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Crushh12/10/2011
  Q: Hey! I'm 13. theres this boy in the year below me, and hes cute, plays guitar, good looking etc. we ...
  A: Just talk to him and get to know him better. This will also give him the chance to get to know you ...
I like this guy but i don't know if he likes me12/7/2011
  Q: One day in class i didn't have anything to do but homework from a class before, but i didn't knwo ...
  A: From what you have explained, it is too early to comment whether this guy likes you or if he has ...
Do i like him?8/11/2009
  Q: There's this guy who studies in one class lower to me. But he's actually older than me since I'm the ...
  A: Well, from what you say, you do seem to like him. It might be admiration or may be an infatuation. ...
help8/5/2009
  Q: anyways, im 14 year old ihave a crush on aboy who comes in the same church as i do he is my friend ...
  A: Since you have said that he is already a friend, try to get to know him better. You could probably ...
crushing help is needed3/8/2009
  Q: I am crushing on this guy and i think he likes me too.We have beeen friends for 3 years and i am ...
  A: I think you are thinking a bit too much about him. If you feel that you cannot really stop this, I ...
HUGE PROBLEM!3/7/2009
  Q: to make a very long story short, i really like this guy, but we dont really talk or hang out or ...
  A: I understand your situation. However I would suggest you not to rely too much on what you feel. ...
does he like me or whats the deal with him.3/6/2009
  Q: i intern in a magic show and a new magician came to perform. i was his assistant for the nite.. when ...
  A: It is difficult for me( third person despite being an expert) to make out if he really likes you. I ...
A boy i like11/20/2008
  Q: So there is this guy that i really like, but there was this dance that i danced with him and ...
  A: I don't think you need to feel awkward about the whole thing. You did not speak to him since you ...
Does He Like and If He Does What SHould I Do?11/19/2008
  Q: hey, im 13 yrs old and in 8th grade. I like this guy named Juan who is a tenth grader but i dont ...
  A: From what you have mentioned in the mail, it appears that the guy is just flirting around with you. ...
how11/17/2008
  Q: how do u get over someone u have loved for 6 years but he never wanted ANYTHING 2 do wit me
  A: Any relationship in the world is a two-way process. Love is also one such relationship. We often ...
does he like me........ why did he ignore me .. and then came back11/17/2008
  Q: I am Shuba. I am an Indian . I really need your help. My problem is that i am really confused ...
  A: Non-verbally!!! Well, that might be his style or may be he is shy. But I guess shy guys would not ...
crushes11/16/2008
  Q: Ok, I like this girl in my grade and I don't know if she likes me back. How can I figure out if she ...
  A: First, talk to the girl and be a friend to her. I think that's the best way that you can get to know ...
does he like me........ why did he ignore me .. and then came back11/16/2008
  Q: I am Shuba. I am an Indian . I really need your help. My problem is that i am really confused ...
  A: I went through your entire mail. Let make things simple. For a moment forget about what the guy ...
My friend likes this guy10/23/2008
  Q: I like this guy very secretly. I have not told anybody, which is pretty big for me. I have liked him ...
  A: While I fully understand your situation, I want to know if the guy liked you or had any feelings for ...
Confused, rejected but still hopefull10/22/2008
  Q: hey, i really like someone in my year and I've liked him for a while now. It's nothing too serious, ...
  A: The fact that he lied to you is an indication that he might not be too interested. There might be ...
Unknown10/21/2008
  Q: I feel very stongly about this girl and i dont think its getting anywhere that i want it to. she ...
  A: The solution is simple. Please don't expect anything from her. Just be a friend. I am sure you ...
crush on cousin10/21/2008
  Q: im so confused... i have a crush on my step 1st cousin once removed i think it works out to be that ...
  A: I am too confused about the blood relations, so i won't discuss it. I fully understand your ...
This guy.10/19/2008
  Q: So I kinda like this boy named Chris.He's a year younger than me but he's really cool.We're both in ...
  A: I am amazed at the way you remember all the minute details that involved both of you. Based on what ...
Unknown10/18/2008
  Q: I feel very stongly about this girl and i dont think its getting anywhere that i want it to. she ...
  A: First of all, overcome this 'I will do everything in the world for this girl' attitude. I mean you ...
Would a girl like this approach & brighten her day ?10/16/2008
  Q: I see this girl in my gym every now and then, who i think is stunning. If i was to randomly go up to ...
  A: The reaction of the girl finally depends on whether she likes the guy or not. All the rest of the ...
What does this mean?(Does he like me?)10/16/2008
  Q: Ok,my guy friend ( who I like :-) ) and I were chatting on IM and talking about random stuff when ...
  A: Before I answer you, I would like to know if you ever met the guy outside in the real world? It is ...
guitar girl8/23/2008
  Q: hey whats up my name is austin and im a freshman. its been about the 9th day of school. theirs tis ...
  A: I guess you run out of stuff because you get too conscious about her. Try not feel conscious and I ...
guitar girl8/21/2008
  Q: hey whats up my name is austin and im a freshman. its been about the 9th day of school. theirs tis ...
  A: I feel you are getting too nervous while talking to her. Chill and relax! Don't think about how ...
Am I still in love with him?8/20/2008
  Q: Okay I confessed my love to this boy I like on the day before my graduation from middle school. But ...
  A: I can understand what you are going through. First of all be clear on your feelings for him. You ...
Crush8/16/2008
  Q: Ok well i like one of my bestfriend friends and i wonder if either i should just talk to her to get ...
  A: From what you have explained, I think you should talk to your crush and get to know her more. ...
Why were the 2 girls looking at me ?8/12/2008
  Q: I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a ...
  A: I am no fortune-teller to predict what they were thinking.I don't mean to offend you but the it ...
i dont know what can i do...7/17/2008
  Q: .IM 17 YEARS OLD AND MI EX BOYFRIEND IS 20 AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 MONTHS but he had to move so ...
  A: The first thing that you should have done is to tell him that you miss him so much and find out if ...

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I can answer questions related to crushes. I believe I can help teenagers about the problems and difficulties that they have when they get attracted to members of opposite sex. I don't think I will be handle questions on physical relationships and sex.

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I am 29 now and I have faced such situations during my teenage and even after that. Based on this, I consider myself adept to be dealing with such situations.

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I am an engineering graduate in Computer Science. I have done n M.B.A in Communication Management.

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