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| Am I in denial about this relationship!? | 5/13/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I recently moved away from from home town to go to school far from home. I come from a very loving ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. Hmmmmmmm after reading your e-mail for me it's plain to see that NO ...
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| An abusive father | 5/6/2008 | Annie Kaszina |
Q: My parents have never had a good relationship but my mother has always covered up for him and made ...
A: I'm not sure how you want me to help you. Your father is abusive and you are still frightened. Your ...
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| Is it abuse? | 5/6/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: I am divorcing a man who has made 2 false DSS reports against me (the ending is I am a fit parent ...
A: Oh my word! You are sooooo confused. Yes, this is abuse. Mental, verbal, emotional and financial. ...
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| Question on Your Past | 5/5/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: When did you first notice your husband/boyfriend was being abusive? Did he try to put himself back ...
A: My Husband is not abusive, my ex boyfriend was. No he didnt cae. I was not locked in anything. My ...
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| Am I missing something? | 5/2/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: within the last hour my husband called me lazy about 3 times because i wasn't helping him move a ...
A: I didn't say divorce him, I said to leave for your safety and your babies. I believe if you can get ...
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| I doubt the severity of my situation | 4/30/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: I will have been married four years in June. We have a 3 1/2 year old son. I am planning to ...
A: You are doing what most abused women do--minimize the abuse. If we don't have bruises, we aren't ...
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| emotions and seperation | 4/25/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: My husband smashed a glass of wine over my head. This caused me injury and him to be put on a ...
A: Sometimes a person can become immune to physical abuse to a point where they shut down emotionally ...
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| Need help | 4/25/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: I am married to an abusive husband. There is no doubt. We have a child involved but I am reluctant ...
A: Call a shelter in your area and ask about a support group or ask if they could recommend a ...
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| getting the courage to leave | 4/21/2008 | Annie Kaszina |
Q: I just read a question/response from a woman who was in my same situation. I am in an ...
A: What's the worst thing about leaving when he is in hospital? Are you betraying him? Are you ...
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| Sexual abuse or my fault? What should I do? | 4/19/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: I met my father when I was 10. I was in foster care and he didn't know that I existed until he got ...
A: Your question is so very important that I wanted to put you in touch with another friend and author ...
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| filing domestic charges on someone | 4/13/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: my family went to get our stuff per our court orders and I was pushed and hurt by my husband/ex. ...
A: You probably aren't going to like my answer but it comes from experience so trust me on this. Let ...
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| Abuse | 4/12/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: Im thinking my boyfriend has a problem. Im going to list some of his behavior and actions. 1. When ...
A: Jill, Hello again. I am currently taking some personal time away from AllExperts and I do ...
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| domestic violence | 4/6/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: "Hi I need some advice. I have been married for 17 years. Until recently my husband and I got on ...
A: What are you being punished for? Trust me, he's punishing you for something whether it's real or ...
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| Does He Mean It? | 4/6/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: My husband of 17months has always threatened to divorce me, and take our little girl with him and ...
A: Tracy, Hello again. I am currently taking some personal time away from AllExperts and I do ...
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| Thinking about the future. | 4/5/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: My fiance and i just had our 3 issue with domestic violence. This time it ended up with him getting ...
A: Oh! Okay. Gotcha. Thank you for the clarification. Yes, DCF has the power to lift any conditions ...
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| Thinking about the future. | 4/5/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: My fiance and i just had our 3 issue with domestic violence. This time it ended up with him getting ...
A: Given the facts of your situation, I am really surprised that you are asking me whether or not your ...
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| Signs of Abuse........... | 3/31/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I've been married almost 5 years and have a 2 year old son. My husband is an attorney and a very ...
A: Lindy-Ann, Hello again. I am currently taking some personal time away from AllExperts and I do ...
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| How do I get past Domestic violence? | 3/24/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: My father used to beat the holy hell out of my mother. They both hit me until I got bigger. My ...
A: I thank you for your inquire. Healing from Childhood abuse and or Domestic Violence takes time. To ...
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| Reporting Abuse to Police | 3/24/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I have read that pushing and pulling grabbing by the hand is abusive behavior. If my spouse has ...
A: Maria, Hello and thank you for taking the time to contact me with your concerns. Listen, don't ...
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| I'm Researching Woman Abuse and Had a Question | 3/19/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: what would you say is the best solution to women abuse and what are the signs of women abuse? How ...
A: Jessica, Thanks again for contacting me regarding your concerns. The best solution to ...
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| DV Assault | 3/19/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: i was just recently assaulted by my boyfriend, but he was trying to be careful enough to not leave ...
A: Natalie, Hello and thank you for contacting me; I apologize for the delay in my response. I ...
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| An Abused Friend | 3/18/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I've a friend who has a history with abusive relationships. Her current boy friend is very ...
A: George, Hello and thank you for contacting me; I apologize for the delay in my responding to ...
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| domestic violence | 3/12/2008 | Annie Kaszina |
Q: Sir, i am married for 3 years and have 2 babies. my husband is very possessive and caring in the ...
A: First things first, I cannot tell you what to do in terms of what actions to take. From what you ...
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| Domestic Violence Hurting My Son and I | 3/7/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I am going to try to explain this without alot of my side only. I am in a relationship where it ...
A: Cindy, Thank you for taking the time out to contact me with your concerns. I do apologize for ...
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| My Marriage | 3/5/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I met my husband 11 years ago. Up until 2006 every thing was great. My husband was hurt on the job. ...
A: Stephanie, Hello and thank you for taking the time to contact me regarding your issues and ...
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| Information | 3/2/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: my mother in law and husband is emotionally, mentally and verbally abused me... i am a Filipina and ...
A: Marizon, Hello there and thank you so much for contacting me; I apologize for the delay in my ...
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| DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND CHEATING | 2/27/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I've been in a relationship for 10 years and we have had more than a few bouts. This time it ended ...
A: No none of this is your fault, if he cheated then he chose to and no it is not your fault period, it ...
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| I don't know if I can keep doing this. | 2/18/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: I am not sure how to start this. My husband and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. We have 2 ...
A: Your husband needs to grow up! What a big baby. It bothers me that something that could have hurt ...
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| live in after divorce & bought house as partners | 2/17/2008 | Annie Kaszina |
Q: I am a fool. I divorced my husband and then on taking a real estate course thought we could flip ...
A: Here's the thing: this nightmare won't end until you end it. It's that simple. Your marriage ended ...
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| Should I stay, leave, try counseling | 2/14/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I have been married for 17 years with 2 children (10 and 6). About 7 years ago my husband gave me ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am, sorry for the situation that you are experiencing with your ...
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| domestic violence | 2/1/2008 | Annie Kaszina |
Q: on the 16th september my x husband was arrested and sentenced to 10mnths in jail he attacked my ...
A: You say you are fearful and you have good cause to be fearful. What you don't say is what advice ...
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| is he abusive? | 1/29/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: my name is kaylen and im 17 years of age.my boyfriend is 21 and we live together.my boyfriend has ...
A: Well Kaylen, all I can say is that God is a God of second chances so be it far from me to say anyone ...
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| where do we go from here? | 1/26/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: I am 24 y.o. and have been married to an Israeli for about a year now things are usually great he ...
A: Is it a custom for an Israeli man to act like he's still single and go out with friends one night a ...
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| is he abusive? | 1/25/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: my name is kaylen and im 17 years of age.my boyfriend is 21 and we live together.my boyfriend has ...
A: Sweety sorry I took so long but I fly alot and cant always get back on time. I just back from ...
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| HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 1/24/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: i live in colorado, recently my parents and a judge put an order of no contact out on my boyfriend ...
A: Christina, You are a minor. Your parents are responsible for you. I don't know why they took out an ...
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| Is it Domestic Violence? | 1/14/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: When I first met my partner I thought he was kind and thoughtful. Although I remember being stunned ...
A: Please, please, please buy a copy of my book and read it. All battered women (yes, you are one of ...
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| emotional and mental abuse | 1/14/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I was just wondering if my husband is actually changing and if I really still love him. I've been ...
A: Sweety I am so sorry it took me so long to get back to you but I was in Khileen Texas last night and ...
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| violence | 1/12/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: When I was married 30 years ago my husband abused me and I took it for 5 years. I filed for divorce ...
A: I feel so bad for you, 30 years is too long for anyone to be abused. I hope you get out as well, I ...
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| Why do i still love him soo much | 1/8/2008 | Annie Kaszina |
Q: i am 18, in may last year my boyfriend of a year bit me all over it was so bad i had 2 leave and go ...
A: Well yes Zoe, you could just as easily block out the good times. You are pretty good already at ...
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| I need a good suggestion | 1/7/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am a 17 year old living in Texas. I am pregnant of 8 months. Not too long along my boyfriend and I ...
A: Your question is, "I still try to make something out of this relationship for my childs sake?" after ...
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