AboutReed (John Rieger) Expertise I do not follow traditional methods of therapy that treat the outer symptoms or give the illusion of a cure with a bandage approach in order to make one "feel good" by denying the real issues, the inner causes. I have eleven intensive years of personal experience in many "NEW AGE" areas that have lead me to discover new ways and methods of REAL emotional healing and in turn also healing our mental and physical bodies. I work with healing ALL emotions, the mental blocks holding them in place and the physical manifestations they represent. I use the knowledge and insights I have gained through either personal experience or my experience in working with others on their healing journey. I also use my intuition and other abilities to assist others to touch and begin to heal their real issues. If you have intent to HEAL your emotions and to take responsibility for your personal well being then I may be able to assist you. If you are looking for a quick fix, don`t ask me. Reed
Expert: Reed (John Rieger) Date: 5/2/2008 Subject: Depression and my surroundings
Question Hi Reed,
My life has been one big long bad mood-at least I have been mostly depressed for the past ten years or so. I have seen countless doctors (psychiatrists) and taken meds. I know that it is unlikely that most of what I am like can be solved easily. I don't really know how to control myself. I have not made much of myself. I have low mood and I don't have much confidence. I don't have many friends and feel life is passing me by. I obsess that I am a bad partner to my boyfriend. I live with him and I do not work to support my side financially. He says that is ok but I feel guilty and never really get over my own insecurity about being a bad partner or not being financially helpful. My depression makes work hard to do at least for now. He says that I do help and earn my worth by cooking and cleaning and doing some stuff to help out. I wish that I could make my life not such a big mess. Is there a way to stop obsessing and be more secure or have more confidence. If you always come up short aren't you doomed to stay thinking you are a nobody. How can this be altered?
Thanks for your input,
Shelly
Answer Hi Shelly,
No it’s not easy and there is no “quick fix”.... While you may have been depressed for the past ten years.. that statement is not accurate because you were depressed and unhappy before that, and its only been in the past ten years that your issues have been surfacing as you are becoming more independent from your PARENTS....
Your issues are in the past with how you were brought up and the issues you had as a child that either traumatized you or had a negative affect on you.. If you want to seriously go into this and heal it, I can help you help yourself.. but it’s not going to be easy or “nice.” If you do, let me know and I can send you my email address or we can chat on Skype...
