said that she had no ...
  A: I'm not sure why she doesn't call you back, but you shouldn't worry too much about that since she ...
i like this girl but i just can't...7/21/2008
  Q: (18, male) First off i called this girl about a power outage in my city. she said that she had no ...
  A: You need to be confident about yourself, this girl obviously is interested! Don't be afraid of how ...
My best guy friend7/18/2008
  Q: Ok I'm 12 yrs. old and I've fallen for my best guy friend. We have pretty much everything in common. ...
  A: It seems like all signs are heading for the right direction! The easiest way to find out is by ...
What do i do?7/18/2008
  Q: I'm 15 years old, and i just went on a 6 day camp with a youth movement. On that camp i got to know ...
  A: I can't really give you a set of hints for you to use because I'm not there when you are trying to ...
What do i do?7/17/2008
  Q: I'm 15 years old, and i just went on a 6 day camp with a youth movement. On that camp i got to know ...
  A: Since you don't think she likes you as of right now, what you can do is continue to be her friend ...
I just found out that the girl I like is interested in someone else...7/16/2008
  Q: And it looks like they're going to be dating soon. I'm Francis, and I'm 15 years old. I can see why ...
  A: I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but keep an open mind, there are plenty of other girls who are ...
I'm not sure what to do...7/6/2008
  Q: Hey! I'm 13 years old. You may not be able to help me, but I'll give it a shot. Well, there's this ...
  A: It is not my position to say whether you should still like Dylan. I don't think you can decide ...
they don't believe me7/5/2008
  Q: Well, I've liked this guy named Luke since last year. We are the same age and we sat next to each ...
  A: I don't recommend for you to go after Kyle actively if he has a girlfriend currently. I think he is ...
should i tell him or not?7/4/2008
  Q: i am not sure if i should say anything to him...please answer i need to know if it is ok for me to ...
  A: Sorry to burst your bubble but we are all just volunteers here not professionals- we are only giving ...
love at first sight / crush7/3/2008
  Q: Well this is a bit of a strange question i recently saw this girl in a shop near me i had never seen ...
  A: You are very welcome! Since you don't even know the girl, I suggest for you to talk to her first, ...
they don't believe me7/3/2008
  Q: Well, I've liked this guy named Luke since last year. We are the same age and we sat next to each ...
  A: I'm so sorry I didn't reply to your question earlier- the website has been screwy and I was ...
they don't believe me7/1/2008
  Q: Well, I've liked this guy named Luke since last year. We are the same age and we sat next to each ...
  A: It could be that Luke didn't know what else to say to you. He is either confused about whether he ...
weird crushes, kind of a love triangle7/1/2008
  Q: I like these 2 guys, and they are like best friends. I think they like me, although both of them are ...
  A: As tempting as it may sound, you need to figure out who you like more. You can't have both you know! ...
shy crush?7/1/2008
  Q: There's this guy at work (I'm 18, he's 21) that I like very much. The only problem is that he's ...
  A: I think you are thinking way too much into this. Even strangers can be found across the hall from ...
shy crush?7/1/2008
  Q: There's this guy at work (I'm 18, he's 21) that I like very much. The only problem is that he's ...
  A: Sounds like this guy is a definite possibility! If he's everywhere you are it could be that HE is ...
Cant stop thinking about her!!6/30/2008
  Q: my name is ray im 17, and my crush is 15, she's a really busy person, and im not so i have alot of ...
  A: No pain no gain! You are just going to have to step out of your shyness if you ever want to know if ...
Cant stop thinking about her!!6/30/2008
  Q: my name is ray im 17, and my crush is 15, she's a really busy person, and im not so i have alot of ...
  A: it sounds like you are on the right road! if she wants you to go swimming with her, why don't you ...
Cant stop thinking about her!!6/30/2008
  Q: my name is ray im 17, and my crush is 15, she's a really busy person, and im not so i have alot of ...
  A: If she's busy- what is she doing? Clubs or extracurricular? You can join some of the activities she ...
what should i do?6/29/2008
  Q: My name's Lenny [female] im 17 and uh here it goes: Lately i've been going to the pool a lot and ...
  A: It's fine for you to make the first move, especially if he's shy. He might be in too much shock that ...
Is my mind tricking me or does he like me?6/28/2008
  Q: Ok, so theres this guy I really like; actually I've liked him for like 4 or 5 years now (we've been ...
  A: STOP TEXTING HIM IMMEDIATELY! Or else you will come off as desperate and needy. It's one thing to ...
getting her to notice me6/28/2008
  Q: i feel a bit younger for this one but i'm really lost and i have no idea what to do. i'm a 17 year ...
  A: I'm pretty sure she does know your existence, but may not be interested in you yet. So as nerve ...
Mixed Signals6/27/2008
  Q: My apologies for this being EXTRA long. There's this guy I've had a crush on at a place we both ...
  A: This is a very personal case, so I don't know if I would be right in answering this. Just take my ...
More than friends...?6/26/2008
  Q: So there's this girl, Valarie, who I'm really good friends with. In middle school, I accidently ...
  A: Calling to ask if she wants to go swimming doesn't sound desperate to me. You can say something like ...
Crush that should be crushed?6/26/2008
  Q: My crush name is Joc' for short.( a lil nickname I gave him.) He has a girlfriend(I think they still ...
  A: The picture thing is interesting- like I said before, I think he is interested, but I don't know if ...
Crush that should be crushed?6/26/2008
  Q: My crush name is Joc' for short.( a lil nickname I gave him.) He has a girlfriend(I think they still ...
  A: It could be that he is interested - but if he's dating currently then I don't think you should put ...
Best guy-friend is crush. . .6/25/2008
  Q: Okay, I'm 13 and a girl. Well, it just so happens that I have a crush on my best guy-friend. I've ...
  A: Don't worry about the length- it's better to know more details! A lot of times boys THINK that they ...
What happened?6/24/2008
  Q: So I met this great guy at efy (a church camp for lds) and we found out that we live in the same ...
  A: I was afraid that he was just playing with you and that's why he didn't call you right back - I ...
What happened?6/24/2008
  Q: So I met this great guy at efy (a church camp for lds) and we found out that we live in the same ...
  A: Sorry that I couldn't get to answer your question in time last time! Anyway, I'm glad to know that ...
crush6/23/2008
  Q: so there is this guy...duh lol i really like him and have done for most of the past school year. i ...
  A: At this point I think it's best to just be friends first and see if you can develop any further. ...
Why were people looking at me ?6/17/2008
  Q: After 4 weeks of holiday, i went back to school & i noticed that several people (boys and girls) ...
  A: This really isn't a question that's posted in the right category. I think the answer is really ...
uGHH6/16/2008
  Q: Sooo this may get a little confusing but ill try my best; So at the begining of this year (school ...
  A: I think what you should do is just to start talking to him again. Just say that you wanted to catch ...
I can't stop thinking of her6/16/2008
  Q: I met her in the begining of senior year, she had a bf at the time and still does. We clicked and ...
  A: Hope it's not too late! Here's what I think: You should just tell her that you just want to be ...
What's this guy thinking?6/15/2008
  Q: I am considered to be in the "preppy,cheerleader" clique. There is this one guy in my old S.S and ...
  A: First you have to ask yourself if you really like this "popular" guy for who he is, or because he is ...
What happened?6/13/2008
  Q: So I met this great guy at efy (a church camp for lds) and we found out that we live in the same ...
  A: Hope my answer won't come too late! I think you should call him 120%. He already called you so it ...
Help with a nagging problem6/12/2008
  Q: I'm 17 and I need some advice about a little problem that I have. There is a girl that I have been ...
  A: Sorry the orignial person to whom you directed this question to was unable to answer it. I hope my ...
me and my crush <36/12/2008
  Q: Hey :) so i was reading your little note on saying how to help people out with their "crush ...
  A: Sorry the person you were originally directing this question to couldn't respond to it. I hope you ...
How do I get out of it6/12/2008
  Q: Well there has been a girl at my school who is in love with me,or may I say has a crush for me.But I ...
  A: If you truly do not like her, you should let her know. It might hurt her now, but it is for her ...
Can you give me some advice?5/27/2008
  Q: I'm 16 and a sophomore in High school. How do you talk to girls in person and on the phone without ...
  A: Sorry Erika was unable to answer your question. Hopefully you will find my answer equally ...
does he like me5/26/2008
  Q: my crush likes me . I'm 13 and me and him are really good friends . i have even asked him out before ...
  A: To be quite honest with you I think at 13 you are still a bit young to be dating. However, I'm not ...

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