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| Ex is mad for punishment | 7/8/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: How do I rationalize withmy ex that my out of control daughter needed to be punished for stealing my ...
A: Wow -- it sounds like mayhem at your house. I've raised teens as a single mom, and know how hard it ...
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| Is he just playing me? | 7/7/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: My husband of 8yrs marriage,15yrs together walked out 5mths ago on myself and our 2 children. Saying ...
A: Greetings down there in Australia! I am so sorry for the distress you are feeling. It DOES sound as ...
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| out-of-state divorce | 7/6/2009 | Rebecca |
Q: I live in New York state, while my husband is currently absconded on probation in Florida. We were ...
A: First, if you want a divorce you need to file for one, where you currently reside should be fine. ...
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| Betrayed by parelegal | 7/6/2009 | Rebecca |
Q: I believe you have provided me some helpful advice in the past regarding my ex pornography addiction ...
A: I see you have gone forward with your life yet continue to collide with people that test your ...
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| Divorce Reconciliation? | 7/1/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: I'm a young mother of two daughters and my husband and I are going through a divorce. I filed for ...
A: State laws do vary regarding the ground rules for divorce and dismissal. Some states still have ...
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| How to know if my wife divorced me? | 6/29/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: 7 years ago my wife and I signed the separation, and we decided to divorce, but I moved abroad and ...
A: I have no information for you about that. It's always best to keep a working relationship with your ...
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| Step Mom | 6/29/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: Ive recently remarried to a wonderful woman and she has two kids 11 and 14. Now previous to our ...
A: I hate to tell you this, but I do not agree that you should insist that your daughter call your wife ...
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| Lawyer like Husband | 6/28/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: I'm 50 yrs old and have been married and living in Texas for 10 yrs. I'm not American and, though ...
A: Wow -- you do have problems. I don't really think I am going to be able to help that much with words ...
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| false accusations | 6/27/2009 | Rebecca |
Q: my son is divorced and living with me. His children come to our house for visitation. my ex ...
A: It sounds as if your ex daughter-in-law has some issues she needs to address. Her reasons/Dramas are ...
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| seperation???? | 6/26/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: When i first met my now husband, I fooled around with his so called best friend. Bluntly, it was ...
A: What a story you have. And how difficult it must be to live and try to make a life with a man who ...
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| Separation Looming? | 6/26/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: Becky, I have been married for 5 years, have 2 teenage stepchildren (I have no children of my own), ...
A: You sure have some enormous problems on your hands, and I empathize with you. I once was involved in ...
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| Mediation agreement not being followed | 6/25/2009 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: My ex and I was signed the agreement during the mediation that both of us we going to have ...
A: I doubt it but I don't know. I'm not a lawyer. You've asked for a legal opinion and I can't give it. ...
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| penion | 6/24/2009 | Rebecca |
Q: both my ex and i worked before and after we were married what I want to know is do I get half of his ...
A: There are many ways to confront your situation. Every State varies in what each spouse is entitled ...
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| How can I stop my husband from destroying himself with this affair? | 6/23/2009 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I desperately need some advice on how I can win back my husband's love. I have been married for 23 ...
A: Timely questions. I read it today just after reading about the lastest U.S. senator to have an ...
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| divorce | 6/23/2009 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I discovered my wifes affair at the end of Nov 08.We had been together for 15 years(married 9-1/2). ...
A: Very passionate and moving letter you've written. I hope I can be helpful to you. There was so ...
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| changing divorce papers | 6/23/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: my ex wife and i had a verbal agreement and she did not hold up her end of it. we have in the ...
A: As stated in my profile, I am not a lawyer. I only consult on relationship issues that result from ...
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| parenting after divorce | 6/23/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: I've been divorced two years and share 50/50 custody of our 7yo son. My ex has been in a ...
A: When your ex asked you back and you two were planning to get a home together, there was no basis for ...
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| parenting after divorce | 6/23/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: I've been divorced two years and share 50/50 custody of our 7yo son. My ex has been in a ...
A: Your son is trying to resist changes and deny reality. This is not healthy. You must set a good ...
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| Adultry/Divorce | 6/23/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: I am currently married to my husband who has been having a sexual affair since March 23, 2009. After ...
A: What you are experiencing is no doubt your own hell on earth, and I am so sorry for that. It is ...
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| My childrens relasionship with soon to be step mom | 6/22/2009 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: My ex and I have two daughters they are now 7 and 9. Our divorce has been final for over two years, ...
A: If it's his relationship with the ex, there's not a lot you can do. It's such a petty act on his ...
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| the childrens relationship with a soon to be ex | 6/21/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: My ex and I have two daughters they are now 7 and 9. Our divorce has been final for over two years, ...
A: My how divorce can weave a tangled mess ... what could be a neatly wound up ball of yarn ends up ...
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| divorce as the other woman | 6/20/2009 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: Let me start by saying I realize while writing this there are millions of women that want my head. ...
A: Liz. What does that have to do with a car? The only thing I can think of is "tin lizzy," the ...
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| divorce pain getting harder, not easier | 6/19/2009 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: I cheated on my husband and then left him. The situation was more complicated than those ...
A: It's a midlife crisis thing. Time does not heal all wounds unless they are exposed to light, or ...
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| Can a Divorce decree be amendded? | 6/19/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: My brother and his ex filed for divorced 2006. In the divorce the judgment was for them to move out ...
A: With his name on the BC and a paternity test verifying, he has rights! I would still recommend that ...
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| divorce | 6/19/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: my son just went through a divorce, his ex wife just moved out of the home,she sold all of his ...
A: Yes, your son can go to the state bar. If she vandalized the home, he can file a police report, as ...
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| bad lawyer | 6/19/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: my son just went through divorce , his ex vandalized his home and sold things out of the home, and ...
A: Your son is an adult. I'm sure he is handling his ex in the manner he thinks is appropriate. You ...
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| life after hell | 6/17/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: I am a single parent with 3 children. My last relationship 5 years ago produced my last child who ...
A: As stated on my profile, I only answer relationship questions. For an ACCURATE answer to your ...
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| Is it my fault or is he giving up- drugs/depressio. | 6/17/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: I'm sorry if this is long and i probably will leave alot out. I have been married for less than 3 ...
A: Sadly this is what happens to some couples and the two of you have several issues that are enough to ...
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| my boyfriend....should I trust him? | 6/16/2009 | Rebecca |
Q: My boyfriend of almost 2 years now is going through a divorce right now but the ex won`t sign the ...
A: This may not be what you want to hear but, your boyfriend and his wife share one common bond, their ...
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| Can a Divorce decree be amendded? | 6/16/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: My brother and his ex filed for divorced 2006. In the divorce the judgment was for them to move out ...
A: Usually a divorce decree must be amended within 30 to 60 days of the final decree. Since there are ...
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| domestic problems | 6/16/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: is there some law about kicking out my mom-in-law if she is staying unwanted with me and my three ...
A: This is a continuation of abuse and control. Please contact the local women's shelter. This is ...
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| house | 6/15/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: my father did a quick claim deed leaving me his house 1 yr before I got married, we have been ...
A: I am not an attorney, but the house should not be considered marital property. And since he has not ...
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| House | 6/15/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: I am thinking of getting a divorce from my husband but as all women are I am scared to be on my own! ...
A: I don't know of any "tricks" and I don't think I'd recommend anything less than honesty, anyway. If ...
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| Husband addicted to porn | 6/13/2009 | Rebecca |
Q: After only married 2 yrs i have filed for divorce. After 7 months of dealing w/exs porn addiction ...
A: Depending in what state you filed, the time allotted after submitting a petition for divorce ...
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| what does amened mean | 6/13/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: i got divorce papers back after we filed them that all say amended on them what does that mean?
A: Amended means changed or modified and is supposed to be for the better. Check with your attorney. ...
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| When to explain divorce? | 6/12/2009 | Rebecca |
Q: I've been divorced for about two years and have a boy who just turned 3 last May. I have been told ...
A: You son obviously knows that his father is not living with you because visiting his father twice a ...
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| Urgent....What do I tell my child? | 6/12/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: Like so many others I am in the process of leaving my husband of 17 years (no extra marital ...
A: I really feel for you during this stressful time, and appreciate that you want to do the best you ...
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| absent spouse | 6/11/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: Is is true that I can advertise my intentions for divorce and if the spouse does not respond, I may ...
A: I'm not an attorney and the states do vary to a degree, but I believe there is a procedure for what ...
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| Child Custody / Personal feelings | 6/10/2009 | Philip Belove, Ed.D. |
Q: My ex wife and I divorced almost five years ago. We had a long drawn out divorce (almost two years) ...
A: That is one of the most difficult situations I've ever heard about. It's hard for me to think ...
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| Decision to be made | 6/10/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka Doctor Becky |
Q: I have been in relationship with a man for almost two years now. He was married then but his ...
A: and from Canada! Dating men who are married and/or in the process of getting divorced is never ...
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