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About Sylvia Bergthold
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Expertise
I can answer questions dealing with roommate situations including compatability, leases, placing roommate wanted ads, what you have to offer to a roommate, sharing of utilities and other services, interviewing techniques and questions, some legal aspects of housesharing, clearance information, etc.

Experience
I have had roommates in my home for over 32 years and am the author of:
"SORRY, THE BOA HAS GOTTA GO!" A Roommate Survival Guide

Publications
The Los Angeles Times, The HB-FV Independent, The Arizona Tribune, Lansing Michigan Rental Guide, Roommate Locator Newsletter, The Plain Dealer,, Las Vegas Sun, Apartment Lifestyles Magazine, Instyle Magazine, The Whiz.com, Cosmopolitan, Under 25, The Portsmouth Herald

   

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renters rights9/6/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: Im renting a room from a woman who has section 8 housing Just rescently ive been asked to back most ...
  A: I would say you have a problem. These are the reasons. You paid in cash so can't "prove" you paid ...
SMALL CLAIM FORMS9/5/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: Our roommates have finally moved out. This after not paying rent, bouncing their rent ck to ...
  A: I am not aware of being able to get the forms on-line. I believe they have to be picked up at the ...
Renter/GF on the lease9/4/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: Me an my girl friend have been living with each other for 3 years now. She is on the lease, but ...
  A: Go to the landlord and see if he has any suggestions. I know parts of LA are rent controlled which ...
Is my Sublease Valid?9/1/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: my boyfriend and i moved in with 3 other of our friends. The landlord(owner) requested that he only ...
  A: Please go speak to the Landlord immediately. If I read this correctly, since the Master Lease ...
Unwanted Roommate8/30/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I am renting a room in my apartment to my best friend of 10+ years. Only I am on the lease. I was ...
  A: Wow, another letter confirming my number one rule in my Roommate Survival Guide. NEVER EVER have a ...
problem with roommate8/28/2006Sarah
  Q: six months ago me and two other people moved into a apt and sign a year lease. all agreed to live by ...
  A: Yep I think you're being too nice. If she is causing a problem you are probably better off without ...
Controlling roommates8/27/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I have just recently moved into a townhouse with two of my friends. They are both very controlling ...
  A: NOW you know why the number one rule in my Roommate Survival Guide is NEVER NEVER move in with ...
Landlady Going into my Room - Update8/26/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I am so sorry to bother you again but it seems this situation is getting worst. I have only been ...
  A: In my reply to your first letter I stated you should go visit the Fair Housing Agency in your city ...
Splitting rent8/25/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I just moved into a new place with one other roommate. The total rent for the apartmnet is $ 2150. ...
  A: I get asked this quite often and it does get kind of complicated. But it is worth the trouble ...
can i get rid of her?8/25/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I have been living with a roommate for about 8months now. She is NOT on the lease, but the landlord ...
  A: Well, welcome to the world of housing bureaucracy. As I have mentioned often, EACH city, county and ...
roomate holding deposit and giveing short notice8/25/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I signed a lease with my friend in January and towards the end of february my fiance wanted to move ...
  A: Take this entire problem to your landlord. You and your roommate need to grow up and understand the ...
consulting?8/23/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: Do you do roomate consulting on the phone?
  A: No, I don't. I am extremely hard of hearing and don't use the phone unless it is an emergency. ...
Do I owe for utilities I am not using8/23/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I am in a lease for another 5 months with a roommate that I can not stand. I stopped staying at my ...
  A: When you signed a lease, you signed on for the entire duration of the lease period (I assume a ...
roommate unwanted8/23/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: if i want my ex-husband out and i've verbally told him many times to leave with in 2 weeks and he ...
  A: Go on line and find a legal 30 day notice. There should be several sites that deal with legal ...
Three roomates, one says she's moving out, help!8/22/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I am currently renting a house with two other people. Myself and one of my roomates get along great ...
  A: Hope and Pray that your roommate moves out. Then ask the landlord if you can start looking for ...
Problem with a renter moving in his girlfriend..8/20/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I rent the 2 spare bedrooms in my home, charging only $375 a month which includes all utilities, use ...
  A: I am going to assume you did NOT write up any type of agreement with your roommates; if you had he ...
Landlady Going into my Room8/18/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I have a bit of a problem. I rented a room from this lady. A month to Month verbal agreement, ...
  A: She does NOT have the right to go through your things, even if she owns the house and you are not on ...
How to deal with a freaked-out roommate?8/18/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I moved in to a two-bed apartment in Jan.,06. I found a roommate, and she moved in on Apr.1st,06. ...
  A: Let's all hope she moves out by Sept 1st. If she doesn't, you will have to go to an eviction service ...
Roommate won't pay bills8/17/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: My ex-roommate left without paying the lats months utilities. We knew she would be leaving, but she ...
  A: Unless you know where you former roommate lives or WORKS,or how to get in touch with her family, or ...
My roomate has not lived up to her lease8/17/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I have a townhouse and I rented the room to this woman. She had lived their 3 days and promised to ...
  A: I think it would be a good idea for you to visit the Fair Housing Agency in your city. Take any ...
Roommates, Sublets, and Rent Overcharge8/15/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: My 'roommate' (the leaseholder) and I signed a rent agreement last August to share a 2 bdrm ...
  A: Since I don't know the specific laws regarding NYC housing (each city, county and state tack on ...
ex wont leave8/14/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: my ex boyfriend will literally not leave my home. he refuses to go. he is highly verbally abusive. ...
  A: The next time he is not there (whenever that is), call a locksmith and have all the locks changed on ...
girlfriend threw my stuff out without notice8/14/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I'll try and make this quick....I decided not to renew my apartment lease once it ended and look for ...
  A: I am going to assume NO WRITTEN contract, lease, roommate agreement or any other type of document ...
Roommate left and wont pay breaking lease fee!!8/12/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: First let me say thank you for responding to my question. But now to the next question... I do know ...
  A: Just itemize every nickel and dime you put out in this mess and by your letter, it will amount to ...
Eviction of a sublessee8/12/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I have a had a roommate that has been here for over 6 months, and is behind in her rent at the tune ...
  A: Give your Roommate a written THREE DAY NOTICE to pay rent or quit. After 3 days (if she doesn't pay) ...
roomates8/11/2006Sarah
  Q: In march of '06 I moved into a condo with a girl i knew from school. About a week after we moved in, ...
  A: If your landlords serve the notice for you its perfectly legal. Perhaps if you tell them about the ...
non paying/lying roommate8/11/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: My boyfriend and I allowed on if his friends from work move in with us to help both him and us ...
  A: Give your roommate a THREE day notice to pay rent or quit. (you should be able to find the forms ...
Former Roomate looking for money8/11/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: How are you? My name is Danielle and I live in Massachusetts. I currently live in an apartment where ...
  A: He sure has nerve asking for his money back!! Do NOT give him a dime. He signed a lease for a ...
Roommate left and wont pay breaking lease fee!!8/10/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: In feb. of 06 a girl I worked with and I got an apartment together... I know I know bad idea... but ...
  A: Get a written statement from the landlord as to what your roommate attempted to do (the fraudulent ...
Subletter8/10/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I have a problem with a current subletter. The individual signed a written agreement saying she ...
  A: Go to the Fair Housing Agency in your city immediately. Tell them what happened with your subletter ...
roommate begin told to get out8/9/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: My friend, Katy, lives with a woman, Jackie, who is disabled. There is no formal arrangement ...
  A: There is a lot more to this than you are telling me. Perhaps the landlord has a clause in his ...
Want out!8/9/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I've lived with my friend for over a year and she recently bought a condo. I moved into the condo ...
  A: All you need to do is give her a WRITTEN 30 day notice to vacate and do it. It is a very simple ...
trouble with roomate8/9/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: Both my roomate and I are on a lease. She has a boyfriend who is now living with us, which he stays ...
  A: This is an intolerable situation. Give your roommate a WRITTEN 30 day notice you are leaving and ...
Unwanted Roommate8/9/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: My girlfriend and I moved to San Diego and signed a lease on a small one bedroom apartment about a ...
  A: No matter what you do, your ex is going to be vindictive about you moving out. It isn't she doesn't ...
2 Renters 3 guest8/9/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I am trying to get either legal or regular advise as to how to handle my situation. I moved into a ...
  A: Check your lease agreement to see if it allows subletters. That is what everybody else is in this ...
Visiting Twin and his gf8/8/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I got an internship for the summer at Berkeley and my twin brother invited me to stay in his studio ...
  A: If you have been reading any of the postings to this page you know my #1 rule about roommates. DO ...
Charging rent8/8/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I am currently renting an apartment with a roomate. Our total rent is $990, $495 each. We both ...
  A: When you own property (as in a condo) it is actually okay to make a small profit when you rent out ...
legality between subletting and8/8/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: I am sharing my rooms in my apartment to international students or local students who need flexible ...
  A: You should visit the Fair Housing Agency in your city to determine if what you are doing is legal. ...
One roommate wants to break lease8/8/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: A friend has a situation that her roommate wants to break their lease to move to a different state. ...
  A: Well if you have read any of the postings to this page, you are now well aware of how I feel about ...
Roomates are withholding my personal belongings (TX)8/7/2006Sylvia Bergthold
  Q: Over the summer, my roomates and I had a falling out while I was out vacationing with my family. ...
  A: The Fair Housing Agency has a mediation service that gets all "bickering" parties together to ...

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