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About Mr. Sharma C.Ht. Delhi
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Marriage, Divorce, Family relationships, Spiritual counselling, Self esteem, Motivation. Anger management. Stress management. Leadership seminars

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When couples are not getting along together and are at dead end, they need pre or after divorce support to ensure they can either get along or go on with their life. I help couples to stay together but if they insist and have taken number of steps to take divorce and there is no possibility of thier change i try to answer their questions.

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NLP Practitioner, Hypnotherapist.
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Divorce Issues - Divorce and My Depression


Expert: Mr. Sharma C.Ht. Delhi - 6/6/2008

Question
My parents divorced about 6 months ago but they were separated  for a year B4 it. I've been depressed 4 2 yrs. we were so happy. Now hes changed an hes cruel. My dad cheated on my mum but left her coz he said she was disrespecting him- going out 2 parties an clubs wid her friends an sometimes not coming back till 3am- she was doin it cz she was sad coz we went 2 canada 2 stay but den me an my sis got in2 a gd skl in London so we came bk but not him.An i noe its my fault they got divorced coz i told him

Answer
Hi Ella, It's not your fault your parents got divorced.
It's never kids fault in any marriage rather kids get emotional pain like you are getting and they feel it's their fault. It's normal you feel this way but soone or later as you grow older and undersand the relationships you will understand  it was their own relationships fault which they themselves failed to manage.  I would suggest you to meet a counsellor in your school or local counsellor.

When you will get married or divorced it will be not because of your kids rather it will be because you are getting along with your partner or not. Every humna being has his own mindset and way of doing things in life and sometimes people are not compatible after some time because they change due to number of circumstances.

I sincerely hope you will meet a counsellor.

Regards
Sharma
http://www.TransformLifestyle.com


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