About Rebecca Expertise Life happens, If your mind is in a mix up I can help you sort your worries and organize your life priorities systematically. Giving you Non-judgemental answers providing you with a honest answer,I also assist in locating information that may guide you in the right direction. Helping you obtain your goals before, during and after divorce. Physical and mental abuse is an area I am also familiar with, helping you with details and steps to get you the support you need.
Experience 25 yrs of experience with physical and mental abusers and their cycles.
Assist with the preparations of divorce documents and procedures.
Child development; non-healthy relationships and the affects they have on children.
Education/Credentials Advisor and mentor for at risk families
Accreditation/Certification,Child developement
Personal Experience
Question Hello,
After only married 2 yrs i have filed for divorce. After 7 months of dealing w/exs porn addiction we seperated not realizing i was pregnant! thru my pregnacy he never offered to help. 4 months after our son was born he came around and for my son I tried to save the marriage. Sadly less than 2 months we were finished again. He was seeing a therapist & was diagonesed as a sex addict! (I believe he stop seeing him)
Am i entiled for sposual support? He just stared Child support. I am not employeed. Not sure if its even worth to try for. Hes trying to fight joint physical custody of our baby.
ps help
Answer Hello Gwen,
Depending in what state you filed, the time allotted after submitting a petition for divorce differs. In estimating your time of separation (about15months) the divorce, if not contested, should have finalized by now. (Contested divorces have no maximum time limit and could go on for years.) Spousal support should have been submitted along with your original Decree. Presuming that your child was born out of wedlock and child support has been established by the courts. Any modifications you or your Ex-husband may want need to be filed separately in a court of law.
You stated that you’re not sure if it’s even worth to trying for.
Your ex-husbands addictions are conflicting with your ethical beliefs and yet in spite of everything you attempted to reconcile. You have stood your ground with what you wanted or didn't want from this relationship, which shows tremendous strength, courage and compassion. Continue to use those qualities in future decisions, being unemployed is only temporary and is something only you can change.
Children benefit from healthy relationships, you and your ex-husband need to bear in mind that you are role models for this child. You have your differences in what a marriage should consist of; try not to let the Parenting of your child mix in with that.
On that note, I ask you, “Is this worth trying for?”
Please feel free to follow up with me,
I hope I was of some help to you,
Rebecca
