| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| depression causing domestic abuse? | 10/6/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I am 34 years old and have struggled for several years with depression. I am on my third marriage ...
A: I thank you for you inquiry. To answer your question. There is no excuse for a person to abuse ...
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| Am i doing the right thing? | 10/5/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: "I have been married for 9 years. After being married for 3 mths my husband, due to low esteem ...
A: It's never too late to leave an abusive relationship. Nine months of no hitting is not a lot ...
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| abuse | 10/4/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: My 16 year marriage broke up 3 years ago and i jumped straight into a serious relationship with a ...
A: You need validation and support. I found a site for you that I thought might help or at least be a ...
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| Emotional abuse | 10/2/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I can not provide my email as my husband checks it, so hopefully you can help me without having to ...
A: Sweety your husband is only doing what all abusers do. They torment us and then make it seem like ...
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| Married 21 years today. Confused. living with an abuser | 10/1/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: Today, October 1, 2008, makes 21 years married. My story is one of mental, emotional and physical ...
A: Oh Stacey, of course you're confused because you're being conned. He's conning you and you are ...
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| Am i doing the right thing? | 9/30/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: I have been married for 9 years. After being married for 3 mths my husband, due to low esteem would ...
A: You're the only person he's been with because there are very few women who would put up with being ...
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| Am i doing the right thing ? | 9/30/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I have been married for 9 years. After being married for 3 mths my husband, due to low esteem would ...
A: So sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you. I felt sad when reading your letter and fully ...
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| I feel stuck in a 2x2 square without an exit!- HELP | 9/29/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I am a 20 year old girl, with two daughters 3 and 1 from two different partners, I have been with ...
A: I am very sorry that is has taken me so long to get back to you, I work long and just was unable to ...
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| WHAT DO I DO?? | 9/28/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I AM 19 YEARS OLD, AT ONE TIME I WAS PREGANT AND LOST MY CHILD AT 3 MONTHS.. MY BOYFRIND STARTED TO ...
A: You are very young and not married so you are no obligated to stay in a relationship that doesn't ...
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| domestic violence | 9/21/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I have been with my parter for three years and for two and a half years he has been beating me ...
A: The only way you will survive is if you leave without telling him. He would not permit it. Victims ...
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| Phyical Abuse | 9/20/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I had a abuse problem in the seventh grade with this boy name Tyquan Harris. He used to hit me a lot ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. The first thing I suggest especially if you are still a minor (under ...
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| Abuse | 9/16/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am 18 years old and I am currently in a long distants relationship with a guy of now 3 years. He ...
A: Abuse robs you of your self-esteem. That's why you can't help yourself. This man has brain washed ...
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| Verbally Abusive Husband | 9/9/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: OK, I have read several sites, and can not find one that is exactly like my situation. But here ...
A: Pam, Hello again Pam and thank you once again from contacting me. In response to your ...
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| abusive husband | 9/6/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I have been married to an abusive man for 6 years. I recognized as early as the first year when I ...
A: I am so sorry it took so long to get back to you but here I am again and thank you so much for ...
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| domestic violence | 9/6/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: My ex-boyfreind recently went to jail for a second domestic charge. we have been together for two ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. To answer your question from my point of view it appears to me that ...
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| abusive husband | 9/5/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I have been married to an abusive man for 6 years. I recognized as early as the first year when I ...
A: I pray the best for you, I have been in your position and I know it is hurtful to a point where ...
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| abusive husband | 9/5/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I have been married to an abusive man for 6 years. I recognized as early as the first year when I ...
A: First off I will not ask you to leave your husband because I know that you really feel in your heart ...
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| confused | 9/2/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I have been with my husband for 3 1/2 years up until last week, in this time he has come at me with ...
A: What you describe is typical of the domestic violence experience. PLEASE continue to stay in contact ...
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| Angrier husband after epilepsy diagnosis | 8/31/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I wanted to write to you because you understand disabilities. I was diagnosed with Epilepsy in ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. I am sorry for the problems that you are experiencing within your ...
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| Stay/Divorce | 8/29/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I have been married 19 years to the same man. Have been mentally abused the whole time. I pretty ...
A: My advice is to find a domestic violence support group and start attending that. That will help you ...
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| Do I Give My Boyfriend Another Chance? | 8/28/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I am currently going through a very difficult time and feel like no one understands. I feel I'm ...
A: Nicole, Hello and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues. I ...
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| what are the answers? | 8/25/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I have a son ten, just married after year and a half. I'm now living away from husband, he is now in ...
A: I truly understand how you feel and your concerns. I don't think so. I don't believe people ever ...
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| abusive man | 8/21/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I am 20 weeks pregnant with a very abusive man. He is verbally, emotionally and sexually abusive. ...
A: I apologize for the delay in responding to your inquiry. I'd really like to assist you, however your ...
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| Who is Abusing Me the Most and What Should I Do? | 8/20/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I'll start with my oldest son. He has decided not to speak to me or allow me to see his 2 ...
A: Dottie, I do apologize sincerely for not getting back with you sooner; I had not forgotten ...
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| My custody rights. | 8/15/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: 10 years ago, May 1998, in Southern California, I fled in the middle of the night to a domestic ...
A: I can understand your point of view. Nobody wants to put their children out there to be hurt. Nobody ...
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| My custody rights. | 8/15/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: 10 years ago, May 1998, in Southern California, I fled in the middle of the night to a domestic ...
A: You already have "legal custody" of your daughter, but her father still has rights. The only way ...
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| why do I still love my abuser of 20 years? | 7/30/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I was married for almost 20 years and throughout the marriage there was yelling, pushing, ...
A: It is not weird to have feelings for your ex, my goodness it was 20 years you invested but I think ...
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| Will He Be Normal Without Alcohol? | 7/29/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I am 27 years old and have been with the same man for a year. However, over the course of the year ...
A: Megan, Hello and thank you for choosing me to help you with your concerns and issues. First, ...
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| Red Flags | 7/23/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: I recently ended a relationship that lasted only about eight or nine months. While, I still feel ...
A: First of all please forgive me for taking such a long time to get back to you, I travel a lot and of ...
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| Can he change? | 7/23/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I've been married to my husband for five and a half years. And for the first five years everything ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. Now I will not suggest to you that you should leave your husband ...
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| Domestic Abuse | 7/15/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: married for 12 yrs, a christian, my husband adopted my 7 yr old son at the time. verbal and ...
A: Julie, Hello and thank you for choosing me to help you with your concerns. First of all Julie, ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 | Annie Kaszina |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: You ask some difficult questions. How do men feel when they have wives who are more successful than ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: I thank you for your inquiry. In reply the answers to your questions are listed below. 1- What is ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: I believe it is a cultural problem. No doubt, your ancestors(female) didn't work and weren't ...
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| Successful Working Women and Husband's Jealousy | 7/10/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: Sameera, Thank you for choosing me to help you with your concerns. Lovely name by the way. In ...
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| domestic violence?? | 7/6/2008 | Sharman Castillo |
Q: my daughter is 21 with a daughter of 4yrs. she split from her partner 7 months ago and since then he ...
A: I am so sorry for you and your daughter about what is going on with her and I do agree with you that ...
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| Was I right to end this? | 7/6/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I am hurting right now and need someone to talk to who might understand. I recently made the very ...
A: I hope that this message finds you at peace today. No I don't mind you contacting me again, that's ...
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| Is this okay? | 7/6/2008 | Dianne Schwartz |
Q: My question is does a husband have a right to force himself sexually on his wife even if she says ...
A: Carla, this can be complicated. It depends on your culture. In America, it is expected to have sex ...
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| Was I right to end this? | 7/4/2008 | Susan Blocker |
Q: I am hurting right now and need someone to talk to who might understand. I recently made the very ...
A: My name is Susan and I thank you for your inquiry. Without hesitation I must start off by saying ...
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| Was I Right to End This? | 7/4/2008 | Chardonnay Nicole Thomas |
Q: I am hurting right now and need someone to talk to who might understand. I recently made the very ...
A: Melanie, Hello, hello, hello, hello. I was so glad to hear from you and see your question in ...
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