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About Chardonnay Nicole Thomas
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Expertise
I am someone who is highly experienced in the fields of Domestic Violence and Abusive Relationships. I have been in my share of abusive relationships and I have also studied this field. I feel that it really takes someone who has been there and been abused to really understand what other women go through. I have been in unstable relationships that involved physical, mental, emotional, psychological, and verbal abuse. At that time, I felt as if there was no way out, but there is. I didn't think that I could make it, but I did, I didn't think that I could be strong, but I was. There were times when I was constantly being put down and my self-esteem was lowered. I know that you do not have a good feeling about yourself when someone who claims to love and care about you tells you that you are worth nothing and will never be anything out of life. I had to get away from that. I wanted my life to be positive, and now it seems to be. I still have days when I think about what I've been through and I feel melancholy, but I know that I'm okay now. I know now that I am strong and that I can make it through anything. I no longer allow people to disrespect and mistreat me, that doesn't sit well with me now. My standards of how I should be treated are much higher than they used to be. I feel that women especially, should always aim for the best, and never, ever settle for less than you deserve, because if you do, then you get what you settle for. I'm here to offer my expert advice to women who have experienced domestic violence and other forms of abuse throughout relationships. Remember, there is hope, so don't give up on yourself; BE CONFIDENT and BE STRONG.

Experience
I have been in several abusive and unhealthy relationships that have given me the life experience that I have today. I am no longer ashamed to share my views and personal stories on how I survived domestic violence. I persevered through so many negative situations in my life, including abusive relationships, by having faith, and using the strength that God gave me. I learned a long time ago that life is not fair, and there is nothing that anyone can do about that; but we only have one life, so therefore we need to live it the best way that we know how. If people only realized how little time we do actually have here on this Earth, many people would not take so many things for granted. Tomorrow is not promised, but I know that if I stay on the right path towards life, everything will turn out okay. When I look back on my past, it's the good things that give me a more positive outlook on life; different times in my life where I was doing different things/activities. Some of my credentials and greatest accomplishments are throughout Dance and Music. For almost ten years I was a classical dancer. I excelled in Ballet, Jazz, and Pointe, but Ballet is my first love and always will be. I received awards, trophies, and numerous certificates throughout my years in dance. I also used to participate in an Orchestra where I played the violin. I received many certificates, awards, and medals throughout my time playing. I have also made The National Dean's List for the year's 2001-2002, and 2002-2003; as well as The National Scholars Honor Society in 2003. Not only that, I have volunteered with the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) in the past, and will continue to do so in the future.

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Questions Answered By Expert Chardonnay Nicole Thomas
In Category Domestic Violence

Subject	Date Asked

Verbally Abusive Husband	9/9/2008
Q: OK, I have read several sites, and can not find one that is exactly like my situation. But here ... A: Pam, Hello again Pam and thank you once again from contacting me. In response to your ...
Do I Give My Boyfriend Another Chance?	8/28/2008
Q: I am currently going through a very difficult time and feel like no one understands. I feel I'm ... A: Nicole, Hello and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues. I ...
Who is Abusing Me the Most and What Should I Do?	8/20/2008
Q: I'll start with my oldest son. He has decided not to speak to me or allow me to see his 2 ... A: Dottie, I do apologize sincerely for not getting back with you sooner; I had not forgotten ...
Will He Be Normal Without Alcohol?	7/29/2008
Q: I am 27 years old and have been with the same man for a year. However, over the course of the year ... A: Megan, Hello and thank you for choosing me to help you with your concerns and issues. First, ...
Domestic Abuse	7/15/2008
Q: married for 12 yrs, a christian, my husband adopted my 7 yr old son at the time. verbal and ... A: Julie, Hello and thank you for choosing me to help you with your concerns. First of all Julie, ...
Successful Working Women and Husband's Jealousy	7/10/2008
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ... A: Sameera, Thank you for choosing me to help you with your concerns. Lovely name by the way. In ...
Was I Right to End This?	7/4/2008
Q: I am hurting right now and need someone to talk to who might understand. I recently made the very ... A: Melanie, Hello, hello, hello, hello. I was so glad to hear from you and see your question in ...
To Divorce or Wait - Verbally Abusive Relationship	7/3/2008
Q: I have four children, my two oldest are in high school a daughter 17 and son 16 and two younger ... A: Michelle, Hello there and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your ...
Abuse	4/12/2008
Q: Im thinking my boyfriend has a problem. Im going to list some of his behavior and actions. 1. When ... A: Jill, Hello again. I am currently taking some personal time away from AllExperts and I do ...
Does He Mean It?	4/6/2008
Q: My husband of 17months has always threatened to divorce me, and take our little girl with him and ... A: Tracy, Hello again. I am currently taking some personal time away from AllExperts and I do ...
Signs of Abuse...........	3/31/2008
Q: I've been married almost 5 years and have a 2 year old son. My husband is an attorney and a very ... A: Lindy-Ann, Hello again. I am currently taking some personal time away from AllExperts and I do ...
Reporting Abuse to Police	3/24/2008
Q: I have read that pushing and pulling grabbing by the hand is abusive behavior. If my spouse has ... A: Maria, Hello and thank you for taking the time to contact me with your concerns. Listen, don't ...
I'm Researching Woman Abuse and Had a Question	3/19/2008
Q: what would you say is the best solution to women abuse and what are the signs of women abuse? How ... A: Jessica, Thanks again for contacting me regarding your concerns. The best solution to ...
DV Assault	3/19/2008
Q: i was just recently assaulted by my boyfriend, but he was trying to be careful enough to not leave ... A: Natalie, Hello and thank you for contacting me; I apologize for the delay in my response. I ...
An Abused Friend	3/18/2008
Q: I've a friend who has a history with abusive relationships. Her current boy friend is very ... A: George, Hello and thank you for contacting me; I apologize for the delay in my responding to ...
Domestic Violence Hurting My Son and I	3/7/2008
Q: I am going to try to explain this without alot of my side only. I am in a relationship where it ... A: Cindy, Thank you for taking the time out to contact me with your concerns. I do apologize for ...
My Marriage	3/5/2008
Q: I met my husband 11 years ago. Up until 2006 every thing was great. My husband was hurt on the job. ... A: Stephanie, Hello and thank you for taking the time to contact me regarding your issues and ...
Information	3/2/2008
Q: my mother in law and husband is emotionally, mentally and verbally abused me... i am a Filipina and ... A: Marizon, Hello there and thank you so much for contacting me; I apologize for the delay in my ...
Abusive Behavior	12/16/2007
Q: My husband does not feel he has controlling behavior.I have a twin sister with cancer & we talk on ... A: Denise, Happy Holidays! Thank you for choosing me to help you with your dilemma today. Well ...
Domestic Violence	12/9/2007
Q: I as wondering if you could educate me on domestic violence. I need to write a speech on domestic ... A: Theresa, Thank you for contacting me. I would be glad to be of any help that I can. Your most ...
Can I Finally Leave After 10 Years?	12/7/2007
Q: I have been with my boyfriend since i was 17 and im 27 in a few weeks, he is 6 years older than me. ... A: Lou, Hello again, and thank you for your patience. In response to your question you already ...
What to Do?	12/5/2007
Q: I am a Pentecostal Christian, my husband and I have been together for over 14 years and we have 4 ... A: Lara, Hello again and thank you for your patience. In response to your question, my answer is ...
Stay or Leave	11/29/2007
Q: I have been with my partner for 5 years now, its never been great from the start, but there are some ... A: Gina, Hello and thank you for choosing me to help you with your issues at the moment. It ...
Life After Domestic Abuse	11/28/2007
Q: I have walked out of physically, emotionally and verbally abusive marriage nine months back. I ... A: Arundhati, Hello again; I do apologize for my delay in responding back to you, I have not felt ...
Life After Domestic Abuse	11/23/2007
Q: I have walked out of physically, emotionally and verbally abusive marriage nine months back. I ... A: Arundhati, Hello there, and what a unique name that you have! Thank you for contacting me; I ...
I Think It's Abuse, But Scared	11/20/2007
Q: I guess my main two questions are is am I really being abused and what can I do about it? I ... A: Albany, Hello again, I hope that you had a nice Thanksgiving. In response to your question, in ...
Reconciliation	11/17/2007
Q: I am a 43 year old man who has been married for 7.5 years. My wife and I have at 6 year old son. ... A: Ashamed, Hello and thank you for choosing me to help you with you issues today. Well, there ...
I Think It's Abuse, But Scared	11/14/2007
Q: I guess my main two questions are is am I really being abused and what can I do about it? I ... A: Albany, Hello again, and thank you for your patience. Albany, yes you are in an abusive ...
Time to Go?	11/9/2007
Q: First...I am 49 years old, married twice. First marriage lasted 23 years with three grown children. ... A: Valerie, Hello again, and thank you for being so patient with me. In response to your ...
Domestic Violence	11/7/2007
Q: I am 31 years old and I have been married for 12 years now. my husband and I have been through ... A: Maricruz, Hello and thank you for being patient with me, I apologize for the delay. Your ...
How Do You Know Whether to Leave?	11/7/2007
Q: I have been married for over 13 years and have 2 young boys under 8. My marrige has been ok, we are ... A: Lana, Hello and thank you for contacting me with your concerns. You know whether or not to ...
Domestic Violence	11/5/2007
Q: I am doing a paper for a college class. Can you answer some questions regarding domestic violence? ... A: Tracey, Hello and thank you for contacting me. I can help you with your paper by answering ...
Still Emotional	11/2/2007
Q: Why is it that I still feel sorry for this guy that is the father of my 6 year old little boy (not ... A: Kristi, Hello again and thank you for being so patient with me. In response to your question, ...
End the Relationship?	10/21/2007
Q: OK where to start? I have been married coming up to 4 years to a man who is 8 years younger to me, ... A: Anne, Hello again, and thank you for being so patient with me. Well, in response to your ...
Getting OUT	10/19/2007
Q: I need help. I have been married for 13 yrs to this man. he refuses to admit he is an alcoholic. He ... A: Gabriela, Thank you for taking the time to contact me regarding your issues. Listen, I believe ...
Trying to be a Best Friend	10/4/2007
Q: I have a best friend that i know inside out. She's a very bright girl and really beautiful. But she ... A: T, Thank you for contacting me and I apologize for the delay. I admire your compassion and ...
Confused!	10/3/2007
Q: i need advice. Im torn between two guys and i dont no what to do.Ill start from the begining. I was ... A: Marie, Hi, I apologize for taking so long to provide an answer to your question Marie, but ...
My Daughter	9/30/2007
Q: She denies everything but I have proof. Today she called me and told me she fell down a hill and ... A: Leesa, Thank you for contacting me. Unfortunately Leesa the only thing that you can do is to ...
Church Pressure	9/29/2007
Q: My church is pressuring me to go back to and or go to counseling with my estranged abusive husband. ... A: Gretchen, Thank you for contacting me. First off, if I were you I would be the strong and ...
Overwhelmed	9/24/2007
Q: I seperated from my husband since he was using drugs and became abusive. Late July of this year is ... A: Lin Lin, Hello and thank you for contacting me. I do not know what is going to happen to your ...
Emotionally Drained...	9/21/2007
Q: I've been reading posts that sound a little similar to what I live with, but my situation seems so ... A: Adonelle, Thanks again for your patience. My heart really goes out to you and your situation, ...
Justified Abuse??	9/20/2007
Q: Thomas, As I wrote the first "subject" that came to mind, I realize that is where my problem ... A: Melissa, Thank you dearly for your patience. In response to your question to me, I truly ...
Control After Divorce	9/16/2007
Q: I am divorced now..approx 3 yrs. I was in a domestic violence relationship. I have become stronger ... A: Helen, I received your email and I thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with ...
Very Violent and Abusive Adult Brother	8/10/2007
Q: Could you please give me any advise if you have any on this. This is the situation my brother and I ... A: Bee, Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues at the ...
Past Domestic Abuse & Walking Away	8/9/2007
Q: Throughout my experience of being a male whom suffered domestic violence & mental abuse from my ... A: Craig, Thank you again for your kind and inspirational words. You are just too charming, which ...
Past Domestic Abuse & Walking Away	8/8/2007
Q: Throughout my experience of being a male whom suffered domestic violence & mental abuse from my ... A: Craig, You are so very welcome!! I am so glad that my advice helped you along the way. ...
Verbal & Mental Hurt Categorized as Abuse	8/7/2007
Q: I haven been with my husband for about 8 years now and I have always questioned his behavior towards ... A: Ket, Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues. First ...
Very Abusive Brother	8/2/2007
Q: I'm 15 years old and I live with my mom and my 17 year old brother. My mom being a single parent is ... A: Jonathan, I do apologize dearly for the delay, I really need to work on my time management ...
Restraining Order	7/29/2007
Q: I have filled 2 restraining orders one while married he other now after 3 years already divorced. ... A: Marie, Hello and sorry for the delay. As far as your situation is concerned, you have to keep ...
How Can I Apologize and Change	7/25/2007
Q: then physically restrained him 3 times when he tried to leave (drive drunk). I know that I crossed ... A: Eric, Hi there!! Thank you so much for your patience and understanding. I have had such a ...
Trying to Leave	7/17/2007
Q: My husband and I met in high-school. He joined the Marine Corps and two years later we were married. ... A: Michelle, Hello again, and thank you for your patience. Michelle, I believe that you already ...
Abusive Relationships For My Mother and a Friend	7/10/2007
Q: my mom is 79 yr , has been in a verbal abusive relationship for almost 20 yr, after my dad passed, a ... A: Dianne, Thank you for contacting me. First off, you need to understand that you are not Mother ...
Age Issue	7/6/2007
Q: I am in a situation in which I got married on January 20th of this year. As you can see I have been ... A: Paola, Hello again. I hope that all is well with you. I read your question to me and I feel ...
I Don't Know What to Do	7/5/2007
Q: I am 36 years old and have a son who is almost 8. I am seperated from his biological father and ... A: Mariza, Hi again, sorry I took so long getting back with you, it has been a hectic and ...
I Don't Know What to Do	7/5/2007
Q: I am 36 years old and have a son who is almost 8. I am seperated from his biological father and ... A: Mariza, Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your problems. ...
I Am Being Emotionally Abused	7/4/2007
Q: I have been seeing a man who lives with another woman for five years. During the beginning of our ... A: M, Well, well, well,. Hello, by the way. When I read your question to me I could already ...
Abused by Daughter	7/1/2007
Q: MY 44 yr old daughter verbally abuses me. My husband and I have ben married 45 yrs and so very ... A: MaryLou, Hello and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. ...
Domestic Violence	6/29/2007
Q: I have a question for you. I was in an abusive relationship that ended a little less than a year ... A: J, Hi there, I hope that are feeling a little better emotionally since you composed your ...
Mental Abuse	6/14/2007
Q: I am 66 years old and the gentleman I live with, we're not married, is 70. We have been together ... A: Ann, I hope that everything works out for you. Always do what is best for you and your heart. ...
Mental Abuse	6/12/2007
Q: I am 66 years old and the gentleman I live with, we're not married, is 70. We have been together ... A: Ann, Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues. ...
Mental Abuse	6/11/2007
Q: After 25 years of marriage, my mother has finally decided to divorce my father. Growing up, i never ... A: Jamie, Hello, hello, hello, hello again. I hope that you received my last E-mail stating that I ...
Keeping Faith with an Alcoholic	6/1/2007
Q: I dated a woman for 2 months. It was great :) slowly we starting seeing and talking more and more. ... A: Alfredo, Hi, and thank you for choosing me to help you with your issues. After I read your ...
Am I Being Too Emotional?	5/15/2007
Q: I am a 28 year old mother of 2 small children. I have been with my man for almost 4 years, however ... A: Tracey, Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues. I ...
Should I Stay?	5/10/2007
Q: i have been with my partner for 6 years, and although he has always had a temper it has gotten more, ... A: Hi, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma at the moment. ...
Beaten by the One You Love	4/22/2007
Q: How do you get over a sevre beating by the man you love. How do you trust again or make love like ... A: Claudia, Hi, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. I ...
Leaving Abusive Relationship	4/22/2007
Q: I just ended a two year relationship with someone that was verbally abusive and at time physical ... A: Cynthia, Hi, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with you issues. You ...
Is My Boyfriend Abusing Me?	4/11/2007
Q: I'm nineteen years old and 6 months ago i had a baby boy to my boy friend who is 21, the first time ... A: Casey, Hello, and thank you for taking the time out to choose me to help you with your ...
If It Is Abuse, Why Do I Feel So Lonely?	3/28/2007
Q: and for simply listening to me. Where to start. I am 35-years old; and my name is Stephanie. I was ... A: Hi, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. First off, why ...
Husband Beat Me and Then Denied it in Front of the Police	3/21/2007
Q: Myself Bhakti and i have been married for almost 4 and half years..and i have a one yr old ... A: Bhakti, Hi, and thank you for contacting me to help you resolve your issues; and my, my, my, ...
Abuse	3/21/2007
Q: I do not know if I am in the right place for asking this but here goes.. I have severe depression.. ... A: Anne, Hi Anne, and thank you for contacting me to help you resolve your issues today. First, ...
What is Abuse ???	2/14/2007
Q: Some people state a relationship is Abusive if they say something unkind to a person once or twice ... A: Leo, Hi, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your concerns. I am ...
Speech Paper	1/29/2007
Q: I am doing a paper for my speech class and one of the topics, is about an evening I want to spend ... A: Summer, Hello again to you and I do apologize once again for not getting back with you in a ...
Confused	1/27/2007
Q: I am going in a spin trying to figure out what i am doing wrong. Me and my boyfriend have been ... A: Amanda, Hello again, and again I do apologize for not getting back with you as quickly as I ...
Desperate	1/12/2007
Q: I wrote you about 2 days ago, and I am so desperate that I put the wrong e-mail address. again I am ... A: Margaret, It's me again, I believe that I told you the wrong subject line to click on. Your ...
Verbal and Mental Abuse	1/11/2007
Q: I have been a relationship for 11 years. For the first couple of years it was great,after that was ... A: Crystal, Hello, and thank you for taking the time to contact me regarding your family dilemma. ...
Domestic Violence	12/2/2006
Q: I am a 19 year old with a 1 year old daughter. I have been with my partner for 2 years, and we have ... A: Hello Tianna, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues at the ...
Battered Men and Divorce	11/29/2006
Q: I was so grateful to you as I was frightened that I, as a 6ft 4 man married to a 5ft 6 woman, would ... A: Hello there, and thank you for choosing me again to help you with your issues. I was glad to hear ...
I Have My Girls!!!!	11/17/2006
Q: Chardonnay, hello It's michelle. I just wanted to let you know that I am officially divorced and I ... A: Michelle, Hi there!! Thank you so much for your heartfelt thanks to me on helping you with the ...
Battered Men	11/7/2006
Q: I have been in an abusive relationship with my wife for some years now. She constantly humiliates me ... A: Hello there, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues. Actually, ...
Domestic Violence	11/2/2006
Q: Do believe a victim should be punished if they use FATAL means against an abusive spouse? A: Hello and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues. Let me first say ...
Emotional Abuse	11/1/2006
Q: I am really looking for some understanding to my situation. I was married for 14 years.We had two ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues at the moment. ...
The Roles Have Changed	11/1/2006
Q: I have been with my husband for 10 years. He never hit me until our wedding night. Over the years he ... A: Hello and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your issues, and yes you have ...
Student	10/24/2006
Q: I am a student of MSW.I am doing my research thesis on domestic violence against married women.I ... A: Hello again, I hope that things are well for you. As I promised a few days ago, I do have ...
Mental Abuse	10/23/2006
Q: I have been living with my boyfriend for 3 years and he is a heavy drinker. He has broke furniture ... A: Hello, and thank you for choosing me to help you with your issues today. Debbie, I believe that you ...
Domestic Violence Question	10/23/2006
Q: A Victims Deliberate use of deadly force is a just response to repeated domestic Violence. Do you ... A: Andrew, Thanks for contacting me again. I do apologize for not getting back with you sooner, I ...
Follow Up	10/22/2006
Q: Chardonnay, Not sure if you might remember me or not but I wrote you with my situation back in ... A: Michelle, Hello there. I was glad to hear from you the other day. I would have sent this ...
Self Defense	10/17/2006
Q: its ok to retaliate to repeated domestic violence A: Hi Jon, and thank you for choosing me to help you with your issues today. Well, you posed a really ...
Domestic Violence/Self Defense	10/9/2006
Q: A Victims Deliberate use of deadly force is a just response to repeated domestic Violence? True or ... A: Hello and thank you for taking the time to choose to help you with your question and topic ...
Emotional Abuse?	10/5/2006
Q: I used to think my husband was just mean, but now I am beginning to wonder if he has a real problem ... A: Hello Kelly, and thank you for taking the time out to choose me to help you with your dilemma. ...
Marital Rape or Normal?	9/14/2006
Q: I am wondering the difference between marital rape versus a normal healthy sex life. I don't know ... A: Hello and thank you so much for contacting me to help you with your dilemmas and issues at the ...
I'm Currently Doing a School Project and I Have a Few Questions on Domestic Violence...	9/14/2006
Q: What is domestic Violence? What are the current opinions on domestic violence? What are some ... A: Hello there, and how are things going with your project. As promised, I am here on Saturday evening ...
Is It My Fault?	9/1/2006
Q: I have been in an abusive relationship for almost three years now. I am a 27 year old female from ... A: Hello and thank you for taking the time out to choose me to help you with your dilemma. First, let ...
How Do I Make My Husband Realize He Is Hurting Me?	8/22/2006
Q: My husband and I have been married for 5 months and it has not been a great 5 months. we do fight ... A: First let me say I do apologize for not getting back with you sooner than I should have. I have not ...
Is My Relationship Abusive?	8/14/2006
Q: My fiance and I met 2 years ago. We met online but found out later that we actually knew eachother ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma and your issues. ...
Group Curriculum	8/12/2006
Q: As a therapist in training at a prison for women I am interested in starting a psychoeducational ... A: Hello there, and thank you for taking the time out to contact me today. Well, first let me say how ...
Stay or Leave?	8/1/2006
Q: I have been in a relationship with my Fiance for 12 years he has been verbally and physically ... A: Hi, and thank you for contacting me today to help you with your dilemma. Well Darla, your story and ...
Help!	7/30/2006
Q: My husband beats me all the time! I don't know what to do! Please help me. :( Sarah Here's my ... A: Sarah, Hello Sarah, and thank you for choosing me to help you with your dilemma. And my, you ...
Me	7/27/2006
Q: im confused i got out of a dv relationship with my daugter in 1997 he hounded us for 3 yrs after but ... A: Hi Laura, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. Well, ...
Parental Access	7/16/2006
Q: i have recently split from my ex who both mentally and physically abused me. i have now stopped him ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. Well, because ...
Am I Being Unfairly Labeled a Mental & Monetary Abuser?	7/14/2006
Q: I feel a little better now that you have answered my question "Am I being unfairly labelled a ... A: Hello there again, and thanks for choosing me once more to help you with your issues. I am glad to ...
I Don't Know How to Get Past This...	7/14/2006
Q: I am recently seperated from my husband due to his violence and ongoing issues & now there is a ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. Well, Michelle ...
Am I Being Unfairly Labeled as a Mental Abuser?	7/13/2006
Q: I am the person who wrote and asked the question "Am I being unfairlr labelled a Physical Abuser". ... A: Hello again and thank you for once again taking the time to choose me to help with your issues at ...
Am I Being Unfairly Labeled A Physical Abuser?	7/11/2006
Q: I have been married for 28 & one half years. I have never perpertrated any Physical Abuse towards my ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. Well Brian, I ...
Narcisstic??? HELP!	7/9/2006
Q: This Narcisstic stuff and NPD is too much for me to handle. If you > could only help me a bit.I'm ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me in helping you with your issues at the moment. ...
I Called ................Now Will I Pay??	7/6/2006
Q: "I filed DV charges on my husband and during the first 2-2 1/2 weeks I was a complete basket case. ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with what you are going through at ...
My Brother Abuses My Youngest Brother	7/2/2006
Q: I've grown increasingly worried about how/what/when to do something regarding my 17 year old ... A: Well, first off, let me just say that it seems to me that your parents are lacking in their ...
Going Back to College	6/30/2006
Q: Are there any kind of grants for me to go back to school. I cannot afford to pay for college. Any ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your concern. Yes, there are ...
Domestic Abuse or Normal?	6/26/2006
Q: I am wondering if my relationship is abusive or normal. My husband and I got together when we were ... A: Hello, and thank you for taking the time to choose me to help you with your dilemma. Well J, I find ...
Difference in Domestic Violence and Anger	6/7/2006
Q: it does verify many of my feelings at present. I do have one follow-up question if I may. First, ... A: Hello there again. I was glad to hear from you again today. I value all of my questioners, so do ...
Difference in Domestic Violence and Anger	6/6/2006
Q: I am in a 17 year marriage, many ups and downs along the way. Too many details to really get into, ... A: Hi Jenny, thankyou for taking the time to choose me to help you with the issues that you currently ...
How Can I Fix This?	6/6/2006
Q: my husband and i have had an ongoing abusive relationship for six years. recently he sent me to the ... A: Good afternoon, thankyou for taking the time to choose me in helping you solve your dilemma. Well, ...
Why can't I leave ?	6/5/2006
Q: My partner and I met when we were both married, we got divorced, and have been living together for ... A: Hi and how are you today? Despite the circumstances, I hope that the rest of your day turns out a ...
need help	2/25/2006
Q: I am having speaker come in that is a victum of a domestic violence and i was wondering what are ... A: Sarah, Hello, and thankyou for taking the time to choose me to help you with your concerns. ...
alcohol	2/17/2006
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verbal abuse after the fact	2/15/2006
Q: I found this web site in the process of researching about verbal and emotional abuse. I too was ... A: Del, Hello Del, I hope that all is well with you. I am so glad that you emailed me, because I ...
My relationship	11/28/2005
Q: Me and my husband are very young. I am 18 and he is 19. We met when I was 15 and I immediately got ... A: Hi Giselle (beautiful name, by the way), thankyou for choosing me to help you with your concerns. ...
disaater marriage	10/30/2005
Q: I see that you are giving female support but what about male support? I'm from pakistani background ... A: I am glad to hear from a man for once, and yes I have counseled men on domestic violence, every ...
support group	10/12/2005
Q: My name is Eve. I have started a support group for woman who have suffered abuse, divorce, etc. I am ... A: Eve, Thanks for the email. I would like to congratulate you on starting your support group, ...
WHY?	10/2/2005
Q: I was a battered woman at one time. I agree with you there is a way out. But sometimes the only way ... A: Hello, and how are you today? I hope that you are well. Thankyou for choosing me to help you with ...
domestic violence	9/14/2005
Q: i was wandering if you can give me any type of information on how domestic violence changes a womens ... A: Nese, Hello, and how are you? Thankyou for choosing me to assist you with whatever it is you ...
steps	3/28/2005
Q: I had previously emailed you about me doing a paper on battered women, and I emailed the account I ... A: Brittany, I emailed you the research information on this past Saturday, March 26th. I hope that ...
domestic violence	3/22/2005
Q: im a student at college and we have to do coursework on this topic - i was wondering if you could ... A: I would be happy to assist you in any way possible. It may take me a few days to compile the ...
Steps for solutions.	3/14/2005
Q: I am a freshman who is attending Purdue University North Central. I am doing a research paper on ... A: Brittany, I know that you were expecting me to be finished gathering my information to help ...
Abusive Fathers	12/3/2004
Q: I'm doing a debate in my psychology class on whether or not fathers are necessary. I need to know ... A: I will do my best to answer your questions to the best of my ability. Psychology has always been and ...
DOMESTIC ABUSE	4/27/2004
Q: Wondered if you could help a midwife looking at domemstic abuse as a module Do you have any info ... A: I received your email, I do not know why I am just now receiving it because I see that you sent it ...
abuse after relationship ended	1/13/2004
Q: My boyfriend finished with me after eight and a half years together. We also lived together for all ... A: I received your question and I apologize for not responding sooner, I haven't been feeling well ...
juvenile delinquency	4/27/2003
Q: I am Hafizah Haniem Che Hasim, an Australian Matriculation student and currently doing a research on ... A: /Ms. Che Hasim, Thankyou for taking the time out to email me, I really appreciate it. I will answer ...
abusive fathers	7/28/2002
Q: How do I get information about women who were physically, mentally, and emotionally abused by their ... A: I am sorry for not responding accordingly, I never received your email until one of the coordinators ...
Battered Women	4/29/2002
Q: I am doing research for my Criminal Justice Class. The Article I am trying to translate to simple ... A: So I see you are interested in Criminal Justice, what an interesting field. Well you asked what the ...
Personal Opinion	2/23/2002
Q: I'm trying to understand a girlfriend after a bad once loving relationship. I've made an inventory ... A: I really appreciate it. Well, I read your question and your list. My honest opinion is that your ...
Domestic Violence	10/24/2001
Q: 1.)How serious are the violence in the United States today? 2.)Who is abused most(children,women,or ... A: Hi, thanks for asking my help. I'm here to offer the utmost expertise that I can. The questions that ...
verbal/emotional abuse	3/10/2001
Q: i am at a standstill. I am 44, my man is 57. we have been living together for 2 years and knew each ... A: I read everything that you said. And this is only the beginning. This type of verbal/emotional ...
Come back or...??	1/8/2001
Q: Hello!Hope you are doing fine. First of all, I have to tell you that my English isn't so good, so ... A: I really appreciate it, and it brightens my day. You said that you wish that you could talk to me ...

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