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| Trying to make an impossible situation work | 11/12/2009 |
Q: I'm a 19 year old college student and the girl is the same age and goes to college a few states ...
A: Based on the above, I can't tell you if I would recommend you telling her directly how you feel. ...
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| help me out about a cush | 11/11/2009 |
Q: here is the problem i have a crush on my girl cousin she is 11 and I am 19 i really like her. i have ...
A: Ethically and legally you cannot date her. I recommend you to talk to your doctor about ways to ...
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| Friend, or something more . . . | 11/8/2009 |
Q: I am 17 years old and an American high school senior. He is 18, and a senior as well. we have been ...
A: OK I understand now. If you do tell him, how will he react? And if you tell him, will he be able to ...
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| Friend, or something more . . . | 11/8/2009 |
Q: I am 17 years old and an American high school senior. He is 18, and a senior as well. we have been ...
A: I think you got into dating too fast based on the above, but I am not sure if based on the above you ...
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| Trying to make an impossible situation work | 11/8/2009 |
Q: I'm a 19 year old college student and the girl is the same age and goes to college a few states ...
A: This is a normal problem. In cases like this, I recommend to start off as friends(if good person). ...
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| Hi Dan | 10/13/2009 |
Q: okay my question is:- 1. Would you have a crush on a girl who wears glasses? 2. Exactly what do u ...
A: Not sure why you are asking me those questions but I will answer: 1. Yes 2. "Who she is". That ...
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| Is this wrong to like her? | 10/1/2009 |
Q: I am 18 years old. I have a crush on this girl but the problem is the age. She is 11 years old. I ...
A: The predator issue is when you like 5 year olds or such. Some guys and girls online look up "nude" ...
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| Is this wrong to like her? | 9/30/2009 |
Q: I am 18 years old. I have a crush on this girl but the problem is the age. She is 11 years old. I ...
A: I wouldn't date her at all, sorry. Not even when she turns 16. The issue could be a "predator" type ...
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| Is this wrong to like her? | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I am 18 years old. I have a crush on this girl but the problem is the age. She is 11 years old. I ...
A: Good question. It is unethical and against our culture to date an 11 year old when you are 18, ...
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| follow up: PLEASE RESPOND IMMIDEATLY | 9/9/2009 |
Q: this is the same 13-year old girl who you recommended the hotline to and your e-mail. if you still ...
A: Sorry about the delay. Overloaded here. 1. I do what is right, not what makes me popular. This is ...
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| follow up: PLEASE RESPOND IMMIDEATLY | 9/2/2009 |
Q: this is the same 13-year old girl who you recommended the hotline to and your e-mail. if you still ...
A: I am here if you want to talk. I'm also here to listen. I really cannot recommend you to date him at ...
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| HeLp me! this is all i have left! | 8/28/2009 |
Q: PLEASE HELP ME! I'm 13 and this guy at my church is 13 too. I've know him since i was 2 or 3. our ...
A: I highly recommend to become a better of his friends if he is a good person. I wouldn't rush into ...
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| Unhappy situation | 8/23/2009 |
Q: but since i couldn't ask any more follow ups to that question, I had to ask this as a separate ...
A: I understand about the following up issue. You ask a good question, and honestly there is no easy, ...
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| In a unhappy situation | 8/20/2009 |
Q: Well i am a 16 year old guy. I am a bit confused.My crush and I were in the same class in the school ...
A: The feelings are clouded. Let me put it this way with the feelings being stronger now. Do you like ...
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| In a unhappy situation | 8/16/2009 |
Q: Well i am a 16 year old guy. I am a bit confused.My crush and I were in the same class in the school ...
A: The way she treated you made you have feelings for her. Also the fact she is taken may make you like ...
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| How do I stop crushing on my teacher? | 8/6/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 years old. I had this young, beautiful, really nice teacher now all of a sudden I can't stop ...
A: How often if ever do you look at the pictures of her in the yearbook? Did she sign the yearbook for ...
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| How do I stop crushing on my teacher? | 7/31/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 years old. I had this young, beautiful, really nice teacher now all of a sudden I can't stop ...
A: I am not going to push dating on you at age 17. Honestly I've read reports that recommend it at no ...
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| How do I stop crushing on my teacher? | 7/28/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 years old. I had this young, beautiful, really nice teacher now all of a sudden I can't stop ...
A: Well clearly it has to do with hormones. But it's also psychological. I have to ask have you ever ...
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| attration gone wrong | 6/15/2008 |
Q: some i end up like guys who obviously don,t like me at all. i am overweight i try lossiing weight ...
A: Finding the right person is very hard. I wish I can say one magic word that the world can listen to, ...
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| rejection all my lonly life i was meant to be alone | 6/3/2008 |
Q: i need your advice on my question or option my matter below? . i think romance and love isn,t for ...
A: I don't believe into rushing into dating. I will say that there is someone out there for you. It ...
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| Dating laws | 5/3/2008 |
Q: just wondering, a couple of things acctually... i noticed in your past answers that you always ...
A: I am not a lawyer and also do not live in California, so I cannot quote the laws for that state. I ...
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| this is long, but can you PLEASE help me | 4/14/2008 |
Q: Hey Dan, my names Paul, i'm 16, and i'm a sophmore. There's this freshman that i like, Kim, and I ...
A: Sorry about the delay. Long question. 1. I cannot answer question 1 per my listing policy here. ...
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| Is he for me? | 4/4/2008 |
Q: Hey there, I was dating a guy I really liked, and we were friends before, and we had a lot in ...
A: Taking care of an autistic brother can add a lot of stress onto the family. This could cause him to ...
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| him | 3/19/2008 |
Q: well there is this guy who told me that he did not like me in september and yesterday i was angry at ...
A: He could be using this to annoy you. I wouldn't do any slander towards anyone if I was you. Also I ...
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| Can you help? | 3/12/2008 |
Q: Last time I asked a question on AllExperts site, they said it was out of their area of expertise, so ...
A: I highly don't recommend dating before 16. 16 is just a general policy. I noticed in some areas that ...
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| So Confused 365 | 3/10/2008 |
Q: "Hi my name is Mariah and I am 17 years old. I have a crush on 3 guys different guys their names ...
A: Maybe the problem is you are rushing into your want to date. Sometimes people aren't ready to be ...
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| liking someone i shouldn't | 2/27/2008 |
Q: hey Dan. I'm 14 and just started high school but everyone says that i look 16 or older which i don't ...
A: You just said to me you like him for the wrong reasons. He's according to you is a player. You ...
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| Crush problem | 2/24/2008 |
Q: Hey Dan my name is Mike. Im a 16 year old junior in high school. Well my problem is I have had a ...
A: Mike there is no need to rush into dating. Because she is dating someone, you shouldn't date her. ...
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| Weird? | 2/19/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help me.I dated this guy about a year back.We dated for only a couple weeks.It kinda ...
A: Wow... First off I have to tell you I don't promote Myspace and don't recommend it for safety risks. ...
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| Dating age | 1/31/2008 |
Q: Ok, i know ive sent you alot of questions but, is it bad to date at age 16?
A: Daniel great question. You can ask me as many questions as you want. I will try to help you if ...
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| Girl Problems | 1/31/2008 |
Q: Well i have 2 questions 1. I'm 12 and i was informed that i should wait to tell a girl i like her so ...
A: First question, I do not recommend dating before age 16, yet I recommend waiting until age 18. In ...
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| i love a girl | 1/30/2008 |
Q: i love a girl but another girl loves me and she is warning taht she will die if she didn't get me, i ...
A: How old are you? I recommend to talk to a trusted teacher as well as your parents about this. This ...
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| crush symptoms? | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 years old, by the way. I've been having problems recently with figuring out my emotions and ...
A: I am sorry for my slow replies. I'm just overloaded here. Please feel free to ask follow ups ...
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| crush symptoms? | 1/19/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 years old, by the way. I've been having problems recently with figuring out my emotions and ...
A: I guess I should work with one question at a time as you asked a lot. In other terms ask follow ups ...
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| Im confused, Im lost. | 1/16/2008 |
Q: hey dan, i appreciate the time in you helping me out. ill get straight to it. umm, ive have 2 ...
A: At 15 I don't recommend dating. The reason is I feel rushing into dating is foolish and I have seen ...
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| Im confused, Im lost. | 1/10/2008 |
Q: hey dan, i appreciate the time in you helping me out. ill get straight to it. umm, ive have 2 ...
A: Can I ask your favorite food? The reason for my self asking you this is because there is a story in ...
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| Why don't girls like me? | 1/10/2008 |
Q: I'm 13 years old, and I look great...yet no girls ask me out. In fact, many adults have said I look ...
A: Jacob you ask a question I cannot answer without knowing you. I will tell you that in my culture ...
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| Waiting on her | 1/9/2008 |
Q: Ok so I'm really starting to think I'm in love with this girl (we're both 17). and she's admitted ...
A: Due to her past she may not want to rush into a relationship. Taking it slow is important. She has ...
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| Why don't girls like me? | 1/3/2008 |
Q: I'm 13 years old, and I look great...yet no girls ask me out. In fact, many adults have said I look ...
A: At age 13 many girls don't want to date. The movies may make you believe otherwise, yet this belief ...
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| "That Girl" | 12/30/2007 |
Q: This is a VERY long story. My friends and I all hang out together. The reason I say this is for a ...
A: Really this is a very long question without a simple answer. I do want to help you, yet I feel this ...
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| dating answers | 12/26/2007 |
Q: dan, i just have a question. I've been reading a lot of your responses and i've noticed a trend. You ...
A: Kristine, I understand your understanding of the law and let me say that I know where you are coming ...
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| STRANGE CALLS WEIRD VIBES???? | 12/24/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend Ricky and I broke up. He has a girlfriend now, named Karen. I have never called him but ...
A: Certain types of calls are against the law. I'm not a lawyer and cannot give you legal advice, yet I ...
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| Crush....... | 12/22/2007 |
Q: Ok so I am 23 years old and I have a crush on a girl(17) at work. I cannot understand why as I am ...
A: I highly recommend you not to date this 17 year old due to the age difference. Now why do you have ...
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| A crush... | 12/19/2007 |
Q: Hey Dan I'm 16 and I have a crush on a girl who is also about 16, I can't get her out of my mind, we ...
A: Removing those feelings? That's tricky sometimes. I'm going to first recommend our "How to make the ...
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| Online relationship | 12/17/2007 |
Q: Im 13. Me and this guy have known each other longer than a year over the internet. He knows which ...
A: 13 year olds may not legally be able to date. But, let me get into a bigger picture. Online ...
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| i like this boy | 12/2/2007 |
Q: Im 12 almost 13(7th grade) and i like this guy who turned 13 last month (8th grade). I really like ...
A: You came to me to ask me for help. I gave you my thoughts on this case and you insulted me for them. ...
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| I love this girl..... need help! | 11/24/2007 |
Q: I apologize for this being so long, but I greatly appreciate your time. To start, I met a girl at ...
A: A number of things I want to point out: I don't recommend a relationship with the ages stated, ...
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| inappropriate crushes 15-yr-old | 11/18/2007 |
Q: Is it common to have a crush on a teacher and like the opposite race? I just turned 15, and i crush ...
A: It's not uncommon for biology to make you have crushes on teachers. Now, you MUST NOT ACT ON THEM. ...
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| In a relationship and I have a crush | 11/16/2007 |
Q: I've tried talking this out with a close friend, and it hasn't helped. I am 19 years old, and I've ...
A: So sorry. I am going to email you later with a third party coworker of mine email address. You can ...
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| online crush? | 10/30/2007 |
Q: ok so there is this guy that i have been talking to through myspace. we are both in college. i am 20 ...
A: I don't promote Myspace due to safety reasons. Talk to our internet safety experts. I don't promote ...
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| my crush | 10/29/2007 |
Q: hey, i live in india and my name is vipul.i am 17 and i like a girl who is of my age.she is in my ...
A: I'm not sure about dating laws in India and I recommend checking into them. I think you are rushing ...
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| older girl | 10/24/2007 |
Q: I am 16 and a sophmore in highschool, and there is this girl i like who is almost 17 and a junior. ...
A: Working here has shown me that people do have a chance to date people that they want to date, yet ...
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| More advice | 10/24/2007 |
Q: I'm not sure if you'll remember this, but I asked for your advice a few times a couple weeks ago ...
A: I don't exactly remember you. Please include past questions and answers with follow ups. Always ...
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| Confusion? | 10/22/2007 |
Q: Ok, so I am 17 and a senior in high school. She is 15 and a sophomore. I first noticed her a ...
A: If you date her, it's possible you may be violating a law, so my advice is don't date her at this ...
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| Did I do the right thing? | 10/20/2007 |
Q: A couple of months ago I started talking to this guy over myspace. He goes to my school and I had ...
A: Sarah my job is not to judge people. I will tell you I don't promote online social networks and ...
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| Sister's best friend | 10/19/2007 |
Q: Ok first let me just say thank you for reading this and taking your time to lend your expertise to ...
A: I will tell you that drinking like what you did is very risky. I do highly recommend speaking to ...
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| Help? | 10/19/2007 |
Q: well let me start out by saying hello and thank you for taking the time to answer this (hopefully). ...
A: I was trying to lead you to the questions I need to know answers to, yet you only answer the ...
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| Help? | 10/18/2007 |
Q: well let me start out by saying hello and thank you for taking the time to answer this (hopefully). ...
A: I really need more information than what you stated. Those questions were only basic questions. ...
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| im in love with my best friend...but... | 10/18/2007 |
Q: "i have been best friends with my boy bud since sophomore year in highschool and we've been getting ...
A: Just a few questions before answering: What is love? How come you like him? Explain a few major ...
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| please help me i cant cope again | 10/14/2007 |
Q: im 16 and i had this major crush on this guy for like 1yr. he finally asked for my number and ...
A: Abused you, what do you mean? Have you talked to any of our experts "How to make the right move" ...
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| i think.... | 10/14/2007 |
Q: ...... well... i think im in love w/ a girl that broke up w/ me back half way through the summer.... ...
A: Last time I checked it may be illegal for you to be dating at this age. I believe a lawyer told me ...
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| dont want to hur her feelings | 10/13/2007 |
Q: okj im in 6th grade 12 years old and there is this girl i like. she isreally sensitive. sh knows i ...
A: I want to point out it may be illegal for you to date at this age. I recommend to talk to her about ...
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| Good advice needed | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I came across this website and you seemed like a good person to ask for some help, because I have ...
A: I was typing an answer before and than I had to rush out. So sorry about the delay. I don't have ...
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| Good advice needed | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I came across this website and you seemed like a good person to ask for some help, because I have ...
A: Your new question is not a simple question. If you are the cause of her breakup it could cause ...
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| Good advice needed | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I came across this website and you seemed like a good person to ask for some help, because I have ...
A: Don't worry about my time. I'm here to help you out. I disagree with some of the other people. Age ...
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| When can I tell this girl I like | 10/12/2007 |
Q: I'm Jordan and I am 18. There is a foreign exchange student staying with my family and she is 17. ...
A: I understand you have to move out. You shouldn't break up her relationship with her boyfriend. You ...
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| My best friend | 10/11/2007 |
Q: Hey, im 14 and i have a crush on my best friend... but his parents are weird about dating.. so i ...
A: So we both agree that you shouldn't date him right now. Your feeling this way probably because you ...
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| When can I tell this girl I like | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I'm Jordan and I am 18. There is a foreign exchange student staying with my family and she is 17. ...
A: You may be attracted to her more because she replaces your sister. This is probably not uncommon. ...
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| A problem with US | 10/7/2007 |
Q: Hey Dan, My name is Jessica(16 years) and my boyfriend(also 16) and I are on a break (broke up ...
A: It appears to me that your boyfriend may not be ready to date, and neither are you ready to date. ...
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| When can I tell this girl I like | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I'm Jordan and I am 18. There is a foreign exchange student staying with my family and she is 17. ...
A: That's a clever question. Thank you for asking me. I will tell you that friendship is one thing, ...
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| I don"t know if i really like him!!! | 10/5/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 years old. I've been dating this guy for 2 years, and he's 7 years older than me. But i have ...
A: It appears like you aren't ready for such a relationship. I wouldn't date your teacher if I was you. ...
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| x girlfriend | 10/4/2007 |
Q: I'm 18, and I just through the hardest thing I ever had to deal with. I broke up with my girl-friend ...
A: I can't answer all of those questions you asked for a number of reasons. However I do want to ask ...
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| My best friend | 10/4/2007 |
Q: Hey, im 14 and i have a crush on my best friend... but his parents are weird about dating.. so i ...
A: You should not make him disobey rules or try to change him to something he is not. It may be illegal ...
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| I am in love with him, he knows, and he's gay! Ver y confusing. | 10/4/2007 |
Q: So, my best friend in the world is...let's call him Larry. I am a female, and I am 16. Larry is ...
A: This is very common for women to connect with gay men. The thing is some women feel men who are ...
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| Tough Choice | 10/3/2007 |
Q: Alright, first off, i'm 18. My problem is i've been talking to 2 girls, just as friends. I've hung ...
A: Your problem is not uncommon. The first girl is already dating someone else. Would it be ethical for ...
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| dating | 9/25/2007 |
Q: I'm 14 years old. I don't understand why it is illegal to date if you are under a certain age? Is ...
A: I do not give legal advice online. The general rule I follow is if below age 16 and relates to ...
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| I have a crush on so many girls | 9/24/2007 |
Q: Am 12 years and will be 13 by march 22. I always seem to have a crush with one girl or another and ...
A: Having those feelings is not uncommon. However, it may be illegal for you to date at this age. Lets ...
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| My friend is in love with me (and i'm 15, hes 15) | 9/23/2007 |
Q: He asked me out about 3 weeks ago (about 2 weeks after me and my best friend decided not to go out ...
A: This is not love. By the way it may be illegal to date at age 15. Lets talk about the depression you ...
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| pursue? | 9/23/2007 |
Q: Hey Dan, I guess I'll just get right into it. I'm 16 years old, and there's this girl that I like ...
A: A friend should respect their friends feelings. You know she doesn't want to date. Knowing this and ...
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| i need to get over hte impossible... | 9/23/2007 |
Q: so there's this boy... koty... and i think i'm in love with him. i just met him this school year ...
A: I think you know he's not right for you. My advice is talk to your parents and a psychologist. In ...
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| Vb girl | 9/19/2007 |
Q: hey Dan, Im not sure how to start but I guess I'll start by telling you Im 16.Well I have had this ...
A: 1. She probably does/did want to date you(many women don't lie). Please include her ages. People ...
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| A confusing situation. | 9/18/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 years old and I'm in a rather confusing situation. I have a crush on this guy I met a couple ...
A: Sorry about the delay. I'm overworked here. I hope I am helping you so far. You think the surprise ...
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| A confusing situation. | 9/18/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 years old and I'm in a rather confusing situation. I have a crush on this guy I met a couple ...
A: Sorry about my sentence structure. Hopefully us talking about him can help control your feelings, ...
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| A confusing situation. | 9/17/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 years old and I'm in a rather confusing situation. I have a crush on this guy I met a couple ...
A: One way to handle this is to talk about this and hope that talking about this can remove those ...
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| I'm a really confused 16 year old | 9/15/2007 |
Q: First of all, I am a bisexual girl, just for your information, if that means anything. Anyway, I ...
A: I recommend our: "How to know if he or she likes you area"--- To see if they like you more than a ...
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| help | 9/6/2007 |
Q: i don't know if i am in love or not because there is this girl who i know. She leave in a diffrent ...
A: Alex we have an area called something along the lines of : "How to tell if you are in love" I doubt ...
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| He's driving me insane | 9/3/2007 |
Q: I'm not to sure how to explain this but I will try and explain the best way that I can. I am a 21 ...
A: Ok I understand. Sorry about that. Can I ask what you want in a relationship? Ever dated? How did it ...
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| answers | 9/3/2007 |
Q: unlike most of the individuals here i dont have a partner or know of anyone i have a crush on either ...
A: It's not uncommon for a 22 year old to not date. Why do you have crushes on women who are younger ...
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| crushes | 8/30/2007 |
Q: hey, one of my friends, ryan, acts like he likes me. he keeps kissing me and holdong my hand and ...
A: He is your friend and you don't like him? My advice is if he attempts to kiss you, or touch your ...
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| wat to talk about | 8/26/2007 |
Q: So i never no wat to talk about wen i talk to my crush im gunna b a junior in high school and i feel ...
A: I won't give you a law lesson here, you can ask our legal experts if you want. You could be gifted ...
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| wat to talk about | 8/25/2007 |
Q: So i never no wat to talk about wen i talk to my crush im gunna b a junior in high school and i feel ...
A: You did not mention your age. This gives me full rights to refuse this question per my directions. ...
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| Is it the right thing to do? | 8/23/2007 |
Q: I have a crush on a lady who is at least 13 years younger than me (I'm 35, she must be 22) and i am ...
A: I am sorry that my coworker didn't answer up to the standards you were hoping for. I know you may ...
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| hey whats up | 8/21/2007 |
Q: ok i met this girl a like a month ago and i REALLY like her alot she is amazing beautiful and i can ...
A: I don't promote online relationships. Remember safety. Be careful. Talk to our Internet safety area. ...
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| hey!!!! | 8/14/2007 |
Q: what age do u recommed for ppl to start dating?? ANSWER: Hi, Good question. My friend who is a ...
A: While you may not know of any laws for this there still could be. Anyways, I cannot be promoting 13 ...
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| I Dont Know About This Girl | 8/13/2007 |
Q: ok i like this girl she is 15 and im 16 i have know her for about a year now....i started crushing ...
A: My advice is become a better one of her friends before even thinking about dating her. There is no ...
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| hey!!!! | 8/12/2007 |
Q: what age do u recommed for ppl to start dating??
A: Good question. My friend who is a Mormon I believe could not date below age 16. I think that was his ...
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| I Dont Know About This Girl | 8/11/2007 |
Q: ok i like this girl she is 15 and im 16 i have know her for about a year now....i started crushing ...
A: So what do you look for in people you want to date and why? Can you tell me about the above girl? I ...
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| I Dont Know About This Girl | 8/11/2007 |
Q: ok i like this girl she is 15 and im 16 i have know her for about a year now....i started crushing ...
A: Due to the self esteem issues you mentioned, I have to ask if you ever talked to a psychologist ...
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| Please Help!!! | 8/6/2007 |
Q: Im 19, I had a crush on this guy i worked with,25, we flirted but nothing more, cause i had a b/f. ...
A: I do not think you should be dating a 25 year old at your age. I also do not think it's right that ...
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| high school crush | 7/25/2007 |
Q: well my question is this... i will start from the beginning i met this girl (Michelle) my freshmen ...
A: Ok because of a number of reasons you posted I wouldn't rush into dating. Become a better friend ...
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| is there a way to make the infatiuation go away | 7/18/2007 |
Q: So I've had this massive crush on this girl for about a 1/2 a year now. It's a strange situation ...
A: I hope I am helping you so far. I am wondering did you ask any of my coworkers? How did they handle ...
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| girl i really like | 7/16/2007 |
Q: There's this girl that I've been interested in for awhile. She's 18 and i am 19. We're both just ...
A: Ok I do not recommend to rush into dating. I see you have some commitment issues, so we should work ...
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| what to do? | 7/5/2007 |
Q: Firstly thanks for helping me out on this one. Ok I'm usually good at making attraction with women ...
A: There are a lot of dating books out there. I'll check into this book to see if I should recommend it ...
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| what to do? | 7/5/2007 |
Q: Firstly thanks for helping me out on this one. Ok I'm usually good at making attraction with women ...
A: You have the coolest first name I know. How did you get it? Dan is such a cool name. :) Ok I don't ...
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| very confused about a guy | 7/5/2007 |
Q: I'm a 21 woman in college. I recently became friends with one of my coworkers who 17 year old guy in ...
A: I am sorry if you thought I was rude. I care about your safety online. Over the years of working ...
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| very confused about a guy | 7/5/2007 |
Q: I'm a 21 woman in college. I recently became friends with one of my coworkers who 17 year old guy in ...
A: OK first thing first, I'm not for a 17 year old to date a 21 year old. If he is dating someone else ...
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| Please help... | 7/3/2007 |
Q: There was this boy that I liked at school and when school ended my mom put me in this summer program ...
A: Ok sorry about the dating topic. Miss read it. Ok how to deal with the sad feeling? I recommend to ...
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| confused | 7/1/2007 |
Q: Heyy Dan I am so confused. The kid that i like is acting so odd. One day he will be a total ...
A: It's not odd for a guy to act mean at age 14 to a girl. Dating shouldn't be rushed into. Anyways if ...
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| I'm not sure what i should do | 6/26/2007 |
Q: There's this guy named Drew and I really like him but I keep asking myself should I go and make the ...
A: Keep me up to date. By the way I would wait, yet yes there is always a chance you could loose him. ...
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| confused | 6/19/2007 |
Q: I really don’t know how to cope with my emotional state at the moment; I hope you can help me out. ...
A: I recommend our: "Messages Sent by Body Language" And our "psychology area" Because I can see this ...
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| Help | 6/12/2007 |
Q: Well I really do need some help. I started liking this lad last year, September time. We exchanged ...
A: If you ever had sex with him both of you need to be tested. Talk to a doctor. My advice is move on ...
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| Help w/ teen daughter | 6/10/2007 |
Q: My daughter is 15, her first "real" boyfriend just asked for a "break" because his grandmother just ...
A: I am sorry about the delay. This question was on the question pool. The expert who you asked didn't ...
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| A girl i really like | 6/7/2007 |
Q: Ok well heres the deal. I liked this girl last year but she never noticed me. Then about two months ...
A: I have to say that I highly recommend to be her friend if she is a good person before dating. This ...
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| Fallen for best friends sister | 5/29/2007 |
Q: What do i do? Should i wait for the right time? Ive fallen for my best friends smaller sister. Im 21 ...
A: A 21 year old should not date a 16 year old. It's in some areas illegal. The point is I only can ...
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| new crush! | 5/27/2007 |
Q: when we first got together it was new year and 5 months later we got engaged and bought our own ...
A: You like someone else when you are dating someone right now? I wonder where this feeling is coming ...
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| Just a technical error | 5/22/2007 |
Q: Sorry, I contacted you yesterday at approximately 9 P.M. under the name of "Ron" also. However, upon ...
A: Please understand the general law of the land(internet land) is we cannot advise someone below the ...
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| Just a technical error | 5/22/2007 |
Q: Sorry, I contacted you yesterday at approximately 9 P.M. under the name of "Ron" also. However, upon ...
A: I do not see another question posted by your name. I may have declined this question(It could have ...
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| Help | 5/19/2007 |
Q: Okay, so here is how it goes. Me and this guy have been friends for a few years. I think I have ...
A: Ok I recommend asking in our "How to know if he or she likes you area". Note this is another area of ...
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| i really need your help.. | 5/13/2007 |
Q: ! well, i wondered if you could help me, im very confused right now...(i´m 16 by the way, and he is ...
A: "why i want to know him?,,,i find him interesting, someone said that if you want to learn form ...
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| i really need your help.. | 5/13/2007 |
Q: ! well, i wondered if you could help me, im very confused right now...(i´m 16 by the way, and he is ...
A: What will be different if you dated him over friendship?". i just want him to be into my life,i ...
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| i really need your help.. | 5/12/2007 |
Q: ! well, i wondered if you could help me, im very confused right now...(i´m 16 by the way, and he is ...
A: "wow...all this you told me was like bringing me back to earth! o.O"<--- One of the things I do is ...
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| i really need your help.. | 5/12/2007 |
Q: ! well, i wondered if you could help me, im very confused right now...(i´m 16 by the way, and he is ...
A: "Why date? i would like to know him better"<--- If this is the answer, I highly recommend just ...
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| i really need your help.. | 5/12/2007 |
Q: ! well, i wondered if you could help me, im very confused right now...(i´m 16 by the way, and he is ...
A: "i almost killed her..."<--- Violence does not solve anything. My questions are: Why date? Why ...
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| Can you give me help? | 5/11/2007 |
Q: I'm 16 and she is as well. I think that she is an amazing girl. I am not sure if she is single. I ...
A: What is the question at hand? Is she single? <--- Is that it? I cannot tell you this online. Does ...
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| crushing and confusing | 5/10/2007 |
Q: I really like this guy Andrew. I've known him for awhile but we're more like aquatints,but lately ...
A: Why do you want to date at 13? Why do you like this guy? Why not be friends? Our "How to know if he ...
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| dealing with a crush and what I should do. | 5/8/2007 |
Q: I have a crush and I don't know what to do. Please answer these questions for me. Should I tell her ...
A: It's normal to want to date when you see other people attempting to, yet you are your own person. ...
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| dealing with a crush and what I should do. | 5/8/2007 |
Q: I have a crush and I don't know what to do. Please answer these questions for me. Should I tell her ...
A: "There is a time limit because I will most likely not be able to contact her after the school year ...
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| dealing with a crush and what I should do. | 5/8/2007 |
Q: I have a crush and I don't know what to do. Please answer these questions for me. Should I tell her ...
A: As I said before I want to help you. How? I am going to post some questions. This may help you. Why ...
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| Should i just ask her out? | 5/4/2007 |
Q: Okay, there' this girl, Jessica, who currently goes to a different school that I've known since 5th ...
A: "Were you expecting me to answer those questions? "<--- I guess. Those questions allow us to open ...
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| How to Become mroe than friends | 5/3/2007 |
Q: Well I'm 14 adn my crush is 15 and we are just friends right now. I'vce known him for about 5 weeks ...
A: I didn't help you because you didn't want me to help you. Please in the future ask follow ups when ...
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| Should i just ask her out? | 5/3/2007 |
Q: Okay, there' this girl, Jessica, who currently goes to a different school that I've known since 5th ...
A: Please note I am saying 12 year old for 6th grade. I am not saying you are 12 now. I am worried ...
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| How do I get him to stop liking me? | 4/29/2007 |
Q: Okay, so Kyle just moved to my middle school a couple of months ago. In those past months he has ...
A: Well 14 is too young to be dating, and I must be promoting against this. But, you say he acts ...
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| tell? | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I like this kid and i am almost positive he likes me and i want to tell him i like him but im not ...
A: Please understand I want to help you with this question, yet you did not give me enough information. ...
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| Lost Lover | 4/24/2007 |
Q: I need some advice of what to do in this situation. Well I have liked this boy name Todd on an off ...
A: "How will you feel if it ends today with them dating? I will be happy inside knowing I’m closer to ...
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| Lost Lover | 4/23/2007 |
Q: I need some advice of what to do in this situation. Well I have liked this boy name Todd on an off ...
A: Ok sorry about that. I just checked and the meeting is delayed for an hour. "boy likes to joke "<--- ...
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| Lost Lover | 4/23/2007 |
Q: I need some advice of what to do in this situation. Well I have liked this boy name Todd on an off ...
A: "We have been freinds since first grade."<--- What type of friends? "Because he is a good kid who ...
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| Lost Lover | 4/23/2007 |
Q: I need some advice of what to do in this situation. Well I have liked this boy name Todd on an off ...
A: You DO NOT LOVE HIM. I am sorry for using caps, yet I have to say this. You had a crush on him. How ...
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| hello | 4/23/2007 |
Q: hey hey... so i have this problem.. there's this guy (Wiliam) i've been crushing on for a long ...
A: It's hard following this question being so long, so please tell me if I missed something. I am so ...
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| hello | 4/22/2007 |
Q: hey hey... so i have this problem.. there's this guy (Wiliam) i've been crushing on for a long ...
A: My job here is to find the truth. Remove the clouds. I do not think you should be dating until you ...
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| hello | 4/22/2007 |
Q: hey hey... so i have this problem.. there's this guy (Wiliam) i've been crushing on for a long ...
A: "But it's only 3 years"<--- It's a lot at this age. "He's one of the funniest and weirdest people ...
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| what should i do? | 4/22/2007 |
Q: yesterday i went to study together with my teacher and my friends, Gerald and Ronald. at that time i ...
A: How old are you? How old is he? I recommend just to talk to him that you do not want to date right ...
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| My crush on my guy friend | 4/22/2007 |
Q: My crush is a 17 year old junior; I'm an almost 16 year old sophomore. We are in band ...
A: The "does he like you question" must be asked in our "How to know if he or she likes you area". Now, ...
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| hello | 4/22/2007 |
Q: hey hey... so i have this problem.. there's this guy (Wiliam) i've been crushing on for a long ...
A: Are you worried about the age difference gap at this age? We should look more into this: "If you ...
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| hello | 4/21/2007 |
Q: hey hey... so i have this problem.. there's this guy (Wiliam) i've been crushing on for a long ...
A: If you didn't know William, how come you liked him? Why didn't you become better friends with him? ...
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| hello | 4/21/2007 |
Q: hey hey... so i have this problem.. there's this guy (Wiliam) i've been crushing on for a long ...
A: Ok lets start off with writing down your thoughts here about the above issue. Is this OK? Can we use ...
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| Help! pretty please | 4/18/2007 |
Q: ok, this is long, so here goes i'm super shy around people i don't know, especially guys, and i ...
A: I recommend to talk to a trusted teacher and your parents. You may want to get a mentor in school ...
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| Well there is this guy.... | 4/16/2007 |
Q: I like this guy. He hasn't had a girlfriend before me and he's not experienced, but he's sweet, ...
A: Listen in our day and age more and more girls ask the guy out. I am not sure if I would date him ...
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| Crush on my ex =S | 4/11/2007 |
Q: Hokay, so this is quite complicated, but I'll keep it short. My ex and I broke up but remained real ...
A: Sometimes we like people we shouldn't like. Should you be his friend? If he meets up to your ...
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| DATING | 4/8/2007 |
Q: HEYA M8, I AM 17 AND I REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL I MET AT UINVERSITY INTERVIEW , I HAVE THE FOLLOW ...
A: Talking is fine, flirting like what you see in the movies is not promoted by me. I think it ...
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| I really like him | 4/4/2007 |
Q: My story is rather long. I was widowed 5 years ago. I am now 28 years old a want to really dive ...
A: I cannot fairly tell you he likes you online with those facts. You may want to ask our "How to know ...
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| Crushes | 3/31/2007 |
Q: I like this boy who is my friend and my best friend likes him, but i have liked them so much longer. ...
A: Ok legally I cannot tell you to date him. I cannot even promote you to be dating. So I am going to ...
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| He's Driving Me Crasey | 3/29/2007 |
Q: Well, it all starts with a guy. He's my age, 13, and he's in a differnt class then me. He's ...
A: Ok I am going to be honest, a lawyer friend of mine has told me it is illegal in some areas for 13 ...
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| Nervous round him! | 3/29/2007 |
Q: I have a big problem! My teacher put me 2 seats away from my crush.(he is close enough to talk to me ...
A: Under US law I cannot promote dating to you because of your age. You are too young to be dating. My ...
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| Liking a Friend | 3/22/2007 |
Q: This one's a little long & complicated - thanks in advance. I am a seventeen-year-old female; a ...
A: I understand about not belonging to a certain school. It's hard going to a private school. But, when ...
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| Love Triangle? | 3/22/2007 |
Q: This is a complex situation but here goes: Me and my best friend both like the same guy. He flirts ...
A: Ok I want to try to rule on why you both like him. Sometimes when a friend says they like another ...
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| Guys | 3/20/2007 |
Q: i like this guy but he is in 5th grade and me in 6th. we met because i volunteer every morning in ...
A: Guys are taught when they are very young not to like girls. This changes later on in life. My advice ...
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| I want to know why | 3/17/2007 |
Q: Hey whats up, my name is juan im 15 years old. well I was just curious about this one girl that I ...
A: Are you dating her now or not? Age of her? Ok the question is why do people like eachother? It's not ...
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| hi | 3/16/2007 |
Q: Avery told me that you wanted to talk to me. If you want to email me instead, my email is ...
A: Well I am sorry to see that you left this site. You were one of my top coworkers. I know you know I ...
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| really hard to figure out! | 3/15/2007 |
Q: ok, well, i really, really like this girl that i see every other sunday or so. I'm planning on going ...
A: I do not promote dating below the age of 16. This is for the psychological reasons and my research. ...
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| talking | 3/12/2007 |
Q: im 12 and i live in Maine, and i cant really talk to guys because i dont know what i am going to ...
A: Because you are 12, it is a too young age to be dating. I recommend to become their friends? How do ...
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| Does she like me? | 3/5/2007 |
Q: Ok, so there is this gril thatI like and i dont know if she likes me. She emails me, but she ...
A: It's not uncommon for girls not to want to date guys that they like at your age. In fact, sometimes ...
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| school dating | 3/1/2007 |
Q: ok well a while back askesd you how i should act in the begining of a relationship...i am 13 and ...
A: Be careful making the movie. There are certain laws you should know about making a movie. Now, ...
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| Should I? | 2/27/2007 |
Q: There seems to be a bit of confusion... My junior year of high school was quite a while back. We ...
A: Well I know you may know her in person, yet still be careful with Myspace. You may not know others ...
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| Should I? | 2/27/2007 |
Q: So there's this girl I met back in my junior year of high school, and I ended up having this major ...
A: I recommend to be careful with Myspace. I have handled a few predator cases online before. About the ...
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| Gay Or NOt | 2/25/2007 |
Q: I like this guy alot,he is probably the biggest crush i've ever had. He is 17 years old. But the one ...
A: I cannot tell you if someone is gay online. I also don't like to use the term gay for this is not ...
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| guys and their wierd wayz... | 2/25/2007 |
Q: 14okay this might sound dumb but...why do guys ignore a girl one year and then you go back to school ...
A: It could be your looks change. Or it could be this: A guy is taught to dislike girls when they are ...
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| Defense Mechanism | 2/23/2007 |
Q: where can i find this Alan,how can i contact him?I believe some people used to do this thing ...
A: Alan Auerbach is our psychology expert. Here is the copy part of his profile: "Taught psychology ...
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| Defense Mechanism | 2/21/2007 |
Q: I believe some people used to do this thing {defense mechanism} to hide their true feelings.Like a ...
A: People still do this defense mechanism stuff as you know. Now, I am not an expert on this topic. I ...
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| He likes me, but I think he likes her better.. | 2/21/2007 |
Q: I’m 16 and I like a boy of the same age.... He is one of my new friends at my new high school. We ...
A: Ok I don't promote Myspace for I know it's not safe for all. I had people come to me with problems ...
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| I am in so deep! | 2/17/2007 |
Q: Okay, I may have sent you the question regarding how to ask this guy that I like if he wants to ...
A: I remember you. OK I am going to say that I do not answer "does he like me questions" here. I ...
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| my first question | 2/15/2007 |
Q: sorry for the late respond, I have been sick, anyway I live in Houston, and I don't get out much and ...
A: I'm glad you are feeling better. Mind if I ask which of one of the following schools you go to ...
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| crushin him... help!!! | 2/11/2007 |
Q: ok i met a guy at a school dance. he was a friend of a friend.so we talked but not alone just as we ...
A: You are too young to be dating or even using a Myspace type account. Talk to your parents about ...
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| How do I let her know I like her? | 2/10/2007 |
Q: I'll be cooped up this Saturday with writing but I'm heading to church this Sunday. Next time I ...
A: Please let me know how things are going. Please also if you have other questions come back to here. ...
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| How do I let her know I like her? | 2/9/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 and graduated from homeschool but I did go to public school till 4th grade, during which I ...
A: You sound like a very good person. The trick with dating is to take it slow and it will last ...
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| Crush problem | 2/8/2007 |
Q: I am 19 year old college student. Last year, I met a girl I really liked and I had the biggest crush ...
A: Good question. First off I don't promote sex at 19. And I recommend to talk to a doctor and both get ...
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| Crush ? | 2/4/2007 |
Q: Okay, I really like this guy that's the same age as me (13, 7th grade), and I really want to ask him ...
A: I don't recommend this pick up line. I always recommend to be honest and never say such stuff as ...
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| why does she have to have a boyfriend?!?!?!!? | 2/2/2007 |
Q: i'll just start at the beginning, at the beginning of the school year one of my friends told me ...
A: The reason why she wants a boyfriend is located under the psychology topic of "need to belong". Now ...
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| school dance | 1/28/2007 |
Q: ok so i went to my school dance last night and the theme was gender-bender. and this guy that goes ...
A: Pink shirt? Ok that's fine. If this guy is your friend, ask this guy for that person's email address ...
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| here is the real Q and A | 1/25/2007 |
Q: here is a question you can answer for me. since you are an expert, you know a lot about dating, ...
A: Bryan good question. I will tell you this, I am not married. I know a number of psychology experts. ...
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| Should I try for a relationship with this guy? | 1/23/2007 |
Q: we arn't dating yet, i'm trying to get him to date me. do you think it is to soon for us to date? ...
A: "we arn't dating yet"<--- You aren't dating but you slept together? Ok fine. "do you think it is to ...
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| Should I try for a relationship with this guy? | 1/23/2007 |
Q: Hey, So I met this guy through work. he works in the kitchen and i was a hostess, i met him at a ...
A: Be careful dating people: Who drink--- If they abuse drinking be extra careful Be careful about ...
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| Guys are confusing | 1/22/2007 |
Q: Okay I have two questions for you. I am 14 and I was wondering what do guys my age look for in a ...
A: Most guys want to be friends before dating. In fact most guys do not want to date at age 14. "I am ...
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| confused!!! | 1/20/2007 |
Q: ok welli was trying to figure out if he had a girlfriend so i was talking about the age difference ...
A: Sometimes people who don't have a girl friend or boy friend make this up because they would think ...
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| Crush on a girl | 1/20/2007 |
Q: She is the same age as me and in the same grade. She is the same religion as me and she does not ...
A: Ok we ruled out religion as a reason for not dating. We ruled out semi age. But, not fully for you ...
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| does she like me? | 1/20/2007 |
Q: has been eyeing me since about november. i dont know if it is eyeing or what but everytime i look up ...
A: Does he or she like me questions should be asked in our "How to know if he or she likes you area". ...
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| trust | 1/20/2007 |
Q: "I'm a 23 year old girl. I have a problem,, it’s a long story.. A very long story.. It goes back to ...
A: You cheated on your boyfriend. While it is bad to do, it doesn't make you a horrible person. Hitler ...
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| Driving me crazy!! | 1/18/2007 |
Q: "There is this girl that I know, that I really like and can't get out of my head. I'm 15 and she is ...
A: Our "How to know if he or she likes you" experts could tell maybe the signs of if she likes you. I ...
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| help??? | 1/15/2007 |
Q: im a male, 18, there's this girl, ive known her for 4 years, i have always thought of her as a ...
A: How old are you two? It's not abnormal for feelings to change from friends to wanting to date. In ...
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| what should i do??? | 1/9/2007 |
Q: well make out like kissing n stuff n i am 14ok look i have this guy that i really like his name is ...
A: You are too young to be "making out". AND YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE DATING. And to make matters worse ...
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| hey | 1/8/2007 |
Q: i have a question. how can u tell if a guy is shy or stuck up and mean?? there is this guy i work ...
A: The study of body language is a very advance topic. While I can talk to you about this, I am not an ...
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| I have a crush | 1/7/2007 |
Q: The text above is a follow-up to ... -----Question----- OK so obviously I have a crush on someone ...
A: Yes I do talk to my parents for advice. I highly recommend doing this. A lot of people do even if ...
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| I have a crush | 1/7/2007 |
Q: OK so obviously I have a crush on someone right? Well I can usually handle crushes, but I have a ...
A: I can have the psychologist give you the first 30 minutes for free. It's a fake feeling under the ...
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| I have a crush | 1/6/2007 |
Q: OK so obviously I have a crush on someone right? Well I can usually handle crushes, but I have a ...
A: It is not abnormal for a teen to sometimes like their teachers. This is because of the power ...
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| putting myself out there | 1/5/2007 |
Q: I'm 15, and i've aready been in one serious relationship that lasted a year, so I know I'm ready. ...
A: Ok I am going to be honest 15 is young to date. But if you want to date, my advice is take it slow. ...
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| Confused | 1/1/2007 |
Q: Well, we are both Christian but not too strong, we're 14 and yes there is a very big reason for ...
A: "Well, we are both Christian but not too strong"<--- Ok I understand. "we're 14 "<--- 14 year olds ...
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| crush??? | 12/28/2006 |
Q: Well my parents split up when i was 11 because my mum fell out of love with my dad and it was a ...
A: If at any time you need more help than Doctor Abraham can offer, let me know and I can open up ...
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| ? | 12/27/2006 |
Q: I have a question if u ask someone out and they say no that mean no i kno that but how is it that ...
A: If you ask someone out and they say no, it means no. If they yell NO, than that means probably no ...
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| crush??? | 12/26/2006 |
Q: ok i've known this guy for about 3 months now and i'm not sure if i like him. We are really good ...
A: You said you are 18? How are your parents relationship? How do they treat you? How do they treat ...
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| is she attracted to me? + advice. | 12/23/2006 |
Q: Hey, im fifteen years old, i'm i highschool, and i like this girl whose a year younger. She's not ...
A: "Hey, im fifteen years old, i'm i highschool, and i like this girl whose a year younger."<--- 15 is ...
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| lovesick teen | 12/18/2006 |
Q: we were getting a bit blinkered with it all. our first stop will be the parents this evening. We'll ...
A: I am glad I am helping you out. It's important to have his boss know what you are doing so she ...
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| lovesick teen | 12/18/2006 |
Q: !! My husband is a adult member of a youth organisation of which the girl is a youth member. He is ...
A: I hope you have kept those records on file and talk to your husband boss with him. I do not think ...
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| lovesick teen | 12/18/2006 |
Q: sorry, didn't get your reply as i mistyped my email address in the first question.:-s please ...
A: It's OK. I am glad you emailed me back to let me know this. Your questions are posted to the ...
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| troublesome teen | 12/18/2006 |
Q: My husband and i are having problems with a lovesick teenager. the girl has had a crush on my ...
A: I am sorry to hear about your problem and I will be happy to work with you until we get this ...
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| does he like me/what should i do? | 12/17/2006 |
Q: I'm 16, and I really like this boy matt(he's the same age).I'm good friends with his best friend, ...
A: Happy Holidays. My advice is to become a better friend of his before dating. Invite him to the ...
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| this is probably not ur expertice but please try to answer..... no onw else will | 12/14/2006 |
Q: "im 18. she's 18. her brother is a friend of mine.... and she's really really good friends with my ...
A: I cannot tell you if someone likes you online. Most of the time I recommend our "How to know if he ...
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| help | 12/10/2006 |
Q: im not usaully shy around people except when i like a girl and i find she likes me two, and thats ...
A: How old are you? I recommend to become her friend before hand. I also recommend to talk to her ...
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| girl problems | 12/9/2006 |
Q: well she is 18 and i am 20Hi, so I WAS dating this girl for almost a year and a month. We had alot ...
A: My advice is it's probably wise not to take her back. I happen to recall another question where this ...
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| girl problems | 12/7/2006 |
Q: so I WAS dating this girl for almost a year and a month. We had alot of rough times in our ...
A: How old are you two? I think she has a psychological problem and if she does not want to fix this, ...
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| I still like him but does he still like me? | 12/6/2006 |
Q: he's 16 & he's definitely the type of person i should i like. he's sweet, respectful, thoughtful, ...
A: You see when you said ,"he flirts with almost every girl ." It made me question if he is the person ...
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| HELP | 12/5/2006 |
Q: OKay, I really liked this guy, I mean A LOT! Well, he already knows I like him but recently, I was ...
A: You probably shouldn't much if anything. You see he already knew you liked him, so talking to him ...
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| How to tell a girl you like her | 12/5/2006 |
Q: We are both twelve and pretty good friends. We are the same religion because we go to the same ...
A: Ok your age is important to note. It is unwise for a number of reasons to date at this age. A ...
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| my mistake | 11/26/2006 |
Q: hey dan.. there's this girl i like and she likes me too but we're both really shy. i once ...
A: "went to ecrush.com(a site that sends an anonymous e-mail to your crush to see who he/she likes) ...
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| crush | 11/26/2006 |
Q: i forgot to mention that one school evening, our spirit day commitee had to setup for a haunted ...
A: "i forgot to mention that one school evening, our spirit day commitee had to setup for a haunted ...
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| How can I talk to my crush? | 11/26/2006 |
Q: I have a crush on a very beautiful girl she is a 2nd year old high school student and I'm a first ...
A: I recommend to be her friend before dating, so I am glad you stated this. I think people shouldn't ...
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| crush | 11/26/2006 |
Q: I'm 15, I've noticed a girl in the first week of school (grade 9) and i was very interested in her. ...
A: I do not promote dating at no less than 16 years of age. But, lets see if I can recommend you advice ...
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| future relationship? | 11/25/2006 |
Q: There's this guy I work with and we've, in the past three-four months, started to hang out on a ...
A: Isn't the "Thailand in 2007" too big? Also be careful about relationships at work. "When ever we go ...
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| Fear Holding Me Back | 11/25/2006 |
Q: Hey Dan, For the past year or so I've had strong romantic feelings for one of my close friends in ...
A: I am going to tell you right now, looks are overrated. I am also going to tell you being her friend ...
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| Him... | 11/22/2006 |
Q: I have a confusing problem. I'm involved in theatre, so every night at rehersal, there's this ...
A: I usually don't recommend a 14 year old to date a 19 year old. I also don't promote dating at age ...
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| Immediate Advice Needed! | 11/19/2006 |
Q: Okay, there's this one guy that I REALLY like! He's HOT, and super nice to me. No, I don't just like ...
A: I am glad he is kind to you, and I am glad you don't like him only for looks. "I've transferred ...
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| Whats the matter w/ her? | 11/19/2006 |
Q: well,when i first met her she acted shy around me. she was always hanging around her girl friends. ...
A: "is it possible that she likes my friends bro?"<--- Anything is possible. " is she just playing w/ ...
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| what to do since he has a gf? | 11/19/2006 |
Q: I am located in California. my school isn't really that terrible, i don't want them to get reported ...
A: Sometimes I get 10 questions per day, while other days one. I sometimes feel like I am overworked ...
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| Help!!!! | 11/19/2006 |
Q: im 15Ok. Well there's this guy that i've known my whole life and Ive had a crush on him for as long ...
A: "Dealing with Crushes" expert Erika I recommend. Tell her I sent you. I recommend to be his ...
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| Help!!!! | 11/19/2006 |
Q: Ok. Well there's this guy that i've known my whole life and Ive had a crush on him for as long as i ...
A: Ok I recommend our "How to know if he or she likes you" area to see if he likes you. I don't know if ...
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| what to do since he has a gf? | 11/19/2006 |
Q: my school is kinda poor, we do not have much in the way of therapists or anything. we don't have ...
A: If you cannot talk to a school psychologist, I recommend your principal, or a trusted teacher. Start ...
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| justa girl | 11/18/2006 |
Q: theres this girl who i have a crush on. we flirt everday, so i have that down. i want her to know ...
A: "theres this girl who i have a crush on. "<--- For an 11 year old you shouldn't date. I recommend ...
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| what to do since he has a gf? | 11/18/2006 |
Q: ok, well, the reason i have such low self esteem is a lot. at my school i get picked on a lot for ...
A: "on nov 1st last year he kicked me out of his house because i was doing my HW (like the good girl i ...
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| what to do since he has a gf? | 11/18/2006 |
Q: believe me, i know not to do online dating, i think it's very stupid. i had a friend get very hurt ...
A: Ok I know how you feel about online dating. I still have to say I don't promote this usually for it ...
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| Give in or give up? | 11/18/2006 |
Q: My name is Jacki and I'm about to turn 14. There's a guy in the grade below me and I have a huge ...
A: Happy Birthday Jacki. 14, what a big year this is for you. The big 14. "My space comments"???? ...
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| what to do since he has a gf? | 11/18/2006 |
Q: no no no, it's not online dating...i know him through a friend! he's one of my best friends, best ...
A: "no no no, it's not online dating...i know him through a friend! "<--- Ok I understand. Just I don't ...
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| boys and ex-friends | 11/17/2006 |
Q: There's this guy that I've liked for about 8 months now, and I thought that he liked me. He was very ...
A: I do want to point this out if I didn't. The offer she put down, doesn't mean she is right. It's ...
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| what to do since he has a gf? | 11/17/2006 |
Q: ok theres this guy i like...he's in 8th grade though...im in 10th. so we we've been talking on AIM ...
A: He's in 8th grade? 13 or so? Kind of young to be dating. How do you know he is in 8th grade? I ...
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| I have a major crush on a guy and I don't know what to do | 11/11/2006 |
Q: I have a major crush on this guy that takes the same train to work that I do. I can't stop thinking ...
A: I cannot tell you if he likes you due to something called an unknown bias. Because of this our ...
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| My best friend did this! | 11/8/2006 |
Q: Ok i told my best friend who i liked. he is also in our english class. I thought things were going ...
A: You're wondering if they like eachother--- Please ask this question in our "How to know if he or she ...
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| does he like me | 11/2/2006 |
Q: well i like this guy named drake everybody including him knows i like him but i dont think he likes ...
A: How come you think he doesn't like you? Our "How to know if he or she likes you area" can tell you ...
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| Crush on a girl... | 11/2/2006 |
Q: .. Im 16 and I like this senoir whos also 16, im a junior. Shes a foreing exchange student from ...
A: I recommend to become her friend. Learn more about her by doing this. I recommend to ask her for her ...
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| I seriously cant tell if he likes me. | 10/24/2006 |
Q: Ok, first of all i want to say guys are sooo confusing! Theres this boy(quarterback varsity starter) ...
A: People actions are hard to explain in person and even harder to explain online. However, some of the ...
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| help me! | 10/20/2006 |
Q: my name is marcus, i m a freshman at marquette high. its an all boys school........anyways, i ask ...
A: Please don't mention your high school on the internet. This is a public board. Safety, remember. ...
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| Clueless | 10/19/2006 |
Q: Okay, I like this guy a lot. His locker is about 20 lockers away from mine. Well, I catch him ...
A: I don't recommend dating at age 13. About your parents, they care about you and this is why they do ...
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| ...just a stupid guy... | 10/16/2006 |
Q: ..So there is this guy named Trey who I REALLY liked last year, but he's a year older then me and ...
A: I don't like going with rumors. If you like him talk to him about this. My advice is to become ...
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| help | 9/27/2006 |
Q: I like this wonderful girl named Desi we met in our schools trouble maker program and I fell in ...
A: Question is being removed from question pool. Please ask follow ups with new questions I recommend ...
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| girl with another guy :( | 9/15/2006 |
Q: We are really good friends and sometime back i asked her out. But that time, i think she still ...
A: So you think you love her? You do know the difference between love and like? You like her and that's ...
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| HELP ME! | 9/12/2006 |
Q: ok, there's this guy that i sorta like and he is a senior, i am a sophmore. whenever i see him he ...
A: He pokes you? He doesn't sound grown up enough for you, yet if you want to date him, ask him out. I ...
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| Friend at school | 9/4/2006 |
Q: My good friend at school is very flirtatious with me. The occasional slap on the ass or rubbing my ...
A: What you explainned him doing is in my mind should be against the law. He also has a girlfriend and ...
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| A new school year and I'm still confused | 8/31/2006 |
Q: She's not dating anyone, she's absolutely single! I'm just not sure about anything anymore. Whether ...
A: If you want to date her, talk to her about this. I don't think your over her, for you sent me this ...
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| A new school year and I'm still confused | 8/31/2006 |
Q: Hey there. I'm going to be a senior in high school this year and there's this one girl that I'm so ...
A: You can ask your school to change some of the classes. Sometimes they will do this with a good ...
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| Crush | 7/28/2006 |
Q: Alright, here it goes. I'm Jason, Im 18 and I am in a bind. I am in a relationship, that has been ...
A: You're asking should you dump the relationship you have now for this girl at the party? Do you see ...
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| KRISSY AND URGENT! | 7/24/2006 |
Q: it would be cool to hang out sometime but i don't want you to be annoyed with me or anything ...
A: Krissy does not want to date you right now. You are also too young to date. Now when did you like ...
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| what does it mean? | 7/20/2006 |
Q: when i was in school me,my sister and a friend were eating lunch and a couple of tables across the ...
A: It's hard understanding human behavior sometimes. Depends on your age and their ages. Also it does ...
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| my love story | 7/12/2006 |
Q: iam 19 and she is 16ok.....i will go to my story right away i hate introductions lol anyways i like ...
A: Ok here is the problem: She doesn't live near you--- How did you meet her? She has a boyfriend--- ...
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| Strange situation!!!!!!! | 7/11/2006 |
Q: Okay, so it's like this......... There is a really cute guy in my class (A) and i have a crush on ...
A: Sometimes choosing another person over your first choice will be better for you in the long run. ...
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| Crush on a friend | 7/10/2006 |
Q: I'm 16 and there is a girl who I really like. She was in most of my classes last semester so we have ...
A: Is she dating anyone right now? Has she ever? Do you think she would date you? OK I recommend as ...
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| Does One of my friends like me more than a friend? | 7/5/2006 |
Q: I hang out with this boy all the time and than when I go out of state we talk every night! Every ...
A: Well I don't think he knows what love is. I question where this comes from. I also question if by ...
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| what should I do? | 7/5/2006 |
Q: I read you little disclaimer about crushes and I get that may not be able to help me, but I have to ...
A: Hmm. Usually I don't recommend coworkers to date and there are reasons why. It could hurt your job. ...
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| It's impossible | 7/1/2006 |
Q: Hey umm I got a question. I really LIKE this girl alot. I kind of told her that I LOVE her first but ...
A: You don't explain what you do. I can however say looks aren't everything. If she likes you, it ...
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| please help me i am confussed.. does he like me? | 6/30/2006 |
Q: i kno this might sound stupid but i really fancy this lad who walks down my street when i walk to ...
A: I cannot tell if he likes you online. I can say you like him. Knowing this, my advice is to become ...
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| i think he likes me back | 6/28/2006 |
Q: Alright, I will explain more in depth. He is 13 and I am 14. He is already my friend, a really good ...
A: You don't want to pressure them. And you don't want to use advance psychology on them. It takes ...
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| How do I make this work?.. | 6/28/2006 |
Q: I'm 13 and going into 8th grade this august. Alright, about a month ago my friend had ...
A: Do you like her because she likes you? Looks? Or do you like her because you said no to her? How ...
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| starting a relationship | 6/27/2006 |
Q: I have a girl at work that I think really likes me. The thing is we have been good friends ever ...
A: It is not abnormal that guys joke about other people girl friends. However, they should respect you. ...
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| A crush | 6/24/2006 |
Q: No, she doesn't know him that good to tell that she loves him. Once or twice she had talked to him, ...
A: Talk to her about your boyfriends. You cannot tell someone directly, for they will sometimes reject ...
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| an old friend | 6/14/2006 |
Q: i had this one friend that i liked alot. her name was kassandra. we sat by each other at lunch. i ...
A: You want to have your first girl friend by the end of 8th grade? That's very young. I recommend ...
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| chrissy | 5/25/2006 |
Q: OMG the weirdest thing just happened to me. and I mean weird. Lastg week I had this really weird ...
A: I wouldn't speak to my parents about this for they may send me to a psychologist. Dreams are really ...
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| girl from school i like | 5/10/2006 |
Q: " hi Dan! So there's this girl from school i really really like . I see her a few times a day & i ...
A: Any clubs or classes you are in together? How old are you all? I would call her on the phone and ...
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| darn boys. | 5/9/2006 |
Q: there is this one boy who only talks to me online, but when we talk online, its all oo i love you, ...
A: I don't think he is ready for dating from what you told me of him. However that's based on a few ...
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| love | 4/23/2006 |
Q: thanxs oh did i mentioned that she lives in canada and may be thats why she dosen't want to break up ...
A: We have a special area on allexperts for online dating. You may want to ask there. There are a lot ...
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| How do i approach him?? should i even try?? | 4/5/2006 |
Q: When it comes to me to liking a guy, my friends are not really there giving me support (although i ...
A: Face your fears. Go up to him and talk to him. If all you say is hi, that's fine for the first day. ...
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| crush | 3/28/2006 |
Q: MY HUSBAND HAS THIS GUY FRIEND THAT COMES OVER TO OUR HOUSE ALOT. WE ALL GO OUT TOGETHER AND HAVE ...
A: Remember the oath you took to your husband? It is normal sometimes to have feelings for others, yet ...
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| My Crush... | 3/21/2006 |
Q: There's this guy who works in the same building as me who constantly flirts with me, in sometimes ...
A: Maybe he likes you, yet rules at work state you cannot date. Maybe he cannot date you because of ...
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| Why can't he make up his mind? | 3/18/2006 |
Q: Okay,so there's this boy that's in 8th grade (and so am I) his name is Levi Cress.He already know's ...
A: 8th grade is kind of young to date. He may not want to date at this age. Or he may be shy and not ...
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| I like her more than a friend, but she has a bf | 3/13/2006 |
Q: Hey Dan, I have this friend Ashley that I have recently began falling for and I have been falling ...
A: Let me get the story correct. Boy meets girl. Boy loses girl. Boy talks about this to a friend. Boy ...
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| Why is he acting this way? | 3/13/2006 |
Q: This guy I like used to talk to me all the time between classes. Lately, he has all these girls ...
A: It's hard for me to say why he doesn't talk to you like he useto. He may like you, or may be wanting ...
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| Shall I date? | 2/2/2006 |
Q: One month ago, I used to like this guy, but he didnt like me.So i gave up a couople of weeks later. ...
A: I cannot tell you to date him or not to date him. I can tell you that just because he may feel bad ...
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| What should i do? | 1/30/2006 |
Q: My main problem is that i dont know what to do about this guy that i really like. i dont know if i ...
A: I wouldn't tell him you love him, for you I feel don't know what love means. I would stay his friend ...
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| What should i do? | 1/29/2006 |
Q: My main problem is that i dont know what to do about this guy that i really like. i dont know if i ...
A: How old are you both? Have you ever heard the saying "If there is a will there is a way"? Is his ...
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| should I approach her? | 1/15/2006 |
Q: I have been head over heels for this girl for a long time and I know little about her. We both are ...
A: Take a deep breath. You don't know her well? OK. Well, don't just judge her because of her looks. ...
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| Mixed Messages... | 1/15/2006 |
Q: My name is Michelle, I'm 15 and theres a guy on my school bus i really really like. He's giving me ...
A: While you believe he likes you, I cannot agree with you for a fact. I can only agree with that he ...
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| The Next Move | 1/15/2006 |
Q: My question involves a lot things, and it might be kind of long, but I hope you can help. Everything ...
A: Hmm. I learned a long time ago sometimes you need to let people go. And if they come back to you, ...
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| Does he like me, or should i give up? | 1/14/2006 |
Q: There's this guy that i really really like. I don't know if he likes me or not tho. He alwase teases ...
A: While I cannot tell you if this person likes you for you only told me too little for me to make any ...
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| DOES HE LIKE ME? | 1/13/2006 |
Q: Ok,theres this guy at school who is always stairs at me you can say...and all of my friends think he ...
A: It's too hard for me to say if someone likes you when you only tell me one side of the story. That's ...
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| The Next Move | 1/9/2006 |
Q: My question involves a lot things, and it might be kind of long, but I hope you can help. Everything ...
A: Good question. I don't know your ages. That's important for problems like this. If you like her, a ...
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| My best friend told me he likes me ... aah! | 1/5/2006 |
Q: Okay, my best friend is a guy named Ben, and we've known each other since we were nine. We're (I ...
A: How old are you? Now, I understand when someone says no to you when you ask them out. It's hard. We ...
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| heart cooks brain. | 1/5/2006 |
Q: A while ago, a good friend of mine that is 100% sure of her sexuality (which is heterosexual) told ...
A: Your friend is trying to hide her true self. She may be bi too. There is nothing wrong with this. I ...
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| Talk things out. | 12/26/2005 |
Q: I've tried to get some help few months back, but it was unsuccessful. I really hope someone could ...
A: Her job was an educator, right? The thing is, educators cannot date students. She might really like ...
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| If someone asked you out by you already like somebody else | 12/22/2005 |
Q: See I like this girl named Ashley she's very very hot.But one time there were these two girls one ...
A: Don't just date someone because of their looks. Also if you are not dating Ashley, than you can ask ...
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| A friend | 12/19/2005 |
Q: i am 17. i have become very close to a friend who i have known for a couple of years. she has poured ...
A: You can't deny your feelings, as one person could say, yet you shouldn't abuse your friendship in a ...
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| dont know what to do | 12/17/2005 |
Q: ok so last year i notice this girl who was in 2 of my classes, i thought she was very pretty but i ...
A: Why do you think she is acting differently to you? Do you just think your seeing it differently? How ...
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| Crushing major on an older woman | 12/11/2005 |
Q: Ok so im infatuated with this older woman, I'm 18 shes 25. Her name is chrisitne and we met when ...
A: It's really your choice if you want to ask her out. If you are her friend, some people I tell to ...
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| friends with benefits | 12/10/2005 |
Q: My friend Travis and I have a really close relationship. I've done more with him then with anyother ...
A: I was thinking about how to answer this. Age is important with questions like this. I however assume ...
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| Friends, but want to be more | 12/8/2005 |
Q: I have a massive crush on a guy friend of mine, who I've only known since the beginning on september ...
A: I am sure you are pretty. Now, I usually tell people to start off as friends before dating. I also ...
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| dealing with rejection | 12/1/2005 |
Q: ok i like this boy.and i was tryin to go out with him.i just got out of a real serios relationship ...
A: Does your friend respect you not to date your crush? Does she need to stop her life over your ...
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| crush | 11/27/2005 |
Q: Any general advice if I have a crush on someone?
A: If they are not dating anyone, become their friend first, and than ask them out. If you wait with ...
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| Complicated Crushes | 11/12/2005 |
Q: I have a problem... I recently told only my closest friends about a certain issue I have, and they ...
A: In some countries men have more than one wife and women have more than one husband. It varies with ...
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| what next | 11/11/2005 |
Q: I think i have some work in progress with a girl I just began to have feelings for. We were pretty ...
A: Your question is very hard to answer for you left out many points that are important on this topic. ...
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| Confused Teen | 10/16/2005 |
Q: Hope I'm not bothering you, but this has been racking my brain since yesterday..I'm sooo confused! ...
A: Maybe he lost your number, or became busy, or became afraid. As for bothering me. No, that's my job. ...
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| help!!!! | 10/5/2005 |
Q: okay this guy i know is around me everyday we hang out,he looks at me with a little smile and i dont ...
A: I wouldn't date him. If my theory is true, people who do drugs have a higher chance to cheat on ...
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| Does she like me | 10/3/2005 |
Q: First of all im 14 in the 9th grade This girl i met this school year is such a great girl. her name ...
A: I think she may like you, yet I cannot state this for a fact. This is because you may be telling me ...
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| ??? | 9/19/2005 |
Q: My name's Corinne and I really like this senior named Phil. I'm a junior and we're both in the same ...
A: It's hard to say for when you tell me this information you have to understand you may not know this, ...
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| Dealing with a playboy | 9/15/2005 |
Q: I'm 14 and he's 16. I'm pretty cute, quite quiet but outgoing with friends, friendly and usually all ...
A: When a guy dates a number of women at once, it shows he disrespects women in many cases. I don't ...
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| His birthday | 9/4/2005 |
Q: Okay I have liked this guy for a long time, i have never told him i like him but he knows...anyway ...
A: Good question. I however cannot recommend gifts, for I don't know him. I can say while I recommend ...
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| i dont understand some guys | 8/31/2005 |
Q: i'm 15 and just moved to this new town and the guys are having fun because i'm the new girl. but ...
A: Have you talked to your parents for dating advice? They are usually the people to talk to for dating ...
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