| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| divorce | 10/8/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: I just remarried ex-husband 6 mo ago. I have my own house in my name only. Our marriage isn't ...
A: Check with a lawyer and see if you qualify for an annulment. That would be your easiest route. I ...
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| ridiculously long process! | 10/7/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: I separated from my wife over 8 years ago after going to court 4 times. I had no idea how costly it ...
A: yes you can do this by yourself but it takes time. If your wife has primary custody of the kids then ...
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| I'm thinking of moving on...I'm afraid to start! | 10/6/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: I am still married to my husband. I am angry all the time and I just want it to be over. The issues ...
A: Getting your degree will be a great start to becoming self-sufficient. There are counselors at ...
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| health and alimony benefits. | 10/5/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: My situation--I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA.......Married 17 years no children, no debts. We own a home. My ...
A: benefits are a negotiable asset, so he can keep you on his benefits if he elects to, but if not, you ...
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| health and alimony benefits. | 10/5/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: SORRY IF THIS IS A DUPLICATE My situation--I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA.......Married 17 years no children, ...
A: With regard to insurance, you will need to get your own once you are divorced; however, there is a ...
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| health and alimony benefits. | 10/5/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: My situation--I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA.......Married 17 years no children, no debts. We own a home. My ...
A: All these questions are legal and I am not an attorney. I can tell you this. Ten years of marriage ...
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| My husband wont talk to me | 9/29/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: Four days, my husband stopped coming home, and will not talk to me on the phone. Every once in a ...
A: Does it have anything to do with your age? Not necessarily. At least we settled the "out of ...
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| My husband wont talk to me | 9/29/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: Four days, my husband stopped coming home, and will not talk to me on the phone. Every once in a ...
A: That usually happens when someone is angry beyond being angry and feels so out of control they don't ...
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| credit cards/ divorce | 9/29/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: My husband gave me a credit card that was in his name and i have used it for years. However we ...
A: If your still married and the charges are made by you, they're not fraudulent. They just need to be ...
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| Bigamy | 9/28/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: my son and daughter-in-law seperated and started divorce papers back in 2005 and never completed the ...
A: The marital status of parties is not terminated until a final decree is entered. An annulment can be ...
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| ex-wife benifits military | 9/28/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: My mom is the x-wife of a Army man for 20 years and has two daughters. They were divorced and he is ...
A: I have no knowledge regarding army retirement funds but he would have to pay taxes on money that is ...
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| confused?? | 9/28/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I been living with my boyfriend for a year now when we started dating he had a son of 10mths at ...
A: This is indeed a recipe for a disaster. My guess is that she's quite unable to be a mother and this ...
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| divorced boyfriend | 9/28/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I hope you can help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. We are temporarily "broken up" for ...
A: I'm glad my clinical hypothesis made sense to you. It may or may not to him. There might be many ...
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| divorced boyfriend | 9/27/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I hope you can help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. We are temporarily "broken up" for ...
A: There is a breakdown in your communication. It is impossible for me to tell whether it is A: ...
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| Removing third party property from divorcing home. | 9/25/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: My mom's husband (not my father) served her with divorce papers this week. The papers stipulate that ...
A: if your mom's husband just served your mother with divorce papers, she either has or will have an ...
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| Divorce - toddler - co-parenting | 9/25/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: My spouse and I are separating/divorcing. We have a 2 year old son together. We want what is best ...
A: Anne, I don't have any research close at hand that tells me anything. The general prejudice is that ...
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| Verbal Abusive Ex-Husband | 9/24/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: I have been divorced since June of 2006. Yes, my divorce was very nasty. My ex-husband and I have ...
A: There is only one thing you can do and thats control what you do. Your ex husband is still the kids ...
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| Verbal Abusive Ex-Husband | 9/24/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: I have been divorced since June of 2006. Yes, my divorce was very nasty. My ex-husband and I have ...
A: Why are you responding to your ex at all? You're under no obligation to listen to his accusations. ...
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| divorce | 9/24/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: currently I had applied for an divorce. I have just found out that my husband and his family moved ...
A: I have no expertise in marriages that took place out of the United States. Where did you apply for a ...
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| back to court | 9/22/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: My divorce became final four years ago. My husband hired an expensive lawyer. Two months before the ...
A: I don't know the statute of limitations, but I would certainly go see a new lawyer who specializes ...
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| ex husband and current boyfriend | 9/22/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I have been divorced for about 3 years. I have being seeing my boyfriend for 5 yrs. I know this is ...
A: Tough problem. You tell the whole story in the first two sentences. You had an affair with this man ...
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| i need advice | 9/20/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: im a 16 yar old senior in high school.my mother and father are divorced and my mother is remarried. ...
A: I really don't know the answers. I think you want to talk to an attorney. The way to find one will ...
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| i need advice | 9/20/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: im a 16 yar old senior in high school.my mother and father are divorced and my mother is remarried. ...
A: That is a very hard situation. Not a lot of good options there. I don't really have any ideas. ...
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| Problems with His Ex-Wife | 9/20/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and a half; we have lived together for over a ...
A: You have a very serious problem. Lots of bad news here. You will be dealing with this ...
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| My Boyfriends long divorce | 9/20/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: My boyfriend, that I currently live with, has been going through a 2 1/2 year divorce. He and is ex ...
A: I would start with the court clerk and ask a lot of questions. They will advise you on the forms you ...
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| My Boyfriends long divorce | 9/19/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: My boyfriend, that I currently live with, has been going through a 2 1/2 year divorce. He and is ex ...
A: I would go to the courts without your attorney and explain the situation. There are cases where ...
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| divorce | 9/17/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I have no money, not working had to have several surgeries in the past year. My 23 year old ...
A: Difficult situation. Thanks for writing. Sounds like you are anticipating the worst and that's ...
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| Child Custody | 9/15/2008 | Lauren Kaufman |
Q: I am going thru a contested custody battle with my STBX. He has temp. custody @ this point. He has ...
A: Yes, if your children want to be with you that definitely does come into play when you go before a ...
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| Mourning the loss of one life while celebrating another | 9/14/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. When I first met him, he was married with 3 ...
A: Robin, Lovely question. Please do me a favor. Ask those men how they did it. Interview them and ...
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| Interim Division of Income | 9/12/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: I am in the middle of a divorce. My soon to be ex-wife is pushing for interim support. I have 3 ...
A: My advice to you is to stop using her lawyer and get your own. My understanding is that you can ...
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| ex wife issues | 9/12/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I have been divorced for about 2 years. I have joint custody of a 10 yr old son and an wonderful ...
A: I think your heart is in the right place about this but your methods and approach are producing the ...
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| Retirement | 9/10/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: I have a question about retirement. My husband was divorced 20 years ago. He had been married for 12 ...
A: I'm sorry but now you are taking me way out of my level of expertise. It would seem that if she ...
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| divorce and debt | 9/9/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: after 21 years filed for divorce from my husband..he has chronically spent/lied about tens of ...
A: I think you should ask for part of his pension and for maintenance. Don't sign anything that his ...
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| Retirement | 9/9/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: I have a question about retirement. My husband was divorced 20 years ago. He had been married for 12 ...
A: I am not a lawyer; however, I found the following information which may help you understand this ...
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| Divorce | 9/9/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I do not want to divorce for the sake of my kids. We have been married for 15 years and know each ...
A: I look forward to it. drbelove@datingatmidlife.com or belove@sover.net my number is 802-254-6221 ...
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| Divorce | 9/8/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I do not want to divorce for the sake of my kids. We have been married for 15 years and know each ...
A: I don't have any immediate ideas. In fact, if have more questions than answers at this point. It ...
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| Can I move out of state during a separation? | 9/8/2008 | Terri Matheis |
Q: I have been separated from my husband for a couple of months. I'm the one who moved out. I couldn't ...
A: Since you are afraid to bring this up with your own attorney, you already realize that this is a ...
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| Getting over my ex-husband | 9/7/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: Im a 26 year old single mother of a wonderful two year old son. I have been separated from my ex for ...
A: This is truly a difficult transition for you and there are so many difficult lessons in it. Often ...
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| dealing with ex spouses | 9/6/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I am a single father divorced since 2.5 years and out of a relationship that I was abused mentally ...
A: You don't change your basic negative feelings toward her ex. What happens is they become more ...
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| dealing with ex spouses | 9/5/2008 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I am a single father divorced since 2.5 years and out of a relationship that I was abused mentally ...
A: It's a common problem. You both are really trying to create a much better life for each other and ...
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