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About James Middleton
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Expertise
I am happy answering questions about handling stress and panic attacks, overwork and similar problems.

Experience
I am a practicing hypnotherapist of 18 years experience and a qualified Occupational Therapist in community mental health.

Organizations belong to
Council for Professions Supplementary to Medicine, Member of the National Register of Advanced Hypnotherapists, Full member of ANLP.

Publications
UK Journal of Association for Neurolinguistic Processing.

Education/Credentials
Dip Cot, Certificate in Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy, Certificate in Co-counselling, Reiki 1, Reiki 2, and Reiki Masters. Practitioner of NLP

Awards and Honors
WARP Freefall Coach for the British Parachute Association.

   

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In Category  Dealing with Stress

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new relationship, old friend.10/26/2009
  Q: I am 26... and have been friends with a man for many years.. i always had strong feelings for him, ...
  A: From what you describe it seems like you need more CBT. Your anxiety appears to be the end result ...
emotional eating10/18/2009
  Q: my name is Natasha im 18 and right now im having a really tough time not sure whats bothering ...
  A: Sorry for the troubles you are having. You seem to have reached the stage where you really need ...
Constant stomach problem9/22/2009
  Q: Hey, I am 16 years old, and I have has what I think to be is stress-related stomach problems similar ...
  A: With this level of distress at your age, you need to try and fix this as soon as you can. If you ...
panic disorder9/21/2009
  Q: i get Shortness of breath,Heart palpitations or a racing heart,Chest pain or discomfort,Choking ...
  A: A hypnotherapist or counsellor would be helpful. Some people say that Cognitive behaviour treatment ...
panic disorder9/21/2009
  Q: i get Shortness of breath,Heart palpitations or a racing heart,Chest pain or discomfort,Choking ...
  A: Heart attacks at 19 years old are pretty rare. However suffering from panic attacks for prolonged ...
Negative Thoughts: A Natural Defense Mechanism?9/20/2009
  Q: . My situation is quite difficult to put into words, but I'l try my best to explain: Many a ...
  A: It's not something we all do all the time, but we do this kind of thinking from time to time. It ...
Stressful thoughts9/20/2009
  Q: My husband and I have been dealing with infertility for a couple of years now. We are going to have ...
  A: I wouldn't be too bothered about what they think. What is important is how you feel about it. After ...
Stress and then more Stress9/13/2009
  Q: My stress levels seem to have been increasing a lot lately. Unfortunately, a lot of harsh realities ...
  A: Unfortunately - the more stressed you are, the less likely you are to be able to conceive naturally. ...
sweating cuz im nervous8/22/2009
  Q: hey im a 17yr old kid and i sweat SO BAD like NOTHING works for me and once i start thinkig IM GONNA ...
  A: Yup, there are some products which are really good for this. Specifically Self hypnosis programs. ...
stress/panick/anxiety8/7/2009
  Q: i have a 18 year old daughter who is really stressing me out to the point i cant take no more, i ...
  A: I don't think you are doing anything wrong - apart from feeling over concerned for her safety. The ...
stress/panick/anxiety8/7/2009
  Q: i have a 18 year old daughter who is really stressing me out to the point i cant take no more, i ...
  A: This is difficult to know without seeing you both together. It would be a good idea to insist she ...
stress/panick/anxiety8/7/2009
  Q: i have a 18 year old daughter who is really stressing me out to the point i cant take no more, i ...
  A: You need to have a talk with your GP and see if they can offer any parenting support or advice for ...
Please help me7/28/2009
  Q: I am a 26 year old mother of one, with 'issues'. I have attained a low self esteem over the last ...
  A: I am glad you found the answer helpful. There are many good programs on the net, or you may like to ...
Please help me7/28/2009
  Q: I am a 26 year old mother of one, with 'issues'. I have attained a low self esteem over the last ...
  A: This whole episode has been a big blow to you. It seems that you are having a great deal of trouble ...
Changing my perceptions6/13/2009
  Q: I have an anxiety disorder and an OCD related to health issues. I have a tendency to see nearly ...
  A: The fastest and easiest way would be to take up some high risk activities - like rock climbing, ...
mental stress6/4/2009
  Q: "sir, Iam 6 feet 3 inches tall guy and my age is 22 yrs. Both my father and grandfather are 5'8. ...
  A: You need some stress managing tools. Self hypnosis programs will help a great deal. If you can, ...
Work anxiety3/28/2009
  Q: James, First, thank you for being here to help with these issues! It is much appreciated. My ...
  A: Perhaps this is a message - that it's time to look for a new job. If you find going to work ...
Nasal Surgery3/23/2009
  Q: My boyfriend had nasal surgery in December to correct a deviated septum which would make it hard for ...
  A: It sounds like your boyfriend has become seriously stressed about this operation - and the result is ...
Why anxiety/irrational fears all of a sudden?1/28/2009
  Q: I am a 20 year old otherwise healthy male. I will just tell you a bit about it and when it started ...
  A: It's very unlikely that some of the panic/anxiety will become a learned behaviour for you. This can ...
= /1/24/2009
  Q: Im 13 years old and i just had to witness my dad trying to kill himself.. I cant eat and ive been ...
  A: Sorry that you have had this experience. You need to find someone to talk to about this, either a ...
Why anxiety/irrational fears all of a sudden?1/23/2009
  Q: I am a 20 year old otherwise healthy male. I will just tell you a bit about it and when it started ...
  A: What you are experiencing in view of the life events you have recently had is perfectly normal. We ...
stress and ulcers1/22/2009
  Q: I have been under incredible stress for some time now at work and for the past 2 years have been ...
  A: Sorry to hear of the troubles you are having. There has been considerable research to indicate that ...
unable or unwilling to attend funerals1/22/2009
  Q: I am a 35 y/o bi-racial woman whose family have had problems in the past getting along.My father ...
  A: I am sorry to hear that you are having worries. I think that you have not ever really got over the ...
stress12/2/2008
  Q: what are the common factors that create stress in a child who is 13 years old?
  A: I am not an expert on stress and children, but I would imagine the same stresses would apply as with ...
Alternative Methods of Stress Reduction11/27/2008
  Q: I am interested in alternative methods of stress reduction. I suffer from occasional panic attacks ...
  A: One of the best methods of stress reduction is the judicious use of self hypnosis tapes. There are ...
anxiety10/12/2008
  Q: im not real sure but i have been diagnosed with generalized anxiety and panic attacks, but the meds ...
  A: Part of the problem with anxiety medication and antidepressant medication is that through long term ...
underage stress10/11/2008
  Q: I am 11 years old and have a quite busy life,so I hope you can help me because if I continue like ...
  A: You can always tell if you are overdoing things if your system is responding in the ways you ...
State of Mind10/8/2008
  Q: I'm 25. I'm due to have a circumcision soon, which is stressing me out a bit I think. I don't want ...
  A: Add a collection of streessors, and this is often the temporary result. I think you will find, once ...
to stressed10/8/2008
  Q: I work full time. We just bought a forclosed home that needs alot of up dating weve been living in ...
  A: You need to find some time for yourself. If your children are out for school time, then relax in ...
Problem with colleague10/4/2008
  Q: I have been at a new job for about four months now. When I first got here, there was this guy named ...
  A: You are quite right to be skeptical, if you can visit a hypnotherapist privately for individual ...
Nausea10/3/2008
  Q: I'm a concerned parent of a 13 year old. She is a 4.0 student and has an active lifestyle. She is ...
  A: You are right to be concerned now - if you see no improvement in 7 days - then take her to your ...
Problem with colleague9/30/2008
  Q: I have been at a new job for about four months now. When I first got here, there was this guy named ...
  A: Seems like you could do with some help in building more fluent assertiveness skills, although ...
Depression after surgery9/28/2008
  Q: Help I am annoying my family and myself.I think it's post op depression but I am scared.I get very ...
  A: Clearly you are not well enough to return to work. You need to talk to your medical practitioner ...
Constant stress anxiety9/5/2008
  Q: for the last 4 years i have had a feeling in my neck, tongue and jaw muscles. It is difficult to ...
  A: Unfortunately what no one ever tells people who take antidepressants and anxiety medication for ...
Anxiety Attacks Nausea9/3/2008
  Q: I am a 32 year old male with no medical problems. I am currently working in a job where i do not ...
  A: The easiest thing to do would be to change jobs - and find one where you do want to be. This is ...
Dealing with stress, literally!8/31/2008
  Q: I became a blackjack dealer about 8 months ago and I have noticed that when I'm dealing I tend to ...
  A: What you really need to do is learn some strategies and techniques for instant stress control. One ...
Being Away..8/26/2008
  Q: Me and my wife have been married since Feb of 07. I'm in the military and have already made it ...
  A: It seems like you've been OK while you have been away, but now you're finding it difficult with the ...
stress8/22/2008
  Q: I've been under a great deal of stress lately, and I'm finding that when I feel stressed the most, I ...
  A: There are lots of really good sites which will give you top advice with this issue, this one below ...
help8/20/2008
  Q: hey i am anika and im 16 years old. i think i worry too much about everything. like 2 years ago i ...
  A: Hey Anika, These sorts of worries are perfectly normal at your age. Most of the time we are able ...
Sucking Away Stress8/18/2008
  Q: I'm an 18 year old girl and well, I have a weird way of dealing with and managing stress. Whenever ...
  A: There may very well be a collection of chemicals and nutrients that are in your boyfriends cum which ...
itching and stress related?8/18/2008
  Q: Does Stress cause your body to itch all over externally?
  A: Stress can cause all sorts of unusual symptoms and can include the one you describe. If you think ...
Post breast aug. surgery depression/ anxiety8/18/2008
  Q: I had breast enlargement surgery 3 and a half months ago. I was very sensitive, emotional and ...
  A: I am sorry to hear you have been having problems post surgery. I think in the first instance you ...
Need some help!8/14/2008
  Q: Sometimes when I realize I have done something wrong (though it might not be very important) or I ...
  A: This is normal performance/public speaking anxiety and is incredibly easy to treat. Either find a ...
somatization disorder8/12/2008
  Q: I came upon this disorder Somatization Disorder and felt that it fit me more than other diagnoses. ...
  A: Have you seen a doctor to examine these physical symptoms? Because if you have not, then that would ...
over work, stress, anxiety, depression & new symptom8/12/2008
  Q: Middleton, I have been struggling for about 1 year in a new job with a tremendous amount of stress. ...
  A: Sounds like you definitely need to lose the job - no company should treat people the way this one ...
stress8/12/2008
  Q: I had headaches for about a month and went to the doctors who put me on Mobic, Singulair, and ...
  A: What might help is trying to work out how the headaches came about in the first place. If you can ...
Anxiety problems, depression, sexual issues, paranoia8/8/2008
  Q: anxiety,paranoia since i turned 17. I had my first panic attack when i was 17 and since then I've ...
  A: Whatever sex problems you had before taking antidepressants will be worse now you are taking them. ...
Anxiety problems, depression, sexual issues, paranoia8/6/2008
  Q: anxiety,paranoia since i turned 17. I had my first panic attack when i was 17 and since then I've ...
  A: Antidepressants are notorious for messing up your sex drive and messing with your performance, ...
altered sense of smell and stress8/4/2008
  Q: over the past 3 months i have been going through a stressful period in which my sister, to whom i ...
  A: During times of deep distress, the body and mind are prone to undergo a variety of changes. ...
job related stress and depression7/27/2008
  Q: My Friend who had completed his Masters in Computer Applications, was earlier Jobless for about 3 ...
  A: My email is james@hypnosis.demon.co.uk Warm regards, James Hi Gopalakrishnan, If he is not ...
help7/26/2008
  Q: im 17 years old and i will be going back to school in a month. i also will be starting my job on ...
  A: From how you describe things, along with the dieting and exercise, it seems as if you are ...
Stress?7/24/2008
  Q: I'm a 15 (and a half) year old girl. I have always been very sensitive and emotional. If i start ...
  A: Well, maybe you still blame yourself in some way for your parents breakup - and these feelings still ...
Stress?7/23/2008
  Q: I'm a 15 (and a half) year old girl. I have always been very sensitive and emotional. If i start ...
  A: It sounds as though the split up with your parents is causing you more trouble than you thought. ...
6 year old stress's me out7/19/2008
  Q: My boyfriends 6 year old stresses me out, but sometimes for no apparent reason. But its so bad that ...
  A: You have to ask yourself what's changed in the last year or so to make things so much more difficult ...
Need an outlet7/11/2008
  Q: I am a 56 year old grandmother, living with a widowed daughter. Her husband died when the little one ...
  A: There is nothing more difficult than a recalcitrant youth, and I don't envy your role. You need to ...
I'm afraid of people6/29/2008
  Q: I'm Mirette, a 15-year-old girl from Egypt. I almost always feel inferior fat and ugly, even though ...
  A: You have very sucessfully used your old picture of yourself as your motivator to help you lose ...
anxiety, depression, intrusive thinking, hocd6/28/2008
  Q: I've always thought myself to a heterosexual and until recently have only thought of girls while ...
  A: Under stress and pressure, your feelings are much more common than you would think. A fair ...
Anxiety6/26/2008
  Q: I was diagnosed with depression about 6 years ago. Since then I've changed meds multiple times. ...
  A: You have been stable for a while, so it would seem that this recent episode has been sparked off by ...
Shingles6/16/2008
  Q: My wife suffers from shingles. She's 57 years old. So far it’s been 8 weeks. What causes it… ...
  A: My speciality is stress, and there is some indication that a lowered immune response can trigger an ...
low self esteem / paranoid6/16/2008
  Q: ive low self esteem and I think its making me paranoid. Im ok with my friends normally , but im ...
  A: What you are experiencing is pretty common, but rarely gets as severe as you seem to be ...
living with a paranoid husband6/11/2008
  Q: After 10 years of living together 24/7, my husband had to go to another country for a couple of ...
  A: Living with such a man must be very difficult. Describing his difficulties as hypoglycemic or ...
question6/8/2008
  Q: im 15, and although im young, i think im in serious need for stress pills like Benzodiazepines.i've ...
  A: Taking tablets like Benzodiazepines may help you in the short term but it is well proven that over ...
Stressing out.6/8/2008
  Q: Im 15 and i've been dealing with stress for a long time about everything. Is it that unhealthy to ...
  A: It is difficult when you have stresses with important work like school work that needs doing. What ...
sudden and unusual shocks5/27/2008
  Q: I have been going through lots of mental stress since one year.Recently i have started feelin very ...
  A: This kind of energy release is perfectly normal - and is simply the muscles releasing their stored ...
Anxiety problems, depression, sexual issues, paranoia5/9/2008
  Q: anxiety,paranoia since i turned 17. I had my first panic attack when i was 17 and since then I've ...
  A: I couldn't agree more with this webpage - in fact I answered a very similar question to yours a few ...
Anxiety problems, depression, sexual issues, paranoia5/9/2008
  Q: anxiety,paranoia since i turned 17. I had my first panic attack when i was 17 and since then I've ...
  A: Sorry for the problems you are having. It sounds like you will benefit a lot from your counselling ...
Stress-fighting energizing natural remedies?5/1/2008
  Q: How are you? Thanks for helping out on this site :) Just wondering if you can give me some pointers ...
  A: One of the best boosters and energzers I have found over the years is Reiki hands on healing. You ...
heart rate and stree4/27/2008
  Q: i was wondering if you can answer this.. i have an at rest heart rate of 110-115 with no answer as ...
  A: If you have had all the appropriate health and cardiac workups and no doctor can find anything wrong ...
how to get rid of this problem?4/25/2008
  Q: My name is sree.I don't know whether this is the right place to post quest or not.My problem is when ...
  A: It seems as if this tension is overcoming your ability to control it. The best tool for helping ...
"air hunger"4/24/2008
  Q: I have been to doctors and have had bloodwork, lung test, and even heart tests that show nothing, ...
  A: I doubt whether travel in a plane will have much difference to how your symptoms behave. These ...
my ex girlfriend4/17/2008
  Q: i just wont to know why my ex don't wont me to be happy and find a another girl friend i can love ...
  A: Sometimes when relationships end, one or both people actually don't want the relationship to end. ...
fear early in a relationships3/30/2008
  Q: when im in a relationship i find myself moving things to fast and trying to hard, but the real ...
  A: Congratulations on your new relationship. These feelings you are experiencing are fairly common and ...
stressful thoughts3/24/2008
  Q: I 'm Abhishek.i'm 21 years of age.i've been very sensitive emotionally and a kind of a negative ...
  A: What you seem to be describing is a lack of confidence in yourself and your appearance. When you ...
im doing a research paper need a lil help3/12/2008
  Q: Do you think that there is a difference between the ways Straight women and Gay or lesbian women ...
  A: I know of no studies which show that stress effects straight women any diffently from gay or lesbian ...
stress, big time2/22/2008
  Q: This is my mom's profile ( ooops) OK, HI and i appreciate grownup-ups like you are willing to help ...
  A: and at your age, you would be far better off talking to one of your parents, brother, sister or ...
stressed and depressed2/20/2008
  Q: how are you.As it is related to stress I will try to be as clear as possible.I am 27 male from ...
  A: If you can find a good self hypnosis tape to use on a daily basis, there are many on the net or you ...
Stressed & experiencing a rush type dizziness & slight equilibrium problem2/20/2008
  Q: For too many months I have had much stress and anxiety (full time single dad, Teenager challenges, ...
  A: If you havn't yet tried HPP Ericksonian hypnosis programs, then they are always worth a try. Very ...
Anxiety1/25/2008
  Q: I,am 25 years old and have been dealing with general anxiety and panic attacks for about 2 years ...
  A: Strangely enough, I have been asked a very similar question quite recently. What you are ...
Stress related chest pain1/22/2008
  Q: almost 2 years ago my husband and I were running a new business. The bank manager just took ...
  A: I'm sorry for your bad fortune, and it seems like your husband has really taken it "to heart". In ...
Post Surgery Depression and Anxiety12/29/2007
  Q: my name is Leah and i am 17 years old. i recently ( about 7 weeks ago) had major surgery to correct ...
  A: and I am sorry you are struggling at the moment. Any serious surgery like yours, will create all ...
stomach disturbs sleep12/27/2007
  Q: stomach disturbs sleep 1 I have problems with sleeping. These problems started with a series of ...
  A: I can recommend that you find a good therapist, either a counsellor or hypnotherapist, who is ...
stomach disturbs sleep12/20/2007
  Q: stomach disturbs sleep 1 I have problems with sleeping. These problems started with a series of ...
  A: And therein lies part of the problem. For years you seem to have analysed, and overanalysed these ...
stress12/12/2007
  Q: Respected sir, My father is 58 years old. Since he could not advance in career life and could not ...
  A: Unfortunately there seems little you can do. If he is unwilling to change how he behaves, then his ...
Anxiety being gay and a little more12/10/2007
  Q: I'm from Venezuela I came back to my country after 3 years of living in Uk whit my boyfriend I never ...
  A: Naturally, coming back to your land of home, and its religious zeal, will cause you to rethink you ...
stressed out husband11/10/2007
  Q: Can you please advise "us" here on the topic of stress. My husband recently changed careers, July ...
  A: Someone who takes pills to stay awake, and pills to go to sleep on a regular basis is asking for ...
Social Phobia and Planning a Wedding11/8/2007
  Q: I have been diagnosed with Social Phobia and it has definitely been a hardship in my life. I ...
  A: Yes, what you need is some excellent therapy. Either hypnotherapy, counselling or similar. It is ...
Stress and strange smell11/7/2007
  Q: For the past 5 months, I've been going through severe stress, heart palpitations and anxiety as well ...
  A: Hi levels of stress and anxiety cause all sorts of physical problems including perceptual changes - ...
fight shakes10/30/2007
  Q: Hey there. When I am in a situation that involves the remotest prospect of physical confrontation, ...
  A: These feelings are common to most people in situations of physical confrontation. It is actually a ...
Depression or stress or what?9/6/2007
  Q: I am Ahmer age 32, male, from last 1 year i have following feelings like. 1. sad feelings with no ...
  A: It certainly sounds like you have depression, and from what you say it seems like these feelings are ...
restlessness on the first week of school9/1/2007
  Q: I'm currently a junior at a high school and want to raise my GPA as high as I can. I'm taking AP ...
  A: It would appear that you have just returned to your studies, and the thought of all the work you ...
looking deep into my mind8/7/2007
  Q: ok so i really dont have any stress. i dont get stressed alot but i would like to be able to sit ...
  A: I have 3 complimentary courses delivered by e-mail you may not know about. The first one is an ...
Paranoia or Anxiety I'm not sure?7/28/2007
  Q: whenever I'm at home I always feel paranoid or have anxiety about people coming to my door, to see ...
  A: Has some dramatic/traumatic event occured with you in the last 6 months? Almost always these kind ...
Stress on Medical issues7/26/2007
  Q: I am a 66-year-old male who is facing some urology issues. My problem is I am stressed out worrying ...
  A: There are a couple of things you can do, talk to your medical practitioner - explain your anxieties ...
stress...7/26/2007
  Q: I've got a fair share of stuff weighing on me right now. Deadlines, family crap, friend issues... ...
  A: Clearly you are not coping well with where you are right now. Maybe you have too much to do, or ...
Boobs && Weight7/7/2007
  Q: My names Emma and im 15 years old. My problem is my boobs, they am sooo small they look like mole ...
  A: This time in life - puberty is really a terrible time because everything is still growing. We are ...
I asked Pat for advice6/9/2007
  Q: Since Pat is on vacation, I wonder if you could gelp me with a follow-up. Question In April I had a ...
  A: It seems as though worrying about being pregnant really is a big issue for you. As Pat suggests, ...
related to my past5/16/2007
  Q: sir, i had 4 years relation my boyfrnd..smhw we got involved smtimes ..i never wanted that but i ...
  A: Mahi, It seems as though you need someone to talk to about this. Do you have a friend or relative ...
Sex/relationship related stress4/27/2007
  Q: I'm a 20 year old male, and I've found that when i've started serious relationships - my sexual ...
  A: What you are probably experiencing is a form of performance anxiety - played out in your head with a ...
thank you2/1/2007
  Q: I had went to a phychiatrist and she had sed it was a hase of new sexual feelings you get when you ...
  A: When someone wonders about being gay - it sometimes means they are not sure that they are, or are ...
Relationship Anxiety1/3/2007
  Q: 45 year old male having sometimes extreme anxiety (mostly constant arm pain & burning sensation ...
  A: It seems like you have reached a time where you really want to fix this problem. From what you have ...
help? :(12/2/2006
  Q: I am writing to ask you a question. My name is Kara I am 16 years old. I am a victim of hurricaine ...
  A: Feelings like this are very common after disasters. You need to tell someone how you feel, either ...
oral fixation problems?11/26/2006
  Q: Hey, I'm not sure who to ask about this, because my problem is kind of weird. :( I'm kind of ...
  A: Your problem is unusual but not so strange. If you don´t want to be seen with a pacifier, how about ...
sexual anxiety11/20/2006
  Q: I'm a 17 year old healthy male and I've been having a lot of trouble staying relaxed before sex ...
  A: This problem is EXTREMELY common with young men such as yourself. My suggestion would be to ...
How Can I Stop Regretting11/13/2006
  Q: How can I stop regretting things of the past its driving me bonkers?Its not helping me get sleep im ...
  A: The best way to work with past regrets is to talk over the issues with a good friend or counsellor. ...
smoking in youth as a means to relieve stress10/10/2006
  Q: I am a 21 year old college student, and while I do not smoke myself, I have a lot of friends who ...
  A: Personally I think it is a mixture of both, wanting to fit in, and the perceived stress relief that ...
relaitonship, anxiety10/4/2006
  Q: i will take you up on the follow up question. I have been under hypnosis as of last week, ...
  A: It is normal to have a homosexual paranoia if one of your relatives is gay. How can you not be ...
Could Post Surgical Depression be Part of It?9/30/2006
  Q: After vomiting for 4 months and losing 30 pounds, I tried very hard to find a doctor to help me ...
  A: As you say, this has become the last straw in your beleagured health episodes and is now becoming ...
sex performance anxiety9/11/2006
  Q: Ok, this will all seem obvious why i'm having problems, but i need confirmation and strategies on ...
  A: You are describing as you say, classic performance anxiety related to having sex. My guess is that ...
Dealing with stress caused by infant8/6/2006
  Q: I like to think of myself as a "well put together" individual, but lately I feel like I am falling ...
  A: Sorry for the delay in responding, i have been away on holiday. First you have to remember that ...
Stress Management5/18/2006
  Q: Middleton: I am a college student in Philadelphia, and I am writing an article on ways to reduce ...
  A: and giving me the opportunity to assist you in your article. My guess is that the standard tips to ...
overworked2/15/2006
  Q: I am a 25 year old mother of 2. I have been married for 4 years and have 2 beautiful children, a 15 ...
  A: It seems as though you have to take charge of some of your time. The only place I can see if you ...
What are my rights and entitlements please?12/18/2005
  Q: I originate from the U.K. and moved to live in Holland in March 1998. I registered with a friend ...
  A: I appreciate you're writing to me, but I'm not really the person who might best be able to help you. ...
A terrible fear of driving a car8/5/2005
  Q: I have had a terrible fear of driving a car since I was 16years old. I forced myself to take the car ...
  A: It seems as though you are suffering acute anxiety about car driving. There are two things I would ...
hey7/6/2005
  Q: i get alot of chess pain my doctor say thats its stress how do i deal with it i'm so stressed about ...
  A: Learning to destress - takes practice and time - relieving some of your stress will really help . ...
Sleep problems1/14/2005
  Q: I have real problems 'switching off' at night and falling asleep. My heart seems to race and I ...
  A: Learning to switch off - takes practice and time - relieving some of your stress will really help . ...
Confrontations in the workplace1/9/2005
  Q: I'm getting panic attacks. A former co-worker (who was employed for 7 yrs) was re-hired as ...
  A: and I am sorry for the difficulties you are having. Your question really raises two issues. 1. ...
STRESS12/24/2004
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