AboutSharman Castillo Expertise I can answer questions on mental abuse and physical abuse. I can answer questions on sexual abuse for adult women. I can not answer questions on sexual abuse for children because I have never experienced that personally.
Experience I was in an abusive situation twice. Once for 1-year and 6 months. The other for 2-years and 3 months. I know the cycle of being abused by the abuser and then believeing he will change. Forgiving him or her and then starting over again, with the same abuse.
Expert: Sharman Castillo Date: 1/25/2008 Subject: is he abusive?
Question my name is kaylen and im 17 years of age.my boyfriend is 21 and we live together.my boyfriend has always had anger problems.well he likes to yell at me all teh time. and when he gets mad at little things he likes to throw, break and curse at things.well teh other night we had some friends over and he drank a little bit, he wasnt drunk but he was feeling it,i could tell, and he made me mad by pouring my coca cola out and then went in our room and got in the bed and pulled the covers over his head.i came in there and i asked him what his problem was and pulled the covers away from his head so i could see his face. then he got up grabbe both of my arms and threw me against the wall. is he abusing me or what? im very confused because im debating on moving out or not.please answer this as soon as possible.
thanks,
kaylen
Answer Sweety sorry I took so long but I fly alot and cant always get back on time. I just back from Torreon Mexico. Anyhow hon, at 17 you shouldn't be living with a guy at all and also if they hit you once and you stay it is like you have given them permission to hit you again because they are at the point and thought process, well she's not leaving. I encourage you to go, God did not create you to be a punching bag but He created you to be a woman, a helpmate to your man to be cherished and loved as Christ loved the Church and the first step is with a man offering you his last name because you Are worth, never settle my dear. I would love to hear from you real soon, so please write me back.... Sharman
