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About Rebecca
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Life happens, If your mind is in a mix up I can help you sort your worries and organize your life priorities systematically. Giving you Non-judgemental answers providing you with a honest answer,I also assist in locating information that may guide you in the right direction. Helping you obtain your goals before, during and after divorce. Physical and mental abuse is an area I am also familiar with, helping you with details and steps to get you the support you need.

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25 yrs of experience with physical and mental abusers and their cycles. Assist with the preparations of divorce documents and procedures. Child development; non-healthy relationships and the affects they have on children.

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Divorce Issues - false accusations


Expert: Rebecca - 6/27/2009

Question
my son is divorced and living with me.  His children come to our house for
visitation. my ex daughter-in-law constantly finds reasons for the kids not to
come. first, it was our cat. she said the kids were allergic. then she claimed
we had a mold problem. the latest is a claim that my son hurt one of the
kids. usually these problems blow over, but the last accusation is very
disturbing. how can our family deal with these constant dramas?

Answer
Dear Korinn,
It sounds as if your ex daughter-in-law has some issues she needs to address. Her reasons/Dramas are merely a small sign of being insecure. No doubt, everyone involved has the best interest of the children in mind. Ever here the saying You attract bees with honey? Being there for her will encourage her to become more compassionate towards creating peace with your family. Professional help such as a family therapist could also be of some help.

Sometimes the simple things in life help the most,
Hope this helps,
Rebecca


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