Dealing with Stress/parenting



i am mother of 3 years old girl ,the problem of my life is my daughter is very thin and lean nothing more,whenever i meet people the firt thing they address is that only.i have shown her to many doc but everyone says she is fine but tiny and nothing to worry.

i feel awkward going out becase the same question irritates me i wasnt to just come out of it n wanted to know how should i gain my confidence on my upbringing.

Hi Leena

Is your daughter a happy, healthy child?  If she is, then you are doing an excellent job in bringing her up.

Some people are born thin and skinny and they will remain so for the rest of their lives.  They will always look younger than they are, while the rest of us will always want to be as thin and good-looking as they are.

Sadly such thin people, even when they are healthy and happy, often believe that they have a problem with gaining weight, when in fact they have no problems - they are just happy and healthy as they are.

When people ask you why your daughter is so thin, tell them she is a very special child and that you are proud and honored to be her mother.  And please ensure that you always tell your daughter how beautiful she is - there will be enough insensitive people who will want her to believe the opposite.

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Elsabe Smit


Stress is the result of an inner conflict or a conflict between you and the world around you. I deal with relationships (marriage, divorce, teams in business), parenting, money issues, bereavement, conflict, and major life events (serious illness, redundancy).


Trained as psychologist, NLP master practitioner, highly intuitive. Uses a unique and holistic approach that focuses on removing physical and emotional pain.

Published various academic textbooks as author, co-author and editor.

Master's Degree in Industrial psychology, Master's Degree in Business Administration

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Businesses with change management, conflict management, communication and teamwork. Individuals with divorce, relationship issues, career crises, personal growth, money issues, mid-life crises.

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