Dealing with Depression/what is this


I m suffering a case for last two years  increasing with time but I think that it reach maximum now days  and want to consult you , I m feeling with the following

1- sleep to much or couldn't sleep or distracted sleep ?
2- loss on appetite
3- hate all things I love (creative writing - play music - roving - collage arts , travel ..................)
4- boring all the time despite of I have lot of interest like reading also have lot of friends)
5- I couldn't concentrate on reading
6- I couldn't concentrate on watching anything
7- I couldn't concentrate with some one speak to me (during the conversation with anyone specially my friend , suddenly I m being separate on other world that let people annoy from me )
8- boring from people , family , also friends moreover intimate friends
9- doubt on intentions of all people around me whether collegues-partners-family-friends...... feeling that all betrayers-unloyal-infidel-envious-grudge
10- distracted on thinking also on taking decisions
11- despite of I have photographic memory but I forgetting many things feeling with data mind distortion
12- my emotion toward all persons I love disturbed , I feel that they change toward me I doubt their intention and emotions toward me
13- too lazy , sluggish , tired , exhausted , sometimes my performance descend on work also I couldnt complete the days and back home early before the day off
14- hate my work
15- don't want to make a conversation   with anyone despite of I m talkative person also social person but I tend to be introverted last year
16- thinking on death , want to die ( not suicide surely ) but wish to sleep and found myself died or happen to me an accident ..........................
17- feeling lonely - orphanage ( my mother and father alive and live with me )
18- feeling that all this world is a big prison
19 - loss my freedom-willing-ability-talent-interests-live appetite
20- don't want to learn anything , develop anything , create anything also don't care about my health despite of I m suffering from several health issues
21- don't care about my cleanliness like showers-body cleaning - teeth cleaning - shoes also my cloth appearance
22- my face on creature is smiley but on later few month my face was gloomy all the time my face muscle fixed on that gloomy view , people around me observing that all the time
23- when I m combing my hair I found a lot of hair on the brush
24- I feeling that I lost my talents-skills-abilities-knowledge-purposes couldn't do or be benefit on  live further more ( I m useless)
25- I m 29 years old male unmarried
sorry for prolonging but please let me know your diagnosis also advise

Dear ao,

What you have described in great detail is clinical depression.  It is very important that you seek out a counselor and begin personal therapy as soon as possible.  Depression is a very treatable condition, and there is much hope for your improvement.  I also suggest that you make an appointment with your physician or a psychiatrist as soon as possible; she or he can prescribe antidepressant medication for you.  In the meantime, try your best to force yourself to engage in activities with people who are supportive & caring.

All the best to you!


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I can assist with issues related to: Depression, Relationships, Self-esteem, Anxiety (mild-moderate), Overeating, Grief/Loss, and Existential/Spiritual concerns. ***Please Note: I am not trained in medicine, and therefore cannot assist with questions of a medical nature, including those related to medications and their effects. A Psychiatrist is a medical doctor schooled in Psychology, and is best-suited to respond to such inquiries. ***Disclaimer: I volunteer as a way to serve others, and offer assistance in the form of information based on my training and experience. I do not provide advice, and cannot assume responsibility for any actions or outcomes related to the questioner; such responsibility rests solely with the questioner. ***If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide, help is available. Please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (in the U.S.) at 1-800-273-8255. If the risk is immediate, call 911 or the number for your local Emergency Personnel Services.


I am trained at the master's-level in Mental Health Counseling, and have worked for many years in the Social Services field.

I am trained at the master's-level in Mental Health Counseling, and have worked for many years in the Social Services field.

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